第2章

Manufacturershavestoodinthepilloryforpresumingtocarryontheirbusiness

bynewandimprovedmethods。InmodernEurope,andmostinthosepartsof

itwhichhaveparticipatedmostlargelyinallothermodernimprovements,

diametricallyoppositedoctrinesnowprevail。Lawandgovernmentdonotundertake

toprescribebywhomanysocialorindustrialoperationshallorshallnot

beconducted,orwhatmodesofconductingthemshallbelawful。Thesethings

arelefttotheunfetteredchoiceofindividuals。Eventhelawswhichrequired

thatworkmenshouldserveanapprenticeship,haveinthiscountrybeenrepealed:

therebeingampleassurancethatinallcasesinwhichanapprenticeship

isnecessary,itsnecessitywillsufficetoenforceit。Theoldtheorywas,

thattheleastpossibleshouldbelefttothechoiceoftheindividualagent;

thatallhehadtodoshould,asfaraspracticable,belaiddownforhim

bysuperiorwisdom。Lefttohimselfhewassuretogowrong。Themodernconviction,

thefruitofathousandyearsofexperience,is,thatthingsinwhichthe

individualisthepersondirectlyinterested,nevergorightbutasthey

arelefttohisowndiscretion;andthatanyregulationofthembyauthority,

excepttoprotecttherightsofothers,issuretobemischievous。Thisconclusion

slowlyarrivedat,andnotadopteduntilalmosteverypossibleapplication

ofthecontrarytheoryhadbeenmadewithdisastrousresult,now(inthe

industrialdepartment)prevailsuniversallyinthemostadvancedcountries,

almostuniversallyinallthathavepretensionstoanysortofadvancement。

Itisnotthatallprocessesaresupposedtobeequallygood,orallpersons

tobeequallyqualifiedforeverything;butthatfreedomofindividualchoice

isnowknowntobetheonlythingwhichprocurestheadoptionofthebest

processes,andthrowseachoperationintothehandsofthosewhoarebest

qualifiedforit。Nobodythinksitnecessarytomakealawthatonlyastrong—armed

manshallbeablacksmith。Freedomandcompetitionsufficetomakeblacksmiths

strong—armedmen,becausetheweakarmedcanearnmorebyengaginginoccupations

forwhichtheyaremorefit。Inconsonancewiththisdoctrine,itisfelt

tobeanoversteppingoftheproperboundsofauthoritytofixbeforehand,

onsomegeneralpresumption,thatcertainpersonsarenotfittodocertain

things。Itisnowthoroughlyknownandadmittedthatifsomesuchpresumptions

exist,nosuchpresumptionisinfallible。Evenifitbewellgroundedin

amajorityofcases,whichitisverylikelynottobe,therewillbeaminority

ofexceptionalcasesinwhichitdoesnothold:andinthoseitisbothan

injusticetotheindividuals,andadetrimenttosociety,toplacebarriers

inthewayoftheirusingtheirfacultiesfortheirownbenefitandforthat

ofothers。Inthecases,ontheotherhand,inwhichtheunfitnessisreal,

theordinarymotivesofhumanconductwillonthewholesufficetopreventtheincompetentpersonfrommaking,orfrompersistingin,theattempt。Ifthisgeneralprincipleofsocialandeconomicalscienceisnottrue;

ifindividuals,withsuchhelpastheycanderivefromtheopinionofthose

whoknowthem,arenotbetterjudgesthanthelawandthegovernment,of

theirowncapacitiesandvocation;theworldcannottoosoonabandonthis

principle,andreturntotheoldsystemofregulationsanddisabilities。

Butiftheprincipleistrue,weoughttoactasifwebelievedit,andnot

toordainthattobebornagirlinsteadofaboy,anymorethantobeborn

blackinsteadofwhite,oracommonerinsteadofanobleman,shalldecide

theperson’spositionthroughalllife——shallinterdictpeoplefromall

themoreelevatedsocialpositions,andfromall,exceptafew,respectable

occupations。Evenwerewetoadmittheutmostthatiseverpretendedato

thesuperiorfitnessofmenforallthefunctionsnowreservetothem,the

sameargumentapplieswhichforbidsalegalqualificationforMembersof

Parliament。Ifonlyonceinadozenyearstheconditionsofeligibilityexclude

afitperson,thereisarealloss,whiletheexclusionofthousandsofunfit

personsisnogain;foriftheconstitutionoftheelectoralbodydisposes

themtochooseunfitpersons,therearealwaysplentyofsuchpersonsto

choosefrom。Inallthingsofanydifficultyandimportance,thosewhocan

dothemwellarefewerthantheneed,evenwiththemostunrestrictedlatitude

ofchoice:andanylimitationofthefieldofselectiondeprivessociety

ofsomechancesofbeingservedbythecompetent,withouteversavingitfromtheincompetent。Atpresent,inthemoreimprovedcountries,thedisabilitiesofwomen

aretheonlycase,saveone,inwhichlawsandinstitutionstakepersons

attheirbirth,andordainthattheyshallneverinalltheirlivesbeallowed

tocompeteforcertainthings。Theoneexceptionisthatofroyalty。Persons

stillareborntothethrone;noone,notofthereigningfamily,canever

occupyit,andnooneevenofthatfamilycan,byanymeansbutthecourse

ofhereditarysuccession,attainit。Allotherdignitiesandsocialadvantages

areopentothewholemalesex:manyindeedareonlyattainablebywealth,

butwealthmaybestrivenforbyanyone,andisactuallyobtainedbymany

menoftheveryhumblestorigin。Thedifficulties,tothemajority,areindeed

insuperablewithouttheaidoffortunateaccidents;butnomalehumanbeing

isunderanylegalban:neitherlawnoropinionsuperaddartificialobstacles

tothenaturalones。Royalty,asIhavesaid,isexcepted:butinthiscase

everyonefeelsittobeanexception——ananomalyinthemodernworld,in

markedoppositiontoitscustomsandprinciples,andtobejustifiedonly

byextraordinaryspecialexpediences,which,thoughindividualsandnations

differinestimatingtheirweight,unquestionablydoinfactexist。Butin

thisexceptionalcase,inwhichahighsocialfunctionis,forimportant

reasons,bestowedonbirthinsteadofbeingputuptocompetition,allfree

nationscontrivetoadhereinsubstancetotheprinciplefromwhichthey

nominallyderogate;fortheycircumscribethishighfunctionbyconditions

avowedlyintendedtopreventthepersontowhomitostensiblybelongsfrom

reallyperformingit;whilethepersonbywhomitisperformed,theresponsible

minister,doesobtainthepostbyacompetitionfromwhichnofull—grown

citizenofthemalesexislegallyexcluded。Thedisabilities,therefore,

towhichwomenaresubjectfromthemerefactoftheirbirth,arethesolitary

examplesofthekindinmodernlegislation。Innoinstanceexceptthis,which

comprehendshalfthehumanrace,arethehighersocialfunctionsclosedagainst

anyonebyafatalityofbirthwhichnoexertions,andnochangeofcircumstances,

canovercome;forevenreligiousdisabilities(besidesthatinEnglandand

inEuropetheyhavepracticallyalmostceasedtoexist)donotcloseanycareertothedisqualifiedpersonincaseofconversion。Thesocialsubordinationofwomenthusstandsoutanisolatedfactin

modernsocialinstitutions;asolitarybreachofwhathasbecometheirfundamental

law;asinglerelicofanoldworldofthoughtandpracticeexplodedineverything

else,butretainedintheonethingofmostuniversalinterest;asifagigantic

dolmen,oravasttempleofJupiterOlympius,occupiedthesiteofSt。Paul’s

andreceiveddailyworship,whilethesurroundingChristianchurcheswere

onlyresortedtoonfastsandfestivals。Thisentirediscrepancybetween

onesocialfactandallthosewhichaccompanyit,andtheradicalopposition

betweenitsnatureandtheprogressivemovementwhichistheboastofthe

modernworld,andwhichhassuccessivelysweptawayeverythingelseofan

analogouscharacter,surelyaffords,toaconscientiousobserverofhuman

tendencies,seriousmatterforreflection。Itraisesaprimafaciepresumption

ontheunfavourableside,faroutweighinganywhichcustomandusagecould

insuchcircumstancescreateonthefavourable;andshouldatleastsuffice

tomakethis,likethechoicebetweenrepublicanismandroyalty,abalancedquestion。Theleastthatcanbedemandedis,thatthequestionshouldnotbeconsidered

asprejudgedbyexistingfactandexistingopinion,butopentodiscussion

onitsmerits,asaquestionofjusticeandexpediency:thedecisiononthis,

asonanyoftheothersocialarrangementsofmankind,dependingonwhat

anenlightenedestimateoftendenciesandconsequencesmayshowtobemost

advantageoustohumanityingeneral,withoutdistinctionofsex。Andthe

discussionmustbearealdiscussion,descendingtofoundations,andnot

restingsatisfiedwithvagueandgeneralassertions。Itwillnotdo,for

instancetoassertingeneralterms,thattheexperienceofmankindhaspronounced

infavouroftheexistingsystem。Experiencecannotpossiblyhavedecided

betweentwocourses,solongastherehasonlybeenexperienceofone。If

itbesaidthatthedoctrineoftheequalityofthesexesrestsonlyontheory,

itmustberememberedthatthecontrarydoctrinealsohasonlytheoryto

restupon。Allthatisprovedinitsfavourbydirectexperience,isthat

mankindhavebeenabletoexistunderit,andtoattainthedegreeofimprovement

andprosperitywhichwenowsee;butwhetherthatprosperityhasbeenattained

sooner,orisnowgreater,thanitwouldhavebeenundertheothersystem,

experiencedoesnotsay。Ontheotherhand,experiencedoessay,thatevery

stepinimprovementhasbeensoinvariablyaccompaniedbyastepmadein

raisingthesocialpositionofwomen,thathistoriansandphilosophershave

beenledtoadopttheirelevationordebasementasonthewholethesurest

testandmostcorrectmeasureofthecivilisationofapeopleoranage。

Throughalltheprogressiveperiodofhumanhistory,theconditionofwomen

hasbeenapproachingnearertoequalitywithmen。Thisdoesnotofitself

provethattheassimilationmustgoontocompleteequality;butitassuredlyaffordssomepresumptionthatsuchisthecase。Neitherdoesitavailanythingtosaythatthenatureofthetwosexes

adaptsthemtotheirpresentfunctionsandposition,andrenderstheseappropriate

tothem。Standingonthegroundofcommonsenseandtheconstitutionofthe

humanmind,Idenythatanyoneknows,orcanknow,thenatureofthetwo

sexes,aslongastheyhaveonlybeenseenintheirpresentrelationtoone

another。Ifmenhadeverbeenfoundinsocietywithoutwomen,orwomenwithout

men,oriftherehadbeenasocietyofmenandwomeninwhichthewomenwere

notunderthecontrolofthemen,somethingmighthavebeenpositivelyknown

aboutthementalandmoraldifferenceswhichmaybeinherentinthenature

ofeach。Whatisnowcalledthenatureofwomenisaneminentlyartificial

thing——theresultofforcedrepressioninsomedirections,unnaturalstimulation

inothers。Itmaybeassertedwithoutscruple,thatnootherclassofdependents

havehadtheircharactersoentirelydistortedfromitsnaturalproportions

bytheirrelationwiththeirmasters;for,ifconqueredandslaveraceshave

been,insomerespects,moreforciblyrepressed,whateverinthemhasnot

beencrusheddownbyanironheelhasgenerallybeenletalone,andifleft

withanylibertyofdevelopment,ithasdevelopeditselfaccordingtoits

ownlaws;butinthecaseofwomen,ahot—houseandstovecultivationhas

alwaysbeencarriedonofsomeofthecapabilitiesoftheirnature,forthe

benefitandpleasureoftheirmastersThen,becausecertainproductsofthe

generalvitalforcesproutluxuriantlyandreachagreatdevelopmentinthis

heatedatmosphereandunderthisactivenurtureandwatering,whileother

shootsfromthesameroot,whichareleftoutsideinthewintryair,with

icepurposelyheapedallroundthem,haveastuntedgrowth,andsomeare

burntoffwithfireanddisappear;men,withthatinabilitytorecognise

theirownworkwhichdistinguishestheunanalyticmind,indolentlybelieve

thatthetreegrowsofitselfinthewaytheyhavemadeitgrow,andthat

itwoulddieifonehalfofitwerenotkeptinavapourbathandtheotherhalfinthesnow。Ofalldifficultieswhichimpedetheprogressofthought,andtheformation

ofwell—groundedopinionsonlifeandsocialarrangements,thegreatestis

nowtheunspeakableignoranceandinattentionofmankindinrespecttothe

influenceswhichformhumancharacter。Whateveranyportionofthehuman

speciesnoware,orseemtobe,such,itissupposed,theyhaveanatural

tendencytobe:evenwhenthemostelementaryknowledgeofthecircumstances

inwhichtheyhavebeenplaced,clearlypointsoutthecausesthatmadethem

whattheyare。Becauseacottierdeeplyinarrearstohislandlordisnot

industrious,therearepeoplewhothinkthattheIrisharenaturallyidle。

Becauseconstitutionscanbeoverthrownwhentheauthoritiesappointedto

executethemturntheirarmsagainstthem,therearepeoplewhothinkthe

Frenchincapableoffreegovernment。BecausetheGreekscheatedtheTurks,

andtheTurksonlyplunderedtheGreeks,therearepersonswhothinkthat

theTurksarenaturallymoresincere:andbecausewomen,asisoftensaid,

carenothingaboutpoliticsexcepttheirpersonalities,itissupposedthat

thegeneralgoodisnaturallylessinterestingtowomenthantomen。History,

whichisnowsomuchbetterunderstoodthanformerly,teachesanotherlesson:

ifonlybyshowingtheextraordinarysusceptibilityofhumannaturetoexternal

influences,andtheextremevariablenessofthoseofitsmanifestationswhich

aresupposedtobemostuniversalanduniform。Butinhistory,asintravelling,

menusuallyseeonlywhattheyalreadyhadintheirownminds;andfewlearnmuchfromhistory,whodonotbringmuchwiththemtoitsstudy。Hence,inregardtothatmostdifficultquestion,whatarethenatural

differencesbetweenthetwosexes——asubjectonwhichitisimpossible

inthepresentstateofsocietytoobtaincompleteandcorrectknowledge

——whilealmosteverybodydogmatisesuponit,almostallneglectandmake

lightoftheonlymeansbywhichanypartialinsightcanbeobtainedinto

it。Thisis,ananalyticstudyofthemostimportantdepartmentofpsychology,

thelawsoftheinfluenceofcircumstancesoncharacter。For,howevergreat

andapparentlyineradicablethemoralandintellectualdifferencesbetween

menandwomenmightbe,theevidenceoftherebeingnaturaldifferencescould

onlybenegative。Thoseonlycouldbeinferredtobenaturalwhichcould

notpossiblybeartificial——theresiduum,afterdeductingeverycharacteristic

ofeithersexwhichcanadmitofbeingexplainedfromeducationorexternal

circumstances。Theprofoundestknowledgeofthelawsoftheformationof

characterisindispensabletoentitleanyonetoaffirmeventhatthereis

anydifference,muchmorewhatthedifferenceis,betweenthetwosexesconsidered

asmoralandrationalbeings;andsincenoone,asyet,hasthatknowledge

(forthereishardlyanysubjectwhich,inproportiontoitsimportance,

hasbeensolittlestudied),nooneisthusfarentitledtoanypositive

opiniononthesubject。Conjecturesareallthatcanatpresentbemade;

conjecturesmoreorlessprobable,accordingasmoreorlessauthorisedby

suchknowledgeasweyethaveofthelawsofpsychology,asappliedtotheformationofcharacter。Eventhepreliminaryknowledge,whatthedifferencesbetweenthesexes

noware,apartfromallquestionastohowtheyaremadewhattheyare,is

stillinthecrudestandmost’incompletestate。Medicalpractitionersand

physiologistshaveascertained,tosomeextent,thedifferencesinbodily

constitution;andthisisanimportantelementtothepsychologist:buthardly

anymedicalpractitionerisapsychologist。Respectingthementalcharacteristics

ofwomen;theirobservationsareofnomoreworththanthoseofcommonmen。

Itisasubjectonwhichnothingfinalcanbeknown,solongasthosewho

alonecanreallyknowit,womenthemselves,havegivenbutlittletestimony,

andthatlittle,mostlysuborned。Itiseasytoknowstupidwomen。Stupidity

ismuchthesamealltheworldover。Astupidperson’snotionsandfeelings

mayconfidentlybeinferredfromthosewhichprevailinthecirclebywhich

thepersonissurrounded。Notsowiththosewhoseopinionsandfeelingsare

anemanationfromtheirownnatureandfaculties。Itisonlyamanhereand

therewhohasanytolerableknowledgeofthecharacterevenofthewomen

ofhisownfamily。Idonotmean,oftheircapabilities;thesenobodyknows,

noteventhemselves,becausemostofthemhaveneverbeencalledout。Imean

theiractuallyexistingthoughtsandfeelings。Manyamanthinksheperfectly

understandswomen,becausehehashadamatoryrelationswithseveral,perhaps

withmanyofthem。Ifheisagoodobserver,andhisexperienceextendsto

qualityaswellasquantity,hemayhavelearntsomethingofonenarrowdepartment

oftheirnature——animportantdepartment,nodoubt。Butofalltherest

ofit,fewpersonsaregenerallymoreignorant,becausetherearefewfrom

whomitissocarefullyhidden。Themostfavourablecasewhichamancan

generallyhaveforstudyingthecharacterofawoman,isthatofhisown

wife:fortheopportunitiesaregreater,andthecasesofcompletesympathy

notsounspeakablyrare。Andinfact,thisisthesourcefromwhichanyknowledge

worthhavingonthesubjecthas,Ibelieve,generallycome。Butmostmen

havenothadtheopportunityofstudyinginthiswaymorethanasinglecase:

accordinglyonecan,toanalmostlaughabledegree,inferwhataman’swife

islike,fromhisopinionsaboutwomeningeneral。Tomakeeventhisone

caseyieldanyresult,thewomanmustbeworthknowing,andthemannotonly

acompetentjudge,butofacharactersosympatheticinitself,andsowell

adaptedtohers,thathecaneitherreadhermindbysympatheticintuition,

orhasnothinginhimselfwhichmakeshershyofdisclosingit,Hardlyanything,

Ibelieve,canbemorerarethanthisconjunction。Itoftenhappensthat

thereisthemostcompleteunityoffeelingandcommunityofinterestsas

toallexternalthings,yettheonehasaslittleadmissionintotheinternal

lifeoftheotherasiftheywerecommonacquaintance。Evenwithtrueaffection,

authorityontheonesideandsubordinationontheotherpreventperfect

confidence。Thoughnothingmaybeintentionallywithheld,muchisnotshown。

Intheanalogousrelationofparentandchild,thecorrespondingphenomenon

musthavebeenintheobservationofeveryone。Asbetweenfatherandson,

howmanyarethecasesinwhichthefather,inspiteofrealaffectionon

bothsides,obviouslytoalltheworlddoesnotknow,norsuspect,parts

oftheson’scharacterfamiliartohiscompanionsandequals。Thetruthis,

thatthepositionoflookinguptoanotherisextremelyunpropitioustocomplete

sincerityandopennesswithhim。Thefearoflosinggroundinhisopinion

orinhisfeelingsissostrong,thateveninanuprightcharacter,there

isanunconscioustendencytoshowonlythebestside,orthesidewhich,

thoughnotthebest,isthatwhichhemostlikestosee:anditmaybeconfidently

saidthatthoroughknowledgeofoneanotherhardlyeverexists,butbetween

personswho,besidesbeingintimates,areequals。Howmuchmoretrue,then,

mustallthisbe,whentheoneisnotonlyundertheauthorityoftheother,

buthasitinculcatedonherasadutytoreckoneverythingelsesubordinate

tohiscomfortandpleasure,andtolethimneitherseenorfeelanything

comingfromher,exceptwhatisagreeabletohim。Allthesedifficulties

standinthewayofaman’sobtaininganythoroughknowledgeevenofthe

onewomanwhomalone,ingeneral,hehassufficientopportunityofstudying。

Whenwefurtherconsiderthattounderstandonewomanisnotnecessarily

tounderstandanyotherwoman;thatevenifhecouldstudymanywomenof

onerank,orofonecountry,hewouldnottherebyunderstandwomenofother

ranksorcountries;andevenifhedid,theyarestillonlythewomenof

asingleperiodofhistory;wemaysafelyassertthattheknowledgewhich

mencanacquireofwomen,evenastheyhavebeenandare,withoutreference

towhattheymightbe,iswretchedlyimperfectandsuperficial,andalwayswillbeso,untilwomenthemselveshavetoldallthattheyhavetotell。Andthistimehasnotcome;norwillitcomeotherwisethangradually。

Itisbutofyesterdaythatwomenhaveeitherbeenqualifiedbyliterary

accomplishmentsorpermittedbysociety,totellanythingtothegeneral

public。Asyetveryfewofthemdaretellanything,whichmen,onwhomtheir

literarysuccessdepends,areunwillingtohear。Letusrememberinwhat

manner,uptoaveryrecenttime,theexpression,evenbyamaleauthor,

ofuncustomaryopinions,orwhataredeemedeccentricfeelings,usuallywas,

andinsomedegreestillis,received;andwemayformsomefaintconception

underwhatimpedimentsawoman,whoisbroughtuptothinkcustomandopinion

hersovereignrule,attemptstoexpressinbooksanythingdrawnfromthe

depthsofherownnature。Thegreatestwomanwhohasleftwritingsbehind

hersufficienttogiveheraneminentrankintheliteratureofhercountry,

thoughtitnecessarytoprefixasamottotoherboldestwork,\"Unhomme

peutbraverl’opinion;unefemmedoits’ysoumettre。\"(1*)Thegreater

partofwhatwomenwriteaboutwomenismeresycophancytomen。Inthecase

ofunmarriedwomen,muchofitseemsonlyintendedtoincreasetheirchance

ofahusband。Many,bothmarriedandunmarried,overstepthemark,andinculcate

aservilitybeyondwhatisdesiredorrelishedbyanyman,exceptthevery

vulgarest。Butthisisnotsooftenthecaseas,evenataquitelateperiod,

itstillwas。LiterarywomenIarebecomingmorefree—spoken,andmorewilling

toexpresstheirrealsentiments。Unfortunately,inthiscountryespecially,

theyarethemselvessuchartificialproducts,thattheirsentimentsarecompounded

ofasmallelementofindividualobservationandconsciousness,andavery

largeoneofacquiredassociations。Thiswillbelessandlessthecase,

butitwillremaintruetoagreatextent,aslongassocialinstitutions

donotadmitthesamefreedevelopmentoforiginalityinwomenwhichispossible

tomen。Whenthattimecomes,andnotbefore,weshallsee,andnotmerely

hear,asmuchasitisnecessarytoknowofthenatureofwomen,andtheadaptationofotherthingstoit。Ihavedweltsomuchonthedifficultieswhichatpresentobstructany

realknowledgebymenofthetruenatureofwomen,becauseinthisasin

somanyotherthings\"opiniocopiaeintermaximascausasinopiaeest\";

andthereislittlechanceofreasonablethinkingonthematterwhilepeople

flatterthemselvesthattheyperfectlyunderstandasubjectofwhichmost

menknowabsolutelynothing,andofwhichitisatpresentimpossiblethat

anyman,orallmentakentogether,shouldhaveknowledgewhichcanqualify

themtolaydownthelawtowomenastowhatis,orisnot,theirvocation。

Happily,nosuchknowledgeisnecessaryforanypracticalpurposeconnected

withthepositionofwomenisrelationtosocietyandlife。For,according

toalltheprinciplesinvolvedinmodernsociety,thequestionrestswith

womenthemselves——tobedecidedbytheirownexperience,andbytheuse

oftheirownfaculties。Therearenomeansoffindingwhateitheroneperson

ormanycando,butbytrying——andnomeansbywhichanyoneelsecandiscoverforthemwhatitisfortheirhappinesstodoorleaveundone。Onethingwemaybecertainof——thatwhatiscontrarytowomen’snature

todo,theyneverwillbemadetodobysimplygivingtheirnaturefreeplay。

Theanxietyofmankindtointerfereinbehalfofnature,forfearlestnature

shouldnotsucceedineffectingitspurpose,isanaltogetherunnecessary

solicitude。Whatwomenbynaturecannotdo,itisquitesuperfluoustoforbid

themfromdoing。Whattheycando,butnotsowellasthemenwhoaretheir

competitors,competitionsufficestoexcludethemfrom;sincenobodyasks

forprotectivedutiesandbountiesinfavourofwomen;itisonlyaskedthat

thepresentbountiesandprotectivedutiesinfavourofmenshouldberecalled。

Ifwomenhaveagreaternaturalinclinationforsomethingsthanforothers,

thereisnoneedoflawsorsocialinculcationtomakethemajorityofthem

dotheformerinpreferencetothelatter。Whateverwomen’sservicesare

mostwantedfor,thefreeplayofcompetitionwillholdoutthestrongest

inducementstothemtoundertake。And,asthewordsimply,theyaremost

wantedforthethingsforwhichtheyaremostfit;bytheapportionmentof

whichtothem,thecollectivefacultiesofthetwosexescanbeappliedonthewholewiththegreatestsumofvaluableresult。Thegeneralopinionofmenissupposedtobe,thatthenaturalvocation

ofawomanisthatofawifeandmother。Isay,issupposedtobe,because,

judgingfromacts——fromthewholeofthepresentconstitutionofsociety

——onemightinferthattheiropinionwasthedirectcontrary。Theymight

besupposedtothinkthattheallegednaturalvocationofwomenwasofall

thingsthemostrepugnanttotheirnature;insomuchthatiftheyarefree

todoanythingelse——ifanyothermeansoflivingoroccupationoftheir

timeandfaculties,isopen,whichhasanychanceofappearingdesirable

tothem——therewillnotbeenoughofthemwhowillbewillingtoaccept

theconditionsaidtobenaturaltothem。Ifthisistherealopinionof

meningeneral,itwouldbewellthatitshouldbespokenout。Ishouldlike

tohearsomebodyopenlyenunciatingthedoctrine(itisalreadyimpliedin

muchthatiswrittenonthesubject)——Itisnecessarytosocietythatwomen

shouldmarryandproducechildren。Theywillnotdosounlesstheyarecompelled。

Thereforeitisnecessarytocompelthem。\"Themeritsofthecasewould

thenbeclearlydefined。Itwouldbeexactlythatoftheslave—holdersof

SouthCarolinaandLouisiana。\"Itisnecessarythatcottonandsugar

shouldbegrown。Whitemencannotproducethem。Negroeswillnot,forany

wageswhichwechoosetogive。Ergotheymustbecompelled。\"Anillustration

stillclosertothepointisthatofimpressment。Sailorsmustabsolutely

behadtodefendthecountry。Itoftenhappensthattheywillnotvoluntarily

enlist。Thereforetheremustbethepowerofforcingthem。Howoftenhas

thislogicbeenused!and,butforoneflawinit,withoutdoubtitwould

havebeensuccessfuluptothisday。Butitisopentotheretort——First

paythesailorsthehonestvalueoftheirlabour。Whenyouhavemadeitas

wellworththeirwhiletoserveyou,astoworkforotheremployers,you

willhavenomoredifficultythanothershaveinobtainingtheirservices。

Tothisthereisnologicalanswerexcept\"Iwillnot\":andas

peoplearenownotonlyashamed,butarenotdesirous,torobthelabourer

ofhishire,impressmentisnolongeradvocated。Thosewhoattempttoforce

womenintomarriagebyclosingallotherdoorsagainstthem,laythemselves

opentoasimilarretort。Iftheymeanwhattheysay,theiropinionmust

evidentlybe,thatmendonotrenderthemarriedconditionsodesirableto

women,astoinducethemtoacceptitforitsownrecommendations。Itis

notasignofone’sthinkingtheboononeoffersveryattractive,whenone

allowsonlyHobson’schoice,\"thatornone。\"Andhere,Ibelieve,

isthecluetothefeelingsofthosemen,whohavearealantipathytothe

equalfreedomofwomen。Ibelievetheyareafraid,notlestwomenshould

beunwillingtomarry,forIdonotthinkthatanyoneinrealityhasthat

apprehension;butlesttheyshouldinsistthatmarriageshouldbeonequal

conditions;lestallwomenofspiritandcapacityshouldpreferdoingalmost

anythingelse,notintheirowneyesdegrading,ratherthanmarry,whenmarrying

isgivingthemselvesamaster,andamastertooofalltheirearthlypossessions。

Andtruly,ifthisconsequencewerenecessarilyincidenttomarriage,Ithink

thattheapprehensionwouldbeverywellfounded。Iagreeinthinkingit

probablethatfewwomen,capableofanythingelse,would,unlessunderan

irresistibleentrainment,renderingthemforthetimeinsensibletoanything

butitself,choosesuchalot,whenanyothermeanswereopentothemof

fillingaconventionallyhonourableplaceinlife:andifmenaredetermined

thatthelawofmarriageshallbealawofdespotism,theyarequiteright,

inpointofmerepolicy,inleavingtowomenonlyHobson’schoice。But,in

thatcase,allthathasbeendoneinthemodernworldtorelaxthechain

onthemindsofwomen,hasbeenamistake。Theynevershouldhavebeenallowed

toreceivealiteraryeducation。Womenwhoread,muchmorewomenwhowrite,

are,intheexistingconstitutionofthings,acontradictionandadisturbing

element:anditwaswrongtobringwomenupwithanyacquirementsbutthose

ofanodalisque,orofadomesticservant。

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CHAPTER2Itwillbewelltocommencethedetaileddiscussionofthesubjectby

theparticularbranchofittowhichthecourseofourobservationshasled

us:theconditionswhichthelawsofthisandallothercountriesannexto

themarriagecontract。Marriagebeingthedestinationappointedbysociety

forwomen,theprospecttheyarebroughtupto,andtheobjectwhichitis

intendedshouldbesoughtbyallofthem,exceptthosewhoaretoolittle

attractivetobechosenbyanymanashiscompanion;onemighthavesupposed

thateverythingwouldhavebeendonetomakethisconditionaseligibleto

themaspossible,thattheymighthavenocausetoregretbeingdeniedthe

optionofanyother。Society,however,bothinthis,and,atfirst,inall

othercases,haspreferredtoattainitsobjectbyfoulratherthanfair

means:butthisistheonlycaseinwhichithassubstantiallypersisted

inthemeventothepresentday。Originallywomenweretakenbyforce,or

regularlysoldbytheirfathertothehusband。UntilalateperiodinEuropean

history,thefatherhadthepowertodisposeofhisdaughterinmarriage

athisownwillandpleasure,withoutanyregardtohers。TheChurch,indeed,

wassofarfaithfultoabettermoralityastorequireaformal\"yes\"

fromthewomanatthemarriageceremony;buttherewasnothingtoshowthat

theconsentwasotherthancompulsory;anditwaspracticallyimpossible

forthegirltorefusecomplianceifthefatherpersevered,exceptperhaps

whenshemightobtaintheprotectionofreligionbyadeterminedresolution

totakemonasticvows。Aftermarriage,themanhadanciently(butthiswas

anteriortoChristianity)thepoweroflifeanddeathoverhiswife。She

couldinvokenolawagainsthim;hewashersoletribunalandlaw。Fora

longtimehecouldrepudiateher,butshehadnocorrespondingpowerinregard

tohim。BytheoldlawsofEngland,thehusbandwascalledthelordofthe

wife;hewasliterallyregardedashersovereign,inasmuchthatthemurder

ofamanbyhiswifewascalledtreason(pettyasdistinguishedfromhigh

treason),andwasmorecruellyavengedthanwasusuallythecasewithhigh

treason,forthepenaltywasburningtodeath。Becausethesevariousenormities

havefallenintodisuse(formostofthemwereneverformallyabolished,

ornotuntiltheyhadlongceasedtobepractised)mensupposethatallis

nowasitshouldbeinregardtothemarriagecontract;andwearecontinually

toldthatcivilisationandChristianityhaverestoredtothewomanherjust

rights。Meanwhilethewifeistheactualbondservantofherhusband:no

lessso,asfaraslegalobligationgoes,thanslavescommonlysocalled。

Shevowsalivelongobediencetohimatthealtar,andisheldtoitall

throughherlifebylaw。Casuistsmaysaythattheobligationofobedience

stopsshortofparticipationincrime,butitcertainlyextendstoeverything

else。Shecandonoactwhateverbutbyhispermission,atleasttacit。She

canacquirenopropertybutforhim;theinstantitbecomeshers,evenif

byinheritance,itbecomesipsofactohis。Inthisrespectthewife’sposition

underthecommonlawofEnglandisworsethanthat—ofslavesinthelaws

ofmanycountries:bytheRomanlaw,forexample,aslavemighthavehis

peculium,whichtoacertainextentthelawguaranteedtohimforhisexclusive

use。Thehigherclassesinthiscountryhavegivenananalogousadvantage

totheirwomen,throughspecialcontractssettingasidethelaw,byconditions

ofpin—money,etc。:sinceparentalfeelingbeingstrongerwithfathersthan

theclassfeelingoftheirownsex,afathergenerallyprefershisowndaughter

toason—in—lawwhoisastrangertohim。Bymeansofsettlements,therich

usuallycontrivetowithdrawthewholeorpartoftheinheritedproperty

ofthewifefromtheabsolutecontrolofthehusband:buttheydonotsucceed

inkeepingitunderherowncontrol;theutmosttheycandoonlyprevents

thehusbandfromsquanderingit,atthesametimedebarringtherightful

ownerfromitsuse。Thepropertyitselfisoutofthereachofboth;and

astotheincomederivedfromit,theformofsettlementmostfavourable

tothewife(thatcalled\"toherseparateuse\")onlyprecludes

thehusbandfromreceivingitinsteadofher:itmustpassthroughherhands,

butifhetakesitfromherbypersonalviolenceassoonasshereceives

it,hecanneitherbepunished,norcompelledtorestitution。Thisisthe

amountoftheprotectionwhich,underthelawsofthiscountry,themost

powerfulnoblemancangivetohisowndaughterasrespectsherhusband。In

theimmensemajorityofcasesthereisnosettlement:andtheabsorption

ofallrights,allproperty,aswellasallfreedomofaction,iscomplete。

Thetwoarecalled\"onepersoninlaw,\"forthepurposeofinferring

thatwhateverishersishis,buttheparallelinferenceisneverdrawnthat

whateverishisishers;themaximisnotappliedagainsttheman,except

tomakehimresponsibletothirdpartiesforheracts,asamasterisfor

theactsofhisslavesorofhiscattle。Iamfarfrompretendingthatwives

areingeneralnobettertreatedthanslaves;butnoslaveisaslaveto

thesamelengths,andinsofullasenseoftheword,asawifeis。Hardly

anyslave,exceptoneimmediatelyattachedtothemaster’sperson,isaslave

atallhoursandallminutes;ingeneralhehas,likeasoldier,hisfixed

task,andwhenitisdone,orwhenheisoffduty,hedisposes,withincertain

limits,ofhisowntime,andhasafamilylifeintowhichthemasterrarely

intrudes。\"UncleTom\"underhisfirstmasterhadhisownlifein

his\"cabin,\"almostasmuchasanymanwhoseworktakeshimaway

fromhome,isabletohaveinhisownfamily。Butitcannotbesowiththe

wife。Aboveall,afemaleslavehas(inChristiancountries)anadmitted

right,andisconsideredunderamoralobligation,torefusetohermaster

thelastfamiliarity。Notsothewife:howeverbrutalatyrantshemayunfortunately

bechainedto——thoughshemayknowthathehatesher,thoughitmaybe

hisdailypleasuretotortureher,andthoughshemayfeelitimpossible

nottoloathehim——hecanclaimfromherandenforcethelowestdegradation

ofahumanbeing,thatofbeingmadetheinstrumentofananimalfunction

contrarytoherinclinations。Whilesheisheldinthisworstdescription

ofslaveryastoherownperson,whatisherpositioninregardtothechildren

inwhomsheandhermasterhaveajointinterest?Theyarebylawhischildren。

Healonehasanylegalrightsoverthem。Notoneactcanshedotowardsor

inrelationtothem,exceptbydelegationfromhim。Evenafterheisdead

sheisnottheirlegalguardian,unlesshebywillhasmadeherso。Hecould

evensendthemawayfromher,anddepriveherofthemeansofseeingorcorresponding

withthem,untilthispowerwasinsomedegreerestrictedbySerjeantTalfourd’s

Act。Thisisherlegalstate。Andfromthisstateshehasnomeansofwithdrawing

herself。Ifsheleavesherhusband,shecantakenothingwithher,neither

herchildrennoranythingwhichisrightfullyherown。Ifhechooses,he

cancompelhertoreturn,bylaw,orbyphysicalforce;orhemaycontent

himselfwithseizingforhisownuseanythingwhichshemayearn,orwhich

maybegiventoherbyherrelations。Itisonlylegalseparationbyadecree

ofacourtofjustice,whichentitleshertoliveapart,withoutbeingforced

backintothecustodyofanexasperatedjailer——orwhichempowersherto

applyanyearningstoherownuse,withoutfearthatamanwhomperhapsshe

hasnotseenfortwentyyearswillpounceuponhersomedayandcarryall

off。Thislegalseparation,untillately,thecourtsofjusticewouldonly

giveatanexpensewhichmadeitinaccessibletoanyoneoutofthehigher

ranks。Evennowitisonlygivenincasesofdesertion,oroftheextreme

ofcruelty;andyetcomplaintsaremadeeverydaythatitisgrantedtoo

easily。Surely,ifawomanisdeniedanylotinlifebutthatofbeingthe

personalbody—servantofadespot,andisdependentforeverythinguponthe

chanceoffindingonewhomaybedisposedtomakeafavouriteofherinstead

ofmerelyadrudge,itisaverycruelaggravationofherfatethatsheshould

beallowedtotrythischanceonlyonce。Thenaturalsequelandcorollary

fromthisstateofthingswouldbe,thatsinceherallinlifedependsupon

obtainingagoodmaster,sheshouldbeallowedtochangeagainandagain

untilshefindsone。Iamnotsayingthatsheoughttobeallowedthisprivilege。

Thatisatotallydifferentconsideration。Thequestionofdivorce,inthe

senseinvolvinglibertyofremarriage,isoneintowhichitisforeignto

mypurposetoenter。AllInowsayis,thattothosetowhomnothingbut

servitudeisallowed,thefreechoiceofservitudeistheonly,thougha

mostinsufficient,alleviation。Itsrefusalcompletestheassimilationof

thewifetotheslave——andtheslaveundernotthemildestformofslavery:

forinsomeslavecodestheslavecould,undercertaincircumstancesofill

usage,legallycompelthemastertosellhim。Butnoamountofillusage,withoutadulterysuperadded,willinEnglandfreeawifefromhertormentor。Ihavenodesiretoexaggerate,nordoesthecasestandinanyneedof

exaggeration。Ihavedescribedthewife’slegalposition,notheractual

treatment。Thelawsofmostcountriesarefarworsethanthepeoplewhoexecute

them,andmanyofthemareonlyabletoremainlawsbybeingseldomornever

carriedintoeffect。Ifmarriedlifewereallthatitmightbeexpectedto

be,lookingtothelawsalone,societywouldbeahelluponearth。Happily

therearebothfeelingsandinterestswhichinmanymenexclude,andinmost,

greatlytemper,theimpulsesandpropensitieswhichleadtotyranny:and

ofthosefeelings,thetiewhichconnectsamanwithhiswifeaffords,in

anormalstateofthings,incomparablythestrongestexample。Theonlytie

whichatallapproachestoit,thatbetweenhimandhischildren,tends,

inallsaveexceptionalcases,tostrengthen,insteadofconflictingwith,

thefirst。Becausethisistrue;becausemeningeneraldonotinflict,nor

womensuffer,allthemiserywhichcouldbeinflictedandsufferedifthe

fullpoweroftyrannywithwhichthemanislegallyinvestedwereactedon;

thedefendersoftheexistingformoftheinstitutionthinkthatallits

iniquityisjustified,andthatanycomplaintismerelyquarrellingwith

theevilwhichisthepricepaidforeverygreatgood。Butthemitigations

inpractice,whicharecompatiblewithmaintaininginfulllegalforcethis

oranyotherkindoftyranny,insteadofbeinganyapologyfordespotism,

onlyservetoprovewhatpowerhumannaturepossessesofreactingagainst

thevilestinstitutions,andwithwhatvitalitytheseedsofgoodaswell

asthoseofevilinhumancharacterdiffuseandpropagatethemselves。Not

awordcanbesaidfordespotisminthefamilywhichcannotbesaidforpolitical

despotism。Everyabsolutekingdoesnotsitathiswindowtoenjoythegroans

ofhistorturedsubjects,norstripsthemoftheirlastragandturnsthem

outtoshiverintheroadThedespotismofLouisXVIwasnotthedespotism

ofPhilippeleBel,orofNadirShah,orofCaligula;butitwasbadenough

tojustifytheFrenchRevolution,andtopalliateevenitshorrors。Ifan

appealbemadetotheintenseattachmentswhichexistbetweenwivesandtheir

husbands,exactlyasmuchmaybesaidofdomesticslavery。Itwasquitean

ordinaryfactinGreeceandRomeforslavestosubmittodeathbytorture

ratherthanbetraytheirmasters。IntheproscriptionsoftheRomancivil

warsitwasremarkedthatwivesandslaveswereheroicallyfaithful,sons

verycommonlytreacherous。YetweknowhowcruellymanyRomanstreatedtheir

slaves。Butintruththeseintenseindividualfeelingsnowhererisetosuch

aluxuriantheightasunderthemostatrociousinstitutions。ItISpartof

theironyoflife,thatthestrongestfeelingsofdevotedgratitudeofwhich

humannatureseemstobesusceptible,arecalledforthinhumanbeingstowards

thosewho,havingthepowerentirelytocrushtheirearthlyexistence,voluntarily

refrainfromusingthatpower。Howgreataplaceinmostmenthissentiment

fills,eveninreligiousdevotion,itwouldbecrueltoinquire。Wedaily

seehowmuchtheirgratitudetoHeavenappearstobestimulatedbythecontemplationoffellow—creaturestowhomGodhasnotbeensomercifulashehastothemselves。Whethertheinstitutiontobedefendedisslavery,politicalabsolutism,

ortheabsolutismoftheheadofafamily,wearealwaysexpectedtojudge

ofitfromitsbestinstances;andwearepresentedwithpicturesofloving

exerciseofauthorityononeside,lovingsubmissiontoitontheother——

superiorwisdomorderingallthingsforthegreatestgoodofthedependents,

andsurroundedbytheirsmilesandbenedictions。Allthiswouldbeverymuch

tothepurposeifanyonepretendedthattherearenosuchthingsasgood

men。Whodoubtsthattheremaybegreatgoodness,andgreathappiness,and

greataffection,undertheabsolutegovernmentofagoodman?Meanwhile,

lawsandinstitutionsrequiretobeadapted,nottogoodmen,buttobad。

Marriageisnotaninstitutiondesignedforaselectfew。Menarenotrequired,

asapreliminarytothemarriageceremony,toprovebytestimonialsthat

theyarefittobetrustedwiththeexerciseofabsolutepower。Thetieof

affectionandobligationtoawifeandchildrenisverystrongwiththose

whosegeneralsocialfeelingsarestrong,andwithmanywhoarelittlesensible

toanyothersocialties;buttherearealldegreesofsensibilityandinsensibility

toit,asthereareallgradesofgoodnessandwickednessinmen,downto

thosewhomnotieswillbind,andonwhomsocietyhasnoactionbutthrough

itsultimaratio,thepenaltiesofthelaw。Ineverygradeofthisdescending

scalearementowhomarecommittedallthelegalpowersofahusband。The

vilestmalefactorhassomewretchedwomantiedtohim,againstwhomhecan

commitanyatrocityexceptkillingher,and,iftolerablycautious,cando

thatwithoutmuchdangerofthelegalpenalty。Andhowmanythousandsare

thereamongthelowestclassesineverycountry,who,withoutbeingina

legalsensemalefactorsinanyotherrespect,becauseineveryotherquarter

theiraggressionsmeetwithresistance,indulgetheutmosthabitualexcesses

ofbodilyviolencetowardstheunhappywife,whoalone,atleastofgrown

persons,canneitherrepelnorescapefromtheirbrutality;andtowardswhom

theexcessofdependenceinspirestheirmeanandsavagenatures,notwith

agenerousforbearance,andapointofhonourtobehavewelltoonewhose

lotinlifeistrustedentirelytotheirkindness,butonthecontrarywith

anotionthatthelawhasdeliveredhertothemastheirthing,tobeused

attheirpleasure,andthattheyarenotexpectedtopractisetheconsideration

towardsherwhichisrequiredfromthemtowardseverybodyelse。Thelaw,

whichtilllatelylefteventheseatrociousextremesofdomesticoppression

practicallyunpunished,haswithinthesefewyearsmadesomefeebleattempts

torepressthem。Butitsattemptshavedonelittle,andcannotbeexpected

todomuch,becauseitiscontrarytoreasonandexperiencetosupposethat

therecanbeanyrealchecktobrutality,consistentwithleavingthevictim

stillinthepoweroftheexecutioner。Untilaconvictionforpersonalviolence,

oratalleventsarepetitionofitafterafirstconviction,entitlesthe

womanipsofactotoadivorce,oratleasttoajudicialseparation,the

attempttorepressthese\"aggravatedassaults\"bylegalpenaltieswillbreakdownforwantofaprosecutor,orforwantofawitness。###第3章Whenweconsiderhowvastisthenumberofmen,inanygreatcountry,

whoarelittlehigherthanbrutes,andthatthisneverpreventsthemfrom

beingable,throughthelawofmarriage,toobtainavictim,thebreadth

anddepthofhumanmiserycausedinthisshapealonebytheabuseofthe

institutionswellstosomethingappalling。Yettheseareonlytheextreme

cases。Theyarethelowestabysses,butthereisasadsuccessionofdepth

afterdepthbeforereachingthem。Indomesticasinpoliticaltyranny,the

caseofabsolutemonsterschieflyillustratestheinstitutionbyshowing

thatthereisscarcelyanyhorrorwhichmaynotoccurunderitifthedespot

pleases,andthussettinginastronglightwhatmustbetheterriblefrequency

ofthingsonlyalittlelessatrocious。Absolutefiendsareasrareasangels,

perhapsrarer:ferocioussavages,withoccasionaltouchesofhumanity,are

howeververyfrequent:andinthewideintervalwhichseparatesthesefrom

anyworthyrepresentativesofthehumanspecies,howmanyaretheformsand

gradationsofanimalismandselfishness,oftenunderanoutwardvarnishof

civilisationandevencultivation,livingatpeacewiththelaw,maintaining

acreditableappearancetoallwhoarenotundertheirpower,yetsufficient

oftentomakethelivesofallwhoareso,atormentandaburthentothem!

Itwouldbetiresometorepeatthecommonplacesabouttheunfitnessofmen

ingeneralforpower,which,afterthepoliticaldiscussionsofcenturies,

everyoneknowsbyheart,wereitnotthathardlyanyonethinksofapplying

thesemaximstothecaseinwhichaboveallotherstheyareapplicable,that

ofpower,notplacedinthehandsofamanhereandthere,butofferedto

everyadultmale,downtothebasestandmostferocious。Itisnotbecause

amanisnotknowntohavebrokenanyoftheTenCommandments,orbecause

hemaintainsarespectablecharacterinhisdealingswiththosewhomhecannot

compeltohaveintercoursewithhim,orbecausehedoesnotflyoutinto

violentburstsofill—temperagainstthosewhoarenotobligedtobearwith

him,thatitispossibletosurmiseofwhatsorthisconductwillbeinthe

unrestraintofhome。Eventhecommonestmenreservetheviolent,thesulky,

theundisguisedlyselfishsideoftheircharacterforthosewhohavenopower

towithstandit。Therelationofsuperiorstodependentsisthenurseryof

thesevicesofcharacter,which,whereverelsetheyexist,areanoverflowing

fromthatsource。Amanwhoismoroseorviolenttohisequals,issureto

beonewhohaslivedamonginferiors,whomhecouldfrightenorworryinto

submission。Ifthefamilyinitsbestformsis,asitisoftensaidtobe,

aschoolofsympathy,tenderness,andlovingforgetfulnessofself,itis

stilloftener,asrespectsitschief,aschoolofwilfulness,overbearingness,

unboundedselfishindulgence,andadouble—dyedandidealisedselfishness,

ofwhichsacrificeitselfisonlyaparticularform:thecareforthewife

andchildrenbeingonlycareforthemaspartsoftheman’sowninterests

andbelongings,andtheirindividualhappinessbeingimmolatedineveryshape

tohissmallestpreferences。Whatbetteristobelookedforundertheexisting

formoftheinstitution?Weknowthatthebadpropensitiesofhumannature

areonlykeptwithinboundswhentheyareallowednoscopefortheirindulgence。

Weknowthatfromimpulseandhabit,whennotfromdeliberatepurpose,almost

everyonetowhomothersyield,goesonencroachinguponthem,untilapoint

isreachedatwhichtheyarecompelledtoresist。Suchbeingthecommontendency

ofhumannature;thealmostunlimitedpowerwhichpresentsocialinstitutions

givetothemanoveratleastonehumanbeing——theonewithwhomheresides,

andwhomhehasalwayspresent——thispowerseeksoutandevokesthelatent

germsofselfishnessintheremotestcornersofhisnature——fansitsfaintest

sparksandsmoulderingembers——offerstohimalicencefortheindulgence

ofthosepointsofhisoriginalcharacterwhichinallotherrelationshe

wouldhavefounditnecessarytorepressandconceal,andtherepression

ofwhichwouldintimehavebecomeasecondnature。Iknowthatthereis

anothersidetothequestion。Igrantthatthewife,ifshecannoteffectually

resist,canatleastretaliate;she,too,canmaketheman’slifeextremely

uncomfortable,andbythatpowerisabletocarrymanypointswhichsheought,

andmanywhichsheoughtnot,toprevailin。Butthisinstrumentofself—protection

——whichmaybecalledthepowerofthescold,ortheshrewishsanction——

hasthefataldefect,thatitavailsmostagainsttheleasttyrannicalsuperiors,

andinfavouroftheleastdeservingdependents。Itistheweaponofirritable

andself—willedwomen;ofthosewhowouldmaketheworstuseofpowerif

theythemselveshadit,andwhogenerallyturnthispowertoabaduse。The

amiablecannotusesuchaninstrument,thehighmindeddisdainit。Andon

theotherhand,thehusbandsagainstwhomitisusedmosteffectivelyare

thegentlerandmoreinoffensive;thosewhocannotbeinduced,evenbyprovocation,

toresorttoanyveryharshexerciseofauthority。Thewife’spowerofbeing

disagreeablegenerallyonlyestablishesacounter—tyranny,andmakesvictimsintheirturnchieflyofthosehusbandswhoareleastinclinedtobetyrants。Whatisit,then,whichreallytempersthecorruptingeffectsofthepower,

andmakesitcompatiblewithsuchamountofgoodasweactuallysee?Mere

feminineblandishments,thoughofgreateffectinindividualinstances,have

verylittleeffectinmodifyingthegeneraltendenciesofthesituation;

fortheirpoweronlylastswhilethewomanisyoungandattractive,often

onlywhilehercharmisnew,andnotdimmedbyfamiliarity;andonmanymen

theyhavenotmuchinfluenceatanytime。Therealmitigatingcausesare,

thepersonalaffectionwhichisthegrowthoftimeinsofarastheman’s

natureissusceptibleofitandthewoman’scharactersufficientlycongenial

withhistoexciteit;theircommoninterestsasregardsthechildren,and

theirgeneralcommunityofinterestasconcernsthirdpersons(towhichhowever

thereareverygreatlimitations);therealimportanceofthewifetohis

dailycomfortsandenjoyments,andthevalueheconsequentlyattachesto

heronhispersonalaccount,which,inamancapableoffeelingforothers,

laysthefoundationofcaringforheronherown;andlastly,theinfluence

naturallyacquiredoveralmostallhumanbeingsbythoseneartotheirpersons

(ifnotactuallydisagreeabletothem):who,bothbytheirdirectentreaties,

andbytheinsensiblecontagionoftheirfeelingsanddispositions,areoften

able,unlesscounteractedbysomeequallystrongpersonalinfluence,toobtain

adegreeofcommandovertheconductofthesuperior,altogetherexcessive

andunreasonable。Throughthesevariousmeans,thewifefrequentlyexercises

eventoomuchpowerovertheman;sheisabletoaffecthisconductinthings

inwhichshemaynotbequalifiedtoinfluenceitforgood——inwhichher

influencemaybenotonlyunenlightened,butemployedonthemorallywrong

side;andinwhichhewouldactbetteriflefttohisownprompting。But

neitherintheaffairsoffamiliesnorinthoseofstatesispoweracompensation

forthelossoffreedom。Herpoweroftengivesherwhatshehasnoright

to,butdoesnotenablehertoassertherownrights。ASultan’sfavourite

slavehasslavesunderher,overwhomshetyrannises;butthedesirablething

wouldbethatsheshouldneitherhaveslavesnorbeaslave。Byentirely

sinkingherownexistenceinherhusband;byhavingnowill(orpersuading

himthatshehasnowill)buthis,inanythingwhichregardstheirjoint

relation,andbymakingitthebusinessofherlifetoworkuponhissentiments,

awifemaygratifyherselfbyinfluencing,andveryprobablyperverting,

hisconduct,inthoseofhisexternalrelationswhichshehasneverqualified

herselftojudgeof,orinwhichsheisherselfwhollyinfluencedbysome

personalorotherpartialityorprejudice。Accordingly,asthingsnoware,

thosewhoactmostkindlytotheirwives,arequiteasoftenmadeworse,

asbetter,bythewife’sinfluence,inrespecttoallinterestsextending

beyondthefamily。Sheistaughtthatshehasnobusinesswiththingsout

ofthatsphere;andaccordinglysheseldomhasanyhonestandconscientious

opiniononthem;andthereforehardlyevermeddleswiththemforanylegitimate

purpose,butgenerallyforaninterestedone。Sheneitherknowsnorcares

whichistherightsideinpolitics,butsheknowswhatwillbringinmoney

orinvitations,giveherhusbandatitle,hersonaplace,orherdaughteragoodmarriage。Buthow,itwillbeasked,cananysocietyexistwithoutgovernment?In

afamily,asinastate,someonepersonmustbetheultimateruler。Who

shalldecidewhenmarriedpeopledifferinopinion?Bothcannothavetheirway,yetadecisiononewayortheothermustbecometo。Itisnottruethatinallvoluntaryassociationbetweentwopeople,one

ofthemmustbeabsolutemaster:stilllessthatthelawmustdeterminewhich

ofthemitshallbe。Themostfrequentcaseofvoluntaryassociation,next

tomarriage,ispartnershipinbusiness:anditisnotfoundorthoughtnecessary

toenactthatineverypartnership,onepartnershallhaveentirecontrol

overtheconcern,andtheothersshallbeboundtoobeyhisorders。Noone

wouldenterintopartnershipontermswhichwouldsubjecthimtotheresponsibilities

ofaprincipal,withonlythepowersandprivilegesofaclerkoragent。

Ifthelawdealtwithothercontractsasitdoeswithmarriage,itwould

ordainthatonepartnershouldadministerthecommonbusinessasifitwas

hisprivateconcern;thattheothersshouldhaveonlydelegatedpowers;and

thatthisoneshouldbedesignatedbysomegeneralpresumptionoflaw,for

exampleasbeingtheeldest。Thelawneverdoesthis:nordoesexperience

showittobenecessarythatanytheoreticalinequalityofpowershouldexist

betweenthepartners,orthatthepartnershipshouldhaveanyotherconditions

thanwhattheymaythemselvesappointbytheirarticlesofagreement。Yet

itmightseemthattheexclusivepowermightbeconcededwithlessdanger

totherightsandinterestsoftheinferior,inthecaseofpartnershipthan

inthatofmarriage,sinceheisfreetocancelthepowerbywithdrawing

fromtheconnexion。Thewifehasnosuchpower,andevenifshehad,itis

almostalwaysdesirablethatsheshouldtryallmeasuresbeforeresortingtoit。Itisquitetruethatthingswhichhavetobedecidedeveryday,andcannot

adjustthemselvesgradually,orwaitforacompromise,oughttodependon

onewill;onepersonmusthavetheirsolecontrol。Butitdoesnotfollow

thatthisshouldalwaysbethesameperson。Thenaturalarrangementisa

divisionofpowersbetweenthetwo;eachbeingabsoluteintheexecutive

branchoftheirowndepartment,andanychangeofsystemandprinciplerequiring

theconsentofboth。Thedivisionneithercannorshouldbepre—established

bythelaw,sinceitmustdependonindividualcapacitiesandsuitabilities。

Ifthetwopersonschose,theymightpre—appointitbythemarriagecontract,

aspecuniaryarrangementsarenowoftenpre—appointed。Therewouldseldom

beanydifficultyindecidingsuchthingsbymutualconsent,unlessthemarriage

wasoneofthoseunhappyonesinwhichallotherthings,aswellasthis,

becomesubjectsofbickeringanddispute。Thedivisionofrightswouldnaturally

followthedivisionofdutiesandfunctions;andthatisalreadymadeby

consent,oratalleventsnotbylaw,butbygeneralcustom,modifiedandmodifiableatthepleasureofthepersonsconcerned。Therealpracticaldecisionofaffairs,towhichevermaybegiventhe

legalauthority,willgreatlydepend,asitevennowdoes,uponcomparative

qualifications。Themerefactthatheisusuallytheeldest,willinmost

casesgivethepreponderancetotheman;atleastuntiltheybothattain

atimeoflifeatwhichthedifferenceintheiryearsisofnoimportance。

Therewillnaturallyalsobeamorepotentialvoiceontheside,whichever

itis,thatbringsthemeansofsupport。Inequalityfromthissourcedoes

notdependonthelawofmarriage,butonthegeneralconditionsofhuman

society,asnowconstituted。Theinfluenceofmentalsuperiority,either

generalorspecial,andofsuperiordecisionofcharacter,willnecessarily

tellformuch。Italwaysdoessoatpresent。Andthisfactshowshowlittle

foundationthereisfortheapprehensionthatthepowersandresponsibilities

ofpartnersinlife(asofpartnersinbusiness),cannotbesatisfactorily

apportionedbyagreementbetweenthemselves。Theyalwaysaresoapportioned,

exceptincasesinwhichthemarriageinstitutionisafailure。Thingsnever

cometoanissueofdownrightpowerononeside,andobedienceontheother,

exceptwheretheconnexionaltogetherhasbeenamistake,anditwouldbe

ablessingtobothpartiestoberelievedfromit。Somemaysaythatthe

verythingbywhichanamicablesettlementofdifferencesbecomespossible,

isthepoweroflegalcompulsionknowntobeinreserve;aspeoplesubmit

toanarbitrationbecausethereisacourtoflawinthebackground,which

theyknowthattheycanbeforcedtoobey。Buttomakethecasesparallel,

wemustsupposethattheruleofthecourtoflawwas,nottotrythecause,

buttogivejudgmentalwaysforthesameside,supposethedefendant。If

so,theamenabilitytoitwouldbeamotivewiththeplaintifftoagreeto

almostanyarbitration,butitwouldbejustthereversewiththedefendant。

Thedespoticpowerwhichthelawgivestothehusbandmaybeareasonto

makethewifeassenttoanycompromisebywhichpowerispracticallyshared

betweenthetwo,butitcannotbethereasonwhythehusbanddoes。Thatthere

isalwaysamongdecentlyconductedpeopleapracticalcompromise,though

oneofthematleastisundernophysicalormoralnecessityofmakingit,

showsthatthenaturalmotiveswhichleadtoavoluntaryadjustmentofthe

unitedlifeoftwopersonsinamanneracceptabletoboth,doonthewhole,

exceptingunfavourablecases,prevail。Thematteriscertainlynotimproved

bylayingdownasanordinanceoflaw,thatthesuperstructureoffreegovernment

shallberaiseduponalegalbasisofdespotismononesideandsubjection

ontheother,andthateveryconcessionwhichthedespotmakesmay,athis

merepleasure,andwithoutanywarning,berecalled。Besidesthatnofreedom

isworthmuchwhenheldonsoprecariousatenure,itsconditionsarenot

likelytobethemostequitablewhenthelawthrowssoprodigiousaweight

intoonescale;whentheadjustmentrestsbetweentwopersonsoneofwhom

isdeclaredtobeentitledtoeverything,theothernotonlyentitledto

nothingexceptduringthegoodpleasureofthefirst,butunderthestrongestmoralandreligiousobligationnottorebelunderanyexcessofoppression。Apertinaciousadversary,pushedtoextremities,maysay,thathusbands

indeedarewillingtobereasonable,andtomakefairconcessionstotheir

partnerswithoutbeingcompelledtoit,butthatwivesarenot:thatifallowed

anyrightsoftheirown,theywillacknowledgenorightsatallinanyone

else,andneverwillyieldinanything,unlesstheycanbecompelled,by

theman’smereauthority,toyieldineverything。Thiswouldhavebeensaid

bymanypersonssomegenerationsago,whensatiresonwomenwereinvogue,

andmenthoughtitacleverthingtoinsultwomenforbeingwhatmenmade

them。Butitwillbesaidbynoonenowwhoisworthreplyingto。Itisnot

thedoctrineofthepresentdaythatwomenarelesssusceptibleofgoodfeeling,

andconsiderationforthosewithwhomtheyareunitedbythestrongestties,

thanmenare。Onthecontrary,weareperpetuallytoldthatwomenarebetter

thanmen,bythosewhoaretotallyopposedtotreatingthemasiftheywere

asgood;sothatthesayinghaspassedintoapieceoftiresomecant,intended

toputacomplimentaryfaceuponaninjury,andresemblingthosecelebrations

ofroyalclemencywhich,accordingtoGulliver,thekingofLilliputalways

prefixedtohismostsanguinarydecrees。Ifwomenarebetterthanmenin

anything,itsurelyisinindividualself—sacrificeforthoseoftheirown

family。ButIlaylittlestressonthis,solongastheyareuniversally

taughtthattheyarebornandcreatedforself—sacrifice。Ibelievethat

equalityofrightswouldabatetheexaggeratedself—abnegationwhichisthe

presentartificialidealoffemininecharacter,andthatagoodwomanwould

notbemoreself—sacrificingthanthebestman:butontheotherhand,men

wouldbemuchmoreunselfishandself—sacrificingthanatpresent,because

theywouldnolongerbetaughttoworshiptheirownwillassuchagrand

thingthatitisactuallythelawforanotherrationalbeing。Thereisnothing

whichmensoeasilylearnasthisself—worship:allprivilegedpersons,and

allprivilegedclasses,havehadit。Themorewedescendinthescaleof

humanity,theintenseritis;andmostofallinthosewhoarenot,andcan

neverexpecttobe,raisedaboveanyoneexceptanunfortunatewifeandchildren。

Thehonourableexceptionsareproportionallyfewerthaninthecaseofalmost

anyotherhumaninfirmity。Philosophyandreligion,insteadofkeepingit

incheck,aregenerallysubornedtodefendit;andnothingcontrolsitbut

thatpracticalfeelingoftheequalityofhumanbeings,whichisthetheory

ofChristianity,butwhichChristianitywillneverpracticallyteach,while

itsanctionsinstitutionsgroundedonanarbitrarypreferenceofonehumanbeingoveranother。Thereare,nodoubt,women,astherearemen,whomequalityofconsideration

willnotsatisfy;withwhomthereisnopeacewhileanywillorwishisregarded

buttheirown。Suchpersonsareapropersubjectforthelawofdivorce。

Theyareonlyfittolivealone,andnohumanbeingsoughttobecompelled

toassociatetheirliveswiththem。Butthelegalsubordinationtendsto

makesuchcharactersamongwomenmore,ratherthanless,frequent。Ifthe

manexertshiswholepower,thewomanisofcoursecrushed:butifsheis

treatedwithindulgence,andpermittedtoassumepower,thereisnorule

tosetlimitstoherencroachments。Thelaw,notdeterminingherrights,

buttheoreticallyallowinghernoneatall,practicallydeclaresthatthemeasureofwhatshehasarightto,iswhatshecancontrivetoget。Theequalityofmarriedpersonsbeforethelaw,isnotonlythesolemode

inwhichthatparticularrelationcanbemadeconsistentwithjusticeto

bothsides,andconducivetothehappinessofboth,butitistheonlymeans

ofrenderingthedailylifeofmankind,inanyhighsense,aschoolofmoral

cultivation。Thoughthetruthmaynotbefeltorgenerallyacknowledgedfor

generationstocome,theonlyschoolofgenuinemoralsentimentissociety

betweenequals。Themoraleducationofmankindhashithertoemanatedchiefly

fromthelawofforce,andisadaptedalmostsolelytotherelationswhich

forcecreates。Inthelessadvancedstatesofsociety,peoplehardlyrecognise

anyrelationwiththeirequals。Tobeanequalistobeanenemy。Society,

fromitshighestplacetoitslowest,isonelongchain,orratherladder,

whereeveryindividualiseitheraboveorbelowhisnearestneighbour,and

whereverhedoesnotcommandhemustobey。Existingmoralities,accordingly,

aremainlyfittedtoarelationofcommandandobedience。Yetcommandand

obediencearebutunfortunatenecessitiesofhumanlife:societyinequality

isitsnormalstate。Alreadyinmodernlife,andmoreandmoreasitprogressively

improves,commandandobediencebecomeexceptionalfactsinlife,equalassociation

itsgeneralrule。Themoralityofthefirstagesrestedontheobligation

tosubmittopower;thatoftheagesnextfollowing,ontherightofthe

weaktotheforbearanceandprotectionofthestrong。Howmuchlongeris

oneformofsocietyandlifetocontentitselfwiththemoralitymadefor

another?Wehavehadthemoralityofsubmission,andthemoralityofchivalry

andgenerosity;thetimeisnowcomeforthemoralityofjustice。Whenever,

informerages,anyapproachhasbeenmadetosocietyinequality,Justice

hasasserteditsclaimsasthefoundationofvirtue。Itwasthusinthefree

republicsofantiquity。Buteveninthebestofthese,theequalswerelimited

tothefreemalecitizens;slaves,women,andtheunenfranchisedresidents

wereunderthelawofforce。ThejointinfluenceofRomancivilisationand

ofChristianityobliteratedthesedistinctions,andintheory(ifonlypartially

inpractice)declaredtheclaimsofthehumanbeing,assuch,tobeparamount

tothoseofsex,class,orsocialposition。Thebarrierswhichhadbegun

tobelevelledwereraisedagainbythenorthernconquests;andthewhole

ofmodernhistoryconsistsoftheslowprocessbywhichtheyhavesincebeen

wearingaway。Weareenteringintoanorderofthingsinwhichjusticewill

againbetheprimaryvirtue;groundedasbeforeonequal,butnowalsoon

sympatheticassociation;havingitsrootnolongerintheinstinctofequals

forselfprotection,butinacultivatedsympathybetweenthem;andnoone

beingnowleftout,butanequalmeasurebeingextendedtoall。Itisno

noveltythatmankinddonotdistinctlyforeseetheirownchanges,andthat

theirsentimentsareadaptedtopast,nottocomingages。Toseethefuturity

ofthespecieshasalwaysbeentheprivilegeoftheintellectualelite,or

ofthosewhohavelearntfromthem;tohavethefeelingsofthatfuturity

hasbeenthedistinction,andusuallythemartyrdom,ofastillrarerelite。

Institutions,books,education,society,allgoontraininghumanbeings

fortheold,longafterthenewhascome;muchmorewhenitisonlycoming。

Butthetruevirtueofhumanbeingsisfitnesstolivetogetherasequals;

claimingnothingforthemselvesbutwhattheyasfreelyconcedetoeveryone

else;regardingcommandofanykindasanexceptionalnecessity,andinall

casesatemporaryone;andpreferring,wheneverpossible,thesocietyof

thosewithwhomleadingandfollowingcanbealternateandreciprocal。To

thesevirtues,nothinginlifeasatpresentconstitutedgivescultivation

byexercise。Thefamilyisaschoolofdespotism,inwhichthevirtuesof

despotism,butalsoitsvices,arelargelynourished。Citizenship,infree

countries,ispartlyaschoolofsocietyinequality;butcitizenshipfills

onlyasmallplaceinmodernlife,anddoesnotcomenearthedailyhabits

orinmostsentiments。Thefamily,justlyconstituted,wouldbetherealschool

ofthevirtuesoffreedom。Itissuretobeasufficientoneofeverything

else。Itwillalwaysbeaschoolofobedienceforthechildren,ofcommand

fortheparents。Whatisneededis,thatitshouldbeaschoolofsympathy

inequality,oflivingtogetherinlove,withoutpowerononesideorobedience

ontheother。Thisitoughttobebetweentheparents。Itwouldthenbean

exerciseofthosevirtueswhicheachrequirestofitthemforallotherassociation,

andamodeltothechildrenofthefeelingsandconductwhichtheirtemporary

trainingbymeansofobedienceisdesignedtorenderhabitual,andtherefore

natural,tothem。Themoraltrainingofmankindwillneverbeadaptedto

theconditionsofthelifeforwhichallotherhumanprogressisapreparation,

untiltheypractiseinthefamilythesamemoralrulewhichisadaptedto

thenormalconstitutionofhumansociety。Anysentimentoffreedomwhich

canexistinamanwhosenearestanddearestintimacies,arewiththoseof

whomheisabsolutemaster,isnotthegenuineorChristianloveoffreedom,

but,whattheloveoffreedomgenerallywasintheancientsandinthemiddle

ages——anintensefeelingofthedignityandimportanceofhisownpersonality;

makinghimdisdainayokeforhimself,ofwhichhehasnoabhorrencewhatever

intheabstract,butwhichheisabundantlyreadytoimposeonothersforhisowninterestorglorification。Ireadilyadmit(anditistheveryfoundationofmyhopes)thatnumbers

ofmarriedpeopleevenunderthepresentlaw(inthehigherclassesofEngland

probablyagreatmajority),liveinthespiritofajustlawofequality。

Lawsneverwouldbeimproved,iftherewerenotnumerouspersonswhosemoral

sentimentsarebetterthantheexistinglaws。Suchpersonsoughttosupport

theprincipleshereadvocated;ofwhichtheonlyobjectistomakeallother

marriedcouplessimilartowhatthesearenow。Butpersonsevenofconsiderable

moralworth,unlesstheyarealsothinkers,areveryreadytobelievethat

lawsorpractices,theevilsofwhichtheyhavenotpersonallyexperienced,

donotproduceanyevils,but(ifseemingtobegenerallyapprovedof)probably

dogood,andthatitiswrongtoobjecttothem。Itwould,however,bea

greatmistakeinsuchmarriedpeopletosuppose,becausethelegalconditions

ofthetiewhichunitesthemdonotoccurtotheirthoughtsonceinatwelve

month,andbecausetheyliveandfeelinallrespectsasiftheywerelegally

equals,thatthesameisthecasewithallothermarriedcouples,wherever

thehusbandisnotanotoriousruffian。Tosupposethis,wouldbetoshow

equalignoranceofhumannatureandoffact。Thelessfitamanisforthe

possessionofpower——thelesslikelytobeallowedtoexerciseitover

anypersonwiththatperson’svoluntaryconsent——themoredoeshehughimself

intheconsciousnessofthepowerthelawgiveshim,exactitslegalrights

totheutmostpointwhichcustom(thecustomofmenlikehimself)willtolerate,

andtakepleasureinusingthepower,merelytoenliventheagreeablesense

ofpossessingit。Whatismore;inthemostnaturallybrutalandmorally

uneducatedpartofthelowerclasses,thelegalslaveryofthewoman,and

somethinginthemerelyphysicalsubjectiontotheirwillasaninstrument,

causesthemtofeelasortofdisrespectandcontempttowardstheirownwife

whichtheydonotfeeltowardsanyotherwoman,oranyotherhumanbeing,

withwhomtheycomeincontact;andwhichmakesherseemtothemanappropriate

subjectforanykindofindignity。Letanacuteobserverofthesignsof

feeling,whohastherequisiteopportunities,judgeforhimselfwhetherthis

isnotthecase:andifhefindsthatitis,lethimnotwonderatanyamount

ofdisgustandindignationthatcanbefeltagainstinstitutionswhichleadnaturallytothisdepravedstateofthehumanmind。Weshallbetold,perhaps,thatreligionimposesthedutyofobedience;

aseveryestablishedfactwhichistoobadtoadmitofanyotherdefence,

isalwayspresentedtousasaninjunctionofreligion。TheChurch,itis

verytrue,enjoinsitinherformularies,butitwouldbedifficulttoderive

anysuchinjunctionfromChristianity。WearetoldthatSt。Paulsaid,\"Wives,

obeyyourhusbands\":buthealsosaid,\"Slaves,obeyyourmasters。\"

ItwasnotSt。Paul’sbusiness,norwasitconsistentwithhisobject,the

propagationofChristianity,toinciteanyonetorebellionagainstexisting

laws。TheApostle’sacceptanceofallsocialinstitutionsashefoundthem,

isnomoretobeconstruedasadisapprovalofattemptstoimprovethemat

thepropertime,thanhisdeclaration,\"Thepowersthatbeareordained

ofGod,\"giveshissanctiontomilitarydespotism,andtothatalone,

astheChristianformofpoliticalgovernment,orcommandspassiveobedience

toit。TopretendthatChristianitywasintendedtostereotypeexistingforms

ofgovernmentandsociety,andprotectthemagainstchange,istoreduce

ittothelevelofIslamismorofBrahminism。ItispreciselybecauseChristianity

hasnotdonethis,thatithasbeenthereligionoftheprogressiveportion

ofmankind,andIslamism,Brahminism,etc。havebeenthoseofthestationary

portions;orrather(forthereisnosuchthingasareallystationarysociety)

ofthedecliningportions。Therehavebeenabundanceofpeople,inallages

ofChristianity,whotriedtomakeitsomethingofthesamekind;toconvert

usintoasortofChristianMussulmans,withtheBibleforaKoran,prohibiting

allimprovement:andgreathasbeentheirpower,andmanyhavehadtosacrifice

theirlivesinresistingthem。Buttheyhavebeenresisted,andtheresistancehasmadeuswhatweare,andwillyetmakeuswhatwearetobe。Afterwhathasbeensaidrespectingtheobligationofobedience,itis

almostsuperfluoustosayanythingconcerningthemorespecialpointincluded

inthegeneralone——awoman’srighttoherownproperty;forIneednot

hopethatthistreatisecanmakeanyimpressionuponthosewhoneedanything

toconvincethemthatawoman’sinheritanceorgainsoughttobeasmuch

herownaftermarriageasbefore。Theruleissimple:whateverwouldbethe

husband’sorwife’siftheywerenotmarried,shouldbeundertheirexclusive

controlduringmarriage;whichneednotinterferewiththepowertotieup

propertybysettlement,inordertopreserveitforchildren。Somepeople

aresentimentallyshockedattheideaofaseparateinterestinmoneymatters

asinconsistentwiththeidealfusionoftwolivesintoone。Formyownpart,

Iamoneofthestrongestsupportersofcommunityofgoods,whenresulting

fromanentireunityoffeelingintheowners,whichmakesallthingscommon

betweenthem。ButIhavenorelishforacommunityofgoodsrestingonthe

doctrine,thatwhatismineisyours,butwhatisyoursisnotmine;and

Ishouldprefertodeclineenteringintosuchacompactwithanyone,thoughIweremyselfthepersontoprofitbyit。Thisparticularinjusticeandoppressiontowomen,whichis,tocommon

apprehensions,moreobviousthanalltherest,admitsofremedywithoutinterfering

withanyothermischiefs:andtherecanbelittledoubtthatitwillbeone

oftheearliestremedied。Already,inmanyofthenewandseveralofthe

oldStatesoftheAmericanConfederation,provisionshavebeeninsertedeven

inthewrittenConstitutions,securingtowomenequalityofrightsinthis

respect:andtherebyimprovingmateriallytheposition,inthemarriagerelation,

ofthosewomenatleastwhohaveproperty,byleavingthemoneinstrument

ofpowerwhichtheyhavenotsignedaway;andpreventingalsothescandalous

abuseofthemarriageinstitution,whichisperpetratedwhenamanentraps

agirlintomarryinghimwithoutasettlement,forthesolepurposeofgetting

possessionofhermoney。Whenthesupportofthefamilydepends,notonproperty,

butonearnings,thecommonarrangement,bywhichthemanearnstheincome

andthewifesuperintendsthedomesticexpenditure,seemstomeingeneral

themostsuitabledivisionoflabourbetweenthetwopersons。If,inaddition

tothephysicalsufferingofbearingchildren,andthewholeresponsibility

oftheircareandeducationinearlyyears,thewifeundertakesthecareful

andeconomicalapplicationofthehusband’searningstothegeneralcomfort

ofthefamily;shetakesnotonlyherfairshare,butusuallythelarger

share,ofthebodilyandmentalexertionrequiredbytheirjointexistence。

Ifsheundertakesanyadditionalportion,itseldomrelievesherfromthis,

butonlypreventsherfromperformingitproperly。Thecarewhichsheis

herselfdisabledfromtakingofthechildrenandthehousehold,nobodyelse

takes;thoseofthechildrenwhodonotdie,growupastheybestcan,and

themanagementofthehouseholdislikelytobesobad,aseveninpoint

ofeconomytobeagreatdrawbackfromthevalueofthewife’searnings。

Inanotherwisejuststateofthings,itisnot,therefore,Ithink,adesirable

custom,thatthewifeshouldcontributebyherlabourtotheincomeofthe

family。Inanunjuststateofthings,herdoingsomaybeusefultoher,

bymakingherofmorevalueintheeyesofthemanwhoislegallyhermaster;

but,ontheotherhand,itenableshimstillfarthertoabusehispower,

byforcinghertowork,andleavingthesupportofthefamilytoherexertions,

whilehespendsmostofhistimeindrinkingandidleness。Thepowerofearning

isessentialtothedignityofawoman,ifshehasnotindependentproperty。

Butifmarriagewereanequalcontract,notimplyingtheobligationofobedience;

iftheconnexionwerenolongerenforcedtotheoppressionofthosetowhom

itispurelyamischief,butaseparation,onjustterms(Idonotnowspeak

ofadivorce),couldbeobtainedbyanywomanwhowasmorallyentitledto

it;andifshewouldthenfindallhonourableemploymentsasfreelyopen

toherastomen;itwouldnotbenecessaryforherprotection,thatduring

marriagesheshouldmakethisparticularuseofherfaculties。Likeaman

whenhechoosesaprofession,so,whenawomanmarries,itmayingeneral

beunderstoodthatshemakeschoiceofthemanagementofahousehold,and

thebringingupofafamily,asthefirstcalluponherexertions,during

asmanyyearsofherlifeasmayberequiredforthepurpose;andthatshe

renounces,notallotherobjectsandoccupations,butallwhicharenotconsistent

withtherequirementsofthis。Theactualexercise,inahabitualorsystematic

manner,ofoutdooroccupations,orsuchascannotbecarriedonathome,

wouldbythisprinciplebepracticallyinterdictedtothegreaternumber

ofmarriedwomen。Buttheutmostlatitudeoughttoexistfortheadaptation

ofgeneralrulestoindividualsuitabilities;andthereoughttobenothing

topreventfacultiesexceptionallyadaptedtoanyotherpursuit,fromobeying

theirvocationnotwithstandingmarriage:dueprovisionbeingmadeforsupplying

otherwiseanyfalling—shortwhichmightbecomeinevitable,inherfullperformance

oftheordinaryfunctionsofmistressofafamily。Thesethings,ifonce

opinionwererightlydirectedonthesubject,mightwithperfectsafetybe

lefttoberegulatedbyopinion,withoutanyinterferenceoflaw。

CHAPTER3Ontheotherpointwhichisinvolvedinthejustequalityofwomen,their

admissibilitytoallthefunctionsandoccupationshithertoretainedasthe

monopolyofthestrongersex,Ishouldanticipatenodifficultyinconvincing

anyonewhohasgonewithmeonthesubjectoftheequalityofwomeninthe

family。Ibelievethattheirdisabilitieselsewhereareonlyclungtoin

ordertomaintaintheirsubordinationindomesticlife;becausethegenerality

ofthemalesexcannotyettoleratetheideaoflivingwithanequal。Were

itnotforthat,Ithinkthatalmosteveryone,intheexistingstateofopinion

inpoliticsandpoliticaleconomy,wouldadmittheinjusticeofexcluding

halfthehumanracefromthegreaternumberoflucrativeoccupations,and

fromalmostallhighsocialfunctions;ordainingfromtheirbirtheither

thattheyarenot,andcannotbyanypossibilitybecome,fitforemployments

whicharelegallyopentothestupidestandbasestoftheothersex,orelse

thathoweverfittheymaybe,thoseemploymentsshallbeinterdictedtothem,

inordertobepreservedfortheexclusivebenefitofmales。Inthelast

twocenturies,when(whichwasseldomthecase)anyreasonbeyondthemere

existenceofthefactwasthoughttoberequiredtojustifythedisabilities

ofwomen,peopleseldomassignedasareasontheirinferiormentalcapacity;

which,intimeswhentherewasarealtrialofpersonalfaculties(fromwhich

allwomenwerenotexcluded)inthestrugglesofpubliclife,noonereally

believedin。Thereasongiveninthosedayswasnotwomen’sunfitness,but

theinterestofsociety,bywhichwasmeanttheinterestofmen:justas

theraisond’etat,meaningtheconvenienceofthegovernment,andthesupport

ofexistingauthority,wasdeemedasufficientexplanationandexcusefor

themostflagitiouscrimes。Inthepresentday,powerholdsasmootherlanguage,

andwhomsoeveritoppresses,alwayspretendstodosofortheirowngood:

accordingly,whenanythingisforbiddentowomen,itisthoughtnecessary

tosay,anddesirabletobelieve,thattheyareincapableofdoingit,and

thattheydepartfromtheirrealpathofsuccessandhappinesswhenthey

aspiretoit。Buttomakethisreasonplausible(Idonotsayvalid),those

bywhomitisurgedmustbepreparedtocarryittoamuchgreaterlength

thananyoneventurestodointhefaceofpresentexperience。Itisnotsufficient

tomaintainthatwomenontheaveragearelessgiftedthenmenontheaverage,

withcertainofthehighermentalfaculties,orthatasmallernumberof

womenthanofmenarefitforoccupationsandfunctionsofthehighestintellectual

character。Itisnecessarytomaintainthatnowomenatallarefitforthem,

andthatthemosteminentwomenarcinferiorinmentalfacultiestothemost

mediocreofthemenonwhomthosefunctionsatpresentdevolve。Forifthe

performanceofthefunctionisdecidedeitherbycompetition,orbyanymode

ofchoicewhichsecuresregardtothepublicinterest,thereneedsbeno

apprehensionthatanyimportantemploymentswillfallintothehandsofwomen

inferiortoaveragemen,ortotheaverageoftheirmalecompetitors。The

onlyresultwouldbethattherewouldbefewerwomenthanmeninsuchemployments;

aresultcertaintohappeninanycase,ifonlyfromthepreferencealways

likelytobefeltbythemajorityofwomenfortheonevocationinwhich

thereisnobodytocompetewiththem。Now,themostdetermineddepreciator

ofwomenwillnotventuretodeny,thatwhenweaddtheexperienceofrecent

timestothatofagespast,women,andnotafewmerely,butmanywomen,

haveprovedthemselvescapableofeverything,perhapswithoutasingleexception,

whichisdonebymen,andofdoingitsuccessfullyandcreditably。Theutmost

thatcanbesaidis,thattherearcmanythingswhichnoneofthemhavesucceeded

indoingaswellastheyhavebeendonebysomemen——manyinwhichthey

havenotreachedtheveryhighestrank。Butthereareextremelyfew,dependent

onlyonmentalfaculties,inwhichtheyhavenotattainedtheranknextto

thehighest。Isnotthisenough,andmuchmorethanenough,tomakeita

tyrannytothem,andadetrimenttosociety,thattheyshouldnotbeallowed

tocompetewithmenfortheexerciseofthesefunctions?Isitnotamere

truismtosay,thatsuchfunctionsareoftenfilledbymenfarlessfitfor

themthannumbersofwomen,andwhowouldbebeatenbywomeninanyfair

fieldofcompetition?Whatdifferencedoesitmakethattheremaybemen

somewhere,fullyemployedaboutotherthings,whomaybestillbetterqualified

forthethingsinquestionthanthesewomen?Doesnotthistakeplacein

allcompetitions?Istheresogreatasuperfluityofmenfitforhighduties,

thatsocietycanaffordtorejecttheserviceofanycompetentperson?Are

wesocertainofalwaysfindingamanmadetoourhandsforanydutyorfunction

ofsocialimportancewhichfallsvacant,thatwelosenothingbyputting

abanupononehalfofmankind,andrefusingbeforehandtomaketheirfaculties

available,howeverdistinguishedtheymaybe?Andevenifwecoulddowithout

them,woulditbeconsistentwithjusticetorefusetothemtheirfairshare

ofhonouranddistinction,ortodenytothemtheequalmoralrightofall

humanbeingstochoosetheiroccupation(shortofinjurytoothers)according

totheirownpreferences,attheirownrisk?Noristheinjusticeconfined

tothem:itissharedbythosewhoareinapositiontobenefitbytheir

services。Toordainthatanykindofpersonsshallnotbephysicians,or

shallnotbeadvocates,orshallnotbeMembersofParliament,istoinjure

notthemonly,butallwhoemployphysiciansoradvocates,orelectMembers

ofParliament,andwhoaredeprivedofthestimulatingeffectofgreater

competitionontheexertionsofthecompetitors,aswellasrestrictedtoanarrowerrangeofindividualchoice。ItwillperhapsbesufficientifIconfinemyself,inthedetailsofmy

argument,tofunctionsofapublicnature:since,ifIamsuccessfulasto

those,itprobablywillbereadilygrantedthatwomenshouldbeadmissible

toallotheroccupationstowhichitisatallmaterialwhethertheyare

admittedornot。Andhereletmebeginbymarkingoutonefunction,broadly

distinguishedfromallothers,theirrighttowhichisentirelyindependent

ofanyquestionwhichcanberaisedconcerningtheirfaculties。Imeanthe

suffrage,bothparliamentaryandmunicipal。Therighttoshareinthechoice

ofthosewhoaretoexerciseapublictrust,isaltogetheradistinctthing

fromthatofcompetingforthetrustitself。IfnoonecouldvoteforaMember

ofParliamentwhowasnotfittobeacandidate,thegovernmentwouldbe

anarrowoligarchyindeed。Tohaveavoiceinchoosingthosebywhomone

istobegoverned,isameansofself—protectionduetoeveryone,though

heweretoremainforeverexcludedfromthefunctionofgoverning:andthat

womenareconsideredfittohavesuchachoice,maybepresumedfromthe

fact,thatthelawalreadygivesittowomeninthemostimportantofall

casestothemselves:forthechoiceofthemanwhoistogovernawomanto

theendoflife,isalwayssupposedtobevoluntarilymadebyherself。In

thecaseofelectiontopublictrusts,itisthebusinessofconstitutional

lawtosurroundtherightofsuffragewithallneedfulsecuritiesandlimitations;

butwhateversecuritiesaresufficientinthecaseofthemalesex,noothers

needberequiredinthecaseofwomen。Underwhateverconditions,andwithin

whateverlimits,menareadmittedtothesuffrage,thereisnotashadow

ofjustificationfornotadmittingwomenunderthesame。Themajorityof

thewomenofanyclassarenotlikelytodifferinpoliticalopinionfrom

themajorityofthemenofthesameclass,unlessthequestionbeonein

whichtheinterestsofwomen,assuch,areinsomewayinvolved;andifthey

areso,womenrequirethesuffrage,astheirguaranteeofjustandequal

consideration。Thisoughttobeobviouseventothosewhocoincideinno

otherofthedoctrinesforwhichIcontend。Evenifeverywomanwereawife,

andifeverywifeoughttobeaslave,allthemorewouldtheseslavesstand

inneedoflegalprotection:andweknowwhatlegalprotectiontheslaveshave,wherethelawsaremadebytheirmasters。Withregardtothefitnessofwomen,notonlytoparticipateinelections,

butthemselvestoholdofficesorpractiseprofessionsinvolvingimportant

publicresponsibilities;Ihavealreadyobservedthatthisconsideration

isnotessentialtothepracticalquestionindispute:sinceanywoman,who

succeedsinanopenprofession,provesbythatveryfactthatsheisqualified

forit。Andinthecaseofpublicoffices,ifthepoliticalsystemofthe

countryissuchastoexcludeunfitmen,itwillequallyexcludeunfitwomen:

whileifitisnot,thereisnoadditionalevilinthefactthattheunfit

personswhomitadmitsmaybeeitherwomenormen。Aslongthereforeasit

isacknowledgedthatevenafewwomenmaybefitfortheseduties,thelaws

whichshutthedooronthoseexceptionscannotbejustifiedbyanyopinion

whichcanbeheldrespectingthecapacitiesofwomeningeneral。But,though

thislastconsiderationisnotessential,itisfarfrombeingirrelevant。

Anunprejudicedviewofitgivesadditionalstrengthtotheargumentsagainst

thedisabilitiesofwomen,andreinforcesthembyhighconsiderationsofpracticalutility。Letusfirstmakeentireabstractionofallpsychologicalconsiderations

tendingtoshow,thatanyofthementaldifferencessupposedtoexistbetween

womenandmenarebutthenaturaleffectofthedifferencesintheireducation

andcircumstances,andindicatenoradicaldifference,farlessradicalinferiority,

ofnature。Letusconsiderwomenonlyastheyalreadyare,orastheyare

knowntohavebeen;andthecapacitieswhichtheyhavealreadypractically

shown。Whattheyhavedone,thatatleast,ifnothingelse,itisproved

thattheycando。Whenweconsiderhowsedulouslytheyarealltrainedaway

from,insteadofbeingtrainedtowards,anyoftheoccupationsorobjects

reservedformen,itisevidentthatIamtakingaveryhumblegroundfor

them,whenIresttheircaseonwhattheyhaveactuallyachieved。For,in

thiscase,negativeevidenceisworthlittle,——whileanypositiveevidence

isconclusive。Itcannotbeinferredtobeimpossiblethatawomanshould

beaHomer,oranAristotle,oraMichaelAngelo,oraBeethoven,because

nowomanhasyetactuallyproducedworkscomparabletotheirsinanyofthose

linesofexcellence。Thisnegativefactatmostleavesthequestionuncertain,

andopentopsychologicaldiscussion。Butitisquitecertainthatawoman

canbeaQueenElizabeth,oraDeborah,oraJoanofArc,sincethisisnot

inference,butfact。Nowitisacuriousconsideration,thattheonlythings

whichtheexistinglawexcludeswomenfromdoing,arethethingswhichthey

haveprovedthattheyareabletodo。Thereisnolawtopreventawoman

fromhavingwrittenalltheplaysofShakespeare,orcomposedalltheoperas

ofMozart。ButQueenElizabethorQueenVictoria,hadtheynotinherited

thethrone,couldnothavebeenentrustedwiththesmallestofthepoliticalduties,ofwhichtheformershowedherselfequaltothegreatest。###第4章Ifanythingconclusivecouldbeinferredfromexperience,withoutpsychological

analysis,itwouldbethatthethingswhichwomenarenotallowedtodoare

theveryonesforwhichtheyarepeculiarlyqualified;sincetheirvocation

forgovernmenthasmadeitsway,andbecomeconspicuous,throughthevery

fewopportunitieswhichhavebeengiven;whileinthelinesofdistinction

whichapparentlywerefreelyopentothem,theyhavebynomeanssoeminently

distinguishedthemselves。Weknowhowsmallanumberofreigningqueenshistory

presents,incomparisonwiththatofkings。Ofthissmallernumberafar

largerproportionhaveshowntalentsforrule;thoughmanyofthemhaveoccupied

thethroneindifficultperiods。Itisremarkable,too,thattheyhave,in

agreatnumberofinstances,beendistinguishedbymeritsthemostopposite

totheimaginaryandconventionalcharacterofwomen:theyhavebeenasmuch

remarkedforthefirmnessandvigouroftheirrule,asforitsintelligence。

When,toqueensandempresses,weaddregents,andviceroysofprovinces,

thelistofwomenwhohavebeeneminentrulersofmankindswellstoagreat

length。(1*)Thisfactissoundeniable,thatsomeone,longago,triedto

retorttheargument,andturnedtheadmittedtruthintoanadditionalinsult,

bysayingthatqueensarebetterthankings,becauseunderkingswomengovern,butunderqueens,men。Itmayseemawasteofreasoningtoargueagainstabadjoke;butsuch

thingsdoaffectpeople’sminds;andIhaveheardmenquotethissaying,

withanairasiftheythoughtthattherewassomethinginit。Atanyrate,

itwillserveasanything,elseforastarting—pointindiscussion。Isay,

then,thatitisnottruethatunderkings,womengovern。Suchcasesare

entirelyexceptional:andweakkingshavequiteasoftengovernedillthrough

theinfluenceofmalefavourites,asoffemale。Whenakingisgovernedby

awomanmerelythroughhisamatorypropensities,goodgovernmentisnotprobable,

thougheventhenthereareexceptions。ButFrenchhistorycountstwokings

whohavevoluntarilygiventhedirectionofaffairsduringmanyyears,the

onetohismother,theothertohissister:oneofthem,CharlesVIII,was

amereboy,butindoingsohefollowedtheintentionsofhisfatherLouis

XI,theablestmonarchofhisage。Theother,SaintLouis,wasthebest,

andoneofthemostvigorousrulers,sincethetimeofCharlemagne。Both

theseprincessesruledinamannerhardlyequalledbyanyprinceamongtheir

contemporaries。TheEmperorCharlestheFifth,themostpoliticprinceof

histime,whohadasgreatanumberofablemeninhisserviceasaruler

everhad,andwasoneoftheleastlikelyofallsovereignstosacrifice

hisinteresttopersonalfeelings,madetwoprincessesofhisfamilysuccessively

GovernorsoftheNetherlands,andkeptoneorotheroftheminthatpost

duringhiswholelife(theywereafterwardssucceededbyathird)。Bothruled

verysuccessfully,andoneofthem,MargaretofAustria,asoneoftheablest

politiciansoftheage。Somuchforonesideofthequestion。Nowastothe

other。Whenitissaidthatunderqueensmengovern,isthesamemeaning

tobeunderstoodaswhenkingsaresaidtobegovernedbywomen?Isitmeant

thatqueenschooseastheirinstrumentsofgovernment,theassociatesof

theirpersonalpleasures?Thecaseisrareevenwiththosewhoareasunscrupulous

onthelatterpointasCatherineII:anditisnotinthesecasesthatthe

goodgovernment,allegedtoarisefrommaleinfluence,istobefound。If

itbetrue,then,thattheadministrationisinthehandsofbettermenunder

aqueenthanunderanaverageking,itmustbethatqueenshaveasuperior

capacityforchoosingthem;andwomenmustbebetterqualifiedthanmenboth

forthepositionofsovereign,andforthatofchiefminister;fortheprincipal

businessofaPrimeMinisterisnottogoverninperson,buttofindthe

fittestpersonstoconducteverydepartmentofpublicaffairs。Themorerapid

insightintocharacter,whichisoneoftheadmittedpointsofsuperiority

inwomenovermen,mustcertainlymakethem,withanythinglikeparityof

qualificationsinotherrespects,moreaptthanmeninthatchoiceofinstruments,

whichisnearlythemostimportantbusinessofeveryonewhohastodowith

governingmankind。EventheunprincipledCatherinedeMedicicouldfeelthe

valueofaChancellordel’Hopital。Butitisalsotruethatmostgreatqueens

havebeengreatbytheirowntalentsforgovernment,andhavebeenwellserved

preciselyforthatreason。Theyretainedthesupremedirectionofaffairs

intheirownhands:andiftheylistenedtogoodadvisers,theygavebythat

factthestrongestproofthattheirjudgmentfittedthemfordealingwiththegreatquestionsofgovernment。Isitreasonabletothinkthatthosewhoarefitforthegreaterfunctions

ofpolitics,areincapableofqualifyingthemselvesfortheless?Isthere

anyreasoninthenatureofthings,thatthewivesandsistersofprinces

should,whenevercalledon,befoundascompetentastheprincesthemselves

totheirbusiness,butthatthewivesandsistersofstatesmen,andadministrators,

anddirectorsofcompanies,andmanagersofpublicinstitutions,shouldbe

unabletodowhatisdonebytheirbrothersandhusbands?Therealreason

isplainenough;itisthatprincesses,beingmoreraisedabovethegenerality

ofmenbytheirrankthanplacedbelowthembytheirsex,haveneverbeen

taughtthatitwasimproperforthemtoconcernthemselveswithpolitics;

buthavebeenallowedtofeeltheliberalinterestnaturaltoanycultivated

humanbeing,inthegreattransactionswhichtookplacearoundthem,and

inwhichtheymightbecalledontotakeapart。Theladiesofreigningfamilies

aretheonlywomenwhoareallowedthesamerangeofinterestsandfreedom

ofdevelopmentasmen;anditispreciselyintheircasethatthereisnot

foundtobeanyinferiority。Exactlywhereandinproportionaswomen’scapacitiesforgovernmenthavebeentried,inthatproportionhavetheybeenfoundadequate。Thisfactisinaccordancewiththebestgeneralconclusionswhichthe

world’simperfectexperienceseemsasyettosuggest,concerningthepeculiar

tendenciesandaptitudescharacteristicofwomen,aswomenhavehitherto

been。Idonotsay,astheywillcontinuetobe;for,asIhavealreadysaid

morethanonce,Iconsideritpresumptioninanyonetopretendtodecide

whatwomenareorarenot,canorcannotbe,bynaturalconstitution。They

havealwayshithertobeenkept,asfarasregardsspontaneousdevelopment,

insounnaturalastate,thattheirnaturecannotbuthavebeengreatlydistorted

anddisguised;andnoonecansafelypronouncethatifwomen’snaturewere

lefttochooseitsdirectionasfreelyasmen’s,andifnoartificialbent

wereattemptedtobegiventoitexceptthatrequiredbytheconditionsof

humansociety,andgiventobothsexesalike,therewouldbeanymaterial

difference,orperhapsanydifferenceatall,inthecharacterandcapacities

whichwouldunfoldthemselves。Ishallpresentlyshow,thateventheleast

contestableofthedifferenceswhichnowexist,aresuchasmayverywell

havebeenproducedmerelybycircumstances,withoutanydifferenceofnatural

capacity。But,lookingatwomenastheyareknowninexperience,itmaybe

saidofthem,withmoretruththanbelongstomostothergeneralisations

onthesubject,thatthegeneralbentoftheirtalentsistowardsthepractical。

Thisstatementisconformabletoallthepublichistoryofwomen,inthe

presentandthepast。Itisnolessborneoutbycommonanddailyexperience。

Letusconsiderthespecialnatureofthementalcapacitiesmostcharacteristic

ofawomanoftalent。Theyareallofakindwhichfitsthemforpractice,

andmakesthemtendtowardsit。Whatismeantbyawoman’scapacityofintuitive

perception?Itmeans,arapidandcorrectinsightintopresentfact。Ithas

nothingtodowithgeneralprinciples。Nobodyeverperceivedascientific

lawofnaturebyintuition,norarrivedatageneralruleofdutyorprudence

byit。Theseareresultsofslowandcarefulcollectionandcomparisonof

experience;andneitherthemennorthewomen。Ofintuitionusuallyshine

inthisdepartment,unless,indeed,theexperiencenecessaryissuchasthey

canacquirebythemselves。Forwhatiscalledtheirintuitivesagacitymakes

thempeculiarlyaptingatheringsuchgeneraltruthsascanbecollected

fromtheirindividualmeansofobservation。When,consequently,theychance

tobeaswellprovidedasmenarewiththeresultsofotherpeople’sexperience,

byreadingandeducation(Iusethewordchanceadvisedly,for,inrespect

totheknowledgethattendstofitthemforthegreaterconcernsoflife,

theonlyeducatedwomenaretheself—educated)theyarebetterfurnished

thanmeningeneralwiththeessentialrequisitesofskilfulandsuccessful

practice。Menwhohavebeenmuchtaught,areapttobedeficientinthesense

ofpresentfact;theydonotsee,inthefactswhichtheyarecalledupon

todealwith,whatisreallythere,butwhattheyhavebeentaughttoexpect。

Thisisseldomthecasewithwomenofanyability。Theircapacityof\"intuition\"

preservesthemfromit。Withequalityofexperienceandofgeneralfaculties,

awomanusuallyseesmuchmorethanamanofwhatisimmediatelybeforeher。

Nowthissensibilitytothepresent,isthemainqualityonwhichthecapacity

forpractice,asdistinguishedfromtheory,depends。Todiscovergeneral

principles,belongstothespeculativefaculty:todiscernanddiscriminate

theparticularcasesinwhichtheyareandarenotapplicable,constitutes

practicaltalent:andforthis,womenastheynowarehaveapeculiaraptitude。

Iadmitthattherecanbenogoodpracticewithoutprinciples,andthatthe

predominantplacewhichquicknessofobservationholdsamongawoman’sfaculties,

makesherparticularlyapttobuildoverhastygeneralisationsuponherown

observation;thoughatthesametimenolessreadyinrectifyingthosegeneralisations,

asherobservationtakesawiderrange。Butthecorrectivetothisdefect,

isaccesstotheexperienceofthehumanrace;generalknowledge——exactly

thethingwhicheducationcanbestsupply。Awoman’smistakesarespecifically

thoseofacleverself—educatedman,whooftenseeswhatmentrainedinroutine

donotsee,butfallsintoerrorsforwantofknowingthingswhichhavelong

beenknown。Ofcoursehehasacquiredmuchofthepre—existingknowledge,

orhecouldnothavegotonatall;butwhatheknowsofithehaspickedupinfragmentsandatrandom,aswomendo。Butthisgravitationofwomen’smindstothepresent,tothereal,to

actualfact,whileinitsexclusivenessitisasourceoferrors,isalso

amostusefulcounteractiveofthecontraryerror。Theprincipalandmost

characteristicaberrationofspeculativemindsassuch,consistsprecisely

inthedeficiencyofthislivelyperceptionandever—presentsenseofobjective

fact。Forwantofthis,theyoftennotonlyoverlookthecontradictionwhich

outwardfactsopposetotheirtheories,butlosesightofthelegitimate

purposeofspeculationaltogether,andlettheirspeculativefacultiesgo

astrayintoregionsnotpeopledwithrealbeings,animateorinanimate,even

idealised,butwithpersonifiedshadowscreatedbytheillusionsofmetaphysics

orbythemereentanglementofwords,andthinktheseshadowstheproper

objectsofthehighest,themosttranscendant,philosophy。Hardlyanything

canbeofgreatervaluetoamanoftheoryandspeculationwhoemployshimself

notincollectingmaterialsofknowledgebyobservation,butinworkingthem

upbyprocessesofthoughtintocomprehensivetruthsofscienceandlaws

ofconduct,thantocarryonhisspeculationsinthecompanionship,andunder

thecriticism,ofareallysuperiorwoman。Thereisnothingcomparableto

itforkeepinghisthoughtswithinthelimitsofrealthings,andtheactual

factsofnature。Awomanseldomrunswildafteranabstraction。Thehabitual

directionofhermindtodealingwiththingsasindividualsratherthanin

groups,and(whatiscloselyconnectedwithit)hermorelivelyinterest

inthepresentfeelingsofpersons,whichmakesherconsiderfirstofall,

inanythingwhichclaimstobeappliedtopractice,inwhatmannerpersons

willbeaffectedbyit——thesetwothingsmakeherextremelyunlikelyto

putfaithinanyspeculationwhichlosessightofindividuals,anddeals

withthingsasiftheyexistedforthebenefitofsomeimaginaryentity,

somemerecreationofthemind,notresolvableintothefeelingsofliving

beings。Women’sthoughtsarethusasusefulingivingrealitytothoseof

thinkingmen,asmen’sthoughtsingivingwidthandlargenesstothoseof

women。Indepth,asdistinguishedfrombreadth,Igreatlydoubtifevennow,women,comparedwithmen,areatanydisadvantage。Iftheexistingmentalcharacteristicsofwomenarethusvaluableeven

inaidofspeculation,theyarestillmoreimportant,whenspeculationhas

doneitswork,forcarryingouttheresultsofspeculationintopractice。

Forthereasonsalreadygiven,womenarecomparativelyunlikelytofallinto

thecommonerrorofmen,thatofstickingtotheirrulesinacasewhose

specialitieseithertakeitoutoftheclasstowhichtherulesareapplicable,

orrequireaspecialadaptationofthem。Letusnowconsideranotherofthe

admittedsuperioritiesofcleverwomen,greaterquicknessofapprehension。

Isnotthispre—eminentlyaqualitywhichfitsapersonforpractice?In

action,everythingcontinuallydependsupondecidingpromptly。Inspeculation,

nothingdoes。Amerethinkercanwait,cantaketimetoconsider,cancollect

additionalevidence;heisnotobligedtocompletehisphilosophyatonce,

lesttheopportunityshouldgoby。Thepowerofdrawingthebestconclusion

possiblefrominsufficientdataisnotindeeduselessinphilosophy;the

constructionofaprovisionalhypothesisconsistentwithallknownfacts

isoftentheneedfulbasisforfurtherinquiry。Butthisfacultyisrather

serviceableinphilosophy,thanthemainqualificationforit:and,forthe

auxiliaryaswellasforthemainoperation,thephilosophercanallowhimself

anytimehepleases。Heisinnoneedofthecapacityofdoingrapidlywhat

hedoes;whatheratherneedsispatience,toworkonslowlyuntilimperfect

lightshavebecomeperfect,andaconjecturehasripenedintoatheorem。

Forthose,onthecontrary,whosebusinessiswiththefugitiveandperishable

——withindividualfacts,notkindsoffacts——rapidityofthoughtisa

qualificationnextonlyinimportancetothepowerofthoughtitself。He

whohasnothisfacultiesunderimmediatecommand,inthecontingenciesof

action,mightaswellnothavethematall。Hemaybefittocriticise,but

heisnotfittoact。Nowitisinthisthatwomen,andthemenwhoaremost

likewomen,confessedlyexcel。Theothersortofman,howeverpre—eminent

maybehisfaculties,arrivesslowlyatcompletecommandofthem:rapidity

ofjudgmentandpromptitudeofjudiciousaction,eveninthethingsheknowsbest,arethegradualandlateresultofstrenuouseffortgrownintohabit。Itwillbesaid,perhaps,thatthegreaternervoussusceptibilityofwomen

isadisqualificationforpractice,inanythingbutdomesticlife,byrendering

themmobile,changeable,toovehementlyundertheinfluenceofthemoment,

incapableofdoggedperseverance,unequalanduncertaininthepowerofusing

theirfaculties。Ithinkthatthesephrasessumupthegreaterpartofthe

objectionscommonlymadetothefitnessofwomenforthehigherclassof

seriousbusiness。Muchofallthisisthemereoverflowofnervousenergy

runtowaste,andwouldceasewhentheenergywasdirectedtoadefinite

end。Muchisalsotheresultofconsciousorunconsciouscultivation;as

weseebythealmosttotaldisappearanceof\"hysterics\"andfainting—fits,

sincetheyhavegoneoutoffashion。Moreover,whenpeoplearebroughtup,

likemanywomenofthehigherclasses(thoughlesssoinourowncountry

thananyother),akindofhot—houseplants,shieldedfromthewholesome

vicissitudesofairandtemperature,anduntrainedinanyoftheoccupations

andexerciseswhichgivestimulusanddevelopmenttothecirculatoryand

muscularsystem,whiletheirnervoussystem,especiallyinitsemotional

department,iskeptinunnaturallyactiveplay;itisnowonderifthose

ofthemwhodonotdieofconsumption,growupwithconstitutionsliable

toderangementfromslightcauses,bothinternalandexternal,andwithout

staminatosupportanytask,physicalormental,requiringcontinuityof

effort。Butwomenbroughtuptoworkfortheirlivelihoodshownoneofthese

morbidcharacteristics,unlessindeedtheyarechainedtoanexcessofsedentary

workinconfinedandunhealthyrooms。Womenwhointheirearlyyearshave

sharedinthehealthfulphysicaleducationandbodilyfreedomoftheirbrothers,

andwhoobtainasufficiencyofpureairandexerciseinafter—life,very

rarelyhaveanyexcessivesusceptibilityofnerveswhichcandisqualifythem

foractivepursuits。Thereisindeedacertainproportionofpersons,in

bothsexes,inwhomanunusualdegreeofnervoussensibilityisconstitutional,

andofsomarkedacharacterastobethefeatureoftheirorganisationwhich

exercisesthegreatestinfluenceoverthewholecharacterofthevitalphenomena。

Thisconstitution,likeotherphysicalconformations,ishereditary,and

istransmittedtosonsaswellasdaughters;butitispossible,andprobable,

thatthenervoustemperament(asitiscalled)isinheritedbyagreater

numberofwomenthanofmen。Wewillassumethisasafact:andletmethen

ask,aremenofnervoustemperamentfoundtobeunfitforthedutiesand

pursuitsusuallyfollowedbymen?Ifnot,whyshouldwomenofthesametemperament

beunfitforthem?Thepeculiaritiesofthetemperamentare,nodoubt,within

certainlimits,anobstacletosuccessinsomeemployments,thoughanaid

toitinothers。Butwhentheoccupationissuitabletothetemperament,

andsometimesevenwhenitisunsuitable,themostbrilliantexamplesof

successarecontinuallygivenbythemenofhighnervoussensibility。They

aredistinguishedintheirpracticalmanifestationschieflybythis,that

beingsusceptibleofahigherdegreeofexcitementthanthoseofanother

physicalconstitution,theirpowerswhenexciteddiffermorethaninthe

caseofotherpeople,fromthoseshownintheirordinarystate:theyare

raised,asitwere,abovethemselves,anddothingswitheasewhichthey

arewhollyincapableofatothertimes。Butthisloftyexcitementisnot,

exceptinweakbodilyconstitutions,amereflash,whichpassesawayimmediately,

leavingnopermanenttraces,andincompatiblewithpersistentandsteady

pursuitofanobject。Itisthecharacterofthenervoustemperamenttobe

capableofsustainedexcitement,holdingoutthroughlong—continuedefforts。

Itiswhatismeantbyspirit。Itiswhatmakesthehigh—bredracehorserun

withoutslackeningspeedtillhedropsdowndead。Itiswhathasenabled

somanydelicatewomentomaintainthemostsublimeconstancynotonlyat

thestake,butthroughalongpreliminarysuccessionofmentalandbodily

tortures。Itisevidentthatpeopleofthistemperamentareparticularly

aptforwhatmaybecalledtheexecutivedepartmentoftheleadershipof

mankind。Theyarethematerialofgreatorators,greatpreachers,impressive

diffusersofmoralinfluences。Theirconstitutionmightbedeemedlessfavourable

tothequalitiesrequiredfromastatesmaninthecabinet,orfromajudge。

Itwouldbeso,iftheconsequencenecessarilyfollowedthatbecausepeople

areexcitabletheymustalwaysbeinastateofexcitement。Butthisiswholly

aquestionoftraining。Strongfeelingistheinstrumentandelementofstrong

self—control:butitrequirestobecultivatedinthatdirection。Whenit

is,itformsnottheheroesofimpulseonly,butthosealsoofself—conquest。

Historyandexperienceprovethatthemostpassionatecharactersarethe

mostfanaticallyrigidintheirfeelingsofduty,whentheirpassionhas

beentrainedtoactinthatdirection。Thejudgewhogivesajustdecision

inacasewherehisfeelingsareintenselyinterestedontheotherside,

derivesfromthatsamestrengthoffeelingthedeterminedsenseoftheobligation

ofjustice,whichenableshimtoachievethisvictoryoverhimself。Thecapability

ofthatloftyenthusiasmwhichtakesthehumanbeingoutofhisevery—day

character,reactsuponthedailycharacteritself。Hisaspirationsandpowers

whenheisinthisexceptionalstate,becomethetypewithwhichhecompares,

andbywhichheestimates,hissentimentsandproceedingsatothertimes:

andhishabitualpurposesassumeacharactermouldedbyandassimilatedto

themomentsofloftyexcitement,althoughthose,fromthephysicalnature

ofahumanbeing,canonlybetransient。Experienceofraces,aswellas

ofindividuals,doesnotshowthoseofexcitabletemperamenttobelessfit,

ontheaverage,eitherforspeculationorpractice,thanthemoreunexcitable。

TheFrench,andtheItalians,areundoubtedlybynaturemorenervouslyexcitable

thantheTeutonicraces,and,comparedatleastwiththeEnglish,theyhave

amuchgreaterhabitualanddailyemotionallife:buthavetheybeenless

greatinscience,inpublicbusiness,inlegalandjudicialeminence,or

inwar?ThereisabundantevidencethattheGreekswereofold,astheir

descendantsandsuccessorsstillare,oneofthemostexcitableoftheraces

ofmankind。Itissuperfluoustoask,whatamongtheachievementsofmen

theydidnotexcelin。TheRomans,probably,asanequallysouthernpeople,

hadthesameoriginaltemperament:butthesterncharacteroftheirnational

discipline,likethatoftheSpartans,madethemanexampleoftheopposite

typeofnationalcharacter;thegreaterstrengthoftheirnaturalfeelings

beingchieflyapparentintheintensitywhichthesameoriginaltemperament

madeitpossibletogivetotheartificial。Ifthesecasesexemplifywhat

anaturallyexcitablepeoplemaybemade,theIrishCeltsaffordoneofthe

aptestexamplesofwhattheyarewhenlefttothemselves;(ifthosecanbe

saidtobelefttothemselveswhohavebeenforcenturiesundertheindirect

influenceofbadgovernment,andthedirecttrainingofaCatholichierarchy

andofasincerebeliefintheCatholicreligion)。TheIrishcharactermust

beconsidered,therefore,asanunfavourablecase:yet,wheneverthecircumstances

oftheindividualhavebeenatallfavourable,whatpeoplehaveshowngreater

capacityforthemostvariedandmultifariousindividualeminence?Likethe

FrenchcomparedwiththeEnglish,theIrishwiththeSwiss,theGreeksor

ItalianscomparedwiththeGermanraces,sowomencomparedwithmenmaybe

found,ontheaverage,todothesamethingswithsomevarietyintheparticular

kindofexcellence。But,thattheywoulddothemfullyaswellonthewhole,

iftheireducationandcultivationwereadaptedtocorrectinginsteadof

aggravatingtheinfirmitiesincidenttotheirtemperament,Iseenotthesmallestreasontodoubt。Supposingit,however,tobetruethatwomen’smindsarebynaturemore

mobilethanthoseofmen,lesscapableofpersistinglonginthesamecontinuous

effort,morefittedfordividingtheirfacultiesamongmanythingsthanfor

travellinginanyonepathtothehighestpointwhichcanbereachedbyit:

thismaybetrueofwomenastheynoware(thoughnotwithoutgreatandnumerous

exceptions),andmayaccountfortheirhavingremainedbehindthehighest

orderofmeninpreciselythethingsinwhichthisabsorptionofthewhole

mindinonesetofideasandoccupationsmayseemtobemostrequisite。Still,

thisdifferenceisonewhichcanonlyaffectthekindofexcellence,not

theexcellenceitself,oritspracticalworth:anditremainstobeshown

whetherthisexclusiveworkingofapartofthemind,thisabsorptionof

thewholethinkingfacultyinasinglesubject,andconcentrationofiton

asinglework,isthenormalandhealthfulconditionofthehumanfaculties,

evenforspeculativeuses。Ibelievethatwhatisgainedinspecialdevelopment

bythisconcentration,islostinthecapacityofthemindfortheother

purposesoflife;andeveninabstractthought,itismydecidedopinion

thattheminddoesmorebyfrequentlyreturningtoadifficultproblem,than

bystickingtoitwithoutinterruption。Forthepurposes,atallevents,

ofpractice,fromitshighesttoitshumblestdepartments,thecapacityof

passingpromptlyfromonesubjectofconsiderationtoanother,withoutletting

theactivespringoftheintellectrundownbetweenthetwo,isapowerfar

morevaluable;andthispowerwomenpre—eminentlypossess,byvirtueofthe

verymobilityofwhichtheyareaccused。Theyperhapshaveitfromnature,

buttheycertainlyhaveitbytrainingandeducation;fornearlythewhole

oftheoccupationsofwomenconsistinthemanagementofsmallbutmultitudinous

details,oneachofwhichthemindcannotdwellevenforaminute,butmust

passontootherthings,andifanythingrequireslongerthought,muststeal

timeatoddmomentsforthinkingofit。Thecapacityindeedwhichwomenshow

fordoingtheirthinkingincircumstancesandattimeswhichalmostanyman

wouldmakeanexcusetohimselffornotattemptingit,hasoftenbeennoticed:

andawoman’smind,thoughitmaybeoccupiedonlywithsmallthings,can

hardlyeverpermititselftobevacant,asaman’ssoofteniswhennot

engagedinwhathechoosestoconsiderthebusinessofhislife。Thebusiness

ofawoman’sordinarylifeisthingsingeneral,andcanaslittleceasetogoonastheworldtogoround。But(itissaid)thereisanatomicalevidenceofthesuperiormentalcapacity

ofmencomparedwithwomen:theyhavealargerbrain。Ireply,thatinthe

firstplacethefactitselfisdoubtful。Itisbynomeansestablishedthat

thebrainofawomanissmallerthanthatofaman。Ifitisinferredmerely

becauseawoman’sbodilyframegenerallyisoflessdimensionsthanaman’s,

thiscriterionwouldleadtostrangeconsequences。Atallandlarge—boned

manmustonthisshowingbewonderfullysuperiorinintelligencetoasmall

man,andanelephantorawhalemustprodigiouslyexcelmankind。Thesize

ofthebraininhumanbeings,anatomistssay,variesmuchlessthanthesize

ofthebody,orevenofthehead,andtheonecannotbeatallinferredfrom

theother。Itiscertainthatsomewomenhaveaslargeabrainasanyman。

Itiswithinmyknowledgethatamanwhohadweighedmanyhumanbrains,said

thattheheaviestheknewof,heaviereventhanCuvier’s(theheaviestpreviously

recorded),wasthatofawoman。Next,Imustobservethatthepreciserelation

whichexistsbetweenthebrainandtheintellectualpowersisnotyetwell

understood,butisasubjectofgreatdispute。Thatthereisaveryclose

relationwecannotdoubt。Thebrainiscertainlythematerialorganofthought

andfeeling:and(makingabstractionofthegreatunsettledcontroversyrespecting

theappropriationofdifferentpartsofthebraintodifferentmentalfaculties)

Iadmitthatitwouldbeananomaly,andanexceptiontoallweknowofthe

generallawsoflifeandorganisation,ifthesizeoftheorganwerewholly

indifferenttothefunction;ifnoaccessionofpowerwerederivedfromthe

greatmagnitudeoftheinstrument。Buttheexceptionandtheanomalywould

befullyasgreatiftheorganexercisedinfluencebyitsmagnitudeonly。

Inallthemoredelicateoperationsofnature——ofwhichthoseoftheanimated

creationarethemostdelicate,andthoseofthenervoussystembyfarthe

mostdelicateofthese——differencesintheeffectdependasmuchondifferences

ofqualityinthephysicalagents,asontheirquantity:andifthequality

ofaninstrumentistobetestedbythenicetyanddelicacyoftheworkit

cando,theindicationspointtoagreateraveragefinenessofqualityin

thebrainandnervoussystemofwomenthanofmen。Dismissingabstractdifference

ofquality,athingdifficulttoverify,theefficiencyofanorganisknown

todependnotsolelyonitssizebutonitsactivity:andofthiswehave

anapproximatemeasureintheenergywithwhichthebloodcirculatesthrough

it,boththestimulusandthereparativeforcebeingmainlydependenton

thecirculation。Itwouldnotbesurprising——itisindeedanhypothesis

whichaccordswellwiththedifferencesactuallyobservedbetweenthemental

operationsofthetwosexes——ifmenontheaverageshouldhavetheadvantage

inthesizeofthebrain,andwomeninactivityofcerebralcirculation。

Theresultswhichconjecture,foundedonanalogy,wouldleadustoexpect

fromthisdifferenceoforganisation,wouldcorrespondtosomeofthosewhich

wemostcommonlysee。Inthefirstplace,thementaloperationsofmenmight

beexpectedtobeslower。Theywouldneitherbesopromptaswomeninthinking,

norsoquicktofeel。Largebodiestakemoretimetogetintofullaction。

Ontheotherhand,whenoncegotthoroughlyintoplay,men’sbrainwould

bearmorework。Itwouldbemorepersistentinthelinefirsttaken;itwould

havemoredifficultyinchangingfromonemodeofactiontoanother,but,

intheonethingitwasdoing,itcouldgoonlongerwithoutlossofpower

orsenseoffatigue。Anddowenotfindthatthethingsinwhichmenmost

excelwomenarethosewhichrequiremostploddingandlonghammeringata

singlethought,whilewomendobestwhatmustbedonerapidly?Awoman’s

brainissoonerfatigued,soonerexhausted;butgiventhedegreeofexhaustion,

weshouldexpecttofindthatitwouldrecoveritselfsooner。Irepeatthat

thisspeculationisentirelyhypothetical;itpretendstonomorethanto

suggestalineofinquiry。Ihavebeforerepudiatedthenotionofitsbeing

yetcertainlyknownthatthereisanynaturaldifferenceatallintheaverage

strengthordirectionofthementalcapacitiesofthetwosexes,muchless

whatthatdifferenceis。Norisitpossiblethatthisshouldbeknown,so

longasthepsychologicallawsoftheformationofcharacterhavebeenso

littlestudied,eveninageneralway,andintheparticularcaseneverscientifically

appliedatall;solongasthemostobviousexternalcausesofdifference

ofcharacterarehabituallydisregarded——leftunnoticedbytheobserver,

andlookeddownuponwithakindofsuperciliouscontemptbytheprevalent

schoolsbothofnaturalhistoryandofmentalphilosophy:who,whetherthey

lookforthesourceofwhatmainlydistinguisheshumanbeingsfromoneanother,

intheworldofmatterorinthatofspirit,agreeinrunningdownthose

whoprefertoexplainthesedifferencesbythedifferentrelationsofhumanbeingstosocietyandlife。Tosoridiculousanextentarethenotionsformedofthenatureofwomen,

mereempiricalgeneralisations,framed,withoutphilosophyoranalysis,upon

thefirstinstanceswhichpresentthemselves,thatthepopularideaofit

isdifferentindifferentcountries,accordingastheopinionsandsocial

circumstancesofthecountryhavegiventothewomenlivinginitanyspeciality

ofdevelopmentornon—development。Anorientalthinksthatwomenarebynature

peculiarlyvoluptuous;seetheviolentabuseofthemonthisgroundinHindoo

writings。AnEnglishmanusuallythinksthattheyarebynaturecold。The

sayingsaboutwomen’sficklenessaremostlyofFrenchorigin;fromthefamous

distichofFrancistheFirst,upwardanddownward。InEnglanditisacommon

remark,howmuchmoreconstantwomenarethanmen。Inconstancyhasbeenlonger

reckoneddiscreditabletoawoman,inEnglandthaninFrance;andEnglishwomen

arebesides,intheirinmostnature,muchmoresubduedtoopinion。Itmay

beremarkedbytheway,thatEnglishmenareinpeculiarlyunfavourablecircumstances

forattemptingtojudgewhatisorisnotnatural,notmerelytowomen,but

tomen,ortohumanbeingsaltogether,atleastiftheyhaveonlyEnglish

experiencetogoupon:becausethereisnoplacewherehumannatureshows

solittleofitsoriginallineaments。Bothinagoodandabadsense,the

Englisharefartherfromastateofnaturethananyothermodernpeople。

Theyare,morethananyotherpeople,aproductofcivilisationanddiscipline。

Englandisthecountryinwhichsocialdisciplinehasmostsucceeded,not

somuchinconquering,asinsuppressing,whateverisliabletoconflict

withit。TheEnglish,morethananyotherpeople,notonlyactbutfeelaccording

torule。Inothercountries,thetaughtopinion,ortherequirementofsociety,

maybethestrongerpower,butthepromptingsoftheindividualnatureare

alwaysvisibleunderit,andoftenresistingit:rulemaybestrongerthan

nature,butnatureisstillthere。InEngland,rulehastoagreatdegree

substituteditselffornature。Thegreaterpartoflifeiscarriedon,not

byfollowinginclinationunderthecontrolofrule,butbyhavingnoinclination

butthatoffollowingarule。Nowthishasitsgoodsidedoubtless,though

ithasalsoawretchedlybadone;butitmustrenderanEnglishmanpeculiarly

ill—qualifiedtopassajudgmentontheoriginaltendenciesofhumannature

fromhisownexperience。Theerrorstowhichobserverselsewhereareliable

onthesubject,areofadifferentcharacter。AnEnglishmanisignorantrespecting

humannature,aFrenchmanisprejudiced。AnEnglishman’serrorsarenegative,

aFrenchman’spositive。AnEnglishmanfanciesthatthingsdonotexist,because

heneverseesthem;aFrenchmanthinkstheymustalwaysandnecessarilyexist,

becausehedoesseethem。AnEnglishmandoesnotknownature,becausehe

hashadnoopportunityofobservingit;aFrenchmangenerallyknowsagreat

dealofit,butoftenmistakesit,becausehehasonlyseenitsophisticated

anddistorted。Fortheartificialstatesuperinducedbysocietydisguises

thenaturaltendenciesofthethingwhichisthesubjectofobservation,

intwodifferentways:byextinguishingthenature,orbytransformingit。

Intheonecasethereisbutastarvedresiduumofnatureremainingtobe

studied;intheothercasethereismuch,butitmayhaveexpandedinanydirectionratherthanthatinwhichitwouldspontaneouslygrow。Ihavesaidthatitcannotnowbeknownhowmuchoftheexistingmental

differencesbetweenmenandwomenisnaturalandhowmuchartificial;whether

thereareanynaturaldifferencesatall;or,supposingallartificialcauses

ofdifferencetobewithdrawn,whatnaturalcharacterwouldberevealedI

amnotabouttoattemptwhatIhavepronouncedimpossible:butdoubtdoes

notforbidconjecture,andwherecertaintyisunattainable,theremayyet

bethemeansofarrivingatsomedegreeofprobability。Thefirstpoint,

theoriginofthedifferencesactuallyobserved,istheonemostaccessible

tospeculation;andIshallattempttoapproachit,bytheonlypathbywhich

itcanbereached;bytracingthementalconsequencesofexternalinfluences。

Wecannotisolateahumanbeingfromthecircumstancesofhiscondition,

soastoascertainexperimentallywhathewouldhavebeenbynature;but

wecanconsiderwhatheis,andwhathiscircumstanceshavebeen,andwhethertheonewouldhavebeencapableofproducingtheother。Letustake,then,theonlymarkedcasewhichobservationaffords,of

apparentinferiorityofwomentomen,ifweexceptthemerelyphysicalone

ofbodilystrength。Noproductioninphilosophy,science,orart,entitled

tothefirstrank,hasbeentheworkofawoman。Isthereanymodeofaccounting

forthis,withoutsupposingthatwomenarenaturallyincapableofproducingthem?Inthefirstplace,wemayfairlyquestionwhetherexperiencehasafforded

sufficientgroundsforaninduction。Itisscarcelythreegenerationssince

women,savingveryrareexceptionshavebeguntotrytheircapacityinphilosophy,

science,orart。Itisonlyinthepresentgenerationthattheirattempts

havebeenatallnumerous;andtheyareevennowextremelyfew,everywhere

butinEnglandandFrance。Itisarelevantquestion,whetheramindpossessing

therequisitesoffirstrateeminenceinspeculationorcreativeartcould

havebeenexpected,onthemerecalculationofchances,toturnupduring

thatlapseoftime,amongthewomenwhosetastesandpersonalpositionadmitted

oftheirdevotingthemselvestothesepursuitsInallthingswhichthere

hasyetbeentimefor——inallbuttheveryhighestgradesinthescale

ofexcellence,especiallyinthedepartmentinwhichtheyhavebeenlongest

engaged,literature(bothproseandpoetry)——womenhavedonequiteasmuch,

haveobtainedfullyashighprizesandasmanyofthem,ascouldbeexpected

fromthelengthoftimeandthenumberofcompetitors。Ifwegobacktothe

earlierperiodwhenveryfewwomenmadetheattempt,yetsomeofthosefew

madeitwithdistinguishedsuccess。TheGreeksalwaysaccountedSapphoamong

theirgreatpoets;andwemaywellsupposethatMyrtis,saidtohavebeen

theteacherofPindar,andCorinna,whofivetimesboreawayfromhimthe

prizeofpoetry,mustatleasthavehadsufficientmerittoadmitofbeing

comparedwiththatgreatname。Aspasiadidnotleaveanyphilosophicalwritings;

butitisanadmittedfactthatSocratesresortedtoherforinstruction,andavowedhimselftohaveobtainedit。Ifweconsidertheworksofwomeninmoderntimes,andcontrastthemwith

thoseofmen,eitherintheliteraryortheartisticdepartment,suchinferiority

asmaybeobservedresolvesitselfessentiallyintoonething:butthatis

amostmaterialone;deficiencyoforiginality。Nottotaldeficiency;for

everyproductionofmindwhichisofanysubstantivevalue,hasanoriginality

ofitsown——isaconceptionoftheminditself,notacopyofsomething

else。Thoughtsoriginal,inthesenseofbeingunborrowed——ofbeingderived

fromthethinker’sownobservationsorintellectualprocesses——areabundant

inthewritingsofwomen。Buttheyhavenotyetproducedanyofthosegreat

andluminousnewideaswhichformanerainthought,northosefundamentally

newconceptionsinart,whichopenavistaofpossibleeffectsnotbefore

thoughtof,andfoundanewschool。Theircompositionsaremostlygrounded

ontheexistingfundofthought,andtheircreationsdo—notdeviatewidely

fromexistingtypes。Thisisthesortofinferioritywhichtheirworksmanifest:

forinpointofexecution,inthedetailedapplicationofthought,andthe

perfectionofstyle,thereisnoinferiority。Ourbestnovelistsinpoint

ofcomposition,andofthemanagementofdetail,havemostlybeenwomen;

andthereisnotinallmodernliteratureamoreeloquentvehicleofthought

thanthestyleofMadamedeStael,nor,asaspecimenofpurelyartistic

excellence,anythingsuperiortotheproseofMadameSand,whosestyleacts

uponthenervoussystemlikeasymphonyofHaydnorMozart。Highoriginality

ofconceptionis,asIhavesaid,whatischieflywanting。Andnowtoexamineifthereisanymannerinwhichthisdeficiencycanbeaccountedfor。Letusremember,then,sofarasregardsmerethought,thatduringall

thatperiodintheworld’sexistence,andintheprogressofcultivation,

inwhichgreatandfruitfulnewtruthsIcouldbearrivedatbymereforce

ofgenius,withlittlepreciousstudyandaccumulationofknowledge——during

allthattimewomendidnotconcernthemselveswithspeculationatall。From

thedaysofHypatiatothoseoftheReformation,theillustriousHeloisa

isalmosttheonlywomantowhomanysuchachievementmighthavebeenpossible;

andweknownothowgreatacapacityofspeculationinhermayhavebeen

losttomankindbythemisfortunesofherlife。Neversinceanyconsiderable

numberofwomenhavebegantocultivateseriousthought,hasoriginality

beenpossibleoneasyterms。Nearlyallthethoughtswhichcanbereached

bymerestrengthoforiginalfaculties,havelongsincebeenarrivedat;

andoriginality,inanyhighsenseoftheword,isnowscarcelyeverattained

butbymindswhichhaveundergoneelaboratediscipline,andaredeeplyversed

intheresultsofpreviousthinking。ItisMr。Maurice,Ithink,whohas

remarkedonthepresentage,thatitsmostoriginalthinkersarethosewho

haveknownmostthoroughlywhathadbeenthoughtbytheir;predecessors:

andthiswillalwayshenceforthbethecase。Everyfreshstoneintheedifice

hasnowtobeplacedonthetopofsomanyothers,thatalongprocessof

climbing,andofcarryingupmaterials,hastobegonethroughbywhoever

aspirestotakeashareinthepresentstageofthework。Howmanywomen

aretherewhohavegonethroughanysuchprocess?Mrs。Somerville,alone

perhapsofwomen,knowsasmuchofmathematicsasisnowneedfulformaking

anyconsiderablemathematicaldiscovery:isitanyproofofinferiorityin

women,thatshehasnothappenedtobeoneofthetwoorthreepersonswho

inherlifetimehaveassociatedtheirnameswithsomestrikingadvancement

ofthescience?Twowomen,sincepoliticaleconomyhasbeenmadeascience,

haveknownenoughofittowriteusefullyonthesubject:ofhowmanyof

theinnumerablemenwhohavewrittenonitduringthesametime,isitpossible

withtruthtosaymore?Ifnowomanhashithertobeenagreathistorian,

whatwomanhashadthenecessaryerudition?Ifnowomanisagreatphilologist,

whatwomanhasstudiedSanscritandSlavonic,theGothicofUlphilaandthe

PersicoftheZendavesta?Eveninpracticalmattersweallknowwhatisthe

valueoftheoriginalityofuntaughtgeniuses。Itmeans,inventingoveragain

initsrudimentaryformsomethingalreadyinventedandimproveduponbymany

successiveinventors。Whenwomenhavehadthepreparationwhichallmennow

requiretobeeminentlyoriginal,itwillbetimeenoughtobeginjudgingbyexperienceoftheircapacityfororiginality。Itnodoubtoftenhappensthataperson,whohasnotwidelyandaccurately

studiedthethoughtsofothersonasubject,hasbynaturalsagacityahappy

intuition,whichhecansuggest,butcannotprove,whichyetwhenmatured

maybeanimportantadditiontoknowledge:buteventhen,nojusticecan

bedonetoituntilsomeotherperson,whodoespossessthepreviousacquirements,

takesitinhand,testsit,givesitascientificorpracticalform,and

fitsitintoitsplaceamongtheexistingtruthsofphilosophyorscience。

Isitsupposedthatsuchfelicitousthoughtsdonotoccurtowomen?They

occurbyhundredstoeverywomanofintellect。Buttheyaremostlylost,

forwantofahusbandorfriendwhohastheotherknowledgewhichcanenable

himtoestimatethemproperlyandbringthembeforetheworld:andevenwhen

theyarebroughtbeforeit,theygenerallyappearashisideas,nottheir

realauthor’s。Whocantellhowmanyofthemostoriginalthoughtsputforth

bymalewriters,belongtoawomanbysuggestion,tothemselvesonlybyverifyingandworkingout?IfImayjudgebymyowncase,averylargeproportionindeed。Ifweturnfrompurespeculationtoliteratureinthenarrowsenseof

theterm,andthefinearts,thereisaveryobviousreasonwhywomen’sliterature

is,initsgeneralconceptionandinitsmainfeatures,animitationofmen’s。

WhyistheRomanliterature,ascriticsproclaimtosatiety,notoriginal,

butanimitationoftheGreek?SimplybecausetheGreekscamefirst。Ifwomen

livedinadifferentcountryfrommen,andhadneverreadanyoftheirwritings,

theywouldhavehadaliteratureoftheirown。Asitis,theyhavenotcreated

one,becausetheyfoundahighlyadvancedliteraturealreadycreated。If

therehadbeennosuspensionoftheknowledgeofantiquity,oriftheRenaissance

hadoccurredbeforetheGothiccathedralswerebuilt,theyneverwouldhave

beenbuilt。Weseethat,inFranceandItaly,imitationoftheancientliterature

stoppedtheoriginaldevelopmentevenafterithadcommenced。Allwomenwho

writearepupilsofthegreatmalewriters。Apainter’searlypictures,even

ifhebeaRaffaello,areundistinguishableinstylefromthoseofhismaster。

EvenaMozartdoesnotdisplayhispowerfuloriginalityinhisearliestpieces。

Whatyearsaretoagiftedindividual,generationsaretoamass。Ifwomen’s

literatureisdestinedtohaveadifferentcollectivecharacterfromthat

ofmen,dependingonanydifferenceofnaturaltendencies,muchlongertime

isnecessarythanhasyetelapsed,beforeitcanemancipateitselffromthe

influenceofacceptedmodels,andguideitselfbyitsownimpulses。Butif,

asIbelieve,therewillnotprovetobeanynaturaltendenciescommonto

women,anddistinguishingtheirgeniusfromthatofmen,yeteveryindividual

writeramongthemhasherindividualtendencies,whichatpresentarestill

subduedbytheinfluenceofprecedentandexample:anditwillrequiregenerations

more,beforetheirindividualityissufficientlydevelopedtomakeheadagainstthatinfluence。###第5章Itisinthefinearts,properlysocalled,thattheprimafacieevidence

ofinferiororiginalpowersinwomenatfirstsightappearsthestrongest:

sinceopinion(itmaybesaid)doesnotexcludethemfromthese,butrather

encouragesthem,andtheireducation,insteadofpassingoverthisdepartment,

isintheaffluentclassesmainlycomposedofit。Yetinthislineofexertion

theyhavefallenstillmoreshortthaninmanyothers,ofthehighesteminence

attainedbymen。Thisshortcoming,however,needsnootherexplanationthan

thefamiliarfact,moreuniversallytrueinthefineartsthaninanything

else;thevastsuperiorityofprofessionalpersonsoveramateurs。Womenin

theeducatedclassesarealmostuniversallytaughtmoreorlessofsomebranch

orotherofthefinearts,butnotthattheymaygaintheirlivingortheir

socialconsequencebyit。Womenartistsareallamateurs。Theexceptions

areonlyofthekindwhichconfirmthegeneraltruth。Womenaretaughtmusic,

Ibutnotforthepurposeofcomposing,onlyofexecutingit:andaccordingly

itisonlyascomposers,thatmen,inmusic,aresuperiortowomen。Theonly

oneofthefineartswhichwomendofollow,toanyextent,asaprofession,

andanoccupationforlife,isthehistrionic;andinthattheyareconfessedly

equal,ifnotsuperior,tomen。Tomakethecomparisonfair,itshouldbe

madebetweentheproductionsofwomeninanybranchofart,andthoseof

mennotfollowingitasaprofession。Inmusicalcomposition,forexample,

womensurelyhaveproducedfullyasgoodthingsashaveeverbeenproduced

bymaleamateurs。Therearenowafewwomen,averyfew,whopractisepainting

asaprofession,andthesearealreadybeginningtoshowquiteasmuchtalent

ascouldbeexpected。Evenmalepainters(paceMr。Ruskin)havenotmade

anyveryremarkablefiguretheselastcenturies,anditwillbelongbefore

theydoso。Thereasonwhytheoldpaintersweresogreatlysuperiortothe

modern,isthatagreatlysuperiorclassofmenappliedthemselvestothe

art。InthefourteenthandfifteenthcenturiestheItalianpainterswere

themostaccomplishedmenoftheirage。Thegreatestofthemweremenof

encyclopaedicalacquirementsandpowers,likethegreatmenofGreece。But

intheirtimesfineartwas,tomen’sfeelingsandconceptions,amongthe

grandestthingsinwhichahumanbeingcouldexcel;andbyitmenweremade,—

whatonlypoliticalormilitarydistinctionnowmakesthem,thecompanions

ofsovereigns,andtheequalsofthehighestnobility。Inthepresentage,

menofanythinglikesimilarcalibrefindsomethingmore—importanttodo,

fortheirownfameandtheusesofthemodernworld,thanpainting:andit

isonlynowandthenthataReynoldsoraTurner(ofwhoserelativerank

amongeminentmenIdonotpretendtoanopinion)applieshimselftothat

art。Musicbelongstoadifferentorderofthings:itdoesnotrequirethe

samegeneralpowersofmind,butseemsmoredependentonanaturalgift:

anditmaybethoughtsurprisingthatnooneofthegreatmusicalcomposers

hasbeenawoman。Buteventhisnaturalgift,tobemadeavailableforgreat

creations,requiresstudy,andprofessionaldevotiontothepursuit。The

onlycountrieswhichhaveproducedfirst—ratecomposers,evenofthemale

sex,areGermanyandItaly——countriesinwhich,bothinpointofspecial

andofgeneralcultivation,womenhaveremainedfarbehindFranceandEngland,

beinggenerally(itmaybesaidwithoutexaggeration)verylittleeducated,

andhavingscarcelycultivatedatallanyofthehigherfacultiesofmind。

Andinthosecountriesthemenwhoareacquaintedwiththeprinciplesof

musicalcompositionmustbecountedbyhundreds,ormoreprobablybythousands,

thewomenbarelybyscores:sothathereagain,onthedoctrineofaverages,

wecannotreasonablyexpecttoseemorethanoneeminentwomantofiftyeminent

men;andthelastthreecenturieshavenotproducedfiftyeminentmalecomposerseitherinGermanyorinItaly。Thereareotherreasons,besidesthosewhichwehavenowgiven,thathelp

toexplainwhywomenremainbehindmen,eveninthepursuitswhichareopen

toboth。Foronething,veryfewwomenhavetimeforthem。Thismayseem

aparadox;itisanundoubtedsocialfact。Thetimeandthoughtsofevery

womanhavetosatisfygreatpreviousdemandsonthemforthingspractical。

Thereis,first,thesuperintendenceofthefamilyandthedomesticexpenditure,

whichoccupiesatleastonewomanineveryfamily,generallytheoneofmature

yearsandacquiredexperience;unlessthefamilyissorichastoadmitof

delegatingthattasktohiredagency,andsubmittingtoallthewasteand

malversationinseparablefromthatmodeofconductingit。Thesuperintendence

ofahousehold,evenwhennotinotherrespectslaborious,isextremelyonerous

tothethoughts;itrequiresincessantvigilance,aneyewhichnodetail

escapes,andpresentsquestionsforconsiderationandsolution,foreseen

andunforeseen,ateveryhouroftheday,fromwhichthepersonresponsible

forthemcanhardlyevershakeherselffree。Ifawomanisofarankand

circumstanceswhichrelieveherinameasurefromthesecares,shehasstill

devolvingonherthemanagementforthewholefamilyofitsintercoursewith

others——ofwhatiscalledsociety,andthelessthecallmadeonherby

theformerduty,thegreaterisalwaysthedevelopmentofthelatter:the

dinnerparties,concerts,eveningparties,morningvisits,letter—writing,

andallthatgoeswiththem。Allthisisoverandabovetheengrossingduty

whichsocietyimposesexclusivelyonwomen,ofmakingthemselvescharming。

Acleverwomanofthehigherranksfindsnearlyasufficientemploymentof

hertalentsincultivatingthegracesofmannerandtheartsofconversation。

Tolookonlyattheoutwardsideofthesubject:thegreatandcontinual

exerciseofthoughtwhichallwomenwhoattachanyvaluetodressingwell

(Idonotmeanexpensively,butwithtaste,andperceptionofnaturaland

ofartificialconvenance)mustbestowupontheirowndress,perhapsalso

uponthatoftheirdaughters,wouldalonegoagreatwaytowardsachieving

respectableresultsinart,orscience,orliterature,anddoesactually

exhaustmuchofthetimeandmentalpowertheymighthavetospareforeither。(2*)

Ifitwerepossiblethatallthisnumberoflittlepracticalinterests(which

aremadegreattothem)shouldleavethemeithermuchleisure,ormuchenergy

andfreedomofmind,tobedevotedtoartorspeculation,theymusthave

amuchgreateroriginalsupplyofactivefacultythanthevastmajorityof

men。Butthisisnotall。Independentlyoftheregularofficesoflifewhich

devolveuponawoman,sheisexpectedtohavehertimeandfacultiesalways

atthedisposalofeverybody。Ifamanhasnotaprofessiontoexempthim

fromsuchdemands,still,ifhehasapursuit,heoffendsnobodybydevoting

histimetoit;occupationisreceivedasavalidexcuseforhisnotanswering

toeverycasualdemandwhichmaybemadeonhim。Areawoman’soccupations,

especiallyherchosenandvoluntaryones,everregardedasexcusingherfrom

anyofwhataretermedthecallsofsociety?Scarcelyarehermostnecessary

andrecogniseddutiesallowedasanexemption。Itrequiresanillnessin

thefamily,orsomethingelseoutofthecommonway,toentitlehertogive

herownbusinesstheprecedenceoverotherpeople’samusement。Shemustalways

beatthebeckandcallofsomebody,generallyofeverybody。Ifshehasa

studyorapursuit,shemustsnatchanyshortintervalwhichaccidentally

occurstobeemployedinit。Acelebratedwoman,inaworkwhichIhopewill

somedaybepublished,remarkstrulythateverythingawomandoesisdone

atoddtimes。Isitwonderful,then,ifshedoesnotattainthehighesteminence

inthingswhichrequireconsecutiveattention,andtheconcentrationonthem

ofthechiefinterestoflife?Suchisphilosophy,andsuch,aboveall,is

art,inwhich,besidesthedevotionofthethoughtsandfeelings,thehandalsomustbekeptinconstantexercisestoattainhighskill。Thereisanotherconsiderationtobeaddedtoallthese。Inthevarious

artsandintellectualoccupations,thereisadegreeofproficiencysufficient

forlivingbyit,andthereisahigherdegreeonwhichdependthegreat

productionswhichimmortaliseaname。Totheattainmentoftheformer,there

areadequatemotivesinthecaseofallwhofollowthepursuitprofessionally:

theotherishardlyeverattainedwherethereisnot,orwheretherehas

notbeenatsomeperiodoflife,anardentdesireofcelebrity。Nothingless

iscommonlyasufficientstimulustoundergothelongandpatientdrudgery,

which,inthecaseevenofthegreatestnaturalgifts,isabsolutelyrequired

forgreateminenceinpursuitsinwhichwealreadypossesssomanysplendid

memorialsofthehighestgenius。Now,whetherthecausebenaturalorartificial,

womenseldomhavethiseagernessforfame。Theirambitionisgenerallyconfined

withinnarrowerbounds。Theinfluencetheyseekisoverthosewhoimmediately

surroundthem。Theirdesireistobeliked,loved,oradmired,bythosewhom

theyseewiththeireyes:andtheproficiencyinknowledge,arts,andaccomplishments,

whichissufficientforthat,almostalwayscontentsthem。Thisisatrait

ofcharacterwhichcannotbeleftoutoftheaccountinjudgingofwomen

astheyare。Idonotatallbelievethatitisinherentinwomen。Itis

onlythenaturalresultoftheircircumstances。Theloveoffameinmenis

encouragedbyeducationandopinion:to\"scorndelightsandlivelaborious

days\"foritssake,isaccountedthepartof\"nobleminds,\"

evenifspokenofastheir\"lastinfirmity,\"andisstimulated

bytheaccesswhichfamegivestoallobjectsofambition,includingeven

thefavourofwomen;whiletowomenthemselvesalltheseobjectsareclosed,

andthedesireoffameitselfconsidereddaringandunfeminine。Besides,

howcoulditbethatawoman’sinterestsshouldnotbeallconcentratedupon

theimpressionsmadeonthosewhocomeintoherdailylife,whensociety

hasordainedthatallherdutiesshouldbetothem,andhascontrivedthat

allhercomfortsshoulddependonthem?Thenaturaldesireofconsideration

fromourfellow—creaturesisasstronginawomanasinaman;butsociety

hassoorderedthingsthatpublicconsiderationis,inallordinarycases,

onlyattainablebyherthroughtheconsiderationofherhusbandorofher

malerelations,whileherprivateconsiderationisforfeitedbymakingherself

individuallyprominent,orappearinginanyothercharacterthanthatof

anappendagetomen。Whoeverisintheleastcapableofestimatingtheinfluence

onthemindoftheentiredomesticandsocialpositionandthewholehabit

ofalife,musteasilyrecogniseinthatinfluenceacompleteexplanation

ofnearlyalltheapparentdifferencesbetweenwomenandmen,includingthewholeofthosewhichimplyanyinferiority。Asformoraldifferences,consideredasdistinguishedfromintellectual,

thedistinctioncommonlydrawnistotheadvantageofwomen。Theyaredeclared

tobebetterthanmen;anemptycompliment,whichmustprovokeabittersmile

fromeverywomanofspirit,sincethereisnoothersituationinlifein

whichitistheestablishedorder,andconsideredquitenaturalandsuitable,

thatthebettershouldobeytheworse。Ifthispieceofidletalkisgood

foranything,itisonlyasanadmissionbymen,ofthecorruptinginfluence

ofpower;forthatiscertainlytheonlytruthwhichthefact,ifitbea

fact,eitherprovesorillustrates。Anditistruethatservitude,except

whenitactuallybrutalises,thoughcorruptingtoboth,islesssotothe

slavesthantotheslave—masters。Itiswholesomerforthemoralnatureto

berestrained,evenbyarbitrarypower,thantobeallowedtoexercisearbitrary

powerwithoutrestraint。Women,itissaid,seldomerfallunderthepenal

law——contributeamuchsmallernumberofoffenderstothecriminalcalendar,

thanmen。Idoubtnotthatthesamethingmaybesaid,withthesametruth,

ofnegroslaves。Thosewhoareunderthecontrolofotherscannotoftencommit

crimes,unlessatthecommandandforthepurposesoftheirmasters。Ido

notknowamoresignalinstanceoftheblindnesswithwhichtheworld,including

theherdofstudiousmen,ignoreandpassoveralltheinfluencesofsocial

circumstances,thantheirsillydepreciationoftheintellectual,andsillypanegyricsonthemoral,natureofwomen。Thecomplimentarydictumaboutwomen’ssuperiormoralgoodnessmaybe

allowedtopairoffwiththedisparagingonerespectingtheirgreaterliability

tomoralbias。Women,wearetold,arenotcapableofresistingtheirpersonal

partialities:theirjudgmentingraveaffairsiswarpedbytheirsympathies

andantipathies。Assumingittobeso,itisstilltobeprovedthatwomen

areoftenermisledbytheirpersonalfeelingsthanmenbytheirpersonal

interests。Thechiefdifferencewouldseeminthatcasetobe,thatmenare

ledfromthecourseofdutyandthepublicinterestbytheirregardforthemselves,

women(notbeingallowedtohaveprivateinterestsoftheirown)bytheir

regardforsomebodyelse。Itisalsotobeconsidered,thatalltheeducation

whichwomenreceivefromsocietyinculcatesonthemthefeelingthatthe

individualsconnectedwiththemaretheonlyonestowhomtheyoweanyduty

——theonlyoneswhoseinteresttheyarecalledupontocarefor;while,

asfaraseducationisconcerned,theyareleftstrangerseventotheelementary

ideaswhicharepresupposedinanyintelligentregardforlargerinterests

orhighermoralobjects。Thecomplaintagainstthemresolvesitselfmerely

intothis,thattheyfulfilonlytoofaithfullythesoledutywhichtheyaretaught,andalmosttheonlyonewhichtheyarepermittedtopractise。Theconcessionsoftheprivilegedtotheunprivilegedaresoseldombrought

aboutbyanybettermotivethanthepoweroftheunprivilegedtoextortthem,

thatanyargumentsagainsttheprerogativeofsexarelikelytobelittle

attendedtobythegenerality,aslongastheyareabletosaytothemselves

thatwomendonotcomplainofit。Thatfactcertainlyenablesmentoretain

theunjustprivilegesometimelonger;butdoesnotrenderitlessunjust。

Exactlythesamethingmaybesaidofthewomenintheharemofanoriental:

theydonotcomplainofnotbeingallowedthefreedomofEuropeanwomen。

Theythinkourwomeninsufferablyboldandunfeminine。Howrarelyitisthat

evenmencomplainofthegeneralorderofsociety;andhowmuchrarerstill

wouldsuchcomplaintbe,iftheydidnotknowofanydifferentorderexisting

anywhereelse。Womendonotcomplainofthegenerallotofwomen;orrather

theydo,forplaintiveelegiesonitareverycommoninthewritingsofwomen,

andwerestillmoresoaslongasthelamentationscouldnotbesuspected

ofhavinganypracticalobject。Theircomplaintsarelikethecomplaints

whichmenmakeofthegeneralunsatisfactorinessofhumanlife;theyare

notmeanttoimplyblame,ortopleadforanychange。Butthoughwomendo

notcomplainofthepowerofhusbands,eachcomplainsofherownhusband,

orofthehusbandsofherfriends。Itisthesameinallothercasesofservitude,

atleastinthecommencementoftheemancipatorymovement。Theserfsdid

notatfirstcomplainofthepoweroftheirlords,butonlyoftheirtyranny。

Thecommonsbeganbyclaimingafewmunicipalprivileges;theynextasked

anexemptionforthemselvesfrombeingtaxedwithouttheirownconsent;but

theywouldatthattimehavethoughtitagreatpresumptiontoclaimany

shareintheking’ssovereignauthority。Thecaseofwomenisnowtheonly

caseinwhichtorebelagainstestablishedrulesisstilllookeduponwith

thesameeyesaswasformerlyasubject’sclaimtotheIrightofrebelling

againsthisking。Awomanwhojoinsinanymovementwhichherhusbanddisapproves,

makesherselfamartyr,withoutevenbeingabletobeanapostle,forthe

husbandcanlegallyputastoptoherapostleship。Womencannotbeexpected

todevotethemselvestotheemancipationofwomen,untilmeninconsiderable

numberarepreparedtojoinwiththemintheundertaking。

NOTES:1。EspeciallyisthistrueifwetakeintoconsiderationAsiaaswell

asEurope。IfaHindooprincipalityisstrongly,vigilantly,andeconomically

governed;iforderispreservedwithoutoppression;ifcultivationisextending,

andthepeopleprosperous,inthreecasesoutoffourthatprincipalityis

underawoman’srule。Thisfact,tomeanentirelyunexpectedone,Ihave

collectedfromalongknowledgeofHindoogovernments。Therearemanysuch

instances:forthough,byHindooinstitutions,awomancannotreign,she

isthelegalregentofakingdomduringtheminorityoftheheir;andminorities

arefrequent,thelivesofthemalerulersbeingsooftenprematurelyterminated

throughtheeffectofinactivityandsensualexcesses。Whenweconsiderthat

theseprincesseshaveneverbeenseeninpublic,haveneverconversedwith

anymannotoftheirownfamilyexceptfrombehindacurtain,thattheydo

notread,andiftheydidthereisnobookintheirlanguageswhichcangive

themthesmallestinstructiononpoliticalaffairs;theexampletheyaffordofthenaturalcapacityofwomenforgovernmentisverystriking。2。\"Itappearstobethesamerightturnofmindwhichenablesa

mantoacquirethetruth,orjustideaofwhatisright,intheornaments,

asinthemorestableprinciplesofart。Ithasstillthesamecentreof

perfection,thoughitisthecentreofasmallercircle。——Toillustrate

thisbyfashionofdress,inwhichthereisallowedtobeagoodorbadtaste。

Thecomponentpartsofdressarecontinuallychangingfromgreattolittle,

fromshorttolong;butthegeneralformstillremains;itisstillthesame

generaldresswhichiscomparativelyfixed,thoughonaveryslenderfoundation;

butitisonthiswhichfashionmustrest。Hewhoinventswiththemostsuccess,

ordressesinthebesttaste,wouldprobably,fromthesamesagacityemployed

togreaterpurposes,havediscoveredequalskill,orhaveformedthesame

correcttaste,inthehighestlaboursofart。\"——SirJoshuaReynold’s

Discourses,Disc。vii。

CHAPTER4Thereremainsaquestion,notoflessimportancethanthosealreadydiscussed,

andwhichwillbeaskedthemostimportunatelybythoseopponentswhoseconviction

issomewhatshakenonthemainpoint。Whatgoodarewetoexpectfromthe

changesproposedinourcustomsandinstitutions?Wouldmankindbeatall

betteroffifwomenwerefree?Ifnot,whydisturbtheirminds,andattempttomakeasocialrevolutioninthenameofanabstractright?Itishardlytobeexpectedthatthisquestionwillbeaskedinrespect

tothechangeproposedintheconditionofwomeninmarriage。Thesufferings,

immoralities,evilsofallsorts,producedininnumerablecasesbythesubjection

ofindividualwomentoindividualmen,arefartooterribletobeoverlooked。

Unthinkingoruncandidpersons,countingthosecasesalonewhichareextreme,

orwhichattainpublicity,maysaythattheevilsareexceptional;butno

onecanbeblindtotheirexistence,nor,inmanycases,totheirintensity。

Anditisperfectlyobviousthattheabuseofthepowercannotbeverymuch

checkedwhilethepowerremains。Itisapowergiven,oroffered,notto

goodmen,ortodecentlyrespectablemen,buttoallmen;themostbrutal,

andthemostcriminal。Thereisnocheckbutthatofopinion,andsuchmen

areingeneralwithinthereachofnoopinionbutthatofmenlikethemselves。

Ifsuchmendidnotbrutallytyranniseovertheonehumanbeingwhomthe

lawcompelstobeareverythingfromthem,societymustalreadyhavereached

aparadisiacalstate。Therecouldbenoneedanylongeroflawstocurbmen’s

viciouspropensities。Astraeamustnotonlyhavereturnedtoearth,butthe

heartoftheworstmanmusthavebecomehertemple。Thelawofservitude

inmarriageisamonstrouscontradictiontoalltheprinciplesofthemodern

world,andtoalltheexperiencethroughwhichthoseprincipleshavebeen

slowlyandpainfullyworkedout。Itisthesolecase,nowthatnegroslavery

hasbeenabolished,inwhichahumanbeingintheplenitudeofeveryfaculty

isdelivereduptothetendermerciesofanotherhumanbeing,inthehope

forsooththatthisotherwillusethepowersolelyforthegoodoftheperson

subjectedtoit。Marriageistheonlyactualbondageknowntoourlaw。Thereremainnolegalslaves,exceptthemistressofeveryhouse。Itisnot,therefore,onthispartofthesubject,thatthequestionis

likelytobeasked,Cuibono。Wemaybetoldthattheevilwouldoutweigh

thegood,buttherealityofthegoodadmitsofnodispute。Inregard,however,

tothelargerquestion,theremovalofwomen’sdisabilities——theirrecognition

astheequalsofmeninallthatbelongstocitizenship——theopeningto

themofallhonourableemployments,andofthetrainingandeducationwhich

qualifiesforthoseemployments——therearemanypersonsforwhomitis

notenoughthattheinequalityhasnojustorlegitimatedefence;theyrequiretobetoldwhatexpressadvantagewouldbeobtainedbyabolishingit。Towhichletmefirstanswer,theadvantageofhavingthemostuniversal

andpervadingofallhumanrelationsregulatedbyjusticeinsteadofinjustice。

Thevastamountofthisgaintohumannature,itishardlypossible,byany

explanationorillustration,toplaceinastrongerlightthanitisplaced

bythebarestatement,toanyonewhoattachesamoralmeaningtowords。All

theselfishpropensities,theself—worship,theunjustself—preference,which

existamongmankind,havetheirsourceandrootin,andderivetheirprincipal

nourishmentfrom,thepresentconstitutionoftherelationbetweenmenand

women。Thinkwhatitistoaboy,togrowuptomanhoodinthebeliefthat

withoutanymeritoranyexertionofhisown,thoughhemaybethemostfrivolous

andemptyorthemostignorantandstolidofmankind,bythemerefactof

beingbornamaleheisbyrightthesuperiorofallandeveryoneofan

entirehalfofthehumanrace:includingprobablysomewhoserealsuperiority

tohimselfhehasdailyorhourlyoccasiontofeel;butevenifinhiswhole

conducthehabituallyfollowsawoman’sguidance,still,ifheisafool,

shethinksthatofcoursesheisnot,andcannotbe,equalinabilityand

judgmenttohimself;andifheisnotafool,hedoesworse——heseesthat

sheissuperiortohim,andbelievesthat,notwithstandinghersuperiority,

heisentitledtocommandandsheisboundtoobey。Whatmustbetheeffect

onhischaracter,ofthislesson?Andmenofthecultivatedclassesareoften

notawarehowdeeplyitsinksintotheimmensemajorityofmaleminds。For,

amongright—feelingandwellbredpeople,theinequalityiskeptasmuchas

possibleoutofsight;aboveall,outofsightofthechildren。Asmuchobedience

isrequiredfromboystotheirmotherastotheirfather:theyarenotpermitted

todomineerovertheirsisters,noraretheyaccustomedtoseethesepostponed

tothem,butthecontrary;thecompensationsofthechivalrousfeelingbeing

madeprominent,whiletheservitudewhichrequiresthemiskeptinthebackground。

Wellbrought—upyouthsinthehigherclassesthusoftenescapethebadinfluences

ofthesituationintheirearlyyears,andonlyexperiencethemwhen,arrived

atmanhood,theyfallunderthedominionoffactsastheyreallyexist。Such

peoplearelittleaware,whenaboyisdifferentlybroughtup,howearly

thenotionofhisinherentsuperioritytoagirlarisesinhismind;how

itgrowswithhisgrowthandstrengthenswithhisstrength;howitisinoculated

byoneschoolboyuponanother;howearlytheyouththinkshimselfsuperior

tohismother,owingherperhapsforbearance,butno—realrespect;anahow

sublimeandsultan—likeasenseofsuperiorityhefeels,aboveall,over

thewomanwhomhehonoursbyadmittinghertoapartnershipofhislife。

Isitimaginedthatallthisdoesnotpervertthewholemannerofexistence

oftheman,bothasanindividualandasasocialbeing?Itisanexactparallel

tothefeelingofahereditarykingthatheisexcellentaboveothersby

beingbornaking,oranoblebybeingbornanoble。Therelationbetween

husbandandwifeisverylikethatbetweenlordandvassal,exceptthatthe

wifeisheldtomoreunlimitedobediencethanthevassalwas。Howeverthe

vassal’scharactermayhavebeenaffected,forbetterandforworse,byhis

subordination,whocanhelpseeingthatthelord’swasaffectedgreatlyfor

theworse?whetherhewasledtobelievethathisvassalswerereallysuperior

tohimself,ortofeelthathewasplacedincommandoverpeopleasgood

ashimself,fornomeritsorlaboursofhisown,butmerelyforhaving,as

Figarosays,takenthetroubletobeborn。Theself—worshipofthemonarch,

orofthefeudalsuperior,ismatchedbytheself—worshipofthemale。Human

beingsdonotgrowupfromchildhoodinthepossessionofunearneddistinctions,

withoutplumingthemselvesuponthem。Thosewhomprivilegesnotacquired

bytheirmerit,andwhichtheyfeeltobedisproportionedtoit,inspire

withadditionalhumility,arealwaysthefew,andthebestfew。Therest

areonlyinspiredwithpride,andtheworstsortofpride,thatwhichvalues

itselfuponaccidentaladvantages,notofitsownachieving。Aboveall,when

thefeelingofbeingraisedabovethewholeoftheothersexiscombined

withpersonalauthorityoveroneindividualamongthem;thesituation,if

aschoolofconscientiousandaffectionateforbearancetothosewhosestrongest

pointsofcharacterareconscienceandaffection,istomenofanotherquality

aregularlyconstitutedacademyorgymnasiumfortrainingtheminarrogance

andoverbearingness;whichvices,ifcurbedbythecertaintyofresistance

intheirintercoursewithothermen,theirequals,breakouttowardsall

whoareinapositiontobeobligedtotoleratethem,andoftenrevengethemselves

upontheunfortunatewifefortheinvoluntaryrestraintwhichtheyareobligedtosubmittoelsewhere。Theexampleafforded,andtheeducationgiventothesentiments,bylaying

thefoundationofdomesticexistenceuponarelationcontradictorytothe

firstprinciplesofsocialjusticemust,fromtheverynatureofman,have

apervertinginfluenceofsuchmagnitude,thatitishardlypossiblewith

ourpresentexperiencetoraiseourimaginationstotheconceptionofso

greatachangeforthebetteraswouldbemadebyitsremoval。Allthateducation

andcivilisationaredoingtoeffacetheinfluencesoncharacterofthelaw

offorce,andreplacethembythoseofjustice,remainsmerelyonthesurface,

aslongasthecitadeloftheenemyisnotattacked。Theprincipleofthe

modernmovementinmoralsandpolitics,isthatconduct,andconductalone,

entitlestorespect:thatnotwhatmenare,butwhattheydo,constitutes

theirclaimtodeference;that,aboveall,merit,andnotbirth,istheonly

rightfulclaimtopowerandauthority。Ifnoauthority,notinitsnature

temporary,wereallowedtoonehumanbeingoveranother,societywouldnot

beemployedinbuildinguppropensitieswithonehandwhichithastocurb

withtheother。Thechildwouldreally,forthefirsttimeinman’sexistence

onearth,betrainedinthewayheshouldgo,andwhenhewasoldtherewould

beachancethathewouldnotdepartfromit。Butsolongastherightof

thestrongtopowerovertheweakrulesintheveryheartofsociety,the

attempttomaketheequalrightoftheweaktheprincipleofitsoutward

actionswillalwaysbeanuphillstruggle;forthelawofjustice,which

isalsothatofChristianity,willnevergetpossessionofmen’sinmostsentiments;theywillbeworkingagainstit,evenwhenbendingtoit。Thesecondbenefittobeexpectedfromgivingtowomenthefreeuseof

theirfaculties,byleavingthemthefreechoiceoftheiremployments,and

openingtothemthesamefieldofoccupationandthesameprizesandencouragements

astootherhumanbeings,wouldbethatofdoublingthemassofmentalfaculties

availableforthehigherserviceofhumanity。Wherethereisnowoneperson

qualifiedtobenefitmankindandpromotethegeneralimprovement,asapublic

teacher,oranadministratorofsomebranchofpublicorsocialaffairs,

therewouldthenbeachanceoftwo。Mentalsuperiorityofanykindisat

presenteverywheresomuchbelowthedemand;thereissuchadeficiencyof

personscompetenttodoexcellentlyanythingwhichitrequiresanyconsiderable

amountofabilitytodo;thatthelosstotheworld,byrefusingtomake

useofonehalfofthewholequantityoftalentitpossesses,isextremely

serious。Itistruethatthisamountofmentalpowerisnottotallylost。

Muchofitisemployed,andwouldinanycasebeemployed,indomesticmanagement,

andinthefewotheroccupationsopentowomen;andfromtheremainderindirect

benefitisinmanyindividualcasesobtained,throughthepersonalinfluence

ofindividualwomenoverindividualmen。Butthesebenefitsarepartial;

theirrangeisextremelycircumscribed;andiftheymustbeadmitted,on

theonehand,asadeductionfromtheamountoffreshsocialpowerthatwould

beacquiredbygivingfreedomtoone—halfofthewholesumofhumanintellect,

theremustbeadded,ontheother,thebenefitofthestimulusthatwould

begiventotheintellectofmenbythecompetition;or(touseamoretrue

expression)bythenecessitythatwouldbeimposedonthemofdeservingprecedencybeforetheycouldexpecttoobtainit。Thisgreataccessiontotheintellectualpowerofthespecies,andto

theamountofintellectavailableforthegoodmanagementofitsaffairs,

wouldbeobtained,partly,throughthebetterandmorecompleteintellectual

educationofwomen,whichwouldthenimproveparipassuwiththatofmen。

Womeningeneralwouldbebroughtupequallycapableofunderstandingbusiness,

publicaffairs,andthehighermattersofspeculation,withmenInthesame

classofsociety;andtheselectfewoftheoneaswellasoftheothersex,

whowerequalifiednotonlytocomprehendwhatisdoneorthoughtbyothers,

buttothinkordosomethingconsiderablethemselves,wouldmeetwiththe

samefacilitiesforimprovingandtrainingtheircapacitiesintheonesex

asintheother。Inthisway,thewideningofthesphereofactionforwomen

wouldoperateforgood,byraisingtheireducationtothelevelofthatof

men,andmakingtheoneparticipateinallimprovementsmadeintheother。

Butindependentlyofthis,themerebreakingdownofthebarrierwouldof

itselfhaveaneducationalvirtueofthehighestworth。Themeregetting

ridoftheideathatallthewidersubjectsofthoughtandaction,allthe

thingswhichareofgeneralandnotsolelyofprivateinterest,aremen’s

business,fromwhichwomenaretobewarnedoff——positivelyinterdicted

frommostofit,coldlytoleratedinthelittlewhichisallowedthem——

themereconsciousnessawomanwouldthenhaveofbeingahumanbeinglike

anyother,entitledtochooseherpursuits,urgedorinvitedbythesame

inducementsasanyoneelsetointerestherselfinwhateverisinteresting

tohumanbeings,entitledtoexerttheshareofinfluenceonallhumanconcerns

whichbelongstoanindividualopinion,whethersheattemptedactualparticipation

inthemornot——thisalonewouldeffectanimmenseexpansionofthefacultiesofwomen,aswellasenlargementoftherangeoftheirmoralsentiments。Besidestheadditiontotheamountofindividualtalentavailablefor

theconductofhumanaffairs,whichcertainlyarenotatpresentsoabundantly

providedinthatrespectthattheycanaffordtodispensewithone—halfof

whatnatureproffers;theopinionofwomenwouldthenpossessamorebeneficial,

ratherthanagreater,influenceuponthegeneralmassofhumanbeliefand

sentiment。Isayamorebeneficial,ratherthanagreaterinfluence;for

theinfluenceofwomenoverthegeneraltoneofopinionhasalways,orat

leastfromtheearliestknownperiod,beenveryconsiderable。Theinfluence

ofmothersontheearlycharacteroftheirsons,andthedesireofyoung

mentorecommendthemselvestoyoungwomen,haveinallrecordedtimesbeen

importantagenciesintheformationofcharacter,andhavedeterminedsome

ofthechiefstepsintheprogressofcivilisation。EvenintheHomericage,

{alphaiotadeltaomegasigma}towardsthe{TAUrhoomegaalphadeltaalpha

sigma}{epsilonlambdachiepsilonsigmaiotapiepsilonpilambdaomega

upsilsonsigma}isanacknowledgedandpowerfulmotiveofactioninthegreat

Hector。Themoralinfluenceofwomenhashadtwomodesofoperation。First,

ithasbeenasofteninginfluence。Thosewhoweremostliabletobethevictims

ofviolence,havenaturallytendedasmuchastheycouldtowardslimiting

itssphereandmitigatingitsexcesses。Thosewhowerenottaughttofight,

havenaturallyinclinedinfavourofanyothermodeofsettlingdifferences

ratherthanthatoffighting。Ingeneral,thosewhohavebeenthegreatest

sufferersbytheindulgenceofselfishpassion,havebeenthemostearnest

supportersofanymorallawwhichofferedameansofbridlingpassion。Women

werepowerfullyinstrumentalininducingthenorthernconquerorstoadopt

thecreedofChristianity,acreedsomuchmorefavourabletowomenthan

anythatprecededit。TheconversionoftheAnglo—SaxonsandoftheFranks

maybesaidtohavebeenbegunbythewivesofEthelbertandClovis。The

othermodeinwhichtheeffectofwomen’sopinionhasbeenconspicuous,is

bygiving,apowerfulstimulustothosequalitiesinmen,which,notbeing

themselvestrainedin,itwasnecessaryforthemthattheyshouldfindin

theirprotectors。Courage,andthemilitaryvirtuesgenerally,haveatall

timesbeengreatlyindebtedtothedesirewhichmenfeltofbeingadmired

bywomen:andthestimulusreachesfarbeyondthisoneclassofeminentqualities,

since,byaverynaturaleffectoftheirposition,thebestpassporttothe

admirationandfavourofwomenhasalwaysbeentobethoughthighlyofby

men。Fromthecombinationofthetwokindsofmoralinfluencethusexercised

bywomen,arosethespiritofchivalry:thepeculiarityofwhichis,toaim

atcombiningthehigheststandardofthewarlikequalitieswiththecultivation

ofatotallydifferentclassofvirtues——thoseofgentleness,generosity,

andself—abnegation,towardsthenon—militaryanddefenselessclassesgenerally,

andaspecialsubmissionandworshipdirectedtowardswomen;whoweredistinguished

fromtheotherdefencelessclassesbythehighrewardswhichtheyhadit

intheirpowervoluntarilytobestowonthosewhoendeavouredtoearntheir

favour,insteadofextortingtheirsubjection。Thoughthepracticeofchivalry

fellevenmoresadlyshortofitstheoreticstandardthanpracticegenerally

fallsbelowtheory,itremainsoneofthemostpreciousmonumentsofthe

moralhistoryofourrace;asaremarkableinstanceofaconcertedandorganised

attemptbyamostdisorganisedanddistractedsociety,toraiseupandcarry

intopracticeamoralidealgreatlyinadvanceofitssocialconditionand

institutions;somuchsoastohavebeencompletelyfrustratedinthemain

object,yetneverentirelyinefficacious,andwhichhasleftamostsensible,

andforthemostpartahighlyvaluableimpressontheideasandfeelingsofallsubsequenttimes。Thechivalrousidealistheacmeoftheinfluenceofwomen’ssentiments

onthemoralcultivationofmankind:andifwomenaretoremainintheir

subordinatesituation,itweregreatlytobelamentedthatthechivalrous

standardshouldhavepassedaway,foritistheonlyoneatallcapableof

mitigatingthedemoralisinginfluencesofthatposition。Butthechanges

inthegeneralstateofthespeciesrenderedinevitablethesubstitution

ofatotallydifferentidealofmoralityforthechivalrousone。Chivalry

wastheattempttoinfusemoralelementsintoastateofsocietyinwhich

everythingdependedforgoodorevilonindividualprowess,underthesoftening

influencesofindividualdelicacyandgenerosity。Inmodernsocieties,all

things,eveninthemilitarydepartmentofaffairs,aredecided,notbyindividual

effort,butbythecombinedoperationsofnumbers;whilethemainoccupation

ofsocietyhaschangedfromfightingtobusiness,frommilitarytoindustrial

life。Theexigenciesofthenewlifearenomoreexclusiveofthevirtues

ofgenerositythanthoseoftheold,butitnolongerentirelydependson

them。Themainfoundationsofthemorallifeofmoderntimesmustbejustice

andprudence;therespectofeachfortherightsofeveryother,andthe

abilityofeachtotakecareofhimself。Chivalryleftwithoutlegalcheck

allformsofwrongwhichreignedunpunishedthroughoutsociety;itonlyencouraged

afewtodorightinpreferencetowrong,bythedirectionitgavetothe

instrumentsofpraiseandadmiration。Buttherealdependenceofmorality

mustalwaysbeuponitspenalsanctions——itspowertodeterfromevil。

Thesecurityofsocietycannotrestonmerelyrenderinghonourtoright,

amotivesocomparativelyweakinallbutafew,andwhichonverymanydoes

notoperateatall。Modernsocietyisabletorepresswrongthroughalldepartments

oflife,byafitexertionofthesuperiorstrengthwhichcivilisationhas

givenit,andthustorendertheexistenceoftheweakermembersofsociety

(nolongerdefenselessbutprotectedbylaw)tolerabletothem,withoutreliance

onthechivalrousfeelingsofthosewhoareinapositiontotyrannise。The

beautiesandgracesofthechivalrouscharacterarestillwhattheywere,

buttherightsoftheweak,andthegeneralcomfortofhumanlife,nowrest

onafarsurerandsteadiersupport;orrather,theydosoineveryrelationoflifeexcepttheconjugal。Atpresentthemoralinfluenceofwomenisnolessreal,butitisno

longerofsomarkedanddefiniteacharacter:ithasmorenearlymergedin

thegeneralinfluenceofpublicopinion。Boththroughthecontagionofsympathy,

andthroughthedesireofmentoshineintheeyesofwomen,theirfeelings

havegreateffectinkeepingalivewhatremainsofthechivalrousideal——

infosteringthesentimentsandcontinuingthetraditionsofspiritandgenerosity。

Inthesepointsofcharacter,theirstandardishigherthanthatofmen;

inthequalityofjustice,somewhatlower。Asregardstherelationsofprivate

lifeitmaybesaidgenerally,thattheirinfluenceis,onthewhole,encouraging

tothesoftervirtues,discouragingtothesterner:thoughthestatement

mustbetakenwithallthemodificationsdependentonindividualcharacter。

Inthechiefofthegreatertrialstowhichvirtueissubjectintheconcerns

oflife——theconflictbetweeninterestandprinciple——thetendencyof

women’sinfluence——isofaverymixedcharacter。Whentheprincipleinvolved

happenstobeoneoftheveryfewwhichthecourseoftheirreligiousor

moraleducationhasstronglyimpresseduponthemselves,theyarepotentauxiliaries

tovirtue:andtheirhusbandsandsonsareoftenpromptedbythemtoacts

ofabnegationwhichtheyneverwouldhavebeencapableofwithoutthatstimulus。

But,withthepresenteducationandpositionofwomen,themoralprinciples

whichhavebeenimpressedonthemcoverbutacomparativelysmallpartof

thefieldofvirtue,andare,moreover,principallynegative;forbidding

particularacts,buthavinglittletodowiththegeneraldirectionofthe

thoughtsandpurposes。Iamafraiditmustbesaid,thatdisinterestedness

inthegeneralconductoflife——thedevotionoftheenergiestopurposes

whichholdoutnopromiseofprivateadvantagestothefamily——isvery

seldomencouragedorsupportedbywomen’sinfluence。Itissmallblameto

themthattheydiscourageobjectsofwhichtheyhavenotlearnttoseethe

advantage,andwhichwithdrawtheirmenfromthem,andfromtheinterests

ofthefamily。Buttheconsequenceisthatwomen’sinfluenceisoftenanythingbutfavourabletopublicvirtue。Womenhave,however,someshareofinfluenceingivingthetonetopublic

moralitiessincetheirsphereofactionhasbeenalittlewidened,andsince

aconsiderablenumberofthemhaveoccupiedthemselvespracticallyinthe

promotionofobjectsreachingbeyondtheirownfamilyandhousehold。The

influenceofwomencountsforagreatdealintwoofthemostmarkedfeatures

ofmodernEuropeanlife——itsaversiontowar,anditsaddictiontophilanthropy。

Excellentcharacteristicsboth;butunhappily,iftheinfluenceofwomen

isvaluableintheencouragementitgivestothesefeelingsingeneral,in

theparticularapplicationsthedirectionitgivestothemisatleastas

oftenmischievousasuseful。Inthephilanthropicdepartmentmoreparticularly,

thetwoprovinceschieflycultivatedbywomenarereligiousproselytismand

charity。Religiousproselytismathome,isbutanotherwordforembittering

ofreligiousanimosities:abroad,itisusuallyablindrunningatanobject,

withouteitherknowingorheedingthefatalmischiefs——fataltothereligious

objectitselfaswellastoallotherdesirableobjects——whichmaybeproduced

bythemeansemployed。Asforcharity,itisamatterinwhichtheimmediate

effectonthepersonsdirectlyconcerned,andtheultimateconsequenceto

thegeneralgood,areapttobeatcompletewarwithoneanother:whilethe

educationgiventowomen——aneducationofthesentimentsratherthanof

theunderstanding——andthehabitinculcatedbytheirwholelife,oflooking

toimmediateeffectsonpersons,andnottoremoteeffectsonclassesof

persons——makethembothunabletosee,andunwillingtoadmit,theultimate

eviltendencyofanyformofcharityorphilanthropywhichcommendsitself

totheirsympatheticfeelings。Thegreatandcontinuallyincreasingmass

ofunenlightenedandshortsightedbenevolence,which,takingthecareof

people’slivesoutoftheirownhands,andrelievingthemfromthedisagreeable

consequencesoftheirownacts,sapstheveryfoundationsoftheself—respect,

self—help,andself—controlwhicharetheessentialconditionsbothofindividual

prosperityandofsocialvirtue——thiswasteofresourcesandofbenevolent

feelingsindoingharminsteadofgood,isimmenselyswelledbywomen’scontributions,

andstimulatedbytheirinfluence。Notthatthisisamistakelikelytobe

madebywomen,wheretheyhaveactuallythepracticalmanagementofschemes

ofbeneficence。Itsometimeshappensthatwomenwhoadministerpubliccharities

——withthatinsightintopresentfact,andespeciallyintothemindsand

feelingsofthosewithwhomtheyareinimmediatecontact,inwhichwomen

generallyexcelmen——recogniseintheclearestmannerthedemoralising

influenceofthealmsgivenorthehelpafforded,andcouldgivelessons

onthesubjecttomanyamalepoliticaleconomist。Butwomenwhoonlygive

theirmoney,andarenotbroughtfacetofacewiththeeffectsitproduces,

howcantheybeexpectedtoforeseethem?Awomanborntothepresentlot

ofwomen,andcontentwithit,howshouldsheappreciatethevalueofself—dependence?

Sheisnotself—dependent;sheisnottaughtself—dependence;herdestiny

istoreceiveeverythingfromothers,andwhyshouldwhatisgoodenough

forherbebadforthepoor?Herfamiliarnotionsofgoodareofblessings

descendingfromasuperior。Sheforgetsthatsheisnotfree,andthatthe

poorare;thatifwhattheyneedisgiventothemunearned,theycannotbe

compelledtoearnit:thateverybodycannotbetakencareofbyeverybody,

buttheremustbesomemotivetoinducepeopletotakecareofthemselves;

andthattobehelped—tohelpthemselves,iftheyarephysicallycapableofit,istheonlycharitywhichprovestobecharityintheend。###第6章Theseconsiderationsshowhowusefullythepartwhichwomentakeinthe

formationofgeneralopinion,wouldbemodifiedforthebetterbythatmore

enlargedinstruction,andpracticalconversancywiththethingswhichtheir

opinionsinfluence,thatwouldnecessarilyarisefromtheirsocialandpolitical

emancipation。Buttheimprovementitwouldworkthroughtheinfluencetheyexercise,eachinherownfamily,wouldbestillmoreremarkable。Itisoftensaidthatintheclassesmostexposedtotemptation,aman’s

wifeandchildrentendtokeephimhonestandrespectable,bothbythewife’s

directinfluence,andbytheconcernhefeelsfortheirfuturewelfare。This

maybeso,andnodoubtoftenisso,withthosewhoaremoreweakthanwicked;

andthisbeneficialinfluencewouldbepreservedandstrengthenedunderequal

laws;itdoesnotdependonthewoman’sservitude,butis,onthecontrary,

diminishedbythedisrespectwhichtheinferiorclassofmenalwaysatheart

feeltowardsthosewhoaresubjecttotheirpower。Butwhenweascendhigher

inthescale,wecomeamongatotallydifferentsetofmovingforces。The

wife’sinfluencetends,asfarasitgoes,topreventthehusbandfromfalling

belowthecommonstandardofapprobationofthecountry。Ittendsquiteas

stronglytohinderhimfromrisingaboveit。Thewifeistheauxiliaryof

thecommonpublicopinion。Amanwhoismarriedtoawomanhisinferiorin

intelligence,findsheraperpetualdeadweight,or,worsethanadeadweight,

adrag,uponeveryaspirationofhistobebetterthanpublicopinionrequires

himtobe。Itishardlypossibleforonewhoisinthesebonds,toattain

exaltedvirtue。Ifhediffersinhisopinionfromthemass——ifhesees

truthswhichhavenotyetdawneduponthem,orif,feelinginhishearttruths

whichtheynominallyrecognise,hewouldliketoactuptothosetruthsmore

conscientiouslythanthegeneralityofmankind——toallsuchthoughtsand

desires,marriageistheheaviestofdrawbacks,unlesshebesofortunateastohaveawifeasmuchabovethecommonlevelashehimselfis。For,inthefirstplace,thereisalwayssomesacrificeofpersonalinterest

required;eitherofsocialconsequence,orofpecuniarymeans;perhapsthe

riskofeventhemeansofsubsistence。Thesesacrificesandriskshemay

bewillingtoencounterforhimself;buthewillpausebeforeheimposes

themonhisfamily。Andhisfamilyinthiscasemeanshiswifeanddaughters;

forhealwayshopesthathissonswillfeelashefeelshimself,andthat

whathecandowithout,theywilldowithout,willingly,isthesamecause。

Buthisdaughters——theirmarriagemaydependuponit:andhiswife,who

isunabletoenterintoorunderstandtheobjectsforwhichthesesacrifices

aremade——who,ifshethoughtthemworthanysacrifice,wouldthinkso

ontrust,andsolelyforhissake——whocouldparticipateinnoneofthe

enthusiasmortheself—approbationhehimselfmayfeel,whilethethings

whichheisdisposedtosacrificeareallinalltoher;willnotthebest

andmostunselfishmanhesitatethelongestbeforebringingonherthisconsequence?

Ifitbenotthecomfortsoflife,butonlysocialconsideration,thatis

atstake,theburthenuponhisconscienceandfeelingsisstillverysevere。

WhoeverhasawifeandchildrenhasgivenhostagestoMrsGrundy。Theapprobation

ofthatpotentatemaybeamatterofindifferencetohim,butitisofgreat

importancetohiswife。Themanhimselfmaybeaboveopinion,ormayfind

sufficientcompensationintheopinionofthoseofhisownwayofthinking。

Buttothewomenconnectedwithhim,hecanoffernocompensation。Thealmost

invariabletendencyofthewifetoplaceherinfluenceinthesamescale

withsocialconsideration,issometimesmadeareproachtowomen,andrepresented

asapeculiartraitoffeeblenessandchildishnessofcharacterinthem:

surelywithgreatinjustice。Societymakesthewholelifeofawoman,in

theeasyclasses,acontinuedselfsacrifice;itexactsfromheranunremitting

restraintofthewholeofhernaturalinclinations,andthesolereturnit

makestoherforwhatoftendeservesthenameofamartyrdom,isconsideration。

Herconsiderationisinseparablyconnectedwiththatofherhusband,and

afterpayingthefullpriceforit,shefindsthatsheistoloseit,for

noreasonofwhichshecanfeelthecogency。Shehassacrificedherwhole

lifetoit,andherhusbandwillnotsacrificetoitawhim,afreak,an

eccentricity;somethingnotrecognisedorallowedforbytheworld,andwhich

theworldwillagreewithherinthinkingafolly,ifitthinksnoworse!

Thedilemmaishardestuponthatverymeritoriousclassofmen,who,without

possessingtalentswhichqualifythemtomakeafigureamongthosewithwhom

theyagreeinopinion,holdtheiropinionfromconviction,andfeelbound

inhonourandconsciencetoserveit,bymakingprofessionoftheirbelief,

andgivingtheirtime,labour,andmeans,toanythingundertakeninitsbehalf。

Theworstcaseofalliswhensuchmenhappentobeofarankandposition

whichofitselfneithergivesthem,norexcludesthemfrom,whatisconsidered

thebestsociety;whentheiradmissiontoitdependsmainlyonwhatisthought

ofthempersonally——andhoweverunexceptionabletheirbreedingandhabits,

theirbeingidentifiedwithopinionsandpublicconductunacceptabletothose

whogivethetonetosocietywouldoperateasaneffectualexclusion。Many

awomanflattersherself(ninetimesoutoftenquiteerroneously)thatnothing

preventsherandherhusbandfrommovinginthehighestsocietyofherneighbourhood

——societyinwhichotherswellknowntoher,andinthesameclassoflife,

mixfreely——exceptthatherhusbandisunfortunatelyaDissenter,orhas

thereputationofminglinginlowradicalpolitics。Thatitis,shethinks,

whichhindersGeorgefromgettingacommissionoraplace,Carolinefrom

makinganadvantageousmatch,andpreventsherandherhusbandfromobtaining

invitations,perhapshonours,which,foraughtshesees,theyareaswell

entitledtoassomefolks。Withsuchaninfluenceineveryhouse,either

exertedactively,oroperatingallthemorepowerfullyfornotbeingasserted,

isitanywonderthatpeopleingeneralarekeptdowninthatmediocrityofrespectabilitywhichisbecomingamarkedcharacteristicofmoderntimes?Thereisanotherveryinjuriousaspectinwhichtheeffect,notofwomen’s

disabilitiesdirectly,butofthebroadlineofdifferencewhichthosedisabilities

createbetweentheeducationandcharacterofawomanandthatofaman,

requirestobeconsidered。Nothingcanbemoreunfavourabletothatunion

ofthoughtsandinclinationswhichistheidealofmarriedlife。Intimate

societybetweenpeopleradicallydissimilartooneanother,isanidledream。

Unlikenessmayattract,butitislikenesswhichretains;andinproportion

tothelikenessisthesuitabilityoftheindividualstogiveeachother

ahappylife。Whilewomenaresounlikemen,itisnotwonderfulthatselfish

menshouldfeeltheneedofarbitrarypowerintheirownhands,toarrest

inliminethelife—longconflictofinclinations,bydecidingeveryquestion

onthesideoftheirownpreference。Whenpeopleareextremelyunlike,there

canbenorealidentityofinterest。Veryoftenthereisconscientiousdifference

ofopinionbetweenmarriedpeople,onthehighestpointsofduty。Isthere

anyrealityinthemarriageunionwherethistakesplace?Yetitisnotuncommon

anywhere,whenthewomanhasanyearnestnessofcharacter;anditisavery

generalcaseindeedinCatholiccountries,whensheissupportedinherdissent

bytheonlyotherauthoritytowhichsheistaughttobow,thepriest。With

theusualbarefacednessofpowernotaccustomedtofinditselfdisputed,

theinfluenceofpriestsoverwomenisattackedbyProtestantandLiberal

writers,lessforbeingbadinitself,thanbecauseitisarivalauthority

tothehusband,andraisesuparevoltagainsthisinfallibility。InEngland,

similardifferencesoccasionallyexistwhenanEvangelicalwifehasallied

herselfwithahusbandofadifferentquality;butingeneralthissource

atleastofdissensionisgotridof,byreducingthemindsofwomentosuch

anullity,thattheyhavenoopinionsbutthoseofMrs。Grundy,orthose

whichthehusbandtellsthemtohave。Whenthereisnodifferenceofopinion,

differencesmerelyoftastemaybesufficienttodetractgreatlyfromthe

happinessofmarriedlife。Andthoughitmaystimulatetheamatorypropensities

ofmen,itdoesnotconducetomarriedhappiness,toexaggeratebydifferences

ofeducationwhatevermaybethenativedifferencesofthesexes。Ifthe

marriedpairarewell—bredandwell—behavedpeople,theytolerateeachother’s

tastes;butismutualtolerationwhatpeoplelookforwardto,whentheyenter

intomarriage?Thesedifferencesofinclinationwillnaturallymaketheir

wishesdifferent,ifnotrestrainedbyaffectionorduty,astoalmostall

domesticquestionswhicharise。Whatadifferencetheremustbeinthesociety

whichthetwopersonswillwishtofrequent,orbefrequentedby!Eachwill

desireassociateswhosharetheirowntastes:thepersonsagreeabletoone,

willbeindifferentorpositivelydisagreeabletotheother;yettherecan

benonewhoarenotcommontoboth,formarriedpeopledonotnowlivein

differentpartsofthehouseandhavetotallydifferentvisitinglists,as

inthereignofLouisXV。Theycannothelphavingdifferentwishesasto

thebringingupofthechildren:eachwillwishtoseereproducedinthem

theirowntastesandsentiments:andthereiseitheracompromise,andonly

ahalfsatisfactiontoeither,orthewifehastoyield——oftenwithbitter

suffering;and,withorwithoutintention,heroccultinfluencecontinuestocounterworkthehusband’spurposes。Itwouldofcoursebeextremefollytosupposethatthesedifferences

offeelingandinclinationonlyexistbecausewomenarebroughtupdifferently

frommen,andthattherewouldnotbedifferencesoftasteunderanyimaginable

circumstances。Butthereisnothingbeyondthemarkinsayingthatthedistinction

inbringingupimmenselyaggravatesthosedifferences,andrendersthemwholly

inevitable。Whilewomenarebroughtupastheyare,amanandawomanwill

butrarelyfindinoneanotherrealagreementoftastesandwishesasto

dailylife。Theywillgenerallyhavetogiveitupashopeless,andrenounce

theattempttohave,intheintimateassociateoftheirdailylife,that

idemvelle,idemnolle,whichistherecognisedbondofanysocietythat

isreallysuch:orifthemansucceedsinobtainingit,hedoessobychoosing

awomanwhoissocompleteanullitythatshehasnovelleornolleatall,

andisasreadytocomplywithonethingasanotherifanybodytellsher

todoso。Eventhiscalculationisapttofail;dullnessandwantofspirit

arenotalwaysaguaranteeofthesubmissionwhichissoconfidentlyexpected

fromthem。Butiftheywere,isthistheidealofmarriage?What,inthis

case,doesthemanobtainbyit,exceptanupperservant,anurse,oramistress?

onthecontrary,wheneachoftwopersons,insteadofbeinganothing,is

asomething;whentheyareattachedtooneanother,andarenottoomuch

unliketobeginwith;theconstantpartakinginthesamethings,assisted

bytheirsympathy,drawsoutthelatentcapacitiesofeachforbeinginterested

inthethingswhichwereatfirstinterestingonlytotheother;andworks

agradualassimilationofthetastesandcharacterstooneanother,partly

bytheinsensiblemodificationofeach,butmorebyarealenrichingofthe

twonatures,eachacquiringthetastesandcapacitiesoftheotherinaddition

toitsown。Thisoftenhappensbetweentwofriendsofthesamesex,whoare

muchassociatedintheirdailylife:anditwouldbeacommon,ifnotthe

commonest,caseinmarriage,didnotthetotallydifferentbringingupof

thetwosexesmakeitnexttoanimpossibilitytoformareallywell—assorted

union。Werethisremedied,whateverdifferencestheremightstillbeinindividual

tastes,therewouldatleastbe,asageneralrule,completeunityandunanimity

astothegreatobjectsoflife。Whenthetwopersonsbothcareforgreat

objects,andareahelpandencouragementtoeachotherinwhateverregards

these,theminormattersonwhichtheirtastesmaydifferarenotall—important

tothem;andthereisafoundationforsolidfriendship,ofanenduringcharacter,

morelikelythananythingelsetomakeit,throughthewholeoflife,agreaterpleasuretoeachtogivepleasuretotheother,thantoreceiveit。Ihaveconsidered,thusfar,theeffectsonthepleasuresandbenefits

ofthemarriageunionwhichdependonthemereunlikenessbetweenthewife

andthehusband:buttheeviltendencyisprodigiouslyaggravatedwhenthe

unlikenessisinferiority。Mereunlikeness,whenitonlymeansdifference

ofgoodqualities,maybemoreabenefitinthewayofmutualimprovement,

thanadrawbackfromcomfort。Wheneachemulates,anddesiresandendeavours

toacquire,theother’speculiarqualitiesthedifferencedoesnotproduce

diversityofinterest,butincreasedidentityofit,andmakeseachstill

morevaluabletotheother。Butwhenoneismuchtheinferiorofthetoin

mentalabilityandcultivation,andisnotactivelyattemptingbytheother’s

aidtorisetotheother’slevel,thewholeinfluenceoftheconnexionupon

thedevelopmentofthesuperiorofthetwoisdeteriorating:andstillmore

soinatolerablyhappymarriagethaninanunhappyone。Itisnotwithimpunity

thatthesuperiorinintellectshutshimselfupwithaninferior,andelects

thatinferiorforhischosen,andsolecompletelyintimate,associate。Any

societywhichisnotimprovingisdeteriorating:andthemoreso,thecloser

andmorefamiliaritis。Evenareallysuperiormanalmostalwaysbegins

todeterioratewhenheishabitually(asthephraseis)kingofhiscompany:

andinhismosthabitualcompanythehusbandwhohasawifeinferiortohim

isalwaysso。Whilehisself—satisfactionisincessantlyministeredtoon

theonehand,ontheotherheinsensiblyimbibesthemodesoffeeling,and

oflookingatthings,whichbelongtoamorevulgaroramorelimitedmind

thanhisown。Thisevildiffersfrommanyofthosewhichhavehithertobeen

dwelton,bybeinganincreasingone。Theassociationofmenwithwomenin

dailylifeismuchcloserandmorecompletethaniteverwasbefore。Men’s

lifeismoredomestic。Formerly,theirpleasuresandchosenoccupationswere

amongmen,andinmen’scompany:theirwiveshadbutafragmentoftheir

lives。Atthepresenttime,theprogressofcivilisation,andtheturnof

opinionagainsttheroughamusementsandconvivialexcesseswhichformerly

occupiedmostmenintheirhoursofrelaxation——togetherwith(itmust

besaid)theimprovedtoneofmodernfeelingastothereciprocityofduty

whichbindsthehusbandtowardsthewife——havethrownthemanverymuch

moreuponhomeanditsinmates,forhispersonalandsocialpleasures:while

thekindanddegreeofimprovementwhichhasbeenmadeinwomen’seducation,

hasmadetheminsomedegreecapableofbeinghiscompanionsinideasand

mentaltaste,whileleavingthem,inmostcases,stillhopelesslyinferior

tohim。Hisdesireofmentalcommunionisthusingeneralsatisfiedbya

communionfromwhichhelearnsnothing。Anunimprovingandunstimulating

companionshipissubstitutedfor(whathemightotherwisehavebeenobliged

toseek)thesocietyofhisequalsinpowersandhisfellowsinthehigher

pursuits。Wesee,accordingly,thatyoungmenofthegreatestpromisegenerally

ceasetoimproveassoonastheymarry,and,notimproving,inevitablydegenerate。

Ifthewifedoesnotpushthehusbandforward,shealwaysholdshimback。

Heceasestocareforwhatshedoesnotcarefor;henolongerdesires,and

endsbydislikingandshunning,societycongenialtohisformeraspirations,

andwhichwouldnowshamehisfalling—offfromthem;hishigherfaculties

bothofmindandheartceasetobecalledintoactivity。Andthischange

coincidingwiththenewandselfishinterestswhicharecreatedbythefamily,

afterafewyearshediffersinnomaterialrespectfromthosewhohavenever

hadwishesforanythingbutthecommonvanitiesandthecommonpecuniaryobjects。Whatmarriagemaybeinthecaseoftwopersonsofcultivatedfaculties,

identicalinopinionsandpurposes,betweenwhomthereexiststhatbestkind

ofequality,similarityofpowersandcapacitieswithreciprocalsuperiority

inthem——sothateachcanenjoytheluxuryoflookinguptotheother,

andcanhavealternatelythepleasureofleadingandofbeingledinthe

pathofdevelopment——Iwillnotattempttodescribe。Tothosewhocanconceive

it,thereisnoneed;tothosewhocannot,itwouldappearthedreamofan

enthusiast。ButImaintain,withtheprofoundestconviction,thatthis,and

thisonly,istheidealofmarriage;andthatallopinions,customs,and

institutionswhichfavouranyothernotionofit,orturntheconceptions

andaspirationsconnectedwithitintoanyotherdirection,bywhateverpretences

theymaybecoloured,arerelicsofprimitivebarbarism。Themoralregeneration

ofmankindwillonlyreallycommence,whenthemostfundamentalofthesocial

relationsisplacedundertheruleofequaljustice,andwhenhumanbeings

learntocultivatetheirstrongestsympathywithanequalinnightsandincultivation。Thusfar,thebenefitswhichithasappearedthattheworldwouldgain

byceasingtomakesexadisqualificationforprivilegesandabadgeofsubjection,

aresocialratherthanindividual;consistinginanincreaseofthegeneral

fundofthinkingandactingpower,andanimprovementinthegeneralconditions

oftheassociationofmenwithwomen。Butitwouldbeagrievousunderstatement

ofthecasetoomitthemostdirectbenefitofall,theunspeakablegain

inprivatehappinesstotheliberatedhalfofthespecies;thedifference

tothembetweenalifeofsubjectiontothewillofothers,andalifeof

rationalfreedom。Aftertheprimarynecessitiesoffoodandraiment,freedom

isthefirstandstrongestwantofhumannature。Whilemankindarelawless,

theirdesireisforlawlessfreedom。Whentheyhavelearnttounderstand

themeaningofdutyandthevalueofreason,theyinclinemoreandmoreto

beguidedandrestrainedbytheseintheexerciseoftheirfreedom;butthey

donotthereforedesirefreedomless;theydonotbecomedisposedtoaccept

thewillofotherpeopleastherepresentativeandinterpreterofthoseguiding

principles。Onthecontrary,thecommunitiesinwhichthereasonhasbeen

mostcultivated,andinwhichtheideaofsocialdutyhasbeenmostpowerful,

arethosewhichhavemoststronglyassertedthefreedomofactionofthe

individual——thelibertyofeachtogovernhisconductbyhisownfeelings

ofduty,andbysuchlawsandsocialrestraintsashisownconsciencecansubscribeto。Hewhowouldrightlyappreciatetheworthofpersonalindependenceas

anelementofhappiness,shouldconsiderthevaluehehimselfputsuponit

asaningredientofhisown。Thereisnosubjectonwhichthereisagreater

habitualdifferenceofjudgmentbetweenamanjudgingforhimself,andthe

samemanjudgingforotherpeople。Whenhehearsotherscomplainingthat

theyarenotallowedfreedomofaction——thattheirownwillhasnotsufficient

influenceintheregulationoftheiraffairs——hisinclinationis,toask,

whataretheirgrievances?whatpositivedamagetheysustain?andinwhat

respecttheyconsidertheiraffairstobemismanaged?andiftheyfailto

makeout,inanswertothesequestions,whatappearstohimasufficient

case,heturnsadeafear,andregardstheircomplaintasthefancifulquerulousness

ofpeoplewhomnothingreasonablewillsatisfy。Buthehasaquitedifferent

standardofjudgmentwhenheisdecidingforhimself。Then,themostunexceptionable

administrationofhisinterestsbyatutorsetoverhim,doesnotsatisfy

hisfeelings:hispersonalexclusionfromthedecidingauthorityappears

itselfthegreatestgrievanceofall,renderingitsuperfluouseventoenter

intothequestionofmismanagement。Itisthesamewithnations。Whatcitizen

ofafreecountrywouldlistentoanyoffersofgoodandskilfuladministration,

inreturnfortheabdicationoffreedom?Evenifhecouldbelievethatgood

andskilfuladministrationcanexistamongapeopleruledbyawillnottheir

own,wouldnottheconsciousnessofworkingouttheirowndestinyundertheir

ownmoralresponsibilitybeacompensationtohisfeelingsforgreatrudeness

andimperfectioninthedetailsofpublicaffairs?Lethimrestassuredthat

whateverhefeelsonthispoint,womenfeelinafullyequaldegree。Whatever

hasbeensaidorwritten,fromthetimeofHerodotustothepresent,ofthe

ennoblinginfluenceoffreegovernment——thenerveandspringwhichitgives

toallthefaculties,thelargerandhigherobjectswhichitpresentsto

theintellectandfeelings,themoreunselfishpublicspirit,andcalmer

andbroaderviewsofduty,thatitengenders,andthegenerallyloftierplatform

onwhichitelevatestheindividualasamoral,spiritual,andsocialbeing

——iseveryparticleastrueofwomenasofmen。Arethesethingsnoimportant

partofindividualhappiness?Letanymancalltomindwhathehimselffelt

onemergingfromboyhood——fromthetutelageandcontrolofevenlovedand

affectionateelders——andenteringupontheresponsibilitiesofmanhood。

Wasitnotlikethephysicaleffectoftakingoffaheavyweight,orreleasing

himfromobstructive,evenifnototherwisepainful,bonds?Didhenotfeel

twiceasmuchalive,twiceasmuchahumanbeing,asbefore?Anddoeshe

imaginethatwomenhavenoneofthesefeelings?Butitisastrikingfact,

thatthesatisfactionsandmortificationsofpersonalpride,thoughallin

alltomostmenwhenthecaseistheirown,havelessallowancemadefor

theminthecaseofotherpeople,andarelesslistenedtoasagroundor

ajustificationofconduct,thananyothernaturalhumanfeelings;perhaps

becausemencomplimentthemintheirowncasewiththenamesofsomanyother

qualities,thattheyareseldomconscioushowmightyaninfluencethesefeelings

exerciseintheirownlives。Nolesslargeandpowerfulistheirpart,we

mayassureourselves,inthelivesandfeelingsofwomen。Womenareschooled

intosuppressingthemintheirmostnaturalandmosthealthydirection,but

theinternalprincipleremains,inadifferentoutwardform。Anactiveand

energeticmind,ifdeniedliberty,willseekforpower:refusedthecommand

ofitself,itwillassertitspersonalitybyattemptingtocontrolothers。

Toallowtoanyhumanbeingsnoexistenceoftheirownbutwhatdependson

others,isgivingfartoohighapremiumonbendingotherstotheirpurposes。

Wherelibertycannotbehopedfor,andpowercan,powerbecomesthegrand

objectofhumandesire;thosetowhomotherswillnotleavetheundisturbed

managementoftheirownaffairs,willcompensatethemselves,iftheycan,

bymeddlingfortheirownpurposeswiththeaffairsofothers。Hencealso

women’spassionforpersonalbeauty,anddressanddisplay;andalltheevils

thatflowfromit,inthewayofmischievousluxuryandsocialimmorality。

Theloveofpowerandtheloveoflibertyareineternalantagonism。Where

thereisleastliberty,thepassionforpoweristhemostardentandunscrupulous。

Thedesireofpoweroverotherscanonlyceasetobeadepravingagencyamong

mankind,wheneachofthemindividuallyisabletodowithoutit:whichcan

onlybewhererespectforlibertyinthepersonalconcernsofeachisanestablishedprinciple。Butitisnotonlythroughthesentimentofpersonaldignity,thatthe

freedirectionanddisposaloftheirownfacultiesisasourceofindividual

happiness,andtobefetteredandrestrictedinit,asourceofunhappiness,

tohumanbeings,andnotleasttowomen。Thereisnothing,afterdisease,

indigence,andguilt,sofataltothepleasurableenjoymentoflifeasthe

wantofaworthyoutletfortheactivefaculties。Womenwhohavethecares

ofafamily,andwhiletheyhavethecaresofafamily,havethisoutlet,

anditgenerallysufficesforthem:butwhatofthegreatlyincreasingnumber

ofwomen,whohavehadnoopportunityofexercisingthevocationwhichthey

aremockedbytellingthemistheirproperone?Whatofthewomenwhosechildren

havebeenlosttothembydeathordistance,orhavegrownup,married,and

formedhomesoftheirown?Thereareabundantexamplesofmenwho,after

alifeengrossedbybusiness,retirewithacompetencytotheenjoyment,

astheyhope,ofrest,buttowhom,astheyareunabletoacquirenewinterests

andexcitementsthatcanreplacetheold,thechangetoalifeofinactivity

bringsennui,melancholy,andprematuredeath。Yetnoonethinksoftheparallel

caseofsomanyworthyanddevotedwomen,who,havingpaidwhattheyare

toldistheirdebttosociety——havingbroughtupafamilyblamelesslyto

manhoodandwomanhood——havingkeptahouseaslongastheyhadahouse

needingtobekept——aredesertedbythesoleoccupationforwhichthey

havefittedthemselves;andremainwithundiminishedactivitybutwithno

employmentforit,unlessperhapsadaughterordaughter—in—lawiswilling

toabdicateintheirfavourthedischargeofthesamefunctionsinheryounger

household。Surelyahardlotfortheoldageofthosewhohaveworthilydischarged,

aslongasitwasgiventothemtodischarge,whattheworldaccountstheir

onlysocialduty。Ofsuchwomen,andofthoseotherstowhomthisdutyhas

notbeencommittedatall——manyofwhompinethroughlifewiththeconsciousness

ofthwartedvocations,andactivitieswhicharenotsufferedtoexpand——

theonlyresources,speakinggenerally,arereligionandcharity。Buttheir

religion,thoughitmaybeoneoffeeling,andofceremonialobservance,

cannotbeareligionofaction,unlessintheformofcharity。Forcharity

manyofthemarebynatureadmirablyfitted;buttopractiseitusefully,

orevenwithoutdoingmischief,requirestheeducation,themanifoldpreparation,

theknowledgeandthethinkingpowers,ofaskilfuladministrator。There

arefewoftheadministrativefunctionsofgovernmentforwhichaperson

wouldnotbefit,whoisfittobestowcharityusefully。Inthisasinother

cases(pre—eminentlyinthatoftheeducationofchildren),thedutiespermitted

towomencannotbeperformedproperly,withouttheirbeingtrainedforduties

which,tothegreatlossofsociety,arenotpermittedtothem。Andhere

letmenoticethesingularwayinwhichthequestionofwomen’sdisabilities

isfrequentlypresentedtoview,bythosewhofinditeasiertodrawaludicrous

pictureofwhattheydonotlike,thantoanswertheargumentsforit。When

itissuggestedthatwomen’sexecutivecapacitiesandprudentcounselsmight

sometimesbefoundvaluableinaffairsofState,theseloversoffunhold

uptotheridiculeoftheworld,assittinginParliamentorintheCabinet,

girlsintheirteens,oryoungwivesoftwoorthreeandtwenty,transported

bodily,exactlyastheyare,fromthedrawing—roomtotheHouseofCommons。

Theyforgetthatmalesarenotusuallyselectedatthisearlyageforaseat

inParliament,orforresponsiblepoliticalfunctions。Commonsensewould

tellthemthatifsuchtrustswereconfidedtowomen,itwouldbetosuch

ashavingnospecialvocationformarriedlife,orpreferringanotheremployment

oftheirfaculties(asmanywomenevennowprefertomarriagesomeofthe

fewhonourableoccupationswithintheirreach),havespentthebestyears

oftheiryouthinattemptingtoqualifythemselvesforthepursuitsinwhich

theydesiretoengage;orstillmorefrequentlyperhaps,widowsorwives

offortyorfifty,bywhomtheknow—ledgeoflifeandfacultyofgovernment

whichtheyhaveacquiredintheirfamilies,couldbytheaidofappropriate

studiesbemadeavailableonalesscontractedscale。Thereisnocountry

ofEuropeinwhichtheablestmenhavenotfrequentlyexperienced,andkeenly

appreciated,thevalueoftheadviceandhelpofcleverandexperiencedwomen

oftheworld,intheattainmentbothofprivateandofpublicobjects;and

thereareimportantmattersofpublicadministrationtowhichfewmenare

equallycompetentwithsuchwomen;amongothers,thedetailedcontrolof

expenditure。Butwhatwearenowdiscussingisnottheneedwhichsociety

hasoftheservicesofwomeninpublicbusiness,butthedullandhopeless

lifetowhichitsooftencondemnsthem,byforbiddingthemtoexercisethe

practicalabilitieswhichmanyofthemareconsciousof,inanywiderfield

thanonewhichtosomeofthemneverwas,andtoothersisnolonger,open。

Ifthereisanythingvitallyimportanttothehappinessofhumanbeings,

itisthattheyshouldrelishtheirhabitualpursuit。Thisrequisiteofan

enjoyablelifeisveryimperfectlygranted,oraltogetherdenied,toalarge

partofmankind;andbyitsabsencemanyalifeisafailure,whichisprovided,

inappearance,witheveryrequisiteofsuccess。Butifcircumstanceswhich

societyisnotyetskilfulenoughtoovercome,rendersuchfailuresoften

forthepresentinevitable,societyneednotitselfinflictthem。Theinjudiciousness

ofparents,ayouth’sowninexperience,ortheabsenceofexternalopportunities

forthecongenialvocation,andtheirpresenceforanuncongenial,condemn

numbersofmentopasstheirlivesindoingonethingreluctantlyandill,

whenthereareotherthingswhichtheycouldhavedonewellandhappily。

Butonwomenthissentenceisimposedbyactuallaw,andbycustomsequivalent

tolaw。What,inunenlightenedsocieties,colour,race,religion,orinthe

caseofaconqueredcountry,nationality,aretosomemen,sexistoall

women;aperemptoryexclusionfromalmostallhonourableoccupations,but

eithersuchascannotbefulfilledbyothers,orsuchasthoseothersdo

notthinkworthyoftheiracceptance。Sufferingsarisingfromcausesofthis

natureusuallymeetwithsolittlesympathy,thatfewpersonsareawareof

thegreatamountofunhappinessevennowproducedbythefeelingofawasted

life。Thecasewillbeevenmorefrequent,asincreasedcultivationcreates

agreaterandgreaterdisproportionbetweentheideasandfaculties——ofwomen,andthescopewhichsocietyallowstotheiractivity。Whenweconsiderthepositiveevilcausedtothedisqualifiedhalfof

thehumanracebytheirdisqualification——firstinthelossofthemost

inspiritingandelevatingkindofpersonalenjoyment,andnextintheweariness,

disappointment,andprofounddissatisfactionwithlife,whicharesooften

thesubstituteforit;onefeelsthatamongallthelessonswhichmenrequire

forcarryingonthestruggleagainsttheinevitableimperfectionsoftheir

lotonearth,thereisnolessonwhichtheymoreneed,thannottoaddto

theevilswhichnatureinflicts,bytheirjealousandprejudicedrestrictions

ononeanother。Theirvainfearsonlysubstituteotherandworseevilsfor

thosewhichtheyareidlyapprehensiveof:whileeveryrestraintonthefreedom

ofconductofanyoftheirhumanfellow—creatures(otherwisethanbymaking

themresponsibleforanyevilactuallycausedbyit),driesupprotanto

theprincipalfountainofhumanhappiness,andleavesthespecieslessrich,

toaninappreciabledegree,inallthatmakeslifevaluabletotheindividual

humanbeing。