Manufacturershavestoodinthepilloryforpresumingtocarryontheirbusiness
bynewandimprovedmethods。InmodernEurope,andmostinthosepartsof
itwhichhaveparticipatedmostlargelyinallothermodernimprovements,
diametricallyoppositedoctrinesnowprevail。Lawandgovernmentdonotundertake
toprescribebywhomanysocialorindustrialoperationshallorshallnot
beconducted,orwhatmodesofconductingthemshallbelawful。Thesethings
arelefttotheunfetteredchoiceofindividuals。Eventhelawswhichrequired
thatworkmenshouldserveanapprenticeship,haveinthiscountrybeenrepealed:
therebeingampleassurancethatinallcasesinwhichanapprenticeship
isnecessary,itsnecessitywillsufficetoenforceit。Theoldtheorywas,
thattheleastpossibleshouldbelefttothechoiceoftheindividualagent;
thatallhehadtodoshould,asfaraspracticable,belaiddownforhim
bysuperiorwisdom。Lefttohimselfhewassuretogowrong。Themodernconviction,
thefruitofathousandyearsofexperience,is,thatthingsinwhichthe
individualisthepersondirectlyinterested,nevergorightbutasthey
arelefttohisowndiscretion;andthatanyregulationofthembyauthority,
excepttoprotecttherightsofothers,issuretobemischievous。Thisconclusion
slowlyarrivedat,andnotadopteduntilalmosteverypossibleapplication
ofthecontrarytheoryhadbeenmadewithdisastrousresult,now(inthe
industrialdepartment)prevailsuniversallyinthemostadvancedcountries,
almostuniversallyinallthathavepretensionstoanysortofadvancement。
Itisnotthatallprocessesaresupposedtobeequallygood,orallpersons
tobeequallyqualifiedforeverything;butthatfreedomofindividualchoice
isnowknowntobetheonlythingwhichprocurestheadoptionofthebest
processes,andthrowseachoperationintothehandsofthosewhoarebest
qualifiedforit。Nobodythinksitnecessarytomakealawthatonlyastrong—armed
manshallbeablacksmith。Freedomandcompetitionsufficetomakeblacksmiths
strong—armedmen,becausetheweakarmedcanearnmorebyengaginginoccupations
forwhichtheyaremorefit。Inconsonancewiththisdoctrine,itisfelt
tobeanoversteppingoftheproperboundsofauthoritytofixbeforehand,
onsomegeneralpresumption,thatcertainpersonsarenotfittodocertain
things。Itisnowthoroughlyknownandadmittedthatifsomesuchpresumptions
exist,nosuchpresumptionisinfallible。Evenifitbewellgroundedin
amajorityofcases,whichitisverylikelynottobe,therewillbeaminority
ofexceptionalcasesinwhichitdoesnothold:andinthoseitisbothan
injusticetotheindividuals,andadetrimenttosociety,toplacebarriers
inthewayoftheirusingtheirfacultiesfortheirownbenefitandforthat
ofothers。Inthecases,ontheotherhand,inwhichtheunfitnessisreal,
theordinarymotivesofhumanconductwillonthewholesufficetopreventtheincompetentpersonfrommaking,orfrompersistingin,theattempt。Ifthisgeneralprincipleofsocialandeconomicalscienceisnottrue;
ifindividuals,withsuchhelpastheycanderivefromtheopinionofthose
whoknowthem,arenotbetterjudgesthanthelawandthegovernment,of
theirowncapacitiesandvocation;theworldcannottoosoonabandonthis
principle,andreturntotheoldsystemofregulationsanddisabilities。
Butiftheprincipleistrue,weoughttoactasifwebelievedit,andnot
toordainthattobebornagirlinsteadofaboy,anymorethantobeborn
blackinsteadofwhite,oracommonerinsteadofanobleman,shalldecide
theperson’spositionthroughalllife——shallinterdictpeoplefromall
themoreelevatedsocialpositions,andfromall,exceptafew,respectable
occupations。Evenwerewetoadmittheutmostthatiseverpretendedato
thesuperiorfitnessofmenforallthefunctionsnowreservetothem,the
sameargumentapplieswhichforbidsalegalqualificationforMembersof
Parliament。Ifonlyonceinadozenyearstheconditionsofeligibilityexclude
afitperson,thereisarealloss,whiletheexclusionofthousandsofunfit
personsisnogain;foriftheconstitutionoftheelectoralbodydisposes
themtochooseunfitpersons,therearealwaysplentyofsuchpersonsto
choosefrom。Inallthingsofanydifficultyandimportance,thosewhocan
dothemwellarefewerthantheneed,evenwiththemostunrestrictedlatitude
ofchoice:andanylimitationofthefieldofselectiondeprivessociety
ofsomechancesofbeingservedbythecompetent,withouteversavingitfromtheincompetent。Atpresent,inthemoreimprovedcountries,thedisabilitiesofwomen
aretheonlycase,saveone,inwhichlawsandinstitutionstakepersons
attheirbirth,andordainthattheyshallneverinalltheirlivesbeallowed
tocompeteforcertainthings。Theoneexceptionisthatofroyalty。Persons
stillareborntothethrone;noone,notofthereigningfamily,canever
occupyit,andnooneevenofthatfamilycan,byanymeansbutthecourse
ofhereditarysuccession,attainit。Allotherdignitiesandsocialadvantages
areopentothewholemalesex:manyindeedareonlyattainablebywealth,
butwealthmaybestrivenforbyanyone,andisactuallyobtainedbymany
menoftheveryhumblestorigin。Thedifficulties,tothemajority,areindeed
insuperablewithouttheaidoffortunateaccidents;butnomalehumanbeing
isunderanylegalban:neitherlawnoropinionsuperaddartificialobstacles
tothenaturalones。Royalty,asIhavesaid,isexcepted:butinthiscase
everyonefeelsittobeanexception——ananomalyinthemodernworld,in
markedoppositiontoitscustomsandprinciples,andtobejustifiedonly
byextraordinaryspecialexpediences,which,thoughindividualsandnations
differinestimatingtheirweight,unquestionablydoinfactexist。Butin
thisexceptionalcase,inwhichahighsocialfunctionis,forimportant
reasons,bestowedonbirthinsteadofbeingputuptocompetition,allfree
nationscontrivetoadhereinsubstancetotheprinciplefromwhichthey
nominallyderogate;fortheycircumscribethishighfunctionbyconditions
avowedlyintendedtopreventthepersontowhomitostensiblybelongsfrom
reallyperformingit;whilethepersonbywhomitisperformed,theresponsible
minister,doesobtainthepostbyacompetitionfromwhichnofull—grown
citizenofthemalesexislegallyexcluded。Thedisabilities,therefore,
towhichwomenaresubjectfromthemerefactoftheirbirth,arethesolitary
examplesofthekindinmodernlegislation。Innoinstanceexceptthis,which
comprehendshalfthehumanrace,arethehighersocialfunctionsclosedagainst
anyonebyafatalityofbirthwhichnoexertions,andnochangeofcircumstances,
canovercome;forevenreligiousdisabilities(besidesthatinEnglandand
inEuropetheyhavepracticallyalmostceasedtoexist)donotcloseanycareertothedisqualifiedpersonincaseofconversion。Thesocialsubordinationofwomenthusstandsoutanisolatedfactin
modernsocialinstitutions;asolitarybreachofwhathasbecometheirfundamental
law;asinglerelicofanoldworldofthoughtandpracticeexplodedineverything
else,butretainedintheonethingofmostuniversalinterest;asifagigantic
dolmen,oravasttempleofJupiterOlympius,occupiedthesiteofSt。Paul’s
andreceiveddailyworship,whilethesurroundingChristianchurcheswere
onlyresortedtoonfastsandfestivals。Thisentirediscrepancybetween
onesocialfactandallthosewhichaccompanyit,andtheradicalopposition
betweenitsnatureandtheprogressivemovementwhichistheboastofthe
modernworld,andwhichhassuccessivelysweptawayeverythingelseofan
analogouscharacter,surelyaffords,toaconscientiousobserverofhuman
tendencies,seriousmatterforreflection。Itraisesaprimafaciepresumption
ontheunfavourableside,faroutweighinganywhichcustomandusagecould
insuchcircumstancescreateonthefavourable;andshouldatleastsuffice
tomakethis,likethechoicebetweenrepublicanismandroyalty,abalancedquestion。Theleastthatcanbedemandedis,thatthequestionshouldnotbeconsidered
asprejudgedbyexistingfactandexistingopinion,butopentodiscussion
onitsmerits,asaquestionofjusticeandexpediency:thedecisiononthis,
asonanyoftheothersocialarrangementsofmankind,dependingonwhat
anenlightenedestimateoftendenciesandconsequencesmayshowtobemost
advantageoustohumanityingeneral,withoutdistinctionofsex。Andthe
discussionmustbearealdiscussion,descendingtofoundations,andnot
restingsatisfiedwithvagueandgeneralassertions。Itwillnotdo,for
instancetoassertingeneralterms,thattheexperienceofmankindhaspronounced
infavouroftheexistingsystem。Experiencecannotpossiblyhavedecided
betweentwocourses,solongastherehasonlybeenexperienceofone。If
itbesaidthatthedoctrineoftheequalityofthesexesrestsonlyontheory,
itmustberememberedthatthecontrarydoctrinealsohasonlytheoryto
restupon。Allthatisprovedinitsfavourbydirectexperience,isthat
mankindhavebeenabletoexistunderit,andtoattainthedegreeofimprovement
andprosperitywhichwenowsee;butwhetherthatprosperityhasbeenattained
sooner,orisnowgreater,thanitwouldhavebeenundertheothersystem,
experiencedoesnotsay。Ontheotherhand,experiencedoessay,thatevery
stepinimprovementhasbeensoinvariablyaccompaniedbyastepmadein
raisingthesocialpositionofwomen,thathistoriansandphilosophershave
beenledtoadopttheirelevationordebasementasonthewholethesurest
testandmostcorrectmeasureofthecivilisationofapeopleoranage。
Throughalltheprogressiveperiodofhumanhistory,theconditionofwomen
hasbeenapproachingnearertoequalitywithmen。Thisdoesnotofitself
provethattheassimilationmustgoontocompleteequality;butitassuredlyaffordssomepresumptionthatsuchisthecase。Neitherdoesitavailanythingtosaythatthenatureofthetwosexes
adaptsthemtotheirpresentfunctionsandposition,andrenderstheseappropriate
tothem。Standingonthegroundofcommonsenseandtheconstitutionofthe
humanmind,Idenythatanyoneknows,orcanknow,thenatureofthetwo
sexes,aslongastheyhaveonlybeenseenintheirpresentrelationtoone
another。Ifmenhadeverbeenfoundinsocietywithoutwomen,orwomenwithout
men,oriftherehadbeenasocietyofmenandwomeninwhichthewomenwere
notunderthecontrolofthemen,somethingmighthavebeenpositivelyknown
aboutthementalandmoraldifferenceswhichmaybeinherentinthenature
ofeach。Whatisnowcalledthenatureofwomenisaneminentlyartificial
thing——theresultofforcedrepressioninsomedirections,unnaturalstimulation
inothers。Itmaybeassertedwithoutscruple,thatnootherclassofdependents
havehadtheircharactersoentirelydistortedfromitsnaturalproportions
bytheirrelationwiththeirmasters;for,ifconqueredandslaveraceshave
been,insomerespects,moreforciblyrepressed,whateverinthemhasnot
beencrusheddownbyanironheelhasgenerallybeenletalone,andifleft
withanylibertyofdevelopment,ithasdevelopeditselfaccordingtoits
ownlaws;butinthecaseofwomen,ahot—houseandstovecultivationhas
alwaysbeencarriedonofsomeofthecapabilitiesoftheirnature,forthe
benefitandpleasureoftheirmastersThen,becausecertainproductsofthe
generalvitalforcesproutluxuriantlyandreachagreatdevelopmentinthis
heatedatmosphereandunderthisactivenurtureandwatering,whileother
shootsfromthesameroot,whichareleftoutsideinthewintryair,with
icepurposelyheapedallroundthem,haveastuntedgrowth,andsomeare
burntoffwithfireanddisappear;men,withthatinabilitytorecognise
theirownworkwhichdistinguishestheunanalyticmind,indolentlybelieve
thatthetreegrowsofitselfinthewaytheyhavemadeitgrow,andthat
itwoulddieifonehalfofitwerenotkeptinavapourbathandtheotherhalfinthesnow。Ofalldifficultieswhichimpedetheprogressofthought,andtheformation
ofwell—groundedopinionsonlifeandsocialarrangements,thegreatestis
nowtheunspeakableignoranceandinattentionofmankindinrespecttothe
influenceswhichformhumancharacter。Whateveranyportionofthehuman
speciesnoware,orseemtobe,such,itissupposed,theyhaveanatural
tendencytobe:evenwhenthemostelementaryknowledgeofthecircumstances
inwhichtheyhavebeenplaced,clearlypointsoutthecausesthatmadethem
whattheyare。Becauseacottierdeeplyinarrearstohislandlordisnot
industrious,therearepeoplewhothinkthattheIrisharenaturallyidle。
Becauseconstitutionscanbeoverthrownwhentheauthoritiesappointedto
executethemturntheirarmsagainstthem,therearepeoplewhothinkthe
Frenchincapableoffreegovernment。BecausetheGreekscheatedtheTurks,
andtheTurksonlyplunderedtheGreeks,therearepersonswhothinkthat
theTurksarenaturallymoresincere:andbecausewomen,asisoftensaid,
carenothingaboutpoliticsexcepttheirpersonalities,itissupposedthat
thegeneralgoodisnaturallylessinterestingtowomenthantomen。History,
whichisnowsomuchbetterunderstoodthanformerly,teachesanotherlesson:
ifonlybyshowingtheextraordinarysusceptibilityofhumannaturetoexternal
influences,andtheextremevariablenessofthoseofitsmanifestationswhich
aresupposedtobemostuniversalanduniform。Butinhistory,asintravelling,
menusuallyseeonlywhattheyalreadyhadintheirownminds;andfewlearnmuchfromhistory,whodonotbringmuchwiththemtoitsstudy。Hence,inregardtothatmostdifficultquestion,whatarethenatural
differencesbetweenthetwosexes——asubjectonwhichitisimpossible
inthepresentstateofsocietytoobtaincompleteandcorrectknowledge
——whilealmosteverybodydogmatisesuponit,almostallneglectandmake
lightoftheonlymeansbywhichanypartialinsightcanbeobtainedinto
it。Thisis,ananalyticstudyofthemostimportantdepartmentofpsychology,
thelawsoftheinfluenceofcircumstancesoncharacter。For,howevergreat
andapparentlyineradicablethemoralandintellectualdifferencesbetween
menandwomenmightbe,theevidenceoftherebeingnaturaldifferencescould
onlybenegative。Thoseonlycouldbeinferredtobenaturalwhichcould
notpossiblybeartificial——theresiduum,afterdeductingeverycharacteristic
ofeithersexwhichcanadmitofbeingexplainedfromeducationorexternal
circumstances。Theprofoundestknowledgeofthelawsoftheformationof
characterisindispensabletoentitleanyonetoaffirmeventhatthereis
anydifference,muchmorewhatthedifferenceis,betweenthetwosexesconsidered
asmoralandrationalbeings;andsincenoone,asyet,hasthatknowledge
(forthereishardlyanysubjectwhich,inproportiontoitsimportance,
hasbeensolittlestudied),nooneisthusfarentitledtoanypositive
opiniononthesubject。Conjecturesareallthatcanatpresentbemade;
conjecturesmoreorlessprobable,accordingasmoreorlessauthorisedby
suchknowledgeasweyethaveofthelawsofpsychology,asappliedtotheformationofcharacter。Eventhepreliminaryknowledge,whatthedifferencesbetweenthesexes
noware,apartfromallquestionastohowtheyaremadewhattheyare,is
stillinthecrudestandmost’incompletestate。Medicalpractitionersand
physiologistshaveascertained,tosomeextent,thedifferencesinbodily
constitution;andthisisanimportantelementtothepsychologist:buthardly
anymedicalpractitionerisapsychologist。Respectingthementalcharacteristics
ofwomen;theirobservationsareofnomoreworththanthoseofcommonmen。
Itisasubjectonwhichnothingfinalcanbeknown,solongasthosewho
alonecanreallyknowit,womenthemselves,havegivenbutlittletestimony,
andthatlittle,mostlysuborned。Itiseasytoknowstupidwomen。Stupidity
ismuchthesamealltheworldover。Astupidperson’snotionsandfeelings
mayconfidentlybeinferredfromthosewhichprevailinthecirclebywhich
thepersonissurrounded。Notsowiththosewhoseopinionsandfeelingsare
anemanationfromtheirownnatureandfaculties。Itisonlyamanhereand
therewhohasanytolerableknowledgeofthecharacterevenofthewomen
ofhisownfamily。Idonotmean,oftheircapabilities;thesenobodyknows,
noteventhemselves,becausemostofthemhaveneverbeencalledout。Imean
theiractuallyexistingthoughtsandfeelings。Manyamanthinksheperfectly
understandswomen,becausehehashadamatoryrelationswithseveral,perhaps
withmanyofthem。Ifheisagoodobserver,andhisexperienceextendsto
qualityaswellasquantity,hemayhavelearntsomethingofonenarrowdepartment
oftheirnature——animportantdepartment,nodoubt。Butofalltherest
ofit,fewpersonsaregenerallymoreignorant,becausetherearefewfrom
whomitissocarefullyhidden。Themostfavourablecasewhichamancan
generallyhaveforstudyingthecharacterofawoman,isthatofhisown
wife:fortheopportunitiesaregreater,andthecasesofcompletesympathy
notsounspeakablyrare。Andinfact,thisisthesourcefromwhichanyknowledge
worthhavingonthesubjecthas,Ibelieve,generallycome。Butmostmen
havenothadtheopportunityofstudyinginthiswaymorethanasinglecase:
accordinglyonecan,toanalmostlaughabledegree,inferwhataman’swife
islike,fromhisopinionsaboutwomeningeneral。Tomakeeventhisone
caseyieldanyresult,thewomanmustbeworthknowing,andthemannotonly
acompetentjudge,butofacharactersosympatheticinitself,andsowell
adaptedtohers,thathecaneitherreadhermindbysympatheticintuition,
orhasnothinginhimselfwhichmakeshershyofdisclosingit,Hardlyanything,
Ibelieve,canbemorerarethanthisconjunction。Itoftenhappensthat
thereisthemostcompleteunityoffeelingandcommunityofinterestsas
toallexternalthings,yettheonehasaslittleadmissionintotheinternal
lifeoftheotherasiftheywerecommonacquaintance。Evenwithtrueaffection,
authorityontheonesideandsubordinationontheotherpreventperfect
confidence。Thoughnothingmaybeintentionallywithheld,muchisnotshown。
Intheanalogousrelationofparentandchild,thecorrespondingphenomenon
musthavebeenintheobservationofeveryone。Asbetweenfatherandson,
howmanyarethecasesinwhichthefather,inspiteofrealaffectionon
bothsides,obviouslytoalltheworlddoesnotknow,norsuspect,parts
oftheson’scharacterfamiliartohiscompanionsandequals。Thetruthis,
thatthepositionoflookinguptoanotherisextremelyunpropitioustocomplete
sincerityandopennesswithhim。Thefearoflosinggroundinhisopinion
orinhisfeelingsissostrong,thateveninanuprightcharacter,there
isanunconscioustendencytoshowonlythebestside,orthesidewhich,
thoughnotthebest,isthatwhichhemostlikestosee:anditmaybeconfidently
saidthatthoroughknowledgeofoneanotherhardlyeverexists,butbetween
personswho,besidesbeingintimates,areequals。Howmuchmoretrue,then,
mustallthisbe,whentheoneisnotonlyundertheauthorityoftheother,
buthasitinculcatedonherasadutytoreckoneverythingelsesubordinate
tohiscomfortandpleasure,andtolethimneitherseenorfeelanything
comingfromher,exceptwhatisagreeabletohim。Allthesedifficulties
standinthewayofaman’sobtaininganythoroughknowledgeevenofthe
onewomanwhomalone,ingeneral,hehassufficientopportunityofstudying。
Whenwefurtherconsiderthattounderstandonewomanisnotnecessarily
tounderstandanyotherwoman;thatevenifhecouldstudymanywomenof
onerank,orofonecountry,hewouldnottherebyunderstandwomenofother
ranksorcountries;andevenifhedid,theyarestillonlythewomenof
asingleperiodofhistory;wemaysafelyassertthattheknowledgewhich
mencanacquireofwomen,evenastheyhavebeenandare,withoutreference
towhattheymightbe,iswretchedlyimperfectandsuperficial,andalwayswillbeso,untilwomenthemselveshavetoldallthattheyhavetotell。Andthistimehasnotcome;norwillitcomeotherwisethangradually。
Itisbutofyesterdaythatwomenhaveeitherbeenqualifiedbyliterary
accomplishmentsorpermittedbysociety,totellanythingtothegeneral
public。Asyetveryfewofthemdaretellanything,whichmen,onwhomtheir
literarysuccessdepends,areunwillingtohear。Letusrememberinwhat
manner,uptoaveryrecenttime,theexpression,evenbyamaleauthor,
ofuncustomaryopinions,orwhataredeemedeccentricfeelings,usuallywas,
andinsomedegreestillis,received;andwemayformsomefaintconception
underwhatimpedimentsawoman,whoisbroughtuptothinkcustomandopinion
hersovereignrule,attemptstoexpressinbooksanythingdrawnfromthe
depthsofherownnature。Thegreatestwomanwhohasleftwritingsbehind
hersufficienttogiveheraneminentrankintheliteratureofhercountry,
thoughtitnecessarytoprefixasamottotoherboldestwork,\"Unhomme
peutbraverl’opinion;unefemmedoits’ysoumettre。\"(1*)Thegreater
partofwhatwomenwriteaboutwomenismeresycophancytomen。Inthecase
ofunmarriedwomen,muchofitseemsonlyintendedtoincreasetheirchance
ofahusband。Many,bothmarriedandunmarried,overstepthemark,andinculcate
aservilitybeyondwhatisdesiredorrelishedbyanyman,exceptthevery
vulgarest。Butthisisnotsooftenthecaseas,evenataquitelateperiod,
itstillwas。LiterarywomenIarebecomingmorefree—spoken,andmorewilling
toexpresstheirrealsentiments。Unfortunately,inthiscountryespecially,
theyarethemselvessuchartificialproducts,thattheirsentimentsarecompounded
ofasmallelementofindividualobservationandconsciousness,andavery
largeoneofacquiredassociations。Thiswillbelessandlessthecase,
butitwillremaintruetoagreatextent,aslongassocialinstitutions
donotadmitthesamefreedevelopmentoforiginalityinwomenwhichispossible
tomen。Whenthattimecomes,andnotbefore,weshallsee,andnotmerely
hear,asmuchasitisnecessarytoknowofthenatureofwomen,andtheadaptationofotherthingstoit。Ihavedweltsomuchonthedifficultieswhichatpresentobstructany
realknowledgebymenofthetruenatureofwomen,becauseinthisasin
somanyotherthings\"opiniocopiaeintermaximascausasinopiaeest\";
andthereislittlechanceofreasonablethinkingonthematterwhilepeople
flatterthemselvesthattheyperfectlyunderstandasubjectofwhichmost
menknowabsolutelynothing,andofwhichitisatpresentimpossiblethat
anyman,orallmentakentogether,shouldhaveknowledgewhichcanqualify
themtolaydownthelawtowomenastowhatis,orisnot,theirvocation。
Happily,nosuchknowledgeisnecessaryforanypracticalpurposeconnected
withthepositionofwomenisrelationtosocietyandlife。For,according
toalltheprinciplesinvolvedinmodernsociety,thequestionrestswith
womenthemselves——tobedecidedbytheirownexperience,andbytheuse
oftheirownfaculties。Therearenomeansoffindingwhateitheroneperson
ormanycando,butbytrying——andnomeansbywhichanyoneelsecandiscoverforthemwhatitisfortheirhappinesstodoorleaveundone。Onethingwemaybecertainof——thatwhatiscontrarytowomen’snature
todo,theyneverwillbemadetodobysimplygivingtheirnaturefreeplay。
Theanxietyofmankindtointerfereinbehalfofnature,forfearlestnature
shouldnotsucceedineffectingitspurpose,isanaltogetherunnecessary
solicitude。Whatwomenbynaturecannotdo,itisquitesuperfluoustoforbid
themfromdoing。Whattheycando,butnotsowellasthemenwhoaretheir
competitors,competitionsufficestoexcludethemfrom;sincenobodyasks
forprotectivedutiesandbountiesinfavourofwomen;itisonlyaskedthat
thepresentbountiesandprotectivedutiesinfavourofmenshouldberecalled。
Ifwomenhaveagreaternaturalinclinationforsomethingsthanforothers,
thereisnoneedoflawsorsocialinculcationtomakethemajorityofthem
dotheformerinpreferencetothelatter。Whateverwomen’sservicesare
mostwantedfor,thefreeplayofcompetitionwillholdoutthestrongest
inducementstothemtoundertake。And,asthewordsimply,theyaremost
wantedforthethingsforwhichtheyaremostfit;bytheapportionmentof
whichtothem,thecollectivefacultiesofthetwosexescanbeappliedonthewholewiththegreatestsumofvaluableresult。Thegeneralopinionofmenissupposedtobe,thatthenaturalvocation
ofawomanisthatofawifeandmother。Isay,issupposedtobe,because,
judgingfromacts——fromthewholeofthepresentconstitutionofsociety
——onemightinferthattheiropinionwasthedirectcontrary。Theymight
besupposedtothinkthattheallegednaturalvocationofwomenwasofall
thingsthemostrepugnanttotheirnature;insomuchthatiftheyarefree
todoanythingelse——ifanyothermeansoflivingoroccupationoftheir
timeandfaculties,isopen,whichhasanychanceofappearingdesirable
tothem——therewillnotbeenoughofthemwhowillbewillingtoaccept
theconditionsaidtobenaturaltothem。Ifthisistherealopinionof
meningeneral,itwouldbewellthatitshouldbespokenout。Ishouldlike
tohearsomebodyopenlyenunciatingthedoctrine(itisalreadyimpliedin
muchthatiswrittenonthesubject)——Itisnecessarytosocietythatwomen
shouldmarryandproducechildren。Theywillnotdosounlesstheyarecompelled。
Thereforeitisnecessarytocompelthem。\"Themeritsofthecasewould
thenbeclearlydefined。Itwouldbeexactlythatoftheslave—holdersof
SouthCarolinaandLouisiana。\"Itisnecessarythatcottonandsugar
shouldbegrown。Whitemencannotproducethem。Negroeswillnot,forany
wageswhichwechoosetogive。Ergotheymustbecompelled。\"Anillustration
stillclosertothepointisthatofimpressment。Sailorsmustabsolutely
behadtodefendthecountry。Itoftenhappensthattheywillnotvoluntarily
enlist。Thereforetheremustbethepowerofforcingthem。Howoftenhas
thislogicbeenused!and,butforoneflawinit,withoutdoubtitwould
havebeensuccessfuluptothisday。Butitisopentotheretort——First
paythesailorsthehonestvalueoftheirlabour。Whenyouhavemadeitas
wellworththeirwhiletoserveyou,astoworkforotheremployers,you
willhavenomoredifficultythanothershaveinobtainingtheirservices。
Tothisthereisnologicalanswerexcept\"Iwillnot\":andas
peoplearenownotonlyashamed,butarenotdesirous,torobthelabourer
ofhishire,impressmentisnolongeradvocated。Thosewhoattempttoforce
womenintomarriagebyclosingallotherdoorsagainstthem,laythemselves
opentoasimilarretort。Iftheymeanwhattheysay,theiropinionmust
evidentlybe,thatmendonotrenderthemarriedconditionsodesirableto
women,astoinducethemtoacceptitforitsownrecommendations。Itis
notasignofone’sthinkingtheboononeoffersveryattractive,whenone
allowsonlyHobson’schoice,\"thatornone。\"Andhere,Ibelieve,
isthecluetothefeelingsofthosemen,whohavearealantipathytothe
equalfreedomofwomen。Ibelievetheyareafraid,notlestwomenshould
beunwillingtomarry,forIdonotthinkthatanyoneinrealityhasthat
apprehension;butlesttheyshouldinsistthatmarriageshouldbeonequal
conditions;lestallwomenofspiritandcapacityshouldpreferdoingalmost
anythingelse,notintheirowneyesdegrading,ratherthanmarry,whenmarrying
isgivingthemselvesamaster,andamastertooofalltheirearthlypossessions。
Andtruly,ifthisconsequencewerenecessarilyincidenttomarriage,Ithink
thattheapprehensionwouldbeverywellfounded。Iagreeinthinkingit
probablethatfewwomen,capableofanythingelse,would,unlessunderan
irresistibleentrainment,renderingthemforthetimeinsensibletoanything
butitself,choosesuchalot,whenanyothermeanswereopentothemof
fillingaconventionallyhonourableplaceinlife:andifmenaredetermined
thatthelawofmarriageshallbealawofdespotism,theyarequiteright,
inpointofmerepolicy,inleavingtowomenonlyHobson’schoice。But,in
thatcase,allthathasbeendoneinthemodernworldtorelaxthechain
onthemindsofwomen,hasbeenamistake。Theynevershouldhavebeenallowed
toreceivealiteraryeducation。Womenwhoread,muchmorewomenwhowrite,
are,intheexistingconstitutionofthings,acontradictionandadisturbing
element:anditwaswrongtobringwomenupwithanyacquirementsbutthose
ofanodalisque,orofadomesticservant。
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CHAPTER2Itwillbewelltocommencethedetaileddiscussionofthesubjectby
theparticularbranchofittowhichthecourseofourobservationshasled
us:theconditionswhichthelawsofthisandallothercountriesannexto
themarriagecontract。Marriagebeingthedestinationappointedbysociety
forwomen,theprospecttheyarebroughtupto,andtheobjectwhichitis
intendedshouldbesoughtbyallofthem,exceptthosewhoaretoolittle
attractivetobechosenbyanymanashiscompanion;onemighthavesupposed
thateverythingwouldhavebeendonetomakethisconditionaseligibleto
themaspossible,thattheymighthavenocausetoregretbeingdeniedthe
optionofanyother。Society,however,bothinthis,and,atfirst,inall
othercases,haspreferredtoattainitsobjectbyfoulratherthanfair
means:butthisistheonlycaseinwhichithassubstantiallypersisted
inthemeventothepresentday。Originallywomenweretakenbyforce,or
regularlysoldbytheirfathertothehusband。UntilalateperiodinEuropean
history,thefatherhadthepowertodisposeofhisdaughterinmarriage
athisownwillandpleasure,withoutanyregardtohers。TheChurch,indeed,
wassofarfaithfultoabettermoralityastorequireaformal\"yes\"
fromthewomanatthemarriageceremony;buttherewasnothingtoshowthat
theconsentwasotherthancompulsory;anditwaspracticallyimpossible
forthegirltorefusecomplianceifthefatherpersevered,exceptperhaps
whenshemightobtaintheprotectionofreligionbyadeterminedresolution
totakemonasticvows。Aftermarriage,themanhadanciently(butthiswas
anteriortoChristianity)thepoweroflifeanddeathoverhiswife。She
couldinvokenolawagainsthim;hewashersoletribunalandlaw。Fora
longtimehecouldrepudiateher,butshehadnocorrespondingpowerinregard
tohim。BytheoldlawsofEngland,thehusbandwascalledthelordofthe
wife;hewasliterallyregardedashersovereign,inasmuchthatthemurder
ofamanbyhiswifewascalledtreason(pettyasdistinguishedfromhigh
treason),andwasmorecruellyavengedthanwasusuallythecasewithhigh
treason,forthepenaltywasburningtodeath。Becausethesevariousenormities
havefallenintodisuse(formostofthemwereneverformallyabolished,
ornotuntiltheyhadlongceasedtobepractised)mensupposethatallis
nowasitshouldbeinregardtothemarriagecontract;andwearecontinually
toldthatcivilisationandChristianityhaverestoredtothewomanherjust
rights。Meanwhilethewifeistheactualbondservantofherhusband:no
lessso,asfaraslegalobligationgoes,thanslavescommonlysocalled。
Shevowsalivelongobediencetohimatthealtar,andisheldtoitall
throughherlifebylaw。Casuistsmaysaythattheobligationofobedience
stopsshortofparticipationincrime,butitcertainlyextendstoeverything
else。Shecandonoactwhateverbutbyhispermission,atleasttacit。She
canacquirenopropertybutforhim;theinstantitbecomeshers,evenif
byinheritance,itbecomesipsofactohis。Inthisrespectthewife’sposition
underthecommonlawofEnglandisworsethanthat—ofslavesinthelaws
ofmanycountries:bytheRomanlaw,forexample,aslavemighthavehis
peculium,whichtoacertainextentthelawguaranteedtohimforhisexclusive
use。Thehigherclassesinthiscountryhavegivenananalogousadvantage
totheirwomen,throughspecialcontractssettingasidethelaw,byconditions
ofpin—money,etc。:sinceparentalfeelingbeingstrongerwithfathersthan
theclassfeelingoftheirownsex,afathergenerallyprefershisowndaughter
toason—in—lawwhoisastrangertohim。Bymeansofsettlements,therich
usuallycontrivetowithdrawthewholeorpartoftheinheritedproperty
ofthewifefromtheabsolutecontrolofthehusband:buttheydonotsucceed
inkeepingitunderherowncontrol;theutmosttheycandoonlyprevents
thehusbandfromsquanderingit,atthesametimedebarringtherightful
ownerfromitsuse。Thepropertyitselfisoutofthereachofboth;and
astotheincomederivedfromit,theformofsettlementmostfavourable
tothewife(thatcalled\"toherseparateuse\")onlyprecludes
thehusbandfromreceivingitinsteadofher:itmustpassthroughherhands,
butifhetakesitfromherbypersonalviolenceassoonasshereceives
it,hecanneitherbepunished,norcompelledtorestitution。Thisisthe
amountoftheprotectionwhich,underthelawsofthiscountry,themost
powerfulnoblemancangivetohisowndaughterasrespectsherhusband。In
theimmensemajorityofcasesthereisnosettlement:andtheabsorption
ofallrights,allproperty,aswellasallfreedomofaction,iscomplete。
Thetwoarecalled\"onepersoninlaw,\"forthepurposeofinferring
thatwhateverishersishis,buttheparallelinferenceisneverdrawnthat
whateverishisishers;themaximisnotappliedagainsttheman,except
tomakehimresponsibletothirdpartiesforheracts,asamasterisfor
theactsofhisslavesorofhiscattle。Iamfarfrompretendingthatwives
areingeneralnobettertreatedthanslaves;butnoslaveisaslaveto
thesamelengths,andinsofullasenseoftheword,asawifeis。Hardly
anyslave,exceptoneimmediatelyattachedtothemaster’sperson,isaslave
atallhoursandallminutes;ingeneralhehas,likeasoldier,hisfixed
task,andwhenitisdone,orwhenheisoffduty,hedisposes,withincertain
limits,ofhisowntime,andhasafamilylifeintowhichthemasterrarely
intrudes。\"UncleTom\"underhisfirstmasterhadhisownlifein
his\"cabin,\"almostasmuchasanymanwhoseworktakeshimaway
fromhome,isabletohaveinhisownfamily。Butitcannotbesowiththe
wife。Aboveall,afemaleslavehas(inChristiancountries)anadmitted
right,andisconsideredunderamoralobligation,torefusetohermaster
thelastfamiliarity。Notsothewife:howeverbrutalatyrantshemayunfortunately
bechainedto——thoughshemayknowthathehatesher,thoughitmaybe
hisdailypleasuretotortureher,andthoughshemayfeelitimpossible
nottoloathehim——hecanclaimfromherandenforcethelowestdegradation
ofahumanbeing,thatofbeingmadetheinstrumentofananimalfunction
contrarytoherinclinations。Whilesheisheldinthisworstdescription
ofslaveryastoherownperson,whatisherpositioninregardtothechildren
inwhomsheandhermasterhaveajointinterest?Theyarebylawhischildren。
Healonehasanylegalrightsoverthem。Notoneactcanshedotowardsor
inrelationtothem,exceptbydelegationfromhim。Evenafterheisdead
sheisnottheirlegalguardian,unlesshebywillhasmadeherso。Hecould
evensendthemawayfromher,anddepriveherofthemeansofseeingorcorresponding
withthem,untilthispowerwasinsomedegreerestrictedbySerjeantTalfourd’s
Act。Thisisherlegalstate。Andfromthisstateshehasnomeansofwithdrawing
herself。Ifsheleavesherhusband,shecantakenothingwithher,neither
herchildrennoranythingwhichisrightfullyherown。Ifhechooses,he
cancompelhertoreturn,bylaw,orbyphysicalforce;orhemaycontent
himselfwithseizingforhisownuseanythingwhichshemayearn,orwhich
maybegiventoherbyherrelations。Itisonlylegalseparationbyadecree
ofacourtofjustice,whichentitleshertoliveapart,withoutbeingforced
backintothecustodyofanexasperatedjailer——orwhichempowersherto
applyanyearningstoherownuse,withoutfearthatamanwhomperhapsshe
hasnotseenfortwentyyearswillpounceuponhersomedayandcarryall
off。Thislegalseparation,untillately,thecourtsofjusticewouldonly
giveatanexpensewhichmadeitinaccessibletoanyoneoutofthehigher
ranks。Evennowitisonlygivenincasesofdesertion,oroftheextreme
ofcruelty;andyetcomplaintsaremadeeverydaythatitisgrantedtoo
easily。Surely,ifawomanisdeniedanylotinlifebutthatofbeingthe
personalbody—servantofadespot,andisdependentforeverythinguponthe
chanceoffindingonewhomaybedisposedtomakeafavouriteofherinstead
ofmerelyadrudge,itisaverycruelaggravationofherfatethatsheshould
beallowedtotrythischanceonlyonce。Thenaturalsequelandcorollary
fromthisstateofthingswouldbe,thatsinceherallinlifedependsupon
obtainingagoodmaster,sheshouldbeallowedtochangeagainandagain
untilshefindsone。Iamnotsayingthatsheoughttobeallowedthisprivilege。
Thatisatotallydifferentconsideration。Thequestionofdivorce,inthe
senseinvolvinglibertyofremarriage,isoneintowhichitisforeignto
mypurposetoenter。AllInowsayis,thattothosetowhomnothingbut
servitudeisallowed,thefreechoiceofservitudeistheonly,thougha
mostinsufficient,alleviation。Itsrefusalcompletestheassimilationof
thewifetotheslave——andtheslaveundernotthemildestformofslavery:
forinsomeslavecodestheslavecould,undercertaincircumstancesofill
usage,legallycompelthemastertosellhim。Butnoamountofillusage,withoutadulterysuperadded,willinEnglandfreeawifefromhertormentor。Ihavenodesiretoexaggerate,nordoesthecasestandinanyneedof
exaggeration。Ihavedescribedthewife’slegalposition,notheractual
treatment。Thelawsofmostcountriesarefarworsethanthepeoplewhoexecute
them,andmanyofthemareonlyabletoremainlawsbybeingseldomornever
carriedintoeffect。Ifmarriedlifewereallthatitmightbeexpectedto
be,lookingtothelawsalone,societywouldbeahelluponearth。Happily
therearebothfeelingsandinterestswhichinmanymenexclude,andinmost,
greatlytemper,theimpulsesandpropensitieswhichleadtotyranny:and
ofthosefeelings,thetiewhichconnectsamanwithhiswifeaffords,in
anormalstateofthings,incomparablythestrongestexample。Theonlytie
whichatallapproachestoit,thatbetweenhimandhischildren,tends,
inallsaveexceptionalcases,tostrengthen,insteadofconflictingwith,
thefirst。Becausethisistrue;becausemeningeneraldonotinflict,nor
womensuffer,allthemiserywhichcouldbeinflictedandsufferedifthe
fullpoweroftyrannywithwhichthemanislegallyinvestedwereactedon;
thedefendersoftheexistingformoftheinstitutionthinkthatallits
iniquityisjustified,andthatanycomplaintismerelyquarrellingwith
theevilwhichisthepricepaidforeverygreatgood。Butthemitigations
inpractice,whicharecompatiblewithmaintaininginfulllegalforcethis
oranyotherkindoftyranny,insteadofbeinganyapologyfordespotism,
onlyservetoprovewhatpowerhumannaturepossessesofreactingagainst
thevilestinstitutions,andwithwhatvitalitytheseedsofgoodaswell
asthoseofevilinhumancharacterdiffuseandpropagatethemselves。Not
awordcanbesaidfordespotisminthefamilywhichcannotbesaidforpolitical
despotism。Everyabsolutekingdoesnotsitathiswindowtoenjoythegroans
ofhistorturedsubjects,norstripsthemoftheirlastragandturnsthem
outtoshiverintheroadThedespotismofLouisXVIwasnotthedespotism
ofPhilippeleBel,orofNadirShah,orofCaligula;butitwasbadenough
tojustifytheFrenchRevolution,andtopalliateevenitshorrors。Ifan
appealbemadetotheintenseattachmentswhichexistbetweenwivesandtheir
husbands,exactlyasmuchmaybesaidofdomesticslavery。Itwasquitean
ordinaryfactinGreeceandRomeforslavestosubmittodeathbytorture
ratherthanbetraytheirmasters。IntheproscriptionsoftheRomancivil
warsitwasremarkedthatwivesandslaveswereheroicallyfaithful,sons
verycommonlytreacherous。YetweknowhowcruellymanyRomanstreatedtheir
slaves。Butintruththeseintenseindividualfeelingsnowhererisetosuch
aluxuriantheightasunderthemostatrociousinstitutions。ItISpartof
theironyoflife,thatthestrongestfeelingsofdevotedgratitudeofwhich
humannatureseemstobesusceptible,arecalledforthinhumanbeingstowards
thosewho,havingthepowerentirelytocrushtheirearthlyexistence,voluntarily
refrainfromusingthatpower。Howgreataplaceinmostmenthissentiment
fills,eveninreligiousdevotion,itwouldbecrueltoinquire。Wedaily
seehowmuchtheirgratitudetoHeavenappearstobestimulatedbythecontemplationoffellow—creaturestowhomGodhasnotbeensomercifulashehastothemselves。Whethertheinstitutiontobedefendedisslavery,politicalabsolutism,
ortheabsolutismoftheheadofafamily,wearealwaysexpectedtojudge
ofitfromitsbestinstances;andwearepresentedwithpicturesofloving
exerciseofauthorityononeside,lovingsubmissiontoitontheother——
superiorwisdomorderingallthingsforthegreatestgoodofthedependents,
andsurroundedbytheirsmilesandbenedictions。Allthiswouldbeverymuch
tothepurposeifanyonepretendedthattherearenosuchthingsasgood
men。Whodoubtsthattheremaybegreatgoodness,andgreathappiness,and
greataffection,undertheabsolutegovernmentofagoodman?Meanwhile,
lawsandinstitutionsrequiretobeadapted,nottogoodmen,buttobad。
Marriageisnotaninstitutiondesignedforaselectfew。Menarenotrequired,
asapreliminarytothemarriageceremony,toprovebytestimonialsthat
theyarefittobetrustedwiththeexerciseofabsolutepower。Thetieof
affectionandobligationtoawifeandchildrenisverystrongwiththose
whosegeneralsocialfeelingsarestrong,andwithmanywhoarelittlesensible
toanyothersocialties;buttherearealldegreesofsensibilityandinsensibility
toit,asthereareallgradesofgoodnessandwickednessinmen,downto
thosewhomnotieswillbind,andonwhomsocietyhasnoactionbutthrough
itsultimaratio,thepenaltiesofthelaw。Ineverygradeofthisdescending
scalearementowhomarecommittedallthelegalpowersofahusband。The
vilestmalefactorhassomewretchedwomantiedtohim,againstwhomhecan
commitanyatrocityexceptkillingher,and,iftolerablycautious,cando
thatwithoutmuchdangerofthelegalpenalty。Andhowmanythousandsare
thereamongthelowestclassesineverycountry,who,withoutbeingina
legalsensemalefactorsinanyotherrespect,becauseineveryotherquarter
theiraggressionsmeetwithresistance,indulgetheutmosthabitualexcesses
ofbodilyviolencetowardstheunhappywife,whoalone,atleastofgrown
persons,canneitherrepelnorescapefromtheirbrutality;andtowardswhom
theexcessofdependenceinspirestheirmeanandsavagenatures,notwith
agenerousforbearance,andapointofhonourtobehavewelltoonewhose
lotinlifeistrustedentirelytotheirkindness,butonthecontrarywith
anotionthatthelawhasdeliveredhertothemastheirthing,tobeused
attheirpleasure,andthattheyarenotexpectedtopractisetheconsideration
towardsherwhichisrequiredfromthemtowardseverybodyelse。Thelaw,
whichtilllatelylefteventheseatrociousextremesofdomesticoppression
practicallyunpunished,haswithinthesefewyearsmadesomefeebleattempts
torepressthem。Butitsattemptshavedonelittle,andcannotbeexpected
todomuch,becauseitiscontrarytoreasonandexperiencetosupposethat
therecanbeanyrealchecktobrutality,consistentwithleavingthevictim
stillinthepoweroftheexecutioner。Untilaconvictionforpersonalviolence,
oratalleventsarepetitionofitafterafirstconviction,entitlesthe
womanipsofactotoadivorce,oratleasttoajudicialseparation,the
attempttorepressthese\"aggravatedassaults\"bylegalpenaltieswillbreakdownforwantofaprosecutor,orforwantofawitness。###第3章Whenweconsiderhowvastisthenumberofmen,inanygreatcountry,
whoarelittlehigherthanbrutes,andthatthisneverpreventsthemfrom
beingable,throughthelawofmarriage,toobtainavictim,thebreadth
anddepthofhumanmiserycausedinthisshapealonebytheabuseofthe
institutionswellstosomethingappalling。Yettheseareonlytheextreme
cases。Theyarethelowestabysses,butthereisasadsuccessionofdepth
afterdepthbeforereachingthem。Indomesticasinpoliticaltyranny,the
caseofabsolutemonsterschieflyillustratestheinstitutionbyshowing
thatthereisscarcelyanyhorrorwhichmaynotoccurunderitifthedespot
pleases,andthussettinginastronglightwhatmustbetheterriblefrequency
ofthingsonlyalittlelessatrocious。Absolutefiendsareasrareasangels,
perhapsrarer:ferocioussavages,withoccasionaltouchesofhumanity,are
howeververyfrequent:andinthewideintervalwhichseparatesthesefrom
anyworthyrepresentativesofthehumanspecies,howmanyaretheformsand
gradationsofanimalismandselfishness,oftenunderanoutwardvarnishof
civilisationandevencultivation,livingatpeacewiththelaw,maintaining
acreditableappearancetoallwhoarenotundertheirpower,yetsufficient
oftentomakethelivesofallwhoareso,atormentandaburthentothem!
Itwouldbetiresometorepeatthecommonplacesabouttheunfitnessofmen
ingeneralforpower,which,afterthepoliticaldiscussionsofcenturies,
everyoneknowsbyheart,wereitnotthathardlyanyonethinksofapplying
thesemaximstothecaseinwhichaboveallotherstheyareapplicable,that
ofpower,notplacedinthehandsofamanhereandthere,butofferedto
everyadultmale,downtothebasestandmostferocious。Itisnotbecause
amanisnotknowntohavebrokenanyoftheTenCommandments,orbecause
hemaintainsarespectablecharacterinhisdealingswiththosewhomhecannot
compeltohaveintercoursewithhim,orbecausehedoesnotflyoutinto
violentburstsofill—temperagainstthosewhoarenotobligedtobearwith
him,thatitispossibletosurmiseofwhatsorthisconductwillbeinthe
unrestraintofhome。Eventhecommonestmenreservetheviolent,thesulky,
theundisguisedlyselfishsideoftheircharacterforthosewhohavenopower
towithstandit。Therelationofsuperiorstodependentsisthenurseryof
thesevicesofcharacter,which,whereverelsetheyexist,areanoverflowing
fromthatsource。Amanwhoismoroseorviolenttohisequals,issureto
beonewhohaslivedamonginferiors,whomhecouldfrightenorworryinto
submission。Ifthefamilyinitsbestformsis,asitisoftensaidtobe,
aschoolofsympathy,tenderness,andlovingforgetfulnessofself,itis
stilloftener,asrespectsitschief,aschoolofwilfulness,overbearingness,
unboundedselfishindulgence,andadouble—dyedandidealisedselfishness,
ofwhichsacrificeitselfisonlyaparticularform:thecareforthewife
andchildrenbeingonlycareforthemaspartsoftheman’sowninterests
andbelongings,andtheirindividualhappinessbeingimmolatedineveryshape
tohissmallestpreferences。Whatbetteristobelookedforundertheexisting
formoftheinstitution?Weknowthatthebadpropensitiesofhumannature
areonlykeptwithinboundswhentheyareallowednoscopefortheirindulgence。
Weknowthatfromimpulseandhabit,whennotfromdeliberatepurpose,almost
everyonetowhomothersyield,goesonencroachinguponthem,untilapoint
isreachedatwhichtheyarecompelledtoresist。Suchbeingthecommontendency
ofhumannature;thealmostunlimitedpowerwhichpresentsocialinstitutions
givetothemanoveratleastonehumanbeing——theonewithwhomheresides,
andwhomhehasalwayspresent——thispowerseeksoutandevokesthelatent
germsofselfishnessintheremotestcornersofhisnature——fansitsfaintest
sparksandsmoulderingembers——offerstohimalicencefortheindulgence
ofthosepointsofhisoriginalcharacterwhichinallotherrelationshe
wouldhavefounditnecessarytorepressandconceal,andtherepression
ofwhichwouldintimehavebecomeasecondnature。Iknowthatthereis
anothersidetothequestion。Igrantthatthewife,ifshecannoteffectually
resist,canatleastretaliate;she,too,canmaketheman’slifeextremely
uncomfortable,andbythatpowerisabletocarrymanypointswhichsheought,
andmanywhichsheoughtnot,toprevailin。Butthisinstrumentofself—protection
——whichmaybecalledthepowerofthescold,ortheshrewishsanction——
hasthefataldefect,thatitavailsmostagainsttheleasttyrannicalsuperiors,
andinfavouroftheleastdeservingdependents。Itistheweaponofirritable
andself—willedwomen;ofthosewhowouldmaketheworstuseofpowerif
theythemselveshadit,andwhogenerallyturnthispowertoabaduse。The
amiablecannotusesuchaninstrument,thehighmindeddisdainit。Andon
theotherhand,thehusbandsagainstwhomitisusedmosteffectivelyare
thegentlerandmoreinoffensive;thosewhocannotbeinduced,evenbyprovocation,
toresorttoanyveryharshexerciseofauthority。Thewife’spowerofbeing
disagreeablegenerallyonlyestablishesacounter—tyranny,andmakesvictimsintheirturnchieflyofthosehusbandswhoareleastinclinedtobetyrants。Whatisit,then,whichreallytempersthecorruptingeffectsofthepower,
andmakesitcompatiblewithsuchamountofgoodasweactuallysee?Mere
feminineblandishments,thoughofgreateffectinindividualinstances,have
verylittleeffectinmodifyingthegeneraltendenciesofthesituation;
fortheirpoweronlylastswhilethewomanisyoungandattractive,often
onlywhilehercharmisnew,andnotdimmedbyfamiliarity;andonmanymen
theyhavenotmuchinfluenceatanytime。Therealmitigatingcausesare,
thepersonalaffectionwhichisthegrowthoftimeinsofarastheman’s
natureissusceptibleofitandthewoman’scharactersufficientlycongenial
withhistoexciteit;theircommoninterestsasregardsthechildren,and
theirgeneralcommunityofinterestasconcernsthirdpersons(towhichhowever
thereareverygreatlimitations);therealimportanceofthewifetohis
dailycomfortsandenjoyments,andthevalueheconsequentlyattachesto
heronhispersonalaccount,which,inamancapableoffeelingforothers,
laysthefoundationofcaringforheronherown;andlastly,theinfluence
naturallyacquiredoveralmostallhumanbeingsbythoseneartotheirpersons
(ifnotactuallydisagreeabletothem):who,bothbytheirdirectentreaties,
andbytheinsensiblecontagionoftheirfeelingsanddispositions,areoften
able,unlesscounteractedbysomeequallystrongpersonalinfluence,toobtain
adegreeofcommandovertheconductofthesuperior,altogetherexcessive
andunreasonable。Throughthesevariousmeans,thewifefrequentlyexercises
eventoomuchpowerovertheman;sheisabletoaffecthisconductinthings
inwhichshemaynotbequalifiedtoinfluenceitforgood——inwhichher
influencemaybenotonlyunenlightened,butemployedonthemorallywrong
side;andinwhichhewouldactbetteriflefttohisownprompting。But
neitherintheaffairsoffamiliesnorinthoseofstatesispoweracompensation
forthelossoffreedom。Herpoweroftengivesherwhatshehasnoright
to,butdoesnotenablehertoassertherownrights。ASultan’sfavourite
slavehasslavesunderher,overwhomshetyrannises;butthedesirablething
wouldbethatsheshouldneitherhaveslavesnorbeaslave。Byentirely
sinkingherownexistenceinherhusband;byhavingnowill(orpersuading
himthatshehasnowill)buthis,inanythingwhichregardstheirjoint
relation,andbymakingitthebusinessofherlifetoworkuponhissentiments,
awifemaygratifyherselfbyinfluencing,andveryprobablyperverting,
hisconduct,inthoseofhisexternalrelationswhichshehasneverqualified
herselftojudgeof,orinwhichsheisherselfwhollyinfluencedbysome
personalorotherpartialityorprejudice。Accordingly,asthingsnoware,
thosewhoactmostkindlytotheirwives,arequiteasoftenmadeworse,
asbetter,bythewife’sinfluence,inrespecttoallinterestsextending
beyondthefamily。Sheistaughtthatshehasnobusinesswiththingsout
ofthatsphere;andaccordinglysheseldomhasanyhonestandconscientious
opiniononthem;andthereforehardlyevermeddleswiththemforanylegitimate
purpose,butgenerallyforaninterestedone。Sheneitherknowsnorcares
whichistherightsideinpolitics,butsheknowswhatwillbringinmoney
orinvitations,giveherhusbandatitle,hersonaplace,orherdaughteragoodmarriage。Buthow,itwillbeasked,cananysocietyexistwithoutgovernment?In
afamily,asinastate,someonepersonmustbetheultimateruler。Who
shalldecidewhenmarriedpeopledifferinopinion?Bothcannothavetheirway,yetadecisiononewayortheothermustbecometo。Itisnottruethatinallvoluntaryassociationbetweentwopeople,one
ofthemmustbeabsolutemaster:stilllessthatthelawmustdeterminewhich
ofthemitshallbe。Themostfrequentcaseofvoluntaryassociation,next
tomarriage,ispartnershipinbusiness:anditisnotfoundorthoughtnecessary
toenactthatineverypartnership,onepartnershallhaveentirecontrol
overtheconcern,andtheothersshallbeboundtoobeyhisorders。Noone
wouldenterintopartnershipontermswhichwouldsubjecthimtotheresponsibilities
ofaprincipal,withonlythepowersandprivilegesofaclerkoragent。
Ifthelawdealtwithothercontractsasitdoeswithmarriage,itwould
ordainthatonepartnershouldadministerthecommonbusinessasifitwas
hisprivateconcern;thattheothersshouldhaveonlydelegatedpowers;and
thatthisoneshouldbedesignatedbysomegeneralpresumptionoflaw,for
exampleasbeingtheeldest。Thelawneverdoesthis:nordoesexperience
showittobenecessarythatanytheoreticalinequalityofpowershouldexist
betweenthepartners,orthatthepartnershipshouldhaveanyotherconditions
thanwhattheymaythemselvesappointbytheirarticlesofagreement。Yet
itmightseemthattheexclusivepowermightbeconcededwithlessdanger
totherightsandinterestsoftheinferior,inthecaseofpartnershipthan
inthatofmarriage,sinceheisfreetocancelthepowerbywithdrawing
fromtheconnexion。Thewifehasnosuchpower,andevenifshehad,itis
almostalwaysdesirablethatsheshouldtryallmeasuresbeforeresortingtoit。Itisquitetruethatthingswhichhavetobedecidedeveryday,andcannot
adjustthemselvesgradually,orwaitforacompromise,oughttodependon
onewill;onepersonmusthavetheirsolecontrol。Butitdoesnotfollow
thatthisshouldalwaysbethesameperson。Thenaturalarrangementisa
divisionofpowersbetweenthetwo;eachbeingabsoluteintheexecutive
branchoftheirowndepartment,andanychangeofsystemandprinciplerequiring
theconsentofboth。Thedivisionneithercannorshouldbepre—established
bythelaw,sinceitmustdependonindividualcapacitiesandsuitabilities。
Ifthetwopersonschose,theymightpre—appointitbythemarriagecontract,
aspecuniaryarrangementsarenowoftenpre—appointed。Therewouldseldom
beanydifficultyindecidingsuchthingsbymutualconsent,unlessthemarriage
wasoneofthoseunhappyonesinwhichallotherthings,aswellasthis,
becomesubjectsofbickeringanddispute。Thedivisionofrightswouldnaturally
followthedivisionofdutiesandfunctions;andthatisalreadymadeby
consent,oratalleventsnotbylaw,butbygeneralcustom,modifiedandmodifiableatthepleasureofthepersonsconcerned。Therealpracticaldecisionofaffairs,towhichevermaybegiventhe
legalauthority,willgreatlydepend,asitevennowdoes,uponcomparative
qualifications。Themerefactthatheisusuallytheeldest,willinmost
casesgivethepreponderancetotheman;atleastuntiltheybothattain
atimeoflifeatwhichthedifferenceintheiryearsisofnoimportance。
Therewillnaturallyalsobeamorepotentialvoiceontheside,whichever
itis,thatbringsthemeansofsupport。Inequalityfromthissourcedoes
notdependonthelawofmarriage,butonthegeneralconditionsofhuman
society,asnowconstituted。Theinfluenceofmentalsuperiority,either
generalorspecial,andofsuperiordecisionofcharacter,willnecessarily
tellformuch。Italwaysdoessoatpresent。Andthisfactshowshowlittle
foundationthereisfortheapprehensionthatthepowersandresponsibilities
ofpartnersinlife(asofpartnersinbusiness),cannotbesatisfactorily
apportionedbyagreementbetweenthemselves。Theyalwaysaresoapportioned,
exceptincasesinwhichthemarriageinstitutionisafailure。Thingsnever
cometoanissueofdownrightpowerononeside,andobedienceontheother,
exceptwheretheconnexionaltogetherhasbeenamistake,anditwouldbe
ablessingtobothpartiestoberelievedfromit。Somemaysaythatthe
verythingbywhichanamicablesettlementofdifferencesbecomespossible,
isthepoweroflegalcompulsionknowntobeinreserve;aspeoplesubmit
toanarbitrationbecausethereisacourtoflawinthebackground,which
theyknowthattheycanbeforcedtoobey。Buttomakethecasesparallel,
wemustsupposethattheruleofthecourtoflawwas,nottotrythecause,
buttogivejudgmentalwaysforthesameside,supposethedefendant。If
so,theamenabilitytoitwouldbeamotivewiththeplaintifftoagreeto
almostanyarbitration,butitwouldbejustthereversewiththedefendant。
Thedespoticpowerwhichthelawgivestothehusbandmaybeareasonto
makethewifeassenttoanycompromisebywhichpowerispracticallyshared
betweenthetwo,butitcannotbethereasonwhythehusbanddoes。Thatthere
isalwaysamongdecentlyconductedpeopleapracticalcompromise,though
oneofthematleastisundernophysicalormoralnecessityofmakingit,
showsthatthenaturalmotiveswhichleadtoavoluntaryadjustmentofthe
unitedlifeoftwopersonsinamanneracceptabletoboth,doonthewhole,
exceptingunfavourablecases,prevail。Thematteriscertainlynotimproved
bylayingdownasanordinanceoflaw,thatthesuperstructureoffreegovernment
shallberaiseduponalegalbasisofdespotismononesideandsubjection
ontheother,andthateveryconcessionwhichthedespotmakesmay,athis
merepleasure,andwithoutanywarning,berecalled。Besidesthatnofreedom
isworthmuchwhenheldonsoprecariousatenure,itsconditionsarenot
likelytobethemostequitablewhenthelawthrowssoprodigiousaweight
intoonescale;whentheadjustmentrestsbetweentwopersonsoneofwhom
isdeclaredtobeentitledtoeverything,theothernotonlyentitledto
nothingexceptduringthegoodpleasureofthefirst,butunderthestrongestmoralandreligiousobligationnottorebelunderanyexcessofoppression。Apertinaciousadversary,pushedtoextremities,maysay,thathusbands
indeedarewillingtobereasonable,andtomakefairconcessionstotheir
partnerswithoutbeingcompelledtoit,butthatwivesarenot:thatifallowed
anyrightsoftheirown,theywillacknowledgenorightsatallinanyone
else,andneverwillyieldinanything,unlesstheycanbecompelled,by
theman’smereauthority,toyieldineverything。Thiswouldhavebeensaid
bymanypersonssomegenerationsago,whensatiresonwomenwereinvogue,
andmenthoughtitacleverthingtoinsultwomenforbeingwhatmenmade
them。Butitwillbesaidbynoonenowwhoisworthreplyingto。Itisnot
thedoctrineofthepresentdaythatwomenarelesssusceptibleofgoodfeeling,
andconsiderationforthosewithwhomtheyareunitedbythestrongestties,
thanmenare。Onthecontrary,weareperpetuallytoldthatwomenarebetter
thanmen,bythosewhoaretotallyopposedtotreatingthemasiftheywere
asgood;sothatthesayinghaspassedintoapieceoftiresomecant,intended
toputacomplimentaryfaceuponaninjury,andresemblingthosecelebrations
ofroyalclemencywhich,accordingtoGulliver,thekingofLilliputalways
prefixedtohismostsanguinarydecrees。Ifwomenarebetterthanmenin
anything,itsurelyisinindividualself—sacrificeforthoseoftheirown
family。ButIlaylittlestressonthis,solongastheyareuniversally
taughtthattheyarebornandcreatedforself—sacrifice。Ibelievethat
equalityofrightswouldabatetheexaggeratedself—abnegationwhichisthe
presentartificialidealoffemininecharacter,andthatagoodwomanwould
notbemoreself—sacrificingthanthebestman:butontheotherhand,men
wouldbemuchmoreunselfishandself—sacrificingthanatpresent,because
theywouldnolongerbetaughttoworshiptheirownwillassuchagrand
thingthatitisactuallythelawforanotherrationalbeing。Thereisnothing
whichmensoeasilylearnasthisself—worship:allprivilegedpersons,and
allprivilegedclasses,havehadit。Themorewedescendinthescaleof
humanity,theintenseritis;andmostofallinthosewhoarenot,andcan
neverexpecttobe,raisedaboveanyoneexceptanunfortunatewifeandchildren。
Thehonourableexceptionsareproportionallyfewerthaninthecaseofalmost
anyotherhumaninfirmity。Philosophyandreligion,insteadofkeepingit
incheck,aregenerallysubornedtodefendit;andnothingcontrolsitbut
thatpracticalfeelingoftheequalityofhumanbeings,whichisthetheory
ofChristianity,butwhichChristianitywillneverpracticallyteach,while
itsanctionsinstitutionsgroundedonanarbitrarypreferenceofonehumanbeingoveranother。Thereare,nodoubt,women,astherearemen,whomequalityofconsideration
willnotsatisfy;withwhomthereisnopeacewhileanywillorwishisregarded
buttheirown。Suchpersonsareapropersubjectforthelawofdivorce。
Theyareonlyfittolivealone,andnohumanbeingsoughttobecompelled
toassociatetheirliveswiththem。Butthelegalsubordinationtendsto
makesuchcharactersamongwomenmore,ratherthanless,frequent。Ifthe
manexertshiswholepower,thewomanisofcoursecrushed:butifsheis
treatedwithindulgence,andpermittedtoassumepower,thereisnorule
tosetlimitstoherencroachments。Thelaw,notdeterminingherrights,
buttheoreticallyallowinghernoneatall,practicallydeclaresthatthemeasureofwhatshehasarightto,iswhatshecancontrivetoget。Theequalityofmarriedpersonsbeforethelaw,isnotonlythesolemode
inwhichthatparticularrelationcanbemadeconsistentwithjusticeto
bothsides,andconducivetothehappinessofboth,butitistheonlymeans
ofrenderingthedailylifeofmankind,inanyhighsense,aschoolofmoral
cultivation。Thoughthetruthmaynotbefeltorgenerallyacknowledgedfor
generationstocome,theonlyschoolofgenuinemoralsentimentissociety
betweenequals。Themoraleducationofmankindhashithertoemanatedchiefly
fromthelawofforce,andisadaptedalmostsolelytotherelationswhich
forcecreates。Inthelessadvancedstatesofsociety,peoplehardlyrecognise
anyrelationwiththeirequals。Tobeanequalistobeanenemy。Society,
fromitshighestplacetoitslowest,isonelongchain,orratherladder,
whereeveryindividualiseitheraboveorbelowhisnearestneighbour,and
whereverhedoesnotcommandhemustobey。Existingmoralities,accordingly,
aremainlyfittedtoarelationofcommandandobedience。Yetcommandand
obediencearebutunfortunatenecessitiesofhumanlife:societyinequality
isitsnormalstate。Alreadyinmodernlife,andmoreandmoreasitprogressively
improves,commandandobediencebecomeexceptionalfactsinlife,equalassociation
itsgeneralrule。Themoralityofthefirstagesrestedontheobligation
tosubmittopower;thatoftheagesnextfollowing,ontherightofthe
weaktotheforbearanceandprotectionofthestrong。Howmuchlongeris
oneformofsocietyandlifetocontentitselfwiththemoralitymadefor
another?Wehavehadthemoralityofsubmission,andthemoralityofchivalry
andgenerosity;thetimeisnowcomeforthemoralityofjustice。Whenever,
informerages,anyapproachhasbeenmadetosocietyinequality,Justice
hasasserteditsclaimsasthefoundationofvirtue。Itwasthusinthefree
republicsofantiquity。Buteveninthebestofthese,theequalswerelimited
tothefreemalecitizens;slaves,women,andtheunenfranchisedresidents
wereunderthelawofforce。ThejointinfluenceofRomancivilisationand
ofChristianityobliteratedthesedistinctions,andintheory(ifonlypartially
inpractice)declaredtheclaimsofthehumanbeing,assuch,tobeparamount
tothoseofsex,class,orsocialposition。Thebarrierswhichhadbegun
tobelevelledwereraisedagainbythenorthernconquests;andthewhole
ofmodernhistoryconsistsoftheslowprocessbywhichtheyhavesincebeen
wearingaway。Weareenteringintoanorderofthingsinwhichjusticewill
againbetheprimaryvirtue;groundedasbeforeonequal,butnowalsoon
sympatheticassociation;havingitsrootnolongerintheinstinctofequals
forselfprotection,butinacultivatedsympathybetweenthem;andnoone
beingnowleftout,butanequalmeasurebeingextendedtoall。Itisno
noveltythatmankinddonotdistinctlyforeseetheirownchanges,andthat
theirsentimentsareadaptedtopast,nottocomingages。Toseethefuturity
ofthespecieshasalwaysbeentheprivilegeoftheintellectualelite,or
ofthosewhohavelearntfromthem;tohavethefeelingsofthatfuturity
hasbeenthedistinction,andusuallythemartyrdom,ofastillrarerelite。
Institutions,books,education,society,allgoontraininghumanbeings
fortheold,longafterthenewhascome;muchmorewhenitisonlycoming。
Butthetruevirtueofhumanbeingsisfitnesstolivetogetherasequals;
claimingnothingforthemselvesbutwhattheyasfreelyconcedetoeveryone
else;regardingcommandofanykindasanexceptionalnecessity,andinall
casesatemporaryone;andpreferring,wheneverpossible,thesocietyof
thosewithwhomleadingandfollowingcanbealternateandreciprocal。To
thesevirtues,nothinginlifeasatpresentconstitutedgivescultivation
byexercise。Thefamilyisaschoolofdespotism,inwhichthevirtuesof
despotism,butalsoitsvices,arelargelynourished。Citizenship,infree
countries,ispartlyaschoolofsocietyinequality;butcitizenshipfills
onlyasmallplaceinmodernlife,anddoesnotcomenearthedailyhabits
orinmostsentiments。Thefamily,justlyconstituted,wouldbetherealschool
ofthevirtuesoffreedom。Itissuretobeasufficientoneofeverything
else。Itwillalwaysbeaschoolofobedienceforthechildren,ofcommand
fortheparents。Whatisneededis,thatitshouldbeaschoolofsympathy
inequality,oflivingtogetherinlove,withoutpowerononesideorobedience
ontheother。Thisitoughttobebetweentheparents。Itwouldthenbean
exerciseofthosevirtueswhicheachrequirestofitthemforallotherassociation,
andamodeltothechildrenofthefeelingsandconductwhichtheirtemporary
trainingbymeansofobedienceisdesignedtorenderhabitual,andtherefore
natural,tothem。Themoraltrainingofmankindwillneverbeadaptedto
theconditionsofthelifeforwhichallotherhumanprogressisapreparation,
untiltheypractiseinthefamilythesamemoralrulewhichisadaptedto
thenormalconstitutionofhumansociety。Anysentimentoffreedomwhich
canexistinamanwhosenearestanddearestintimacies,arewiththoseof
whomheisabsolutemaster,isnotthegenuineorChristianloveoffreedom,
but,whattheloveoffreedomgenerallywasintheancientsandinthemiddle
ages——anintensefeelingofthedignityandimportanceofhisownpersonality;
makinghimdisdainayokeforhimself,ofwhichhehasnoabhorrencewhatever
intheabstract,butwhichheisabundantlyreadytoimposeonothersforhisowninterestorglorification。Ireadilyadmit(anditistheveryfoundationofmyhopes)thatnumbers
ofmarriedpeopleevenunderthepresentlaw(inthehigherclassesofEngland
probablyagreatmajority),liveinthespiritofajustlawofequality。
Lawsneverwouldbeimproved,iftherewerenotnumerouspersonswhosemoral
sentimentsarebetterthantheexistinglaws。Suchpersonsoughttosupport
theprincipleshereadvocated;ofwhichtheonlyobjectistomakeallother
marriedcouplessimilartowhatthesearenow。Butpersonsevenofconsiderable
moralworth,unlesstheyarealsothinkers,areveryreadytobelievethat
lawsorpractices,theevilsofwhichtheyhavenotpersonallyexperienced,
donotproduceanyevils,but(ifseemingtobegenerallyapprovedof)probably
dogood,andthatitiswrongtoobjecttothem。Itwould,however,bea
greatmistakeinsuchmarriedpeopletosuppose,becausethelegalconditions
ofthetiewhichunitesthemdonotoccurtotheirthoughtsonceinatwelve
month,andbecausetheyliveandfeelinallrespectsasiftheywerelegally
equals,thatthesameisthecasewithallothermarriedcouples,wherever
thehusbandisnotanotoriousruffian。Tosupposethis,wouldbetoshow
equalignoranceofhumannatureandoffact。Thelessfitamanisforthe
possessionofpower——thelesslikelytobeallowedtoexerciseitover
anypersonwiththatperson’svoluntaryconsent——themoredoeshehughimself
intheconsciousnessofthepowerthelawgiveshim,exactitslegalrights
totheutmostpointwhichcustom(thecustomofmenlikehimself)willtolerate,
andtakepleasureinusingthepower,merelytoenliventheagreeablesense
ofpossessingit。Whatismore;inthemostnaturallybrutalandmorally
uneducatedpartofthelowerclasses,thelegalslaveryofthewoman,and
somethinginthemerelyphysicalsubjectiontotheirwillasaninstrument,
causesthemtofeelasortofdisrespectandcontempttowardstheirownwife
whichtheydonotfeeltowardsanyotherwoman,oranyotherhumanbeing,
withwhomtheycomeincontact;andwhichmakesherseemtothemanappropriate
subjectforanykindofindignity。Letanacuteobserverofthesignsof
feeling,whohastherequisiteopportunities,judgeforhimselfwhetherthis
isnotthecase:andifhefindsthatitis,lethimnotwonderatanyamount
ofdisgustandindignationthatcanbefeltagainstinstitutionswhichleadnaturallytothisdepravedstateofthehumanmind。Weshallbetold,perhaps,thatreligionimposesthedutyofobedience;
aseveryestablishedfactwhichistoobadtoadmitofanyotherdefence,
isalwayspresentedtousasaninjunctionofreligion。TheChurch,itis
verytrue,enjoinsitinherformularies,butitwouldbedifficulttoderive
anysuchinjunctionfromChristianity。WearetoldthatSt。Paulsaid,\"Wives,
obeyyourhusbands\":buthealsosaid,\"Slaves,obeyyourmasters。\"
ItwasnotSt。Paul’sbusiness,norwasitconsistentwithhisobject,the
propagationofChristianity,toinciteanyonetorebellionagainstexisting
laws。TheApostle’sacceptanceofallsocialinstitutionsashefoundthem,
isnomoretobeconstruedasadisapprovalofattemptstoimprovethemat
thepropertime,thanhisdeclaration,\"Thepowersthatbeareordained
ofGod,\"giveshissanctiontomilitarydespotism,andtothatalone,
astheChristianformofpoliticalgovernment,orcommandspassiveobedience
toit。TopretendthatChristianitywasintendedtostereotypeexistingforms
ofgovernmentandsociety,andprotectthemagainstchange,istoreduce
ittothelevelofIslamismorofBrahminism。ItispreciselybecauseChristianity
hasnotdonethis,thatithasbeenthereligionoftheprogressiveportion
ofmankind,andIslamism,Brahminism,etc。havebeenthoseofthestationary
portions;orrather(forthereisnosuchthingasareallystationarysociety)
ofthedecliningportions。Therehavebeenabundanceofpeople,inallages
ofChristianity,whotriedtomakeitsomethingofthesamekind;toconvert
usintoasortofChristianMussulmans,withtheBibleforaKoran,prohibiting
allimprovement:andgreathasbeentheirpower,andmanyhavehadtosacrifice
theirlivesinresistingthem。Buttheyhavebeenresisted,andtheresistancehasmadeuswhatweare,andwillyetmakeuswhatwearetobe。Afterwhathasbeensaidrespectingtheobligationofobedience,itis
almostsuperfluoustosayanythingconcerningthemorespecialpointincluded
inthegeneralone——awoman’srighttoherownproperty;forIneednot
hopethatthistreatisecanmakeanyimpressionuponthosewhoneedanything
toconvincethemthatawoman’sinheritanceorgainsoughttobeasmuch
herownaftermarriageasbefore。Theruleissimple:whateverwouldbethe
husband’sorwife’siftheywerenotmarried,shouldbeundertheirexclusive
controlduringmarriage;whichneednotinterferewiththepowertotieup
propertybysettlement,inordertopreserveitforchildren。Somepeople
aresentimentallyshockedattheideaofaseparateinterestinmoneymatters
asinconsistentwiththeidealfusionoftwolivesintoone。Formyownpart,
Iamoneofthestrongestsupportersofcommunityofgoods,whenresulting
fromanentireunityoffeelingintheowners,whichmakesallthingscommon
betweenthem。ButIhavenorelishforacommunityofgoodsrestingonthe
doctrine,thatwhatismineisyours,butwhatisyoursisnotmine;and
Ishouldprefertodeclineenteringintosuchacompactwithanyone,thoughIweremyselfthepersontoprofitbyit。Thisparticularinjusticeandoppressiontowomen,whichis,tocommon
apprehensions,moreobviousthanalltherest,admitsofremedywithoutinterfering
withanyothermischiefs:andtherecanbelittledoubtthatitwillbeone
oftheearliestremedied。Already,inmanyofthenewandseveralofthe
oldStatesoftheAmericanConfederation,provisionshavebeeninsertedeven
inthewrittenConstitutions,securingtowomenequalityofrightsinthis
respect:andtherebyimprovingmateriallytheposition,inthemarriagerelation,
ofthosewomenatleastwhohaveproperty,byleavingthemoneinstrument
ofpowerwhichtheyhavenotsignedaway;andpreventingalsothescandalous
abuseofthemarriageinstitution,whichisperpetratedwhenamanentraps
agirlintomarryinghimwithoutasettlement,forthesolepurposeofgetting
possessionofhermoney。Whenthesupportofthefamilydepends,notonproperty,
butonearnings,thecommonarrangement,bywhichthemanearnstheincome
andthewifesuperintendsthedomesticexpenditure,seemstomeingeneral
themostsuitabledivisionoflabourbetweenthetwopersons。If,inaddition
tothephysicalsufferingofbearingchildren,andthewholeresponsibility
oftheircareandeducationinearlyyears,thewifeundertakesthecareful
andeconomicalapplicationofthehusband’searningstothegeneralcomfort
ofthefamily;shetakesnotonlyherfairshare,butusuallythelarger
share,ofthebodilyandmentalexertionrequiredbytheirjointexistence。
Ifsheundertakesanyadditionalportion,itseldomrelievesherfromthis,
butonlypreventsherfromperformingitproperly。Thecarewhichsheis
herselfdisabledfromtakingofthechildrenandthehousehold,nobodyelse
takes;thoseofthechildrenwhodonotdie,growupastheybestcan,and
themanagementofthehouseholdislikelytobesobad,aseveninpoint
ofeconomytobeagreatdrawbackfromthevalueofthewife’searnings。
Inanotherwisejuststateofthings,itisnot,therefore,Ithink,adesirable
custom,thatthewifeshouldcontributebyherlabourtotheincomeofthe
family。Inanunjuststateofthings,herdoingsomaybeusefultoher,
bymakingherofmorevalueintheeyesofthemanwhoislegallyhermaster;
but,ontheotherhand,itenableshimstillfarthertoabusehispower,
byforcinghertowork,andleavingthesupportofthefamilytoherexertions,
whilehespendsmostofhistimeindrinkingandidleness。Thepowerofearning
isessentialtothedignityofawoman,ifshehasnotindependentproperty。
Butifmarriagewereanequalcontract,notimplyingtheobligationofobedience;
iftheconnexionwerenolongerenforcedtotheoppressionofthosetowhom
itispurelyamischief,butaseparation,onjustterms(Idonotnowspeak
ofadivorce),couldbeobtainedbyanywomanwhowasmorallyentitledto
it;andifshewouldthenfindallhonourableemploymentsasfreelyopen
toherastomen;itwouldnotbenecessaryforherprotection,thatduring
marriagesheshouldmakethisparticularuseofherfaculties。Likeaman
whenhechoosesaprofession,so,whenawomanmarries,itmayingeneral
beunderstoodthatshemakeschoiceofthemanagementofahousehold,and
thebringingupofafamily,asthefirstcalluponherexertions,during
asmanyyearsofherlifeasmayberequiredforthepurpose;andthatshe
renounces,notallotherobjectsandoccupations,butallwhicharenotconsistent
withtherequirementsofthis。Theactualexercise,inahabitualorsystematic
manner,ofoutdooroccupations,orsuchascannotbecarriedonathome,
wouldbythisprinciplebepracticallyinterdictedtothegreaternumber
ofmarriedwomen。Buttheutmostlatitudeoughttoexistfortheadaptation
ofgeneralrulestoindividualsuitabilities;andthereoughttobenothing
topreventfacultiesexceptionallyadaptedtoanyotherpursuit,fromobeying
theirvocationnotwithstandingmarriage:dueprovisionbeingmadeforsupplying
otherwiseanyfalling—shortwhichmightbecomeinevitable,inherfullperformance
oftheordinaryfunctionsofmistressofafamily。Thesethings,ifonce
opinionwererightlydirectedonthesubject,mightwithperfectsafetybe
lefttoberegulatedbyopinion,withoutanyinterferenceoflaw。
CHAPTER3Ontheotherpointwhichisinvolvedinthejustequalityofwomen,their
admissibilitytoallthefunctionsandoccupationshithertoretainedasthe
monopolyofthestrongersex,Ishouldanticipatenodifficultyinconvincing
anyonewhohasgonewithmeonthesubjectoftheequalityofwomeninthe
family。Ibelievethattheirdisabilitieselsewhereareonlyclungtoin
ordertomaintaintheirsubordinationindomesticlife;becausethegenerality
ofthemalesexcannotyettoleratetheideaoflivingwithanequal。Were
itnotforthat,Ithinkthatalmosteveryone,intheexistingstateofopinion
inpoliticsandpoliticaleconomy,wouldadmittheinjusticeofexcluding
halfthehumanracefromthegreaternumberoflucrativeoccupations,and
fromalmostallhighsocialfunctions;ordainingfromtheirbirtheither
thattheyarenot,andcannotbyanypossibilitybecome,fitforemployments
whicharelegallyopentothestupidestandbasestoftheothersex,orelse
thathoweverfittheymaybe,thoseemploymentsshallbeinterdictedtothem,
inordertobepreservedfortheexclusivebenefitofmales。Inthelast
twocenturies,when(whichwasseldomthecase)anyreasonbeyondthemere
existenceofthefactwasthoughttoberequiredtojustifythedisabilities
ofwomen,peopleseldomassignedasareasontheirinferiormentalcapacity;
which,intimeswhentherewasarealtrialofpersonalfaculties(fromwhich
allwomenwerenotexcluded)inthestrugglesofpubliclife,noonereally
believedin。Thereasongiveninthosedayswasnotwomen’sunfitness,but
theinterestofsociety,bywhichwasmeanttheinterestofmen:justas
theraisond’etat,meaningtheconvenienceofthegovernment,andthesupport
ofexistingauthority,wasdeemedasufficientexplanationandexcusefor
themostflagitiouscrimes。Inthepresentday,powerholdsasmootherlanguage,
andwhomsoeveritoppresses,alwayspretendstodosofortheirowngood:
accordingly,whenanythingisforbiddentowomen,itisthoughtnecessary
tosay,anddesirabletobelieve,thattheyareincapableofdoingit,and
thattheydepartfromtheirrealpathofsuccessandhappinesswhenthey
aspiretoit。Buttomakethisreasonplausible(Idonotsayvalid),those
bywhomitisurgedmustbepreparedtocarryittoamuchgreaterlength
thananyoneventurestodointhefaceofpresentexperience。Itisnotsufficient
tomaintainthatwomenontheaveragearelessgiftedthenmenontheaverage,
withcertainofthehighermentalfaculties,orthatasmallernumberof
womenthanofmenarefitforoccupationsandfunctionsofthehighestintellectual
character。Itisnecessarytomaintainthatnowomenatallarefitforthem,
andthatthemosteminentwomenarcinferiorinmentalfacultiestothemost
mediocreofthemenonwhomthosefunctionsatpresentdevolve。Forifthe
performanceofthefunctionisdecidedeitherbycompetition,orbyanymode
ofchoicewhichsecuresregardtothepublicinterest,thereneedsbeno
apprehensionthatanyimportantemploymentswillfallintothehandsofwomen
inferiortoaveragemen,ortotheaverageoftheirmalecompetitors。The
onlyresultwouldbethattherewouldbefewerwomenthanmeninsuchemployments;
aresultcertaintohappeninanycase,ifonlyfromthepreferencealways
likelytobefeltbythemajorityofwomenfortheonevocationinwhich
thereisnobodytocompetewiththem。Now,themostdetermineddepreciator
ofwomenwillnotventuretodeny,thatwhenweaddtheexperienceofrecent
timestothatofagespast,women,andnotafewmerely,butmanywomen,
haveprovedthemselvescapableofeverything,perhapswithoutasingleexception,
whichisdonebymen,andofdoingitsuccessfullyandcreditably。Theutmost
thatcanbesaidis,thattherearcmanythingswhichnoneofthemhavesucceeded
indoingaswellastheyhavebeendonebysomemen——manyinwhichthey
havenotreachedtheveryhighestrank。Butthereareextremelyfew,dependent
onlyonmentalfaculties,inwhichtheyhavenotattainedtheranknextto
thehighest。Isnotthisenough,andmuchmorethanenough,tomakeita
tyrannytothem,andadetrimenttosociety,thattheyshouldnotbeallowed
tocompetewithmenfortheexerciseofthesefunctions?Isitnotamere
truismtosay,thatsuchfunctionsareoftenfilledbymenfarlessfitfor
themthannumbersofwomen,andwhowouldbebeatenbywomeninanyfair
fieldofcompetition?Whatdifferencedoesitmakethattheremaybemen
somewhere,fullyemployedaboutotherthings,whomaybestillbetterqualified
forthethingsinquestionthanthesewomen?Doesnotthistakeplacein
allcompetitions?Istheresogreatasuperfluityofmenfitforhighduties,
thatsocietycanaffordtorejecttheserviceofanycompetentperson?Are
wesocertainofalwaysfindingamanmadetoourhandsforanydutyorfunction
ofsocialimportancewhichfallsvacant,thatwelosenothingbyputting
abanupononehalfofmankind,andrefusingbeforehandtomaketheirfaculties
available,howeverdistinguishedtheymaybe?Andevenifwecoulddowithout
them,woulditbeconsistentwithjusticetorefusetothemtheirfairshare
ofhonouranddistinction,ortodenytothemtheequalmoralrightofall
humanbeingstochoosetheiroccupation(shortofinjurytoothers)according
totheirownpreferences,attheirownrisk?Noristheinjusticeconfined
tothem:itissharedbythosewhoareinapositiontobenefitbytheir
services。Toordainthatanykindofpersonsshallnotbephysicians,or
shallnotbeadvocates,orshallnotbeMembersofParliament,istoinjure
notthemonly,butallwhoemployphysiciansoradvocates,orelectMembers
ofParliament,andwhoaredeprivedofthestimulatingeffectofgreater
competitionontheexertionsofthecompetitors,aswellasrestrictedtoanarrowerrangeofindividualchoice。ItwillperhapsbesufficientifIconfinemyself,inthedetailsofmy
argument,tofunctionsofapublicnature:since,ifIamsuccessfulasto
those,itprobablywillbereadilygrantedthatwomenshouldbeadmissible
toallotheroccupationstowhichitisatallmaterialwhethertheyare
admittedornot。Andhereletmebeginbymarkingoutonefunction,broadly
distinguishedfromallothers,theirrighttowhichisentirelyindependent
ofanyquestionwhichcanberaisedconcerningtheirfaculties。Imeanthe
suffrage,bothparliamentaryandmunicipal。Therighttoshareinthechoice
ofthosewhoaretoexerciseapublictrust,isaltogetheradistinctthing
fromthatofcompetingforthetrustitself。IfnoonecouldvoteforaMember
ofParliamentwhowasnotfittobeacandidate,thegovernmentwouldbe
anarrowoligarchyindeed。Tohaveavoiceinchoosingthosebywhomone
istobegoverned,isameansofself—protectionduetoeveryone,though
heweretoremainforeverexcludedfromthefunctionofgoverning:andthat
womenareconsideredfittohavesuchachoice,maybepresumedfromthe
fact,thatthelawalreadygivesittowomeninthemostimportantofall
casestothemselves:forthechoiceofthemanwhoistogovernawomanto
theendoflife,isalwayssupposedtobevoluntarilymadebyherself。In
thecaseofelectiontopublictrusts,itisthebusinessofconstitutional
lawtosurroundtherightofsuffragewithallneedfulsecuritiesandlimitations;
butwhateversecuritiesaresufficientinthecaseofthemalesex,noothers
needberequiredinthecaseofwomen。Underwhateverconditions,andwithin
whateverlimits,menareadmittedtothesuffrage,thereisnotashadow
ofjustificationfornotadmittingwomenunderthesame。Themajorityof
thewomenofanyclassarenotlikelytodifferinpoliticalopinionfrom
themajorityofthemenofthesameclass,unlessthequestionbeonein
whichtheinterestsofwomen,assuch,areinsomewayinvolved;andifthey
areso,womenrequirethesuffrage,astheirguaranteeofjustandequal
consideration。Thisoughttobeobviouseventothosewhocoincideinno
otherofthedoctrinesforwhichIcontend。Evenifeverywomanwereawife,
andifeverywifeoughttobeaslave,allthemorewouldtheseslavesstand
inneedoflegalprotection:andweknowwhatlegalprotectiontheslaveshave,wherethelawsaremadebytheirmasters。Withregardtothefitnessofwomen,notonlytoparticipateinelections,
butthemselvestoholdofficesorpractiseprofessionsinvolvingimportant
publicresponsibilities;Ihavealreadyobservedthatthisconsideration
isnotessentialtothepracticalquestionindispute:sinceanywoman,who
succeedsinanopenprofession,provesbythatveryfactthatsheisqualified
forit。Andinthecaseofpublicoffices,ifthepoliticalsystemofthe
countryissuchastoexcludeunfitmen,itwillequallyexcludeunfitwomen:
whileifitisnot,thereisnoadditionalevilinthefactthattheunfit
personswhomitadmitsmaybeeitherwomenormen。Aslongthereforeasit
isacknowledgedthatevenafewwomenmaybefitfortheseduties,thelaws
whichshutthedooronthoseexceptionscannotbejustifiedbyanyopinion
whichcanbeheldrespectingthecapacitiesofwomeningeneral。But,though
thislastconsiderationisnotessential,itisfarfrombeingirrelevant。
Anunprejudicedviewofitgivesadditionalstrengthtotheargumentsagainst
thedisabilitiesofwomen,andreinforcesthembyhighconsiderationsofpracticalutility。Letusfirstmakeentireabstractionofallpsychologicalconsiderations
tendingtoshow,thatanyofthementaldifferencessupposedtoexistbetween
womenandmenarebutthenaturaleffectofthedifferencesintheireducation
andcircumstances,andindicatenoradicaldifference,farlessradicalinferiority,
ofnature。Letusconsiderwomenonlyastheyalreadyare,orastheyare
knowntohavebeen;andthecapacitieswhichtheyhavealreadypractically
shown。Whattheyhavedone,thatatleast,ifnothingelse,itisproved
thattheycando。Whenweconsiderhowsedulouslytheyarealltrainedaway
from,insteadofbeingtrainedtowards,anyoftheoccupationsorobjects
reservedformen,itisevidentthatIamtakingaveryhumblegroundfor
them,whenIresttheircaseonwhattheyhaveactuallyachieved。For,in
thiscase,negativeevidenceisworthlittle,——whileanypositiveevidence
isconclusive。Itcannotbeinferredtobeimpossiblethatawomanshould
beaHomer,oranAristotle,oraMichaelAngelo,oraBeethoven,because
nowomanhasyetactuallyproducedworkscomparabletotheirsinanyofthose
linesofexcellence。Thisnegativefactatmostleavesthequestionuncertain,
andopentopsychologicaldiscussion。Butitisquitecertainthatawoman
canbeaQueenElizabeth,oraDeborah,oraJoanofArc,sincethisisnot
inference,butfact。Nowitisacuriousconsideration,thattheonlythings
whichtheexistinglawexcludeswomenfromdoing,arethethingswhichthey
haveprovedthattheyareabletodo。Thereisnolawtopreventawoman
fromhavingwrittenalltheplaysofShakespeare,orcomposedalltheoperas
ofMozart。ButQueenElizabethorQueenVictoria,hadtheynotinherited
thethrone,couldnothavebeenentrustedwiththesmallestofthepoliticalduties,ofwhichtheformershowedherselfequaltothegreatest。###第4章Ifanythingconclusivecouldbeinferredfromexperience,withoutpsychological
analysis,itwouldbethatthethingswhichwomenarenotallowedtodoare
theveryonesforwhichtheyarepeculiarlyqualified;sincetheirvocation
forgovernmenthasmadeitsway,andbecomeconspicuous,throughthevery
fewopportunitieswhichhavebeengiven;whileinthelinesofdistinction
whichapparentlywerefreelyopentothem,theyhavebynomeanssoeminently
distinguishedthemselves。Weknowhowsmallanumberofreigningqueenshistory
presents,incomparisonwiththatofkings。Ofthissmallernumberafar
largerproportionhaveshowntalentsforrule;thoughmanyofthemhaveoccupied
thethroneindifficultperiods。Itisremarkable,too,thattheyhave,in
agreatnumberofinstances,beendistinguishedbymeritsthemostopposite
totheimaginaryandconventionalcharacterofwomen:theyhavebeenasmuch
remarkedforthefirmnessandvigouroftheirrule,asforitsintelligence。
When,toqueensandempresses,weaddregents,andviceroysofprovinces,
thelistofwomenwhohavebeeneminentrulersofmankindswellstoagreat
length。(1*)Thisfactissoundeniable,thatsomeone,longago,triedto
retorttheargument,andturnedtheadmittedtruthintoanadditionalinsult,
bysayingthatqueensarebetterthankings,becauseunderkingswomengovern,butunderqueens,men。Itmayseemawasteofreasoningtoargueagainstabadjoke;butsuch
thingsdoaffectpeople’sminds;andIhaveheardmenquotethissaying,
withanairasiftheythoughtthattherewassomethinginit。Atanyrate,
itwillserveasanything,elseforastarting—pointindiscussion。Isay,
then,thatitisnottruethatunderkings,womengovern。Suchcasesare
entirelyexceptional:andweakkingshavequiteasoftengovernedillthrough
theinfluenceofmalefavourites,asoffemale。Whenakingisgovernedby
awomanmerelythroughhisamatorypropensities,goodgovernmentisnotprobable,
thougheventhenthereareexceptions。ButFrenchhistorycountstwokings
whohavevoluntarilygiventhedirectionofaffairsduringmanyyears,the
onetohismother,theothertohissister:oneofthem,CharlesVIII,was
amereboy,butindoingsohefollowedtheintentionsofhisfatherLouis
XI,theablestmonarchofhisage。Theother,SaintLouis,wasthebest,
andoneofthemostvigorousrulers,sincethetimeofCharlemagne。Both
theseprincessesruledinamannerhardlyequalledbyanyprinceamongtheir
contemporaries。TheEmperorCharlestheFifth,themostpoliticprinceof
histime,whohadasgreatanumberofablemeninhisserviceasaruler
everhad,andwasoneoftheleastlikelyofallsovereignstosacrifice
hisinteresttopersonalfeelings,madetwoprincessesofhisfamilysuccessively
GovernorsoftheNetherlands,andkeptoneorotheroftheminthatpost
duringhiswholelife(theywereafterwardssucceededbyathird)。Bothruled
verysuccessfully,andoneofthem,MargaretofAustria,asoneoftheablest
politiciansoftheage。Somuchforonesideofthequestion。Nowastothe
other。Whenitissaidthatunderqueensmengovern,isthesamemeaning
tobeunderstoodaswhenkingsaresaidtobegovernedbywomen?Isitmeant
thatqueenschooseastheirinstrumentsofgovernment,theassociatesof
theirpersonalpleasures?Thecaseisrareevenwiththosewhoareasunscrupulous
onthelatterpointasCatherineII:anditisnotinthesecasesthatthe
goodgovernment,allegedtoarisefrommaleinfluence,istobefound。If
itbetrue,then,thattheadministrationisinthehandsofbettermenunder
aqueenthanunderanaverageking,itmustbethatqueenshaveasuperior
capacityforchoosingthem;andwomenmustbebetterqualifiedthanmenboth
forthepositionofsovereign,andforthatofchiefminister;fortheprincipal
businessofaPrimeMinisterisnottogoverninperson,buttofindthe
fittestpersonstoconducteverydepartmentofpublicaffairs。Themorerapid
insightintocharacter,whichisoneoftheadmittedpointsofsuperiority
inwomenovermen,mustcertainlymakethem,withanythinglikeparityof
qualificationsinotherrespects,moreaptthanmeninthatchoiceofinstruments,
whichisnearlythemostimportantbusinessofeveryonewhohastodowith
governingmankind。EventheunprincipledCatherinedeMedicicouldfeelthe
valueofaChancellordel’Hopital。Butitisalsotruethatmostgreatqueens
havebeengreatbytheirowntalentsforgovernment,andhavebeenwellserved
preciselyforthatreason。Theyretainedthesupremedirectionofaffairs
intheirownhands:andiftheylistenedtogoodadvisers,theygavebythat
factthestrongestproofthattheirjudgmentfittedthemfordealingwiththegreatquestionsofgovernment。Isitreasonabletothinkthatthosewhoarefitforthegreaterfunctions
ofpolitics,areincapableofqualifyingthemselvesfortheless?Isthere
anyreasoninthenatureofthings,thatthewivesandsistersofprinces
should,whenevercalledon,befoundascompetentastheprincesthemselves
totheirbusiness,butthatthewivesandsistersofstatesmen,andadministrators,
anddirectorsofcompanies,andmanagersofpublicinstitutions,shouldbe
unabletodowhatisdonebytheirbrothersandhusbands?Therealreason
isplainenough;itisthatprincesses,beingmoreraisedabovethegenerality
ofmenbytheirrankthanplacedbelowthembytheirsex,haveneverbeen
taughtthatitwasimproperforthemtoconcernthemselveswithpolitics;
buthavebeenallowedtofeeltheliberalinterestnaturaltoanycultivated
humanbeing,inthegreattransactionswhichtookplacearoundthem,and
inwhichtheymightbecalledontotakeapart。Theladiesofreigningfamilies
aretheonlywomenwhoareallowedthesamerangeofinterestsandfreedom
ofdevelopmentasmen;anditispreciselyintheircasethatthereisnot
foundtobeanyinferiority。Exactlywhereandinproportionaswomen’scapacitiesforgovernmenthavebeentried,inthatproportionhavetheybeenfoundadequate。Thisfactisinaccordancewiththebestgeneralconclusionswhichthe
world’simperfectexperienceseemsasyettosuggest,concerningthepeculiar
tendenciesandaptitudescharacteristicofwomen,aswomenhavehitherto
been。Idonotsay,astheywillcontinuetobe;for,asIhavealreadysaid
morethanonce,Iconsideritpresumptioninanyonetopretendtodecide
whatwomenareorarenot,canorcannotbe,bynaturalconstitution。They
havealwayshithertobeenkept,asfarasregardsspontaneousdevelopment,
insounnaturalastate,thattheirnaturecannotbuthavebeengreatlydistorted
anddisguised;andnoonecansafelypronouncethatifwomen’snaturewere
lefttochooseitsdirectionasfreelyasmen’s,andifnoartificialbent
wereattemptedtobegiventoitexceptthatrequiredbytheconditionsof
humansociety,andgiventobothsexesalike,therewouldbeanymaterial
difference,orperhapsanydifferenceatall,inthecharacterandcapacities
whichwouldunfoldthemselves。Ishallpresentlyshow,thateventheleast
contestableofthedifferenceswhichnowexist,aresuchasmayverywell
havebeenproducedmerelybycircumstances,withoutanydifferenceofnatural
capacity。But,lookingatwomenastheyareknowninexperience,itmaybe
saidofthem,withmoretruththanbelongstomostothergeneralisations
onthesubject,thatthegeneralbentoftheirtalentsistowardsthepractical。
Thisstatementisconformabletoallthepublichistoryofwomen,inthe
presentandthepast。Itisnolessborneoutbycommonanddailyexperience。
Letusconsiderthespecialnatureofthementalcapacitiesmostcharacteristic
ofawomanoftalent。Theyareallofakindwhichfitsthemforpractice,
andmakesthemtendtowardsit。Whatismeantbyawoman’scapacityofintuitive
perception?Itmeans,arapidandcorrectinsightintopresentfact。Ithas
nothingtodowithgeneralprinciples。Nobodyeverperceivedascientific
lawofnaturebyintuition,norarrivedatageneralruleofdutyorprudence
byit。Theseareresultsofslowandcarefulcollectionandcomparisonof
experience;andneitherthemennorthewomen。Ofintuitionusuallyshine
inthisdepartment,unless,indeed,theexperiencenecessaryissuchasthey
canacquirebythemselves。Forwhatiscalledtheirintuitivesagacitymakes
thempeculiarlyaptingatheringsuchgeneraltruthsascanbecollected
fromtheirindividualmeansofobservation。When,consequently,theychance
tobeaswellprovidedasmenarewiththeresultsofotherpeople’sexperience,
byreadingandeducation(Iusethewordchanceadvisedly,for,inrespect
totheknowledgethattendstofitthemforthegreaterconcernsoflife,
theonlyeducatedwomenaretheself—educated)theyarebetterfurnished
thanmeningeneralwiththeessentialrequisitesofskilfulandsuccessful
practice。Menwhohavebeenmuchtaught,areapttobedeficientinthesense
ofpresentfact;theydonotsee,inthefactswhichtheyarecalledupon
todealwith,whatisreallythere,butwhattheyhavebeentaughttoexpect。
Thisisseldomthecasewithwomenofanyability。Theircapacityof\"intuition\"
preservesthemfromit。Withequalityofexperienceandofgeneralfaculties,
awomanusuallyseesmuchmorethanamanofwhatisimmediatelybeforeher。
Nowthissensibilitytothepresent,isthemainqualityonwhichthecapacity
forpractice,asdistinguishedfromtheory,depends。Todiscovergeneral
principles,belongstothespeculativefaculty:todiscernanddiscriminate
theparticularcasesinwhichtheyareandarenotapplicable,constitutes
practicaltalent:andforthis,womenastheynowarehaveapeculiaraptitude。
Iadmitthattherecanbenogoodpracticewithoutprinciples,andthatthe
predominantplacewhichquicknessofobservationholdsamongawoman’sfaculties,
makesherparticularlyapttobuildoverhastygeneralisationsuponherown
observation;thoughatthesametimenolessreadyinrectifyingthosegeneralisations,
asherobservationtakesawiderrange。Butthecorrectivetothisdefect,
isaccesstotheexperienceofthehumanrace;generalknowledge——exactly
thethingwhicheducationcanbestsupply。Awoman’smistakesarespecifically
thoseofacleverself—educatedman,whooftenseeswhatmentrainedinroutine
donotsee,butfallsintoerrorsforwantofknowingthingswhichhavelong
beenknown。Ofcoursehehasacquiredmuchofthepre—existingknowledge,
orhecouldnothavegotonatall;butwhatheknowsofithehaspickedupinfragmentsandatrandom,aswomendo。Butthisgravitationofwomen’smindstothepresent,tothereal,to
actualfact,whileinitsexclusivenessitisasourceoferrors,isalso
amostusefulcounteractiveofthecontraryerror。Theprincipalandmost
characteristicaberrationofspeculativemindsassuch,consistsprecisely
inthedeficiencyofthislivelyperceptionandever—presentsenseofobjective
fact。Forwantofthis,theyoftennotonlyoverlookthecontradictionwhich
outwardfactsopposetotheirtheories,butlosesightofthelegitimate
purposeofspeculationaltogether,andlettheirspeculativefacultiesgo
astrayintoregionsnotpeopledwithrealbeings,animateorinanimate,even
idealised,butwithpersonifiedshadowscreatedbytheillusionsofmetaphysics
orbythemereentanglementofwords,andthinktheseshadowstheproper
objectsofthehighest,themosttranscendant,philosophy。Hardlyanything
canbeofgreatervaluetoamanoftheoryandspeculationwhoemployshimself
notincollectingmaterialsofknowledgebyobservation,butinworkingthem
upbyprocessesofthoughtintocomprehensivetruthsofscienceandlaws
ofconduct,thantocarryonhisspeculationsinthecompanionship,andunder
thecriticism,ofareallysuperiorwoman。Thereisnothingcomparableto
itforkeepinghisthoughtswithinthelimitsofrealthings,andtheactual
factsofnature。Awomanseldomrunswildafteranabstraction。Thehabitual
directionofhermindtodealingwiththingsasindividualsratherthanin
groups,and(whatiscloselyconnectedwithit)hermorelivelyinterest
inthepresentfeelingsofpersons,whichmakesherconsiderfirstofall,
inanythingwhichclaimstobeappliedtopractice,inwhatmannerpersons
willbeaffectedbyit——thesetwothingsmakeherextremelyunlikelyto
putfaithinanyspeculationwhichlosessightofindividuals,anddeals
withthingsasiftheyexistedforthebenefitofsomeimaginaryentity,
somemerecreationofthemind,notresolvableintothefeelingsofliving
beings。Women’sthoughtsarethusasusefulingivingrealitytothoseof
thinkingmen,asmen’sthoughtsingivingwidthandlargenesstothoseof
women。Indepth,asdistinguishedfrombreadth,Igreatlydoubtifevennow,women,comparedwithmen,areatanydisadvantage。Iftheexistingmentalcharacteristicsofwomenarethusvaluableeven
inaidofspeculation,theyarestillmoreimportant,whenspeculationhas
doneitswork,forcarryingouttheresultsofspeculationintopractice。
Forthereasonsalreadygiven,womenarecomparativelyunlikelytofallinto
thecommonerrorofmen,thatofstickingtotheirrulesinacasewhose
specialitieseithertakeitoutoftheclasstowhichtherulesareapplicable,
orrequireaspecialadaptationofthem。Letusnowconsideranotherofthe
admittedsuperioritiesofcleverwomen,greaterquicknessofapprehension。
Isnotthispre—eminentlyaqualitywhichfitsapersonforpractice?In
action,everythingcontinuallydependsupondecidingpromptly。Inspeculation,
nothingdoes。Amerethinkercanwait,cantaketimetoconsider,cancollect
additionalevidence;heisnotobligedtocompletehisphilosophyatonce,
lesttheopportunityshouldgoby。Thepowerofdrawingthebestconclusion
possiblefrominsufficientdataisnotindeeduselessinphilosophy;the
constructionofaprovisionalhypothesisconsistentwithallknownfacts
isoftentheneedfulbasisforfurtherinquiry。Butthisfacultyisrather
serviceableinphilosophy,thanthemainqualificationforit:and,forthe
auxiliaryaswellasforthemainoperation,thephilosophercanallowhimself
anytimehepleases。Heisinnoneedofthecapacityofdoingrapidlywhat
hedoes;whatheratherneedsispatience,toworkonslowlyuntilimperfect
lightshavebecomeperfect,andaconjecturehasripenedintoatheorem。
Forthose,onthecontrary,whosebusinessiswiththefugitiveandperishable
——withindividualfacts,notkindsoffacts——rapidityofthoughtisa
qualificationnextonlyinimportancetothepowerofthoughtitself。He
whohasnothisfacultiesunderimmediatecommand,inthecontingenciesof
action,mightaswellnothavethematall。Hemaybefittocriticise,but
heisnotfittoact。Nowitisinthisthatwomen,andthemenwhoaremost
likewomen,confessedlyexcel。Theothersortofman,howeverpre—eminent
maybehisfaculties,arrivesslowlyatcompletecommandofthem:rapidity
ofjudgmentandpromptitudeofjudiciousaction,eveninthethingsheknowsbest,arethegradualandlateresultofstrenuouseffortgrownintohabit。Itwillbesaid,perhaps,thatthegreaternervoussusceptibilityofwomen
isadisqualificationforpractice,inanythingbutdomesticlife,byrendering
themmobile,changeable,toovehementlyundertheinfluenceofthemoment,
incapableofdoggedperseverance,unequalanduncertaininthepowerofusing
theirfaculties。Ithinkthatthesephrasessumupthegreaterpartofthe
objectionscommonlymadetothefitnessofwomenforthehigherclassof
seriousbusiness。Muchofallthisisthemereoverflowofnervousenergy
runtowaste,andwouldceasewhentheenergywasdirectedtoadefinite
end。Muchisalsotheresultofconsciousorunconsciouscultivation;as
weseebythealmosttotaldisappearanceof\"hysterics\"andfainting—fits,
sincetheyhavegoneoutoffashion。Moreover,whenpeoplearebroughtup,
likemanywomenofthehigherclasses(thoughlesssoinourowncountry
thananyother),akindofhot—houseplants,shieldedfromthewholesome
vicissitudesofairandtemperature,anduntrainedinanyoftheoccupations
andexerciseswhichgivestimulusanddevelopmenttothecirculatoryand
muscularsystem,whiletheirnervoussystem,especiallyinitsemotional
department,iskeptinunnaturallyactiveplay;itisnowonderifthose
ofthemwhodonotdieofconsumption,growupwithconstitutionsliable
toderangementfromslightcauses,bothinternalandexternal,andwithout
staminatosupportanytask,physicalormental,requiringcontinuityof
effort。Butwomenbroughtuptoworkfortheirlivelihoodshownoneofthese
morbidcharacteristics,unlessindeedtheyarechainedtoanexcessofsedentary
workinconfinedandunhealthyrooms。Womenwhointheirearlyyearshave
sharedinthehealthfulphysicaleducationandbodilyfreedomoftheirbrothers,
andwhoobtainasufficiencyofpureairandexerciseinafter—life,very
rarelyhaveanyexcessivesusceptibilityofnerveswhichcandisqualifythem
foractivepursuits。Thereisindeedacertainproportionofpersons,in
bothsexes,inwhomanunusualdegreeofnervoussensibilityisconstitutional,
andofsomarkedacharacterastobethefeatureoftheirorganisationwhich
exercisesthegreatestinfluenceoverthewholecharacterofthevitalphenomena。
Thisconstitution,likeotherphysicalconformations,ishereditary,and
istransmittedtosonsaswellasdaughters;butitispossible,andprobable,
thatthenervoustemperament(asitiscalled)isinheritedbyagreater
numberofwomenthanofmen。Wewillassumethisasafact:andletmethen
ask,aremenofnervoustemperamentfoundtobeunfitforthedutiesand
pursuitsusuallyfollowedbymen?Ifnot,whyshouldwomenofthesametemperament
beunfitforthem?Thepeculiaritiesofthetemperamentare,nodoubt,within
certainlimits,anobstacletosuccessinsomeemployments,thoughanaid
toitinothers。Butwhentheoccupationissuitabletothetemperament,
andsometimesevenwhenitisunsuitable,themostbrilliantexamplesof
successarecontinuallygivenbythemenofhighnervoussensibility。They
aredistinguishedintheirpracticalmanifestationschieflybythis,that
beingsusceptibleofahigherdegreeofexcitementthanthoseofanother
physicalconstitution,theirpowerswhenexciteddiffermorethaninthe
caseofotherpeople,fromthoseshownintheirordinarystate:theyare
raised,asitwere,abovethemselves,anddothingswitheasewhichthey
arewhollyincapableofatothertimes。Butthisloftyexcitementisnot,
exceptinweakbodilyconstitutions,amereflash,whichpassesawayimmediately,
leavingnopermanenttraces,andincompatiblewithpersistentandsteady
pursuitofanobject。Itisthecharacterofthenervoustemperamenttobe
capableofsustainedexcitement,holdingoutthroughlong—continuedefforts。
Itiswhatismeantbyspirit。Itiswhatmakesthehigh—bredracehorserun
withoutslackeningspeedtillhedropsdowndead。Itiswhathasenabled
somanydelicatewomentomaintainthemostsublimeconstancynotonlyat
thestake,butthroughalongpreliminarysuccessionofmentalandbodily
tortures。Itisevidentthatpeopleofthistemperamentareparticularly
aptforwhatmaybecalledtheexecutivedepartmentoftheleadershipof
mankind。Theyarethematerialofgreatorators,greatpreachers,impressive
diffusersofmoralinfluences。Theirconstitutionmightbedeemedlessfavourable
tothequalitiesrequiredfromastatesmaninthecabinet,orfromajudge。
Itwouldbeso,iftheconsequencenecessarilyfollowedthatbecausepeople
areexcitabletheymustalwaysbeinastateofexcitement。Butthisiswholly
aquestionoftraining。Strongfeelingistheinstrumentandelementofstrong
self—control:butitrequirestobecultivatedinthatdirection。Whenit
is,itformsnottheheroesofimpulseonly,butthosealsoofself—conquest。
Historyandexperienceprovethatthemostpassionatecharactersarethe
mostfanaticallyrigidintheirfeelingsofduty,whentheirpassionhas
beentrainedtoactinthatdirection。Thejudgewhogivesajustdecision
inacasewherehisfeelingsareintenselyinterestedontheotherside,
derivesfromthatsamestrengthoffeelingthedeterminedsenseoftheobligation
ofjustice,whichenableshimtoachievethisvictoryoverhimself。Thecapability
ofthatloftyenthusiasmwhichtakesthehumanbeingoutofhisevery—day
character,reactsuponthedailycharacteritself。Hisaspirationsandpowers
whenheisinthisexceptionalstate,becomethetypewithwhichhecompares,
andbywhichheestimates,hissentimentsandproceedingsatothertimes:
andhishabitualpurposesassumeacharactermouldedbyandassimilatedto
themomentsofloftyexcitement,althoughthose,fromthephysicalnature
ofahumanbeing,canonlybetransient。Experienceofraces,aswellas
ofindividuals,doesnotshowthoseofexcitabletemperamenttobelessfit,
ontheaverage,eitherforspeculationorpractice,thanthemoreunexcitable。
TheFrench,andtheItalians,areundoubtedlybynaturemorenervouslyexcitable
thantheTeutonicraces,and,comparedatleastwiththeEnglish,theyhave
amuchgreaterhabitualanddailyemotionallife:buthavetheybeenless
greatinscience,inpublicbusiness,inlegalandjudicialeminence,or
inwar?ThereisabundantevidencethattheGreekswereofold,astheir
descendantsandsuccessorsstillare,oneofthemostexcitableoftheraces
ofmankind。Itissuperfluoustoask,whatamongtheachievementsofmen
theydidnotexcelin。TheRomans,probably,asanequallysouthernpeople,
hadthesameoriginaltemperament:butthesterncharacteroftheirnational
discipline,likethatoftheSpartans,madethemanexampleoftheopposite
typeofnationalcharacter;thegreaterstrengthoftheirnaturalfeelings
beingchieflyapparentintheintensitywhichthesameoriginaltemperament
madeitpossibletogivetotheartificial。Ifthesecasesexemplifywhat
anaturallyexcitablepeoplemaybemade,theIrishCeltsaffordoneofthe
aptestexamplesofwhattheyarewhenlefttothemselves;(ifthosecanbe
saidtobelefttothemselveswhohavebeenforcenturiesundertheindirect
influenceofbadgovernment,andthedirecttrainingofaCatholichierarchy
andofasincerebeliefintheCatholicreligion)。TheIrishcharactermust
beconsidered,therefore,asanunfavourablecase:yet,wheneverthecircumstances
oftheindividualhavebeenatallfavourable,whatpeoplehaveshowngreater
capacityforthemostvariedandmultifariousindividualeminence?Likethe
FrenchcomparedwiththeEnglish,theIrishwiththeSwiss,theGreeksor
ItalianscomparedwiththeGermanraces,sowomencomparedwithmenmaybe
found,ontheaverage,todothesamethingswithsomevarietyintheparticular
kindofexcellence。But,thattheywoulddothemfullyaswellonthewhole,
iftheireducationandcultivationwereadaptedtocorrectinginsteadof
aggravatingtheinfirmitiesincidenttotheirtemperament,Iseenotthesmallestreasontodoubt。Supposingit,however,tobetruethatwomen’smindsarebynaturemore
mobilethanthoseofmen,lesscapableofpersistinglonginthesamecontinuous
effort,morefittedfordividingtheirfacultiesamongmanythingsthanfor
travellinginanyonepathtothehighestpointwhichcanbereachedbyit:
thismaybetrueofwomenastheynoware(thoughnotwithoutgreatandnumerous
exceptions),andmayaccountfortheirhavingremainedbehindthehighest
orderofmeninpreciselythethingsinwhichthisabsorptionofthewhole
mindinonesetofideasandoccupationsmayseemtobemostrequisite。Still,
thisdifferenceisonewhichcanonlyaffectthekindofexcellence,not
theexcellenceitself,oritspracticalworth:anditremainstobeshown
whetherthisexclusiveworkingofapartofthemind,thisabsorptionof
thewholethinkingfacultyinasinglesubject,andconcentrationofiton
asinglework,isthenormalandhealthfulconditionofthehumanfaculties,
evenforspeculativeuses。Ibelievethatwhatisgainedinspecialdevelopment
bythisconcentration,islostinthecapacityofthemindfortheother
purposesoflife;andeveninabstractthought,itismydecidedopinion
thattheminddoesmorebyfrequentlyreturningtoadifficultproblem,than
bystickingtoitwithoutinterruption。Forthepurposes,atallevents,
ofpractice,fromitshighesttoitshumblestdepartments,thecapacityof
passingpromptlyfromonesubjectofconsiderationtoanother,withoutletting
theactivespringoftheintellectrundownbetweenthetwo,isapowerfar
morevaluable;andthispowerwomenpre—eminentlypossess,byvirtueofthe
verymobilityofwhichtheyareaccused。Theyperhapshaveitfromnature,
buttheycertainlyhaveitbytrainingandeducation;fornearlythewhole
oftheoccupationsofwomenconsistinthemanagementofsmallbutmultitudinous
details,oneachofwhichthemindcannotdwellevenforaminute,butmust
passontootherthings,andifanythingrequireslongerthought,muststeal
timeatoddmomentsforthinkingofit。Thecapacityindeedwhichwomenshow
fordoingtheirthinkingincircumstancesandattimeswhichalmostanyman
wouldmakeanexcusetohimselffornotattemptingit,hasoftenbeennoticed:
andawoman’smind,thoughitmaybeoccupiedonlywithsmallthings,can
hardlyeverpermititselftobevacant,asaman’ssoofteniswhennot
engagedinwhathechoosestoconsiderthebusinessofhislife。Thebusiness
ofawoman’sordinarylifeisthingsingeneral,andcanaslittleceasetogoonastheworldtogoround。But(itissaid)thereisanatomicalevidenceofthesuperiormentalcapacity
ofmencomparedwithwomen:theyhavealargerbrain。Ireply,thatinthe
firstplacethefactitselfisdoubtful。Itisbynomeansestablishedthat
thebrainofawomanissmallerthanthatofaman。Ifitisinferredmerely
becauseawoman’sbodilyframegenerallyisoflessdimensionsthanaman’s,
thiscriterionwouldleadtostrangeconsequences。Atallandlarge—boned
manmustonthisshowingbewonderfullysuperiorinintelligencetoasmall
man,andanelephantorawhalemustprodigiouslyexcelmankind。Thesize
ofthebraininhumanbeings,anatomistssay,variesmuchlessthanthesize
ofthebody,orevenofthehead,andtheonecannotbeatallinferredfrom
theother。Itiscertainthatsomewomenhaveaslargeabrainasanyman。
Itiswithinmyknowledgethatamanwhohadweighedmanyhumanbrains,said
thattheheaviestheknewof,heaviereventhanCuvier’s(theheaviestpreviously
recorded),wasthatofawoman。Next,Imustobservethatthepreciserelation
whichexistsbetweenthebrainandtheintellectualpowersisnotyetwell
understood,butisasubjectofgreatdispute。Thatthereisaveryclose
relationwecannotdoubt。Thebrainiscertainlythematerialorganofthought
andfeeling:and(makingabstractionofthegreatunsettledcontroversyrespecting
theappropriationofdifferentpartsofthebraintodifferentmentalfaculties)
Iadmitthatitwouldbeananomaly,andanexceptiontoallweknowofthe
generallawsoflifeandorganisation,ifthesizeoftheorganwerewholly
indifferenttothefunction;ifnoaccessionofpowerwerederivedfromthe
greatmagnitudeoftheinstrument。Buttheexceptionandtheanomalywould
befullyasgreatiftheorganexercisedinfluencebyitsmagnitudeonly。
Inallthemoredelicateoperationsofnature——ofwhichthoseoftheanimated
creationarethemostdelicate,andthoseofthenervoussystembyfarthe
mostdelicateofthese——differencesintheeffectdependasmuchondifferences
ofqualityinthephysicalagents,asontheirquantity:andifthequality
ofaninstrumentistobetestedbythenicetyanddelicacyoftheworkit
cando,theindicationspointtoagreateraveragefinenessofqualityin
thebrainandnervoussystemofwomenthanofmen。Dismissingabstractdifference
ofquality,athingdifficulttoverify,theefficiencyofanorganisknown
todependnotsolelyonitssizebutonitsactivity:andofthiswehave
anapproximatemeasureintheenergywithwhichthebloodcirculatesthrough
it,boththestimulusandthereparativeforcebeingmainlydependenton
thecirculation。Itwouldnotbesurprising——itisindeedanhypothesis
whichaccordswellwiththedifferencesactuallyobservedbetweenthemental
operationsofthetwosexes——ifmenontheaverageshouldhavetheadvantage
inthesizeofthebrain,andwomeninactivityofcerebralcirculation。
Theresultswhichconjecture,foundedonanalogy,wouldleadustoexpect
fromthisdifferenceoforganisation,wouldcorrespondtosomeofthosewhich
wemostcommonlysee。Inthefirstplace,thementaloperationsofmenmight
beexpectedtobeslower。Theywouldneitherbesopromptaswomeninthinking,
norsoquicktofeel。Largebodiestakemoretimetogetintofullaction。
Ontheotherhand,whenoncegotthoroughlyintoplay,men’sbrainwould
bearmorework。Itwouldbemorepersistentinthelinefirsttaken;itwould
havemoredifficultyinchangingfromonemodeofactiontoanother,but,
intheonethingitwasdoing,itcouldgoonlongerwithoutlossofpower
orsenseoffatigue。Anddowenotfindthatthethingsinwhichmenmost
excelwomenarethosewhichrequiremostploddingandlonghammeringata
singlethought,whilewomendobestwhatmustbedonerapidly?Awoman’s
brainissoonerfatigued,soonerexhausted;butgiventhedegreeofexhaustion,
weshouldexpecttofindthatitwouldrecoveritselfsooner。Irepeatthat
thisspeculationisentirelyhypothetical;itpretendstonomorethanto
suggestalineofinquiry。Ihavebeforerepudiatedthenotionofitsbeing
yetcertainlyknownthatthereisanynaturaldifferenceatallintheaverage
strengthordirectionofthementalcapacitiesofthetwosexes,muchless
whatthatdifferenceis。Norisitpossiblethatthisshouldbeknown,so
longasthepsychologicallawsoftheformationofcharacterhavebeenso
littlestudied,eveninageneralway,andintheparticularcaseneverscientifically
appliedatall;solongasthemostobviousexternalcausesofdifference
ofcharacterarehabituallydisregarded——leftunnoticedbytheobserver,
andlookeddownuponwithakindofsuperciliouscontemptbytheprevalent
schoolsbothofnaturalhistoryandofmentalphilosophy:who,whetherthey
lookforthesourceofwhatmainlydistinguisheshumanbeingsfromoneanother,
intheworldofmatterorinthatofspirit,agreeinrunningdownthose
whoprefertoexplainthesedifferencesbythedifferentrelationsofhumanbeingstosocietyandlife。Tosoridiculousanextentarethenotionsformedofthenatureofwomen,
mereempiricalgeneralisations,framed,withoutphilosophyoranalysis,upon
thefirstinstanceswhichpresentthemselves,thatthepopularideaofit
isdifferentindifferentcountries,accordingastheopinionsandsocial
circumstancesofthecountryhavegiventothewomenlivinginitanyspeciality
ofdevelopmentornon—development。Anorientalthinksthatwomenarebynature
peculiarlyvoluptuous;seetheviolentabuseofthemonthisgroundinHindoo
writings。AnEnglishmanusuallythinksthattheyarebynaturecold。The
sayingsaboutwomen’sficklenessaremostlyofFrenchorigin;fromthefamous
distichofFrancistheFirst,upwardanddownward。InEnglanditisacommon
remark,howmuchmoreconstantwomenarethanmen。Inconstancyhasbeenlonger
reckoneddiscreditabletoawoman,inEnglandthaninFrance;andEnglishwomen
arebesides,intheirinmostnature,muchmoresubduedtoopinion。Itmay
beremarkedbytheway,thatEnglishmenareinpeculiarlyunfavourablecircumstances
forattemptingtojudgewhatisorisnotnatural,notmerelytowomen,but
tomen,ortohumanbeingsaltogether,atleastiftheyhaveonlyEnglish
experiencetogoupon:becausethereisnoplacewherehumannatureshows
solittleofitsoriginallineaments。Bothinagoodandabadsense,the
Englisharefartherfromastateofnaturethananyothermodernpeople。
Theyare,morethananyotherpeople,aproductofcivilisationanddiscipline。
Englandisthecountryinwhichsocialdisciplinehasmostsucceeded,not
somuchinconquering,asinsuppressing,whateverisliabletoconflict
withit。TheEnglish,morethananyotherpeople,notonlyactbutfeelaccording
torule。Inothercountries,thetaughtopinion,ortherequirementofsociety,
maybethestrongerpower,butthepromptingsoftheindividualnatureare
alwaysvisibleunderit,andoftenresistingit:rulemaybestrongerthan
nature,butnatureisstillthere。InEngland,rulehastoagreatdegree
substituteditselffornature。Thegreaterpartoflifeiscarriedon,not
byfollowinginclinationunderthecontrolofrule,butbyhavingnoinclination
butthatoffollowingarule。Nowthishasitsgoodsidedoubtless,though
ithasalsoawretchedlybadone;butitmustrenderanEnglishmanpeculiarly
ill—qualifiedtopassajudgmentontheoriginaltendenciesofhumannature
fromhisownexperience。Theerrorstowhichobserverselsewhereareliable
onthesubject,areofadifferentcharacter。AnEnglishmanisignorantrespecting
humannature,aFrenchmanisprejudiced。AnEnglishman’serrorsarenegative,
aFrenchman’spositive。AnEnglishmanfanciesthatthingsdonotexist,because
heneverseesthem;aFrenchmanthinkstheymustalwaysandnecessarilyexist,
becausehedoesseethem。AnEnglishmandoesnotknownature,becausehe
hashadnoopportunityofobservingit;aFrenchmangenerallyknowsagreat
dealofit,butoftenmistakesit,becausehehasonlyseenitsophisticated
anddistorted。Fortheartificialstatesuperinducedbysocietydisguises
thenaturaltendenciesofthethingwhichisthesubjectofobservation,
intwodifferentways:byextinguishingthenature,orbytransformingit。
Intheonecasethereisbutastarvedresiduumofnatureremainingtobe
studied;intheothercasethereismuch,butitmayhaveexpandedinanydirectionratherthanthatinwhichitwouldspontaneouslygrow。Ihavesaidthatitcannotnowbeknownhowmuchoftheexistingmental
differencesbetweenmenandwomenisnaturalandhowmuchartificial;whether
thereareanynaturaldifferencesatall;or,supposingallartificialcauses
ofdifferencetobewithdrawn,whatnaturalcharacterwouldberevealedI
amnotabouttoattemptwhatIhavepronouncedimpossible:butdoubtdoes
notforbidconjecture,andwherecertaintyisunattainable,theremayyet
bethemeansofarrivingatsomedegreeofprobability。Thefirstpoint,
theoriginofthedifferencesactuallyobserved,istheonemostaccessible
tospeculation;andIshallattempttoapproachit,bytheonlypathbywhich
itcanbereached;bytracingthementalconsequencesofexternalinfluences。
Wecannotisolateahumanbeingfromthecircumstancesofhiscondition,
soastoascertainexperimentallywhathewouldhavebeenbynature;but
wecanconsiderwhatheis,andwhathiscircumstanceshavebeen,andwhethertheonewouldhavebeencapableofproducingtheother。Letustake,then,theonlymarkedcasewhichobservationaffords,of
apparentinferiorityofwomentomen,ifweexceptthemerelyphysicalone
ofbodilystrength。Noproductioninphilosophy,science,orart,entitled
tothefirstrank,hasbeentheworkofawoman。Isthereanymodeofaccounting
forthis,withoutsupposingthatwomenarenaturallyincapableofproducingthem?Inthefirstplace,wemayfairlyquestionwhetherexperiencehasafforded
sufficientgroundsforaninduction。Itisscarcelythreegenerationssince
women,savingveryrareexceptionshavebeguntotrytheircapacityinphilosophy,
science,orart。Itisonlyinthepresentgenerationthattheirattempts
havebeenatallnumerous;andtheyareevennowextremelyfew,everywhere
butinEnglandandFrance。Itisarelevantquestion,whetheramindpossessing
therequisitesoffirstrateeminenceinspeculationorcreativeartcould
havebeenexpected,onthemerecalculationofchances,toturnupduring
thatlapseoftime,amongthewomenwhosetastesandpersonalpositionadmitted
oftheirdevotingthemselvestothesepursuitsInallthingswhichthere
hasyetbeentimefor——inallbuttheveryhighestgradesinthescale
ofexcellence,especiallyinthedepartmentinwhichtheyhavebeenlongest
engaged,literature(bothproseandpoetry)——womenhavedonequiteasmuch,
haveobtainedfullyashighprizesandasmanyofthem,ascouldbeexpected
fromthelengthoftimeandthenumberofcompetitors。Ifwegobacktothe
earlierperiodwhenveryfewwomenmadetheattempt,yetsomeofthosefew
madeitwithdistinguishedsuccess。TheGreeksalwaysaccountedSapphoamong
theirgreatpoets;andwemaywellsupposethatMyrtis,saidtohavebeen
theteacherofPindar,andCorinna,whofivetimesboreawayfromhimthe
prizeofpoetry,mustatleasthavehadsufficientmerittoadmitofbeing
comparedwiththatgreatname。Aspasiadidnotleaveanyphilosophicalwritings;
butitisanadmittedfactthatSocratesresortedtoherforinstruction,andavowedhimselftohaveobtainedit。Ifweconsidertheworksofwomeninmoderntimes,andcontrastthemwith
thoseofmen,eitherintheliteraryortheartisticdepartment,suchinferiority
asmaybeobservedresolvesitselfessentiallyintoonething:butthatis
amostmaterialone;deficiencyoforiginality。Nottotaldeficiency;for
everyproductionofmindwhichisofanysubstantivevalue,hasanoriginality
ofitsown——isaconceptionoftheminditself,notacopyofsomething
else。Thoughtsoriginal,inthesenseofbeingunborrowed——ofbeingderived
fromthethinker’sownobservationsorintellectualprocesses——areabundant
inthewritingsofwomen。Buttheyhavenotyetproducedanyofthosegreat
andluminousnewideaswhichformanerainthought,northosefundamentally
newconceptionsinart,whichopenavistaofpossibleeffectsnotbefore
thoughtof,andfoundanewschool。Theircompositionsaremostlygrounded
ontheexistingfundofthought,andtheircreationsdo—notdeviatewidely
fromexistingtypes。Thisisthesortofinferioritywhichtheirworksmanifest:
forinpointofexecution,inthedetailedapplicationofthought,andthe
perfectionofstyle,thereisnoinferiority。Ourbestnovelistsinpoint
ofcomposition,andofthemanagementofdetail,havemostlybeenwomen;
andthereisnotinallmodernliteratureamoreeloquentvehicleofthought
thanthestyleofMadamedeStael,nor,asaspecimenofpurelyartistic
excellence,anythingsuperiortotheproseofMadameSand,whosestyleacts
uponthenervoussystemlikeasymphonyofHaydnorMozart。Highoriginality
ofconceptionis,asIhavesaid,whatischieflywanting。Andnowtoexamineifthereisanymannerinwhichthisdeficiencycanbeaccountedfor。Letusremember,then,sofarasregardsmerethought,thatduringall
thatperiodintheworld’sexistence,andintheprogressofcultivation,
inwhichgreatandfruitfulnewtruthsIcouldbearrivedatbymereforce
ofgenius,withlittlepreciousstudyandaccumulationofknowledge——during
allthattimewomendidnotconcernthemselveswithspeculationatall。From
thedaysofHypatiatothoseoftheReformation,theillustriousHeloisa
isalmosttheonlywomantowhomanysuchachievementmighthavebeenpossible;
andweknownothowgreatacapacityofspeculationinhermayhavebeen
losttomankindbythemisfortunesofherlife。Neversinceanyconsiderable
numberofwomenhavebegantocultivateseriousthought,hasoriginality
beenpossibleoneasyterms。Nearlyallthethoughtswhichcanbereached
bymerestrengthoforiginalfaculties,havelongsincebeenarrivedat;
andoriginality,inanyhighsenseoftheword,isnowscarcelyeverattained
butbymindswhichhaveundergoneelaboratediscipline,andaredeeplyversed
intheresultsofpreviousthinking。ItisMr。Maurice,Ithink,whohas
remarkedonthepresentage,thatitsmostoriginalthinkersarethosewho
haveknownmostthoroughlywhathadbeenthoughtbytheir;predecessors:
andthiswillalwayshenceforthbethecase。Everyfreshstoneintheedifice
hasnowtobeplacedonthetopofsomanyothers,thatalongprocessof
climbing,andofcarryingupmaterials,hastobegonethroughbywhoever
aspirestotakeashareinthepresentstageofthework。Howmanywomen
aretherewhohavegonethroughanysuchprocess?Mrs。Somerville,alone
perhapsofwomen,knowsasmuchofmathematicsasisnowneedfulformaking
anyconsiderablemathematicaldiscovery:isitanyproofofinferiorityin
women,thatshehasnothappenedtobeoneofthetwoorthreepersonswho
inherlifetimehaveassociatedtheirnameswithsomestrikingadvancement
ofthescience?Twowomen,sincepoliticaleconomyhasbeenmadeascience,
haveknownenoughofittowriteusefullyonthesubject:ofhowmanyof
theinnumerablemenwhohavewrittenonitduringthesametime,isitpossible
withtruthtosaymore?Ifnowomanhashithertobeenagreathistorian,
whatwomanhashadthenecessaryerudition?Ifnowomanisagreatphilologist,
whatwomanhasstudiedSanscritandSlavonic,theGothicofUlphilaandthe
PersicoftheZendavesta?Eveninpracticalmattersweallknowwhatisthe
valueoftheoriginalityofuntaughtgeniuses。Itmeans,inventingoveragain
initsrudimentaryformsomethingalreadyinventedandimproveduponbymany
successiveinventors。Whenwomenhavehadthepreparationwhichallmennow
requiretobeeminentlyoriginal,itwillbetimeenoughtobeginjudgingbyexperienceoftheircapacityfororiginality。Itnodoubtoftenhappensthataperson,whohasnotwidelyandaccurately
studiedthethoughtsofothersonasubject,hasbynaturalsagacityahappy
intuition,whichhecansuggest,butcannotprove,whichyetwhenmatured
maybeanimportantadditiontoknowledge:buteventhen,nojusticecan
bedonetoituntilsomeotherperson,whodoespossessthepreviousacquirements,
takesitinhand,testsit,givesitascientificorpracticalform,and
fitsitintoitsplaceamongtheexistingtruthsofphilosophyorscience。
Isitsupposedthatsuchfelicitousthoughtsdonotoccurtowomen?They
occurbyhundredstoeverywomanofintellect。Buttheyaremostlylost,
forwantofahusbandorfriendwhohastheotherknowledgewhichcanenable
himtoestimatethemproperlyandbringthembeforetheworld:andevenwhen
theyarebroughtbeforeit,theygenerallyappearashisideas,nottheir
realauthor’s。Whocantellhowmanyofthemostoriginalthoughtsputforth
bymalewriters,belongtoawomanbysuggestion,tothemselvesonlybyverifyingandworkingout?IfImayjudgebymyowncase,averylargeproportionindeed。Ifweturnfrompurespeculationtoliteratureinthenarrowsenseof
theterm,andthefinearts,thereisaveryobviousreasonwhywomen’sliterature
is,initsgeneralconceptionandinitsmainfeatures,animitationofmen’s。
WhyistheRomanliterature,ascriticsproclaimtosatiety,notoriginal,
butanimitationoftheGreek?SimplybecausetheGreekscamefirst。Ifwomen
livedinadifferentcountryfrommen,andhadneverreadanyoftheirwritings,
theywouldhavehadaliteratureoftheirown。Asitis,theyhavenotcreated
one,becausetheyfoundahighlyadvancedliteraturealreadycreated。If
therehadbeennosuspensionoftheknowledgeofantiquity,oriftheRenaissance
hadoccurredbeforetheGothiccathedralswerebuilt,theyneverwouldhave
beenbuilt。Weseethat,inFranceandItaly,imitationoftheancientliterature
stoppedtheoriginaldevelopmentevenafterithadcommenced。Allwomenwho
writearepupilsofthegreatmalewriters。Apainter’searlypictures,even
ifhebeaRaffaello,areundistinguishableinstylefromthoseofhismaster。
EvenaMozartdoesnotdisplayhispowerfuloriginalityinhisearliestpieces。
Whatyearsaretoagiftedindividual,generationsaretoamass。Ifwomen’s
literatureisdestinedtohaveadifferentcollectivecharacterfromthat
ofmen,dependingonanydifferenceofnaturaltendencies,muchlongertime
isnecessarythanhasyetelapsed,beforeitcanemancipateitselffromthe
influenceofacceptedmodels,andguideitselfbyitsownimpulses。Butif,
asIbelieve,therewillnotprovetobeanynaturaltendenciescommonto
women,anddistinguishingtheirgeniusfromthatofmen,yeteveryindividual
writeramongthemhasherindividualtendencies,whichatpresentarestill
subduedbytheinfluenceofprecedentandexample:anditwillrequiregenerations
more,beforetheirindividualityissufficientlydevelopedtomakeheadagainstthatinfluence。###第5章Itisinthefinearts,properlysocalled,thattheprimafacieevidence
ofinferiororiginalpowersinwomenatfirstsightappearsthestrongest:
sinceopinion(itmaybesaid)doesnotexcludethemfromthese,butrather
encouragesthem,andtheireducation,insteadofpassingoverthisdepartment,
isintheaffluentclassesmainlycomposedofit。Yetinthislineofexertion
theyhavefallenstillmoreshortthaninmanyothers,ofthehighesteminence
attainedbymen。Thisshortcoming,however,needsnootherexplanationthan
thefamiliarfact,moreuniversallytrueinthefineartsthaninanything
else;thevastsuperiorityofprofessionalpersonsoveramateurs。Womenin
theeducatedclassesarealmostuniversallytaughtmoreorlessofsomebranch
orotherofthefinearts,butnotthattheymaygaintheirlivingortheir
socialconsequencebyit。Womenartistsareallamateurs。Theexceptions
areonlyofthekindwhichconfirmthegeneraltruth。Womenaretaughtmusic,
Ibutnotforthepurposeofcomposing,onlyofexecutingit:andaccordingly
itisonlyascomposers,thatmen,inmusic,aresuperiortowomen。Theonly
oneofthefineartswhichwomendofollow,toanyextent,asaprofession,
andanoccupationforlife,isthehistrionic;andinthattheyareconfessedly
equal,ifnotsuperior,tomen。Tomakethecomparisonfair,itshouldbe
madebetweentheproductionsofwomeninanybranchofart,andthoseof
mennotfollowingitasaprofession。Inmusicalcomposition,forexample,
womensurelyhaveproducedfullyasgoodthingsashaveeverbeenproduced
bymaleamateurs。Therearenowafewwomen,averyfew,whopractisepainting
asaprofession,andthesearealreadybeginningtoshowquiteasmuchtalent
ascouldbeexpected。Evenmalepainters(paceMr。Ruskin)havenotmade
anyveryremarkablefiguretheselastcenturies,anditwillbelongbefore
theydoso。Thereasonwhytheoldpaintersweresogreatlysuperiortothe
modern,isthatagreatlysuperiorclassofmenappliedthemselvestothe
art。InthefourteenthandfifteenthcenturiestheItalianpainterswere
themostaccomplishedmenoftheirage。Thegreatestofthemweremenof
encyclopaedicalacquirementsandpowers,likethegreatmenofGreece。But
intheirtimesfineartwas,tomen’sfeelingsandconceptions,amongthe
grandestthingsinwhichahumanbeingcouldexcel;andbyitmenweremade,—
whatonlypoliticalormilitarydistinctionnowmakesthem,thecompanions
ofsovereigns,andtheequalsofthehighestnobility。Inthepresentage,
menofanythinglikesimilarcalibrefindsomethingmore—importanttodo,
fortheirownfameandtheusesofthemodernworld,thanpainting:andit
isonlynowandthenthataReynoldsoraTurner(ofwhoserelativerank
amongeminentmenIdonotpretendtoanopinion)applieshimselftothat
art。Musicbelongstoadifferentorderofthings:itdoesnotrequirethe
samegeneralpowersofmind,butseemsmoredependentonanaturalgift:
anditmaybethoughtsurprisingthatnooneofthegreatmusicalcomposers
hasbeenawoman。Buteventhisnaturalgift,tobemadeavailableforgreat
creations,requiresstudy,andprofessionaldevotiontothepursuit。The
onlycountrieswhichhaveproducedfirst—ratecomposers,evenofthemale
sex,areGermanyandItaly——countriesinwhich,bothinpointofspecial
andofgeneralcultivation,womenhaveremainedfarbehindFranceandEngland,
beinggenerally(itmaybesaidwithoutexaggeration)verylittleeducated,
andhavingscarcelycultivatedatallanyofthehigherfacultiesofmind。
Andinthosecountriesthemenwhoareacquaintedwiththeprinciplesof
musicalcompositionmustbecountedbyhundreds,ormoreprobablybythousands,
thewomenbarelybyscores:sothathereagain,onthedoctrineofaverages,
wecannotreasonablyexpecttoseemorethanoneeminentwomantofiftyeminent
men;andthelastthreecenturieshavenotproducedfiftyeminentmalecomposerseitherinGermanyorinItaly。Thereareotherreasons,besidesthosewhichwehavenowgiven,thathelp
toexplainwhywomenremainbehindmen,eveninthepursuitswhichareopen
toboth。Foronething,veryfewwomenhavetimeforthem。Thismayseem
aparadox;itisanundoubtedsocialfact。Thetimeandthoughtsofevery
womanhavetosatisfygreatpreviousdemandsonthemforthingspractical。
Thereis,first,thesuperintendenceofthefamilyandthedomesticexpenditure,
whichoccupiesatleastonewomanineveryfamily,generallytheoneofmature
yearsandacquiredexperience;unlessthefamilyissorichastoadmitof
delegatingthattasktohiredagency,andsubmittingtoallthewasteand
malversationinseparablefromthatmodeofconductingit。Thesuperintendence
ofahousehold,evenwhennotinotherrespectslaborious,isextremelyonerous
tothethoughts;itrequiresincessantvigilance,aneyewhichnodetail
escapes,andpresentsquestionsforconsiderationandsolution,foreseen
andunforeseen,ateveryhouroftheday,fromwhichthepersonresponsible
forthemcanhardlyevershakeherselffree。Ifawomanisofarankand
circumstanceswhichrelieveherinameasurefromthesecares,shehasstill
devolvingonherthemanagementforthewholefamilyofitsintercoursewith
others——ofwhatiscalledsociety,andthelessthecallmadeonherby
theformerduty,thegreaterisalwaysthedevelopmentofthelatter:the
dinnerparties,concerts,eveningparties,morningvisits,letter—writing,
andallthatgoeswiththem。Allthisisoverandabovetheengrossingduty
whichsocietyimposesexclusivelyonwomen,ofmakingthemselvescharming。
Acleverwomanofthehigherranksfindsnearlyasufficientemploymentof
hertalentsincultivatingthegracesofmannerandtheartsofconversation。
Tolookonlyattheoutwardsideofthesubject:thegreatandcontinual
exerciseofthoughtwhichallwomenwhoattachanyvaluetodressingwell
(Idonotmeanexpensively,butwithtaste,andperceptionofnaturaland
ofartificialconvenance)mustbestowupontheirowndress,perhapsalso
uponthatoftheirdaughters,wouldalonegoagreatwaytowardsachieving
respectableresultsinart,orscience,orliterature,anddoesactually
exhaustmuchofthetimeandmentalpowertheymighthavetospareforeither。(2*)
Ifitwerepossiblethatallthisnumberoflittlepracticalinterests(which
aremadegreattothem)shouldleavethemeithermuchleisure,ormuchenergy
andfreedomofmind,tobedevotedtoartorspeculation,theymusthave
amuchgreateroriginalsupplyofactivefacultythanthevastmajorityof
men。Butthisisnotall。Independentlyoftheregularofficesoflifewhich
devolveuponawoman,sheisexpectedtohavehertimeandfacultiesalways
atthedisposalofeverybody。Ifamanhasnotaprofessiontoexempthim
fromsuchdemands,still,ifhehasapursuit,heoffendsnobodybydevoting
histimetoit;occupationisreceivedasavalidexcuseforhisnotanswering
toeverycasualdemandwhichmaybemadeonhim。Areawoman’soccupations,
especiallyherchosenandvoluntaryones,everregardedasexcusingherfrom
anyofwhataretermedthecallsofsociety?Scarcelyarehermostnecessary
andrecogniseddutiesallowedasanexemption。Itrequiresanillnessin
thefamily,orsomethingelseoutofthecommonway,toentitlehertogive
herownbusinesstheprecedenceoverotherpeople’samusement。Shemustalways
beatthebeckandcallofsomebody,generallyofeverybody。Ifshehasa
studyorapursuit,shemustsnatchanyshortintervalwhichaccidentally
occurstobeemployedinit。Acelebratedwoman,inaworkwhichIhopewill
somedaybepublished,remarkstrulythateverythingawomandoesisdone
atoddtimes。Isitwonderful,then,ifshedoesnotattainthehighesteminence
inthingswhichrequireconsecutiveattention,andtheconcentrationonthem
ofthechiefinterestoflife?Suchisphilosophy,andsuch,aboveall,is
art,inwhich,besidesthedevotionofthethoughtsandfeelings,thehandalsomustbekeptinconstantexercisestoattainhighskill。Thereisanotherconsiderationtobeaddedtoallthese。Inthevarious
artsandintellectualoccupations,thereisadegreeofproficiencysufficient
forlivingbyit,andthereisahigherdegreeonwhichdependthegreat
productionswhichimmortaliseaname。Totheattainmentoftheformer,there
areadequatemotivesinthecaseofallwhofollowthepursuitprofessionally:
theotherishardlyeverattainedwherethereisnot,orwheretherehas
notbeenatsomeperiodoflife,anardentdesireofcelebrity。Nothingless
iscommonlyasufficientstimulustoundergothelongandpatientdrudgery,
which,inthecaseevenofthegreatestnaturalgifts,isabsolutelyrequired
forgreateminenceinpursuitsinwhichwealreadypossesssomanysplendid
memorialsofthehighestgenius。Now,whetherthecausebenaturalorartificial,
womenseldomhavethiseagernessforfame。Theirambitionisgenerallyconfined
withinnarrowerbounds。Theinfluencetheyseekisoverthosewhoimmediately
surroundthem。Theirdesireistobeliked,loved,oradmired,bythosewhom
theyseewiththeireyes:andtheproficiencyinknowledge,arts,andaccomplishments,
whichissufficientforthat,almostalwayscontentsthem。Thisisatrait
ofcharacterwhichcannotbeleftoutoftheaccountinjudgingofwomen
astheyare。Idonotatallbelievethatitisinherentinwomen。Itis
onlythenaturalresultoftheircircumstances。Theloveoffameinmenis
encouragedbyeducationandopinion:to\"scorndelightsandlivelaborious
days\"foritssake,isaccountedthepartof\"nobleminds,\"
evenifspokenofastheir\"lastinfirmity,\"andisstimulated
bytheaccesswhichfamegivestoallobjectsofambition,includingeven
thefavourofwomen;whiletowomenthemselvesalltheseobjectsareclosed,
andthedesireoffameitselfconsidereddaringandunfeminine。Besides,
howcoulditbethatawoman’sinterestsshouldnotbeallconcentratedupon
theimpressionsmadeonthosewhocomeintoherdailylife,whensociety
hasordainedthatallherdutiesshouldbetothem,andhascontrivedthat
allhercomfortsshoulddependonthem?Thenaturaldesireofconsideration
fromourfellow—creaturesisasstronginawomanasinaman;butsociety
hassoorderedthingsthatpublicconsiderationis,inallordinarycases,
onlyattainablebyherthroughtheconsiderationofherhusbandorofher
malerelations,whileherprivateconsiderationisforfeitedbymakingherself
individuallyprominent,orappearinginanyothercharacterthanthatof
anappendagetomen。Whoeverisintheleastcapableofestimatingtheinfluence
onthemindoftheentiredomesticandsocialpositionandthewholehabit
ofalife,musteasilyrecogniseinthatinfluenceacompleteexplanation
ofnearlyalltheapparentdifferencesbetweenwomenandmen,includingthewholeofthosewhichimplyanyinferiority。Asformoraldifferences,consideredasdistinguishedfromintellectual,
thedistinctioncommonlydrawnistotheadvantageofwomen。Theyaredeclared
tobebetterthanmen;anemptycompliment,whichmustprovokeabittersmile
fromeverywomanofspirit,sincethereisnoothersituationinlifein
whichitistheestablishedorder,andconsideredquitenaturalandsuitable,
thatthebettershouldobeytheworse。Ifthispieceofidletalkisgood
foranything,itisonlyasanadmissionbymen,ofthecorruptinginfluence
ofpower;forthatiscertainlytheonlytruthwhichthefact,ifitbea
fact,eitherprovesorillustrates。Anditistruethatservitude,except
whenitactuallybrutalises,thoughcorruptingtoboth,islesssotothe
slavesthantotheslave—masters。Itiswholesomerforthemoralnatureto
berestrained,evenbyarbitrarypower,thantobeallowedtoexercisearbitrary
powerwithoutrestraint。Women,itissaid,seldomerfallunderthepenal
law——contributeamuchsmallernumberofoffenderstothecriminalcalendar,
thanmen。Idoubtnotthatthesamethingmaybesaid,withthesametruth,
ofnegroslaves。Thosewhoareunderthecontrolofotherscannotoftencommit
crimes,unlessatthecommandandforthepurposesoftheirmasters。Ido
notknowamoresignalinstanceoftheblindnesswithwhichtheworld,including
theherdofstudiousmen,ignoreandpassoveralltheinfluencesofsocial
circumstances,thantheirsillydepreciationoftheintellectual,andsillypanegyricsonthemoral,natureofwomen。Thecomplimentarydictumaboutwomen’ssuperiormoralgoodnessmaybe
allowedtopairoffwiththedisparagingonerespectingtheirgreaterliability
tomoralbias。Women,wearetold,arenotcapableofresistingtheirpersonal
partialities:theirjudgmentingraveaffairsiswarpedbytheirsympathies
andantipathies。Assumingittobeso,itisstilltobeprovedthatwomen
areoftenermisledbytheirpersonalfeelingsthanmenbytheirpersonal
interests。Thechiefdifferencewouldseeminthatcasetobe,thatmenare
ledfromthecourseofdutyandthepublicinterestbytheirregardforthemselves,
women(notbeingallowedtohaveprivateinterestsoftheirown)bytheir
regardforsomebodyelse。Itisalsotobeconsidered,thatalltheeducation
whichwomenreceivefromsocietyinculcatesonthemthefeelingthatthe
individualsconnectedwiththemaretheonlyonestowhomtheyoweanyduty
——theonlyoneswhoseinteresttheyarecalledupontocarefor;while,
asfaraseducationisconcerned,theyareleftstrangerseventotheelementary
ideaswhicharepresupposedinanyintelligentregardforlargerinterests
orhighermoralobjects。Thecomplaintagainstthemresolvesitselfmerely
intothis,thattheyfulfilonlytoofaithfullythesoledutywhichtheyaretaught,andalmosttheonlyonewhichtheyarepermittedtopractise。Theconcessionsoftheprivilegedtotheunprivilegedaresoseldombrought
aboutbyanybettermotivethanthepoweroftheunprivilegedtoextortthem,
thatanyargumentsagainsttheprerogativeofsexarelikelytobelittle
attendedtobythegenerality,aslongastheyareabletosaytothemselves
thatwomendonotcomplainofit。Thatfactcertainlyenablesmentoretain
theunjustprivilegesometimelonger;butdoesnotrenderitlessunjust。
Exactlythesamethingmaybesaidofthewomenintheharemofanoriental:
theydonotcomplainofnotbeingallowedthefreedomofEuropeanwomen。
Theythinkourwomeninsufferablyboldandunfeminine。Howrarelyitisthat
evenmencomplainofthegeneralorderofsociety;andhowmuchrarerstill
wouldsuchcomplaintbe,iftheydidnotknowofanydifferentorderexisting
anywhereelse。Womendonotcomplainofthegenerallotofwomen;orrather
theydo,forplaintiveelegiesonitareverycommoninthewritingsofwomen,
andwerestillmoresoaslongasthelamentationscouldnotbesuspected
ofhavinganypracticalobject。Theircomplaintsarelikethecomplaints
whichmenmakeofthegeneralunsatisfactorinessofhumanlife;theyare
notmeanttoimplyblame,ortopleadforanychange。Butthoughwomendo
notcomplainofthepowerofhusbands,eachcomplainsofherownhusband,
orofthehusbandsofherfriends。Itisthesameinallothercasesofservitude,
atleastinthecommencementoftheemancipatorymovement。Theserfsdid
notatfirstcomplainofthepoweroftheirlords,butonlyoftheirtyranny。
Thecommonsbeganbyclaimingafewmunicipalprivileges;theynextasked
anexemptionforthemselvesfrombeingtaxedwithouttheirownconsent;but
theywouldatthattimehavethoughtitagreatpresumptiontoclaimany
shareintheking’ssovereignauthority。Thecaseofwomenisnowtheonly
caseinwhichtorebelagainstestablishedrulesisstilllookeduponwith
thesameeyesaswasformerlyasubject’sclaimtotheIrightofrebelling
againsthisking。Awomanwhojoinsinanymovementwhichherhusbanddisapproves,
makesherselfamartyr,withoutevenbeingabletobeanapostle,forthe
husbandcanlegallyputastoptoherapostleship。Womencannotbeexpected
todevotethemselvestotheemancipationofwomen,untilmeninconsiderable
numberarepreparedtojoinwiththemintheundertaking。
NOTES:1。EspeciallyisthistrueifwetakeintoconsiderationAsiaaswell
asEurope。IfaHindooprincipalityisstrongly,vigilantly,andeconomically
governed;iforderispreservedwithoutoppression;ifcultivationisextending,
andthepeopleprosperous,inthreecasesoutoffourthatprincipalityis
underawoman’srule。Thisfact,tomeanentirelyunexpectedone,Ihave
collectedfromalongknowledgeofHindoogovernments。Therearemanysuch
instances:forthough,byHindooinstitutions,awomancannotreign,she
isthelegalregentofakingdomduringtheminorityoftheheir;andminorities
arefrequent,thelivesofthemalerulersbeingsooftenprematurelyterminated
throughtheeffectofinactivityandsensualexcesses。Whenweconsiderthat
theseprincesseshaveneverbeenseeninpublic,haveneverconversedwith
anymannotoftheirownfamilyexceptfrombehindacurtain,thattheydo
notread,andiftheydidthereisnobookintheirlanguageswhichcangive
themthesmallestinstructiononpoliticalaffairs;theexampletheyaffordofthenaturalcapacityofwomenforgovernmentisverystriking。2。\"Itappearstobethesamerightturnofmindwhichenablesa
mantoacquirethetruth,orjustideaofwhatisright,intheornaments,
asinthemorestableprinciplesofart。Ithasstillthesamecentreof
perfection,thoughitisthecentreofasmallercircle。——Toillustrate
thisbyfashionofdress,inwhichthereisallowedtobeagoodorbadtaste。
Thecomponentpartsofdressarecontinuallychangingfromgreattolittle,
fromshorttolong;butthegeneralformstillremains;itisstillthesame
generaldresswhichiscomparativelyfixed,thoughonaveryslenderfoundation;
butitisonthiswhichfashionmustrest。Hewhoinventswiththemostsuccess,
ordressesinthebesttaste,wouldprobably,fromthesamesagacityemployed
togreaterpurposes,havediscoveredequalskill,orhaveformedthesame
correcttaste,inthehighestlaboursofart。\"——SirJoshuaReynold’s
Discourses,Disc。vii。
CHAPTER4Thereremainsaquestion,notoflessimportancethanthosealreadydiscussed,
andwhichwillbeaskedthemostimportunatelybythoseopponentswhoseconviction
issomewhatshakenonthemainpoint。Whatgoodarewetoexpectfromthe
changesproposedinourcustomsandinstitutions?Wouldmankindbeatall
betteroffifwomenwerefree?Ifnot,whydisturbtheirminds,andattempttomakeasocialrevolutioninthenameofanabstractright?Itishardlytobeexpectedthatthisquestionwillbeaskedinrespect
tothechangeproposedintheconditionofwomeninmarriage。Thesufferings,
immoralities,evilsofallsorts,producedininnumerablecasesbythesubjection
ofindividualwomentoindividualmen,arefartooterribletobeoverlooked。
Unthinkingoruncandidpersons,countingthosecasesalonewhichareextreme,
orwhichattainpublicity,maysaythattheevilsareexceptional;butno
onecanbeblindtotheirexistence,nor,inmanycases,totheirintensity。
Anditisperfectlyobviousthattheabuseofthepowercannotbeverymuch
checkedwhilethepowerremains。Itisapowergiven,oroffered,notto
goodmen,ortodecentlyrespectablemen,buttoallmen;themostbrutal,
andthemostcriminal。Thereisnocheckbutthatofopinion,andsuchmen
areingeneralwithinthereachofnoopinionbutthatofmenlikethemselves。
Ifsuchmendidnotbrutallytyranniseovertheonehumanbeingwhomthe
lawcompelstobeareverythingfromthem,societymustalreadyhavereached
aparadisiacalstate。Therecouldbenoneedanylongeroflawstocurbmen’s
viciouspropensities。Astraeamustnotonlyhavereturnedtoearth,butthe
heartoftheworstmanmusthavebecomehertemple。Thelawofservitude
inmarriageisamonstrouscontradictiontoalltheprinciplesofthemodern
world,andtoalltheexperiencethroughwhichthoseprincipleshavebeen
slowlyandpainfullyworkedout。Itisthesolecase,nowthatnegroslavery
hasbeenabolished,inwhichahumanbeingintheplenitudeofeveryfaculty
isdelivereduptothetendermerciesofanotherhumanbeing,inthehope
forsooththatthisotherwillusethepowersolelyforthegoodoftheperson
subjectedtoit。Marriageistheonlyactualbondageknowntoourlaw。Thereremainnolegalslaves,exceptthemistressofeveryhouse。Itisnot,therefore,onthispartofthesubject,thatthequestionis
likelytobeasked,Cuibono。Wemaybetoldthattheevilwouldoutweigh
thegood,buttherealityofthegoodadmitsofnodispute。Inregard,however,
tothelargerquestion,theremovalofwomen’sdisabilities——theirrecognition
astheequalsofmeninallthatbelongstocitizenship——theopeningto
themofallhonourableemployments,andofthetrainingandeducationwhich
qualifiesforthoseemployments——therearemanypersonsforwhomitis
notenoughthattheinequalityhasnojustorlegitimatedefence;theyrequiretobetoldwhatexpressadvantagewouldbeobtainedbyabolishingit。Towhichletmefirstanswer,theadvantageofhavingthemostuniversal
andpervadingofallhumanrelationsregulatedbyjusticeinsteadofinjustice。
Thevastamountofthisgaintohumannature,itishardlypossible,byany
explanationorillustration,toplaceinastrongerlightthanitisplaced
bythebarestatement,toanyonewhoattachesamoralmeaningtowords。All
theselfishpropensities,theself—worship,theunjustself—preference,which
existamongmankind,havetheirsourceandrootin,andderivetheirprincipal
nourishmentfrom,thepresentconstitutionoftherelationbetweenmenand
women。Thinkwhatitistoaboy,togrowuptomanhoodinthebeliefthat
withoutanymeritoranyexertionofhisown,thoughhemaybethemostfrivolous
andemptyorthemostignorantandstolidofmankind,bythemerefactof
beingbornamaleheisbyrightthesuperiorofallandeveryoneofan
entirehalfofthehumanrace:includingprobablysomewhoserealsuperiority
tohimselfhehasdailyorhourlyoccasiontofeel;butevenifinhiswhole
conducthehabituallyfollowsawoman’sguidance,still,ifheisafool,
shethinksthatofcoursesheisnot,andcannotbe,equalinabilityand
judgmenttohimself;andifheisnotafool,hedoesworse——heseesthat
sheissuperiortohim,andbelievesthat,notwithstandinghersuperiority,
heisentitledtocommandandsheisboundtoobey。Whatmustbetheeffect
onhischaracter,ofthislesson?Andmenofthecultivatedclassesareoften
notawarehowdeeplyitsinksintotheimmensemajorityofmaleminds。For,
amongright—feelingandwellbredpeople,theinequalityiskeptasmuchas
possibleoutofsight;aboveall,outofsightofthechildren。Asmuchobedience
isrequiredfromboystotheirmotherastotheirfather:theyarenotpermitted
todomineerovertheirsisters,noraretheyaccustomedtoseethesepostponed
tothem,butthecontrary;thecompensationsofthechivalrousfeelingbeing
madeprominent,whiletheservitudewhichrequiresthemiskeptinthebackground。
Wellbrought—upyouthsinthehigherclassesthusoftenescapethebadinfluences
ofthesituationintheirearlyyears,andonlyexperiencethemwhen,arrived
atmanhood,theyfallunderthedominionoffactsastheyreallyexist。Such
peoplearelittleaware,whenaboyisdifferentlybroughtup,howearly
thenotionofhisinherentsuperioritytoagirlarisesinhismind;how
itgrowswithhisgrowthandstrengthenswithhisstrength;howitisinoculated
byoneschoolboyuponanother;howearlytheyouththinkshimselfsuperior
tohismother,owingherperhapsforbearance,butno—realrespect;anahow
sublimeandsultan—likeasenseofsuperiorityhefeels,aboveall,over
thewomanwhomhehonoursbyadmittinghertoapartnershipofhislife。
Isitimaginedthatallthisdoesnotpervertthewholemannerofexistence
oftheman,bothasanindividualandasasocialbeing?Itisanexactparallel
tothefeelingofahereditarykingthatheisexcellentaboveothersby
beingbornaking,oranoblebybeingbornanoble。Therelationbetween
husbandandwifeisverylikethatbetweenlordandvassal,exceptthatthe
wifeisheldtomoreunlimitedobediencethanthevassalwas。Howeverthe
vassal’scharactermayhavebeenaffected,forbetterandforworse,byhis
subordination,whocanhelpseeingthatthelord’swasaffectedgreatlyfor
theworse?whetherhewasledtobelievethathisvassalswerereallysuperior
tohimself,ortofeelthathewasplacedincommandoverpeopleasgood
ashimself,fornomeritsorlaboursofhisown,butmerelyforhaving,as
Figarosays,takenthetroubletobeborn。Theself—worshipofthemonarch,
orofthefeudalsuperior,ismatchedbytheself—worshipofthemale。Human
beingsdonotgrowupfromchildhoodinthepossessionofunearneddistinctions,
withoutplumingthemselvesuponthem。Thosewhomprivilegesnotacquired
bytheirmerit,andwhichtheyfeeltobedisproportionedtoit,inspire
withadditionalhumility,arealwaysthefew,andthebestfew。Therest
areonlyinspiredwithpride,andtheworstsortofpride,thatwhichvalues
itselfuponaccidentaladvantages,notofitsownachieving。Aboveall,when
thefeelingofbeingraisedabovethewholeoftheothersexiscombined
withpersonalauthorityoveroneindividualamongthem;thesituation,if
aschoolofconscientiousandaffectionateforbearancetothosewhosestrongest
pointsofcharacterareconscienceandaffection,istomenofanotherquality
aregularlyconstitutedacademyorgymnasiumfortrainingtheminarrogance
andoverbearingness;whichvices,ifcurbedbythecertaintyofresistance
intheirintercoursewithothermen,theirequals,breakouttowardsall
whoareinapositiontobeobligedtotoleratethem,andoftenrevengethemselves
upontheunfortunatewifefortheinvoluntaryrestraintwhichtheyareobligedtosubmittoelsewhere。Theexampleafforded,andtheeducationgiventothesentiments,bylaying
thefoundationofdomesticexistenceuponarelationcontradictorytothe
firstprinciplesofsocialjusticemust,fromtheverynatureofman,have
apervertinginfluenceofsuchmagnitude,thatitishardlypossiblewith
ourpresentexperiencetoraiseourimaginationstotheconceptionofso
greatachangeforthebetteraswouldbemadebyitsremoval。Allthateducation
andcivilisationaredoingtoeffacetheinfluencesoncharacterofthelaw
offorce,andreplacethembythoseofjustice,remainsmerelyonthesurface,
aslongasthecitadeloftheenemyisnotattacked。Theprincipleofthe
modernmovementinmoralsandpolitics,isthatconduct,andconductalone,
entitlestorespect:thatnotwhatmenare,butwhattheydo,constitutes
theirclaimtodeference;that,aboveall,merit,andnotbirth,istheonly
rightfulclaimtopowerandauthority。Ifnoauthority,notinitsnature
temporary,wereallowedtoonehumanbeingoveranother,societywouldnot
beemployedinbuildinguppropensitieswithonehandwhichithastocurb
withtheother。Thechildwouldreally,forthefirsttimeinman’sexistence
onearth,betrainedinthewayheshouldgo,andwhenhewasoldtherewould
beachancethathewouldnotdepartfromit。Butsolongastherightof
thestrongtopowerovertheweakrulesintheveryheartofsociety,the
attempttomaketheequalrightoftheweaktheprincipleofitsoutward
actionswillalwaysbeanuphillstruggle;forthelawofjustice,which
isalsothatofChristianity,willnevergetpossessionofmen’sinmostsentiments;theywillbeworkingagainstit,evenwhenbendingtoit。Thesecondbenefittobeexpectedfromgivingtowomenthefreeuseof
theirfaculties,byleavingthemthefreechoiceoftheiremployments,and
openingtothemthesamefieldofoccupationandthesameprizesandencouragements
astootherhumanbeings,wouldbethatofdoublingthemassofmentalfaculties
availableforthehigherserviceofhumanity。Wherethereisnowoneperson
qualifiedtobenefitmankindandpromotethegeneralimprovement,asapublic
teacher,oranadministratorofsomebranchofpublicorsocialaffairs,
therewouldthenbeachanceoftwo。Mentalsuperiorityofanykindisat
presenteverywheresomuchbelowthedemand;thereissuchadeficiencyof
personscompetenttodoexcellentlyanythingwhichitrequiresanyconsiderable
amountofabilitytodo;thatthelosstotheworld,byrefusingtomake
useofonehalfofthewholequantityoftalentitpossesses,isextremely
serious。Itistruethatthisamountofmentalpowerisnottotallylost。
Muchofitisemployed,andwouldinanycasebeemployed,indomesticmanagement,
andinthefewotheroccupationsopentowomen;andfromtheremainderindirect
benefitisinmanyindividualcasesobtained,throughthepersonalinfluence
ofindividualwomenoverindividualmen。Butthesebenefitsarepartial;
theirrangeisextremelycircumscribed;andiftheymustbeadmitted,on
theonehand,asadeductionfromtheamountoffreshsocialpowerthatwould
beacquiredbygivingfreedomtoone—halfofthewholesumofhumanintellect,
theremustbeadded,ontheother,thebenefitofthestimulusthatwould
begiventotheintellectofmenbythecompetition;or(touseamoretrue
expression)bythenecessitythatwouldbeimposedonthemofdeservingprecedencybeforetheycouldexpecttoobtainit。Thisgreataccessiontotheintellectualpowerofthespecies,andto
theamountofintellectavailableforthegoodmanagementofitsaffairs,
wouldbeobtained,partly,throughthebetterandmorecompleteintellectual
educationofwomen,whichwouldthenimproveparipassuwiththatofmen。
Womeningeneralwouldbebroughtupequallycapableofunderstandingbusiness,
publicaffairs,andthehighermattersofspeculation,withmenInthesame
classofsociety;andtheselectfewoftheoneaswellasoftheothersex,
whowerequalifiednotonlytocomprehendwhatisdoneorthoughtbyothers,
buttothinkordosomethingconsiderablethemselves,wouldmeetwiththe
samefacilitiesforimprovingandtrainingtheircapacitiesintheonesex
asintheother。Inthisway,thewideningofthesphereofactionforwomen
wouldoperateforgood,byraisingtheireducationtothelevelofthatof
men,andmakingtheoneparticipateinallimprovementsmadeintheother。
Butindependentlyofthis,themerebreakingdownofthebarrierwouldof
itselfhaveaneducationalvirtueofthehighestworth。Themeregetting
ridoftheideathatallthewidersubjectsofthoughtandaction,allthe
thingswhichareofgeneralandnotsolelyofprivateinterest,aremen’s
business,fromwhichwomenaretobewarnedoff——positivelyinterdicted
frommostofit,coldlytoleratedinthelittlewhichisallowedthem——
themereconsciousnessawomanwouldthenhaveofbeingahumanbeinglike
anyother,entitledtochooseherpursuits,urgedorinvitedbythesame
inducementsasanyoneelsetointerestherselfinwhateverisinteresting
tohumanbeings,entitledtoexerttheshareofinfluenceonallhumanconcerns
whichbelongstoanindividualopinion,whethersheattemptedactualparticipation
inthemornot——thisalonewouldeffectanimmenseexpansionofthefacultiesofwomen,aswellasenlargementoftherangeoftheirmoralsentiments。Besidestheadditiontotheamountofindividualtalentavailablefor
theconductofhumanaffairs,whichcertainlyarenotatpresentsoabundantly
providedinthatrespectthattheycanaffordtodispensewithone—halfof
whatnatureproffers;theopinionofwomenwouldthenpossessamorebeneficial,
ratherthanagreater,influenceuponthegeneralmassofhumanbeliefand
sentiment。Isayamorebeneficial,ratherthanagreaterinfluence;for
theinfluenceofwomenoverthegeneraltoneofopinionhasalways,orat
leastfromtheearliestknownperiod,beenveryconsiderable。Theinfluence
ofmothersontheearlycharacteroftheirsons,andthedesireofyoung
mentorecommendthemselvestoyoungwomen,haveinallrecordedtimesbeen
importantagenciesintheformationofcharacter,andhavedeterminedsome
ofthechiefstepsintheprogressofcivilisation。EvenintheHomericage,
{alphaiotadeltaomegasigma}towardsthe{TAUrhoomegaalphadeltaalpha
sigma}{epsilonlambdachiepsilonsigmaiotapiepsilonpilambdaomega
upsilsonsigma}isanacknowledgedandpowerfulmotiveofactioninthegreat
Hector。Themoralinfluenceofwomenhashadtwomodesofoperation。First,
ithasbeenasofteninginfluence。Thosewhoweremostliabletobethevictims
ofviolence,havenaturallytendedasmuchastheycouldtowardslimiting
itssphereandmitigatingitsexcesses。Thosewhowerenottaughttofight,
havenaturallyinclinedinfavourofanyothermodeofsettlingdifferences
ratherthanthatoffighting。Ingeneral,thosewhohavebeenthegreatest
sufferersbytheindulgenceofselfishpassion,havebeenthemostearnest
supportersofanymorallawwhichofferedameansofbridlingpassion。Women
werepowerfullyinstrumentalininducingthenorthernconquerorstoadopt
thecreedofChristianity,acreedsomuchmorefavourabletowomenthan
anythatprecededit。TheconversionoftheAnglo—SaxonsandoftheFranks
maybesaidtohavebeenbegunbythewivesofEthelbertandClovis。The
othermodeinwhichtheeffectofwomen’sopinionhasbeenconspicuous,is
bygiving,apowerfulstimulustothosequalitiesinmen,which,notbeing
themselvestrainedin,itwasnecessaryforthemthattheyshouldfindin
theirprotectors。Courage,andthemilitaryvirtuesgenerally,haveatall
timesbeengreatlyindebtedtothedesirewhichmenfeltofbeingadmired
bywomen:andthestimulusreachesfarbeyondthisoneclassofeminentqualities,
since,byaverynaturaleffectoftheirposition,thebestpassporttothe
admirationandfavourofwomenhasalwaysbeentobethoughthighlyofby
men。Fromthecombinationofthetwokindsofmoralinfluencethusexercised
bywomen,arosethespiritofchivalry:thepeculiarityofwhichis,toaim
atcombiningthehigheststandardofthewarlikequalitieswiththecultivation
ofatotallydifferentclassofvirtues——thoseofgentleness,generosity,
andself—abnegation,towardsthenon—militaryanddefenselessclassesgenerally,
andaspecialsubmissionandworshipdirectedtowardswomen;whoweredistinguished
fromtheotherdefencelessclassesbythehighrewardswhichtheyhadit
intheirpowervoluntarilytobestowonthosewhoendeavouredtoearntheir
favour,insteadofextortingtheirsubjection。Thoughthepracticeofchivalry
fellevenmoresadlyshortofitstheoreticstandardthanpracticegenerally
fallsbelowtheory,itremainsoneofthemostpreciousmonumentsofthe
moralhistoryofourrace;asaremarkableinstanceofaconcertedandorganised
attemptbyamostdisorganisedanddistractedsociety,toraiseupandcarry
intopracticeamoralidealgreatlyinadvanceofitssocialconditionand
institutions;somuchsoastohavebeencompletelyfrustratedinthemain
object,yetneverentirelyinefficacious,andwhichhasleftamostsensible,
andforthemostpartahighlyvaluableimpressontheideasandfeelingsofallsubsequenttimes。Thechivalrousidealistheacmeoftheinfluenceofwomen’ssentiments
onthemoralcultivationofmankind:andifwomenaretoremainintheir
subordinatesituation,itweregreatlytobelamentedthatthechivalrous
standardshouldhavepassedaway,foritistheonlyoneatallcapableof
mitigatingthedemoralisinginfluencesofthatposition。Butthechanges
inthegeneralstateofthespeciesrenderedinevitablethesubstitution
ofatotallydifferentidealofmoralityforthechivalrousone。Chivalry
wastheattempttoinfusemoralelementsintoastateofsocietyinwhich
everythingdependedforgoodorevilonindividualprowess,underthesoftening
influencesofindividualdelicacyandgenerosity。Inmodernsocieties,all
things,eveninthemilitarydepartmentofaffairs,aredecided,notbyindividual
effort,butbythecombinedoperationsofnumbers;whilethemainoccupation
ofsocietyhaschangedfromfightingtobusiness,frommilitarytoindustrial
life。Theexigenciesofthenewlifearenomoreexclusiveofthevirtues
ofgenerositythanthoseoftheold,butitnolongerentirelydependson
them。Themainfoundationsofthemorallifeofmoderntimesmustbejustice
andprudence;therespectofeachfortherightsofeveryother,andthe
abilityofeachtotakecareofhimself。Chivalryleftwithoutlegalcheck
allformsofwrongwhichreignedunpunishedthroughoutsociety;itonlyencouraged
afewtodorightinpreferencetowrong,bythedirectionitgavetothe
instrumentsofpraiseandadmiration。Buttherealdependenceofmorality
mustalwaysbeuponitspenalsanctions——itspowertodeterfromevil。
Thesecurityofsocietycannotrestonmerelyrenderinghonourtoright,
amotivesocomparativelyweakinallbutafew,andwhichonverymanydoes
notoperateatall。Modernsocietyisabletorepresswrongthroughalldepartments
oflife,byafitexertionofthesuperiorstrengthwhichcivilisationhas
givenit,andthustorendertheexistenceoftheweakermembersofsociety
(nolongerdefenselessbutprotectedbylaw)tolerabletothem,withoutreliance
onthechivalrousfeelingsofthosewhoareinapositiontotyrannise。The
beautiesandgracesofthechivalrouscharacterarestillwhattheywere,
buttherightsoftheweak,andthegeneralcomfortofhumanlife,nowrest
onafarsurerandsteadiersupport;orrather,theydosoineveryrelationoflifeexcepttheconjugal。Atpresentthemoralinfluenceofwomenisnolessreal,butitisno
longerofsomarkedanddefiniteacharacter:ithasmorenearlymergedin
thegeneralinfluenceofpublicopinion。Boththroughthecontagionofsympathy,
andthroughthedesireofmentoshineintheeyesofwomen,theirfeelings
havegreateffectinkeepingalivewhatremainsofthechivalrousideal——
infosteringthesentimentsandcontinuingthetraditionsofspiritandgenerosity。
Inthesepointsofcharacter,theirstandardishigherthanthatofmen;
inthequalityofjustice,somewhatlower。Asregardstherelationsofprivate
lifeitmaybesaidgenerally,thattheirinfluenceis,onthewhole,encouraging
tothesoftervirtues,discouragingtothesterner:thoughthestatement
mustbetakenwithallthemodificationsdependentonindividualcharacter。
Inthechiefofthegreatertrialstowhichvirtueissubjectintheconcerns
oflife——theconflictbetweeninterestandprinciple——thetendencyof
women’sinfluence——isofaverymixedcharacter。Whentheprincipleinvolved
happenstobeoneoftheveryfewwhichthecourseoftheirreligiousor
moraleducationhasstronglyimpresseduponthemselves,theyarepotentauxiliaries
tovirtue:andtheirhusbandsandsonsareoftenpromptedbythemtoacts
ofabnegationwhichtheyneverwouldhavebeencapableofwithoutthatstimulus。
But,withthepresenteducationandpositionofwomen,themoralprinciples
whichhavebeenimpressedonthemcoverbutacomparativelysmallpartof
thefieldofvirtue,andare,moreover,principallynegative;forbidding
particularacts,buthavinglittletodowiththegeneraldirectionofthe
thoughtsandpurposes。Iamafraiditmustbesaid,thatdisinterestedness
inthegeneralconductoflife——thedevotionoftheenergiestopurposes
whichholdoutnopromiseofprivateadvantagestothefamily——isvery
seldomencouragedorsupportedbywomen’sinfluence。Itissmallblameto
themthattheydiscourageobjectsofwhichtheyhavenotlearnttoseethe
advantage,andwhichwithdrawtheirmenfromthem,andfromtheinterests
ofthefamily。Buttheconsequenceisthatwomen’sinfluenceisoftenanythingbutfavourabletopublicvirtue。Womenhave,however,someshareofinfluenceingivingthetonetopublic
moralitiessincetheirsphereofactionhasbeenalittlewidened,andsince
aconsiderablenumberofthemhaveoccupiedthemselvespracticallyinthe
promotionofobjectsreachingbeyondtheirownfamilyandhousehold。The
influenceofwomencountsforagreatdealintwoofthemostmarkedfeatures
ofmodernEuropeanlife——itsaversiontowar,anditsaddictiontophilanthropy。
Excellentcharacteristicsboth;butunhappily,iftheinfluenceofwomen
isvaluableintheencouragementitgivestothesefeelingsingeneral,in
theparticularapplicationsthedirectionitgivestothemisatleastas
oftenmischievousasuseful。Inthephilanthropicdepartmentmoreparticularly,
thetwoprovinceschieflycultivatedbywomenarereligiousproselytismand
charity。Religiousproselytismathome,isbutanotherwordforembittering
ofreligiousanimosities:abroad,itisusuallyablindrunningatanobject,
withouteitherknowingorheedingthefatalmischiefs——fataltothereligious
objectitselfaswellastoallotherdesirableobjects——whichmaybeproduced
bythemeansemployed。Asforcharity,itisamatterinwhichtheimmediate
effectonthepersonsdirectlyconcerned,andtheultimateconsequenceto
thegeneralgood,areapttobeatcompletewarwithoneanother:whilethe
educationgiventowomen——aneducationofthesentimentsratherthanof
theunderstanding——andthehabitinculcatedbytheirwholelife,oflooking
toimmediateeffectsonpersons,andnottoremoteeffectsonclassesof
persons——makethembothunabletosee,andunwillingtoadmit,theultimate
eviltendencyofanyformofcharityorphilanthropywhichcommendsitself
totheirsympatheticfeelings。Thegreatandcontinuallyincreasingmass
ofunenlightenedandshortsightedbenevolence,which,takingthecareof
people’slivesoutoftheirownhands,andrelievingthemfromthedisagreeable
consequencesoftheirownacts,sapstheveryfoundationsoftheself—respect,
self—help,andself—controlwhicharetheessentialconditionsbothofindividual
prosperityandofsocialvirtue——thiswasteofresourcesandofbenevolent
feelingsindoingharminsteadofgood,isimmenselyswelledbywomen’scontributions,
andstimulatedbytheirinfluence。Notthatthisisamistakelikelytobe
madebywomen,wheretheyhaveactuallythepracticalmanagementofschemes
ofbeneficence。Itsometimeshappensthatwomenwhoadministerpubliccharities
——withthatinsightintopresentfact,andespeciallyintothemindsand
feelingsofthosewithwhomtheyareinimmediatecontact,inwhichwomen
generallyexcelmen——recogniseintheclearestmannerthedemoralising
influenceofthealmsgivenorthehelpafforded,andcouldgivelessons
onthesubjecttomanyamalepoliticaleconomist。Butwomenwhoonlygive
theirmoney,andarenotbroughtfacetofacewiththeeffectsitproduces,
howcantheybeexpectedtoforeseethem?Awomanborntothepresentlot
ofwomen,andcontentwithit,howshouldsheappreciatethevalueofself—dependence?
Sheisnotself—dependent;sheisnottaughtself—dependence;herdestiny
istoreceiveeverythingfromothers,andwhyshouldwhatisgoodenough
forherbebadforthepoor?Herfamiliarnotionsofgoodareofblessings
descendingfromasuperior。Sheforgetsthatsheisnotfree,andthatthe
poorare;thatifwhattheyneedisgiventothemunearned,theycannotbe
compelledtoearnit:thateverybodycannotbetakencareofbyeverybody,
buttheremustbesomemotivetoinducepeopletotakecareofthemselves;
andthattobehelped—tohelpthemselves,iftheyarephysicallycapableofit,istheonlycharitywhichprovestobecharityintheend。###第6章Theseconsiderationsshowhowusefullythepartwhichwomentakeinthe
formationofgeneralopinion,wouldbemodifiedforthebetterbythatmore
enlargedinstruction,andpracticalconversancywiththethingswhichtheir
opinionsinfluence,thatwouldnecessarilyarisefromtheirsocialandpolitical
emancipation。Buttheimprovementitwouldworkthroughtheinfluencetheyexercise,eachinherownfamily,wouldbestillmoreremarkable。Itisoftensaidthatintheclassesmostexposedtotemptation,aman’s
wifeandchildrentendtokeephimhonestandrespectable,bothbythewife’s
directinfluence,andbytheconcernhefeelsfortheirfuturewelfare。This
maybeso,andnodoubtoftenisso,withthosewhoaremoreweakthanwicked;
andthisbeneficialinfluencewouldbepreservedandstrengthenedunderequal
laws;itdoesnotdependonthewoman’sservitude,butis,onthecontrary,
diminishedbythedisrespectwhichtheinferiorclassofmenalwaysatheart
feeltowardsthosewhoaresubjecttotheirpower。Butwhenweascendhigher
inthescale,wecomeamongatotallydifferentsetofmovingforces。The
wife’sinfluencetends,asfarasitgoes,topreventthehusbandfromfalling
belowthecommonstandardofapprobationofthecountry。Ittendsquiteas
stronglytohinderhimfromrisingaboveit。Thewifeistheauxiliaryof
thecommonpublicopinion。Amanwhoismarriedtoawomanhisinferiorin
intelligence,findsheraperpetualdeadweight,or,worsethanadeadweight,
adrag,uponeveryaspirationofhistobebetterthanpublicopinionrequires
himtobe。Itishardlypossibleforonewhoisinthesebonds,toattain
exaltedvirtue。Ifhediffersinhisopinionfromthemass——ifhesees
truthswhichhavenotyetdawneduponthem,orif,feelinginhishearttruths
whichtheynominallyrecognise,hewouldliketoactuptothosetruthsmore
conscientiouslythanthegeneralityofmankind——toallsuchthoughtsand
desires,marriageistheheaviestofdrawbacks,unlesshebesofortunateastohaveawifeasmuchabovethecommonlevelashehimselfis。For,inthefirstplace,thereisalwayssomesacrificeofpersonalinterest
required;eitherofsocialconsequence,orofpecuniarymeans;perhapsthe
riskofeventhemeansofsubsistence。Thesesacrificesandriskshemay
bewillingtoencounterforhimself;buthewillpausebeforeheimposes
themonhisfamily。Andhisfamilyinthiscasemeanshiswifeanddaughters;
forhealwayshopesthathissonswillfeelashefeelshimself,andthat
whathecandowithout,theywilldowithout,willingly,isthesamecause。
Buthisdaughters——theirmarriagemaydependuponit:andhiswife,who
isunabletoenterintoorunderstandtheobjectsforwhichthesesacrifices
aremade——who,ifshethoughtthemworthanysacrifice,wouldthinkso
ontrust,andsolelyforhissake——whocouldparticipateinnoneofthe
enthusiasmortheself—approbationhehimselfmayfeel,whilethethings
whichheisdisposedtosacrificeareallinalltoher;willnotthebest
andmostunselfishmanhesitatethelongestbeforebringingonherthisconsequence?
Ifitbenotthecomfortsoflife,butonlysocialconsideration,thatis
atstake,theburthenuponhisconscienceandfeelingsisstillverysevere。
WhoeverhasawifeandchildrenhasgivenhostagestoMrsGrundy。Theapprobation
ofthatpotentatemaybeamatterofindifferencetohim,butitisofgreat
importancetohiswife。Themanhimselfmaybeaboveopinion,ormayfind
sufficientcompensationintheopinionofthoseofhisownwayofthinking。
Buttothewomenconnectedwithhim,hecanoffernocompensation。Thealmost
invariabletendencyofthewifetoplaceherinfluenceinthesamescale
withsocialconsideration,issometimesmadeareproachtowomen,andrepresented
asapeculiartraitoffeeblenessandchildishnessofcharacterinthem:
surelywithgreatinjustice。Societymakesthewholelifeofawoman,in
theeasyclasses,acontinuedselfsacrifice;itexactsfromheranunremitting
restraintofthewholeofhernaturalinclinations,andthesolereturnit
makestoherforwhatoftendeservesthenameofamartyrdom,isconsideration。
Herconsiderationisinseparablyconnectedwiththatofherhusband,and
afterpayingthefullpriceforit,shefindsthatsheistoloseit,for
noreasonofwhichshecanfeelthecogency。Shehassacrificedherwhole
lifetoit,andherhusbandwillnotsacrificetoitawhim,afreak,an
eccentricity;somethingnotrecognisedorallowedforbytheworld,andwhich
theworldwillagreewithherinthinkingafolly,ifitthinksnoworse!
Thedilemmaishardestuponthatverymeritoriousclassofmen,who,without
possessingtalentswhichqualifythemtomakeafigureamongthosewithwhom
theyagreeinopinion,holdtheiropinionfromconviction,andfeelbound
inhonourandconsciencetoserveit,bymakingprofessionoftheirbelief,
andgivingtheirtime,labour,andmeans,toanythingundertakeninitsbehalf。
Theworstcaseofalliswhensuchmenhappentobeofarankandposition
whichofitselfneithergivesthem,norexcludesthemfrom,whatisconsidered
thebestsociety;whentheiradmissiontoitdependsmainlyonwhatisthought
ofthempersonally——andhoweverunexceptionabletheirbreedingandhabits,
theirbeingidentifiedwithopinionsandpublicconductunacceptabletothose
whogivethetonetosocietywouldoperateasaneffectualexclusion。Many
awomanflattersherself(ninetimesoutoftenquiteerroneously)thatnothing
preventsherandherhusbandfrommovinginthehighestsocietyofherneighbourhood
——societyinwhichotherswellknowntoher,andinthesameclassoflife,
mixfreely——exceptthatherhusbandisunfortunatelyaDissenter,orhas
thereputationofminglinginlowradicalpolitics。Thatitis,shethinks,
whichhindersGeorgefromgettingacommissionoraplace,Carolinefrom
makinganadvantageousmatch,andpreventsherandherhusbandfromobtaining
invitations,perhapshonours,which,foraughtshesees,theyareaswell
entitledtoassomefolks。Withsuchaninfluenceineveryhouse,either
exertedactively,oroperatingallthemorepowerfullyfornotbeingasserted,
isitanywonderthatpeopleingeneralarekeptdowninthatmediocrityofrespectabilitywhichisbecomingamarkedcharacteristicofmoderntimes?Thereisanotherveryinjuriousaspectinwhichtheeffect,notofwomen’s
disabilitiesdirectly,butofthebroadlineofdifferencewhichthosedisabilities
createbetweentheeducationandcharacterofawomanandthatofaman,
requirestobeconsidered。Nothingcanbemoreunfavourabletothatunion
ofthoughtsandinclinationswhichistheidealofmarriedlife。Intimate
societybetweenpeopleradicallydissimilartooneanother,isanidledream。
Unlikenessmayattract,butitislikenesswhichretains;andinproportion
tothelikenessisthesuitabilityoftheindividualstogiveeachother
ahappylife。Whilewomenaresounlikemen,itisnotwonderfulthatselfish
menshouldfeeltheneedofarbitrarypowerintheirownhands,toarrest
inliminethelife—longconflictofinclinations,bydecidingeveryquestion
onthesideoftheirownpreference。Whenpeopleareextremelyunlike,there
canbenorealidentityofinterest。Veryoftenthereisconscientiousdifference
ofopinionbetweenmarriedpeople,onthehighestpointsofduty。Isthere
anyrealityinthemarriageunionwherethistakesplace?Yetitisnotuncommon
anywhere,whenthewomanhasanyearnestnessofcharacter;anditisavery
generalcaseindeedinCatholiccountries,whensheissupportedinherdissent
bytheonlyotherauthoritytowhichsheistaughttobow,thepriest。With
theusualbarefacednessofpowernotaccustomedtofinditselfdisputed,
theinfluenceofpriestsoverwomenisattackedbyProtestantandLiberal
writers,lessforbeingbadinitself,thanbecauseitisarivalauthority
tothehusband,andraisesuparevoltagainsthisinfallibility。InEngland,
similardifferencesoccasionallyexistwhenanEvangelicalwifehasallied
herselfwithahusbandofadifferentquality;butingeneralthissource
atleastofdissensionisgotridof,byreducingthemindsofwomentosuch
anullity,thattheyhavenoopinionsbutthoseofMrs。Grundy,orthose
whichthehusbandtellsthemtohave。Whenthereisnodifferenceofopinion,
differencesmerelyoftastemaybesufficienttodetractgreatlyfromthe
happinessofmarriedlife。Andthoughitmaystimulatetheamatorypropensities
ofmen,itdoesnotconducetomarriedhappiness,toexaggeratebydifferences
ofeducationwhatevermaybethenativedifferencesofthesexes。Ifthe
marriedpairarewell—bredandwell—behavedpeople,theytolerateeachother’s
tastes;butismutualtolerationwhatpeoplelookforwardto,whentheyenter
intomarriage?Thesedifferencesofinclinationwillnaturallymaketheir
wishesdifferent,ifnotrestrainedbyaffectionorduty,astoalmostall
domesticquestionswhicharise。Whatadifferencetheremustbeinthesociety
whichthetwopersonswillwishtofrequent,orbefrequentedby!Eachwill
desireassociateswhosharetheirowntastes:thepersonsagreeabletoone,
willbeindifferentorpositivelydisagreeabletotheother;yettherecan
benonewhoarenotcommontoboth,formarriedpeopledonotnowlivein
differentpartsofthehouseandhavetotallydifferentvisitinglists,as
inthereignofLouisXV。Theycannothelphavingdifferentwishesasto
thebringingupofthechildren:eachwillwishtoseereproducedinthem
theirowntastesandsentiments:andthereiseitheracompromise,andonly
ahalfsatisfactiontoeither,orthewifehastoyield——oftenwithbitter
suffering;and,withorwithoutintention,heroccultinfluencecontinuestocounterworkthehusband’spurposes。Itwouldofcoursebeextremefollytosupposethatthesedifferences
offeelingandinclinationonlyexistbecausewomenarebroughtupdifferently
frommen,andthattherewouldnotbedifferencesoftasteunderanyimaginable
circumstances。Butthereisnothingbeyondthemarkinsayingthatthedistinction
inbringingupimmenselyaggravatesthosedifferences,andrendersthemwholly
inevitable。Whilewomenarebroughtupastheyare,amanandawomanwill
butrarelyfindinoneanotherrealagreementoftastesandwishesasto
dailylife。Theywillgenerallyhavetogiveitupashopeless,andrenounce
theattempttohave,intheintimateassociateoftheirdailylife,that
idemvelle,idemnolle,whichistherecognisedbondofanysocietythat
isreallysuch:orifthemansucceedsinobtainingit,hedoessobychoosing
awomanwhoissocompleteanullitythatshehasnovelleornolleatall,
andisasreadytocomplywithonethingasanotherifanybodytellsher
todoso。Eventhiscalculationisapttofail;dullnessandwantofspirit
arenotalwaysaguaranteeofthesubmissionwhichissoconfidentlyexpected
fromthem。Butiftheywere,isthistheidealofmarriage?What,inthis
case,doesthemanobtainbyit,exceptanupperservant,anurse,oramistress?
onthecontrary,wheneachoftwopersons,insteadofbeinganothing,is
asomething;whentheyareattachedtooneanother,andarenottoomuch
unliketobeginwith;theconstantpartakinginthesamethings,assisted
bytheirsympathy,drawsoutthelatentcapacitiesofeachforbeinginterested
inthethingswhichwereatfirstinterestingonlytotheother;andworks
agradualassimilationofthetastesandcharacterstooneanother,partly
bytheinsensiblemodificationofeach,butmorebyarealenrichingofthe
twonatures,eachacquiringthetastesandcapacitiesoftheotherinaddition
toitsown。Thisoftenhappensbetweentwofriendsofthesamesex,whoare
muchassociatedintheirdailylife:anditwouldbeacommon,ifnotthe
commonest,caseinmarriage,didnotthetotallydifferentbringingupof
thetwosexesmakeitnexttoanimpossibilitytoformareallywell—assorted
union。Werethisremedied,whateverdifferencestheremightstillbeinindividual
tastes,therewouldatleastbe,asageneralrule,completeunityandunanimity
astothegreatobjectsoflife。Whenthetwopersonsbothcareforgreat
objects,andareahelpandencouragementtoeachotherinwhateverregards
these,theminormattersonwhichtheirtastesmaydifferarenotall—important
tothem;andthereisafoundationforsolidfriendship,ofanenduringcharacter,
morelikelythananythingelsetomakeit,throughthewholeoflife,agreaterpleasuretoeachtogivepleasuretotheother,thantoreceiveit。Ihaveconsidered,thusfar,theeffectsonthepleasuresandbenefits
ofthemarriageunionwhichdependonthemereunlikenessbetweenthewife
andthehusband:buttheeviltendencyisprodigiouslyaggravatedwhenthe
unlikenessisinferiority。Mereunlikeness,whenitonlymeansdifference
ofgoodqualities,maybemoreabenefitinthewayofmutualimprovement,
thanadrawbackfromcomfort。Wheneachemulates,anddesiresandendeavours
toacquire,theother’speculiarqualitiesthedifferencedoesnotproduce
diversityofinterest,butincreasedidentityofit,andmakeseachstill
morevaluabletotheother。Butwhenoneismuchtheinferiorofthetoin
mentalabilityandcultivation,andisnotactivelyattemptingbytheother’s
aidtorisetotheother’slevel,thewholeinfluenceoftheconnexionupon
thedevelopmentofthesuperiorofthetwoisdeteriorating:andstillmore
soinatolerablyhappymarriagethaninanunhappyone。Itisnotwithimpunity
thatthesuperiorinintellectshutshimselfupwithaninferior,andelects
thatinferiorforhischosen,andsolecompletelyintimate,associate。Any
societywhichisnotimprovingisdeteriorating:andthemoreso,thecloser
andmorefamiliaritis。Evenareallysuperiormanalmostalwaysbegins
todeterioratewhenheishabitually(asthephraseis)kingofhiscompany:
andinhismosthabitualcompanythehusbandwhohasawifeinferiortohim
isalwaysso。Whilehisself—satisfactionisincessantlyministeredtoon
theonehand,ontheotherheinsensiblyimbibesthemodesoffeeling,and
oflookingatthings,whichbelongtoamorevulgaroramorelimitedmind
thanhisown。Thisevildiffersfrommanyofthosewhichhavehithertobeen
dwelton,bybeinganincreasingone。Theassociationofmenwithwomenin
dailylifeismuchcloserandmorecompletethaniteverwasbefore。Men’s
lifeismoredomestic。Formerly,theirpleasuresandchosenoccupationswere
amongmen,andinmen’scompany:theirwiveshadbutafragmentoftheir
lives。Atthepresenttime,theprogressofcivilisation,andtheturnof
opinionagainsttheroughamusementsandconvivialexcesseswhichformerly
occupiedmostmenintheirhoursofrelaxation——togetherwith(itmust
besaid)theimprovedtoneofmodernfeelingastothereciprocityofduty
whichbindsthehusbandtowardsthewife——havethrownthemanverymuch
moreuponhomeanditsinmates,forhispersonalandsocialpleasures:while
thekindanddegreeofimprovementwhichhasbeenmadeinwomen’seducation,
hasmadetheminsomedegreecapableofbeinghiscompanionsinideasand
mentaltaste,whileleavingthem,inmostcases,stillhopelesslyinferior
tohim。Hisdesireofmentalcommunionisthusingeneralsatisfiedbya
communionfromwhichhelearnsnothing。Anunimprovingandunstimulating
companionshipissubstitutedfor(whathemightotherwisehavebeenobliged
toseek)thesocietyofhisequalsinpowersandhisfellowsinthehigher
pursuits。Wesee,accordingly,thatyoungmenofthegreatestpromisegenerally
ceasetoimproveassoonastheymarry,and,notimproving,inevitablydegenerate。
Ifthewifedoesnotpushthehusbandforward,shealwaysholdshimback。
Heceasestocareforwhatshedoesnotcarefor;henolongerdesires,and
endsbydislikingandshunning,societycongenialtohisformeraspirations,
andwhichwouldnowshamehisfalling—offfromthem;hishigherfaculties
bothofmindandheartceasetobecalledintoactivity。Andthischange
coincidingwiththenewandselfishinterestswhicharecreatedbythefamily,
afterafewyearshediffersinnomaterialrespectfromthosewhohavenever
hadwishesforanythingbutthecommonvanitiesandthecommonpecuniaryobjects。Whatmarriagemaybeinthecaseoftwopersonsofcultivatedfaculties,
identicalinopinionsandpurposes,betweenwhomthereexiststhatbestkind
ofequality,similarityofpowersandcapacitieswithreciprocalsuperiority
inthem——sothateachcanenjoytheluxuryoflookinguptotheother,
andcanhavealternatelythepleasureofleadingandofbeingledinthe
pathofdevelopment——Iwillnotattempttodescribe。Tothosewhocanconceive
it,thereisnoneed;tothosewhocannot,itwouldappearthedreamofan
enthusiast。ButImaintain,withtheprofoundestconviction,thatthis,and
thisonly,istheidealofmarriage;andthatallopinions,customs,and
institutionswhichfavouranyothernotionofit,orturntheconceptions
andaspirationsconnectedwithitintoanyotherdirection,bywhateverpretences
theymaybecoloured,arerelicsofprimitivebarbarism。Themoralregeneration
ofmankindwillonlyreallycommence,whenthemostfundamentalofthesocial
relationsisplacedundertheruleofequaljustice,andwhenhumanbeings
learntocultivatetheirstrongestsympathywithanequalinnightsandincultivation。Thusfar,thebenefitswhichithasappearedthattheworldwouldgain
byceasingtomakesexadisqualificationforprivilegesandabadgeofsubjection,
aresocialratherthanindividual;consistinginanincreaseofthegeneral
fundofthinkingandactingpower,andanimprovementinthegeneralconditions
oftheassociationofmenwithwomen。Butitwouldbeagrievousunderstatement
ofthecasetoomitthemostdirectbenefitofall,theunspeakablegain
inprivatehappinesstotheliberatedhalfofthespecies;thedifference
tothembetweenalifeofsubjectiontothewillofothers,andalifeof
rationalfreedom。Aftertheprimarynecessitiesoffoodandraiment,freedom
isthefirstandstrongestwantofhumannature。Whilemankindarelawless,
theirdesireisforlawlessfreedom。Whentheyhavelearnttounderstand
themeaningofdutyandthevalueofreason,theyinclinemoreandmoreto
beguidedandrestrainedbytheseintheexerciseoftheirfreedom;butthey
donotthereforedesirefreedomless;theydonotbecomedisposedtoaccept
thewillofotherpeopleastherepresentativeandinterpreterofthoseguiding
principles。Onthecontrary,thecommunitiesinwhichthereasonhasbeen
mostcultivated,andinwhichtheideaofsocialdutyhasbeenmostpowerful,
arethosewhichhavemoststronglyassertedthefreedomofactionofthe
individual——thelibertyofeachtogovernhisconductbyhisownfeelings
ofduty,andbysuchlawsandsocialrestraintsashisownconsciencecansubscribeto。Hewhowouldrightlyappreciatetheworthofpersonalindependenceas
anelementofhappiness,shouldconsiderthevaluehehimselfputsuponit
asaningredientofhisown。Thereisnosubjectonwhichthereisagreater
habitualdifferenceofjudgmentbetweenamanjudgingforhimself,andthe
samemanjudgingforotherpeople。Whenhehearsotherscomplainingthat
theyarenotallowedfreedomofaction——thattheirownwillhasnotsufficient
influenceintheregulationoftheiraffairs——hisinclinationis,toask,
whataretheirgrievances?whatpositivedamagetheysustain?andinwhat
respecttheyconsidertheiraffairstobemismanaged?andiftheyfailto
makeout,inanswertothesequestions,whatappearstohimasufficient
case,heturnsadeafear,andregardstheircomplaintasthefancifulquerulousness
ofpeoplewhomnothingreasonablewillsatisfy。Buthehasaquitedifferent
standardofjudgmentwhenheisdecidingforhimself。Then,themostunexceptionable
administrationofhisinterestsbyatutorsetoverhim,doesnotsatisfy
hisfeelings:hispersonalexclusionfromthedecidingauthorityappears
itselfthegreatestgrievanceofall,renderingitsuperfluouseventoenter
intothequestionofmismanagement。Itisthesamewithnations。Whatcitizen
ofafreecountrywouldlistentoanyoffersofgoodandskilfuladministration,
inreturnfortheabdicationoffreedom?Evenifhecouldbelievethatgood
andskilfuladministrationcanexistamongapeopleruledbyawillnottheir
own,wouldnottheconsciousnessofworkingouttheirowndestinyundertheir
ownmoralresponsibilitybeacompensationtohisfeelingsforgreatrudeness
andimperfectioninthedetailsofpublicaffairs?Lethimrestassuredthat
whateverhefeelsonthispoint,womenfeelinafullyequaldegree。Whatever
hasbeensaidorwritten,fromthetimeofHerodotustothepresent,ofthe
ennoblinginfluenceoffreegovernment——thenerveandspringwhichitgives
toallthefaculties,thelargerandhigherobjectswhichitpresentsto
theintellectandfeelings,themoreunselfishpublicspirit,andcalmer
andbroaderviewsofduty,thatitengenders,andthegenerallyloftierplatform
onwhichitelevatestheindividualasamoral,spiritual,andsocialbeing
——iseveryparticleastrueofwomenasofmen。Arethesethingsnoimportant
partofindividualhappiness?Letanymancalltomindwhathehimselffelt
onemergingfromboyhood——fromthetutelageandcontrolofevenlovedand
affectionateelders——andenteringupontheresponsibilitiesofmanhood。
Wasitnotlikethephysicaleffectoftakingoffaheavyweight,orreleasing
himfromobstructive,evenifnototherwisepainful,bonds?Didhenotfeel
twiceasmuchalive,twiceasmuchahumanbeing,asbefore?Anddoeshe
imaginethatwomenhavenoneofthesefeelings?Butitisastrikingfact,
thatthesatisfactionsandmortificationsofpersonalpride,thoughallin
alltomostmenwhenthecaseistheirown,havelessallowancemadefor
theminthecaseofotherpeople,andarelesslistenedtoasagroundor
ajustificationofconduct,thananyothernaturalhumanfeelings;perhaps
becausemencomplimentthemintheirowncasewiththenamesofsomanyother
qualities,thattheyareseldomconscioushowmightyaninfluencethesefeelings
exerciseintheirownlives。Nolesslargeandpowerfulistheirpart,we
mayassureourselves,inthelivesandfeelingsofwomen。Womenareschooled
intosuppressingthemintheirmostnaturalandmosthealthydirection,but
theinternalprincipleremains,inadifferentoutwardform。Anactiveand
energeticmind,ifdeniedliberty,willseekforpower:refusedthecommand
ofitself,itwillassertitspersonalitybyattemptingtocontrolothers。
Toallowtoanyhumanbeingsnoexistenceoftheirownbutwhatdependson
others,isgivingfartoohighapremiumonbendingotherstotheirpurposes。
Wherelibertycannotbehopedfor,andpowercan,powerbecomesthegrand
objectofhumandesire;thosetowhomotherswillnotleavetheundisturbed
managementoftheirownaffairs,willcompensatethemselves,iftheycan,
bymeddlingfortheirownpurposeswiththeaffairsofothers。Hencealso
women’spassionforpersonalbeauty,anddressanddisplay;andalltheevils
thatflowfromit,inthewayofmischievousluxuryandsocialimmorality。
Theloveofpowerandtheloveoflibertyareineternalantagonism。Where
thereisleastliberty,thepassionforpoweristhemostardentandunscrupulous。
Thedesireofpoweroverotherscanonlyceasetobeadepravingagencyamong
mankind,wheneachofthemindividuallyisabletodowithoutit:whichcan
onlybewhererespectforlibertyinthepersonalconcernsofeachisanestablishedprinciple。Butitisnotonlythroughthesentimentofpersonaldignity,thatthe
freedirectionanddisposaloftheirownfacultiesisasourceofindividual
happiness,andtobefetteredandrestrictedinit,asourceofunhappiness,
tohumanbeings,andnotleasttowomen。Thereisnothing,afterdisease,
indigence,andguilt,sofataltothepleasurableenjoymentoflifeasthe
wantofaworthyoutletfortheactivefaculties。Womenwhohavethecares
ofafamily,andwhiletheyhavethecaresofafamily,havethisoutlet,
anditgenerallysufficesforthem:butwhatofthegreatlyincreasingnumber
ofwomen,whohavehadnoopportunityofexercisingthevocationwhichthey
aremockedbytellingthemistheirproperone?Whatofthewomenwhosechildren
havebeenlosttothembydeathordistance,orhavegrownup,married,and
formedhomesoftheirown?Thereareabundantexamplesofmenwho,after
alifeengrossedbybusiness,retirewithacompetencytotheenjoyment,
astheyhope,ofrest,buttowhom,astheyareunabletoacquirenewinterests
andexcitementsthatcanreplacetheold,thechangetoalifeofinactivity
bringsennui,melancholy,andprematuredeath。Yetnoonethinksoftheparallel
caseofsomanyworthyanddevotedwomen,who,havingpaidwhattheyare
toldistheirdebttosociety——havingbroughtupafamilyblamelesslyto
manhoodandwomanhood——havingkeptahouseaslongastheyhadahouse
needingtobekept——aredesertedbythesoleoccupationforwhichthey
havefittedthemselves;andremainwithundiminishedactivitybutwithno
employmentforit,unlessperhapsadaughterordaughter—in—lawiswilling
toabdicateintheirfavourthedischargeofthesamefunctionsinheryounger
household。Surelyahardlotfortheoldageofthosewhohaveworthilydischarged,
aslongasitwasgiventothemtodischarge,whattheworldaccountstheir
onlysocialduty。Ofsuchwomen,andofthoseotherstowhomthisdutyhas
notbeencommittedatall——manyofwhompinethroughlifewiththeconsciousness
ofthwartedvocations,andactivitieswhicharenotsufferedtoexpand——
theonlyresources,speakinggenerally,arereligionandcharity。Buttheir
religion,thoughitmaybeoneoffeeling,andofceremonialobservance,
cannotbeareligionofaction,unlessintheformofcharity。Forcharity
manyofthemarebynatureadmirablyfitted;buttopractiseitusefully,
orevenwithoutdoingmischief,requirestheeducation,themanifoldpreparation,
theknowledgeandthethinkingpowers,ofaskilfuladministrator。There
arefewoftheadministrativefunctionsofgovernmentforwhichaperson
wouldnotbefit,whoisfittobestowcharityusefully。Inthisasinother
cases(pre—eminentlyinthatoftheeducationofchildren),thedutiespermitted
towomencannotbeperformedproperly,withouttheirbeingtrainedforduties
which,tothegreatlossofsociety,arenotpermittedtothem。Andhere
letmenoticethesingularwayinwhichthequestionofwomen’sdisabilities
isfrequentlypresentedtoview,bythosewhofinditeasiertodrawaludicrous
pictureofwhattheydonotlike,thantoanswertheargumentsforit。When
itissuggestedthatwomen’sexecutivecapacitiesandprudentcounselsmight
sometimesbefoundvaluableinaffairsofState,theseloversoffunhold
uptotheridiculeoftheworld,assittinginParliamentorintheCabinet,
girlsintheirteens,oryoungwivesoftwoorthreeandtwenty,transported
bodily,exactlyastheyare,fromthedrawing—roomtotheHouseofCommons。
Theyforgetthatmalesarenotusuallyselectedatthisearlyageforaseat
inParliament,orforresponsiblepoliticalfunctions。Commonsensewould
tellthemthatifsuchtrustswereconfidedtowomen,itwouldbetosuch
ashavingnospecialvocationformarriedlife,orpreferringanotheremployment
oftheirfaculties(asmanywomenevennowprefertomarriagesomeofthe
fewhonourableoccupationswithintheirreach),havespentthebestyears
oftheiryouthinattemptingtoqualifythemselvesforthepursuitsinwhich
theydesiretoengage;orstillmorefrequentlyperhaps,widowsorwives
offortyorfifty,bywhomtheknow—ledgeoflifeandfacultyofgovernment
whichtheyhaveacquiredintheirfamilies,couldbytheaidofappropriate
studiesbemadeavailableonalesscontractedscale。Thereisnocountry
ofEuropeinwhichtheablestmenhavenotfrequentlyexperienced,andkeenly
appreciated,thevalueoftheadviceandhelpofcleverandexperiencedwomen
oftheworld,intheattainmentbothofprivateandofpublicobjects;and
thereareimportantmattersofpublicadministrationtowhichfewmenare
equallycompetentwithsuchwomen;amongothers,thedetailedcontrolof
expenditure。Butwhatwearenowdiscussingisnottheneedwhichsociety
hasoftheservicesofwomeninpublicbusiness,butthedullandhopeless
lifetowhichitsooftencondemnsthem,byforbiddingthemtoexercisethe
practicalabilitieswhichmanyofthemareconsciousof,inanywiderfield
thanonewhichtosomeofthemneverwas,andtoothersisnolonger,open。
Ifthereisanythingvitallyimportanttothehappinessofhumanbeings,
itisthattheyshouldrelishtheirhabitualpursuit。Thisrequisiteofan
enjoyablelifeisveryimperfectlygranted,oraltogetherdenied,toalarge
partofmankind;andbyitsabsencemanyalifeisafailure,whichisprovided,
inappearance,witheveryrequisiteofsuccess。Butifcircumstanceswhich
societyisnotyetskilfulenoughtoovercome,rendersuchfailuresoften
forthepresentinevitable,societyneednotitselfinflictthem。Theinjudiciousness
ofparents,ayouth’sowninexperience,ortheabsenceofexternalopportunities
forthecongenialvocation,andtheirpresenceforanuncongenial,condemn
numbersofmentopasstheirlivesindoingonethingreluctantlyandill,
whenthereareotherthingswhichtheycouldhavedonewellandhappily。
Butonwomenthissentenceisimposedbyactuallaw,andbycustomsequivalent
tolaw。What,inunenlightenedsocieties,colour,race,religion,orinthe
caseofaconqueredcountry,nationality,aretosomemen,sexistoall
women;aperemptoryexclusionfromalmostallhonourableoccupations,but
eithersuchascannotbefulfilledbyothers,orsuchasthoseothersdo
notthinkworthyoftheiracceptance。Sufferingsarisingfromcausesofthis
natureusuallymeetwithsolittlesympathy,thatfewpersonsareawareof
thegreatamountofunhappinessevennowproducedbythefeelingofawasted
life。Thecasewillbeevenmorefrequent,asincreasedcultivationcreates
agreaterandgreaterdisproportionbetweentheideasandfaculties——ofwomen,andthescopewhichsocietyallowstotheiractivity。Whenweconsiderthepositiveevilcausedtothedisqualifiedhalfof
thehumanracebytheirdisqualification——firstinthelossofthemost
inspiritingandelevatingkindofpersonalenjoyment,andnextintheweariness,
disappointment,andprofounddissatisfactionwithlife,whicharesooften
thesubstituteforit;onefeelsthatamongallthelessonswhichmenrequire
forcarryingonthestruggleagainsttheinevitableimperfectionsoftheir
lotonearth,thereisnolessonwhichtheymoreneed,thannottoaddto
theevilswhichnatureinflicts,bytheirjealousandprejudicedrestrictions
ononeanother。Theirvainfearsonlysubstituteotherandworseevilsfor
thosewhichtheyareidlyapprehensiveof:whileeveryrestraintonthefreedom
ofconductofanyoftheirhumanfellow—creatures(otherwisethanbymaking
themresponsibleforanyevilactuallycausedbyit),driesupprotanto
theprincipalfountainofhumanhappiness,andleavesthespecieslessrich,
toaninappreciabledegree,inallthatmakeslifevaluabletotheindividual
humanbeing。