Themeninthatfarcountrywereliars,everyone。Theirmerehowdy—dowasalie,because_they_didn\'tcarehowyoudid,excepttheywereundertakers。Totheordinaryinquireryouliedinreturn;foryoumadenoconscientiousdiagnosticofyourcase,butansweredatrandom,andusuallymisseditconsiderably。Youliedtotheundertaker,andsaidyourhealthwasfailing—awhollycommendablelie,sinceitcostyounothingandpleasedtheotherman。
Ifastrangercalledandinterruptedyou,yousaidwithyourheartytongue,\"I\'mgladtoseeyou,\"andsaidwithyourheartiersoul,\"Iwishyouwerewiththecannibalsanditwasdinner—time。\"Whenhewent,yousaidregretfully,\"_Must_yougo?\"andfolloweditwitha\"Callagain;\"butyoudidnoharm,foryoudidnotdeceiveanybodynorinflictanyhurt,whereasthetruthwouldhavemadeyoubothunhappy。
Ithinkthatallthiscourteouslyingisasweetandlovingart,andshouldbecultivated。Thehighestperfectionofpolitenessisonlyabeautifuledifice,built,fromthebasetothedome,ofgracefulandgildedformsofcharitableandunselfishlying。
WhatIbemoanisthegrowingprevalenceofthebrutaltruth。Letusdowhatwecantoeradicateit。Aninjurioustruthhasnomeritoveraninjuriouslie。
Neithershouldeverbeuttered。Themanwhospeaksaninjurioustruthlesthissoulbenotsavedifhedootherwise,shouldreflectthatthatsortofasoulisnotstrictlyworthsaving。Themanwhotellsalietohelpapoordeviloutoftrouble,isoneofwhomtheangelsdoubtlesssay,\"Lo,hereisanheroicsoulwhocastshisownwelfareinjeopardytosuccorhisneighbor\'s;
letusexaltthismagnanimousliar。\"
Aninjuriouslieisanuncommendablething;andso,also,andinthesamedegree,isaninjurioustruth—afactthatisrecognizedbythelawoflibel。
Amongothercommonlies,wehavethe_silent_lie—thedeceptionwhichoneconveysbysimplykeepingstillandconcealingthetruth。Manyobstinatetruth—mongersindulgeinthisdissipation,imaginingthatifthey_speak_nolie,theylienotatall。InthatfarcountrywhereIoncelived,therewasalovelyspirit,aladywhoseimpulseswerealwayshighandpure,andwhosecharacteransweredtothem。OnedayIwasthereatdinner,andremarked,inageneralway,thatweareallliars。Shewasamazed,andsaid,\"Not_all_?\"
Itwasbefore\"Pinafore\'s\"time。soIdidnotmaketheresponsewhichwouldnaturallyfollowinourday,butfranklysaid,\"Yes,_all_—weareallliars。
Therearenoexceptions。\"Shelookedalmostoffended,\"Why,doyouinclude_me_?\"\"Certainly,\"Isaid。\"Ithinkyouevenrankasanexpert。\"Shesaid\"Sh—\'sh!thechildren!\"Sothesubjectwaschangedindeferencetothechildren\'spresence,andwewentontalkingaboutotherthings。Butassoonastheyoungpeoplewereoutoftheway,theladycamewarmlybacktothematterandsaid,\"Ihavemadearuleofmylifetonevertellalie;andI
haveneverdepartedfromitinasingleinstance。\"Isaid,\"Idon\'tmeantheleastharmordisrespect,butreallyyouhavebeenlyinglikesmokeeversinceI\'vebeensittinghere。Ithascausedmeagooddealofpain,becauseI\'mnotusedtoit。\"Sherequiredofmeaninstance—justasingleinstance。
SoIsaid—
\"Well,hereistheunfilledduplicateoftheblank,whichtheOaklandhospitalpeoplesenttoyoubythehandofthesick—nursewhenshecameheretonurseyourlittlenephewthroughhisdangerousillness。Thisblankasksallmannersofquestionsastotheconductofthatsick—nurse:\'Didsheeversleeponherwatch?Didsheeverforgettogivethemedicine?\'andsoforthandsoon。Youarewarnedtobeverycarefulandexplicitinyouranswers,forthewelfareoftheservicerequiresthatthenursesbepromptlyfinedorotherwisepunishedforderelictions。Youtoldmeyouwereperfectlydelightedwiththisnurse—thatshehadathousandperfectionsandonlyonefault:youfoundyounevercoulddependonherwrappingJohnnyuphalfsufficientlywhilehewaitedinachillychairforhertorearrangethewarmbed。
Youfilleduptheduplicateofthispaper,andsentitbacktothehospitalbythehandofthenurse。Howdidyouanswerthisquestion—\'Wasthenurseatanytimeguiltyofanegligencewhichwaslikelytoresultinthepatient\'stakingcold?\'Come—everythingisdecidedbyabethereinCalifornia:tendollarstotencentsyouliedwhenyouansweredthatquestion。\"Shesaid,\"I