Contents:
AreWeAsInterestingAsWeThinkWeAre?
ShouldWomenBeBeautiful?
WhenIsTheBestTimeToBeMerry?
DoWeLieA—BedTooLate?
ShouldMarriedMenPlayGolf?
AreEarlyMarriagesAMistake?
DoWritersWriteTooMuch?
ShouldSoldiersBePolite?
OughtStoriesToBeTrue?
CreaturesThatOneDayShallBeMenHowToBeHappyThoughLittleShouldWeSayWhatWeThink,OrThinkWhatWeSay?
IsTheAmericanHusbandMadeEntirelyOfStainedGlassDoesTheYoungManKnowEverythingWorthKnowing?
HowManyCharmsHathMusic,WouldYouSay?
Thewhiteman’sburden!Needitbesoheavy?
WhyDidn’tHeMarryTheGirl?
WhatMrs。WilkinsthoughtaboutitShallWeBeRuinedByChineseCheapLabour?
HowToSolveTheServantProblemWhyWeHateTheForeignerAREWEASINTERESTINGASWETHINKWEARE?
\"Charmed。Veryhotweatherwe’vebeenhavingoflate——Imeancold。
Letmesee,Ididnotquitecatchyournamejustnow。Thankyousomuch。Yes,itisabitclose。\"Andasilencefalls,neitherofusbeingabletothinkwhatnexttosay。
Whathashappenedisthis:Myhosthasmetmeinthedoorway,andshakenmeheartilybythehand。
\"Sogladyouwereabletocome,\"hehassaid。\"Somefriendsofminehere,veryanxioustomeetyou。\"Hehasbustledmeacrosstheroom。
\"Delightfulpeople。You’lllikethem——havereadallyourbooks。\"
Hehasbroughtmeuptoastatelylady,andhaspresentedme。Wehaveexchangedthecustomarycommonplaces,andshe,Ifeel,iswaitingformetosaysomethingclever,originalandtactful。AndI
don’tknowwhethersheisPresbyterianorMormon;aProtectionistoraFreeTrader;whethersheisengagedtobemarriedorhaslatelybeendivorced!
Afriendofmineadoptsthesensibleplanofalwaysprovidingyouwithashorthistoryofthepersontowhomheisabouttoleadyou。
\"IwanttointroduceyoutoaMrs。Jones,\"hewhispers。\"Cleverwoman。Wroteabooktwoyearsago。Forgetthenameofit。
Somethingabouttwins。Keepawayfromsausages。FatherranaporkshopintheBorough。HusbandontheStockExchange。Keepoffcoke。
Unpleasantnessaboutacompany。You’llgetonbestbystickingtothebook。Lotinitaboutplatonicfriendship。Don’tseemtobelookingtoocloselyather。Hasaslightsquintshetriestohide。\"
Bythistimewehavereachedthelady,andheintroducesmeasafriendofhiswhoissimplydyingtoknowher。
\"Wantstotalkaboutyourbook,\"heexplains。\"Disagreeswithyouentirelyonthesubjectofplatonicfriendship。Sureyou’llbeabletoconvincehim。\"
Itsavesusbothadealoftrouble。Istartatonceonplatonicfriendship,andaskherquestionsabouttwins,avoidingsausagesandcoke。Shethinksmeanunusuallyinterestingman,andIamlessboredthanotherwiseImightbe。
Ihavesometimesthoughtitwouldbeaserviceabledeviceif,inSociety,weallofusworeaneatcard——pinned,say,uponourback——
settingforthsuchinformationaswasnecessary;ournamelegiblywritten,andhowtobepronounced;ourage(notnecessarilyingoodfaith,butforpurposesofconversation。OnceIseriouslyhurtaGermanladybydemandingofherinformationabouttheFranco—Germanwar。Shelookedtomeasifshecouldnotobjecttobeingtakenforforty。Itturnedoutshewasthirty—seven。HadInotbeenanEnglishmanImighthavehadtofightaduel);ourreligiousandpoliticalbeliefs;togetherwithalistofthesubjectsweweremostathomeupon;andafewfactsconcerningourcareer——sufficienttosavethestrangerfrom,whatisvulgarlytermed\"puttinghisfootinit。\"Beforemakingjokesabout\"Dumping,\"ordiscussingthequestionofChineseCheapLabour,onewouldglancebehindandnotewhetherone’scompanionwasticketed\"Whole—hogger,\"or\"Pro—Boer。\"Guestsdesirousofagreeablepartners——an\"agreeableperson,\"accordingtothelateLordBeaconsfield’sdefinition,being\"apersonwhoagreeswithyou\"——couldmaketheirownselection。
\"Excuseme。Wouldyoumindturningroundaminute?Ah,’WagnerianCrank!’Iamafraidweshouldnotgetontogether。IprefertheItalianschool。\"
Or,\"Howdelightful。Iseeyoudon’tbelieveinvaccination。MayI
takeyouintosupper?\"
Those,ontheotherhand,fondofargumentwouldchooseasuitableopponent。Amasterofceremoniesmightbeprovidedwhowouldstandinthecentreoftheroomandcallforpartners:\"LadywithstrongviewsinfavouroffemalefranchisewishestomeetgentlemanholdingtheopinionsofSt。Paul。Withviewtoargument。\"
AnAmericanlady,ayearortwoago,wrotemealetterthatdidmerealgood:sheappreciatedmyworkwithsomuchunderstanding,criticiseditwithsuchsympatheticinterest。Sheaddedthat,wheninEnglandthesummerbefore,shehadbeenonthepointofacceptinganinvitationtomeetme;butatthelastmomentshehadchangedhermind;shefeltsosure——sheputitpleasantly,butthisiswhatitcameto——thatinmyownproperpersonIshouldfallshortofherexpectations。FormyownsakeIfeltsorryshehadcriedoff;itwouldhavebeenworthsomethingtohavemetsosensibleawoman。Anauthorintroducedtopeoplewhohaveread——orwhosaythattheyhaveread——hisbooks,feelsalwayslikeamantakenforthefirsttimetobeshowntohisfuturewife’srelations。Theyareverypleasant。
Theytrytoputhimathisease。Butheknowsinstinctivelytheyaredisappointedwithhim。Iremember,whenaveryyoungman,attendingapartyatwhichafamousAmericanhumoristwasthechiefguest。I
wasstandingclosebehindaladywhowastalkingtoherhusband。
\"Hedoesn’tlookabitfunny,\"saidthelady。
\"GreatScott!\"answeredherhusband。\"Howdidyouexpecthimtolook?Didyouthinkhewouldhavearednoseandapatchoveroneeye?\"
\"Oh,well,hemightlookfunnierthanthat,anyhow,\"retortedthelady,highlydissatisfied。\"Itisn’tworthcomingfor。\"
Weallknowthestoryofthehostesswho,leaningacrossthetableduringthedessert,requestedofthefunnymanthathewouldkindlysaysomethingamusingsoon,becausethedearchildrenwerewaitingtogotobed。Children,Isuppose,havenouseforfunnypeoplewhodon’tchoosetobefunny。IonceinvitedafrienddowntomyhouseforaSaturdaytoMonday。Heisanentertainingman,andbeforehecameIdilatedonhispowersofhumour——somewhatfoolishlyperhaps——
inthepresenceofacertainyouthfulpersonwhoresideswithme,andwholistenswhensheoughtn’tto,andneverwhensheought。Hehappenednottobeinahumorousmoodthatevening。Myyoungrelation,afterdinner,climbeduponmyknee。Forquitefiveminutesshesatsilent。Thenshewhispered:
\"Hashesaidanythingfunny?\"
\"Hush。No,notyet;don’tbesilly。\"
Fiveminuteslater:\"Wasthatfunny?\"
\"No,ofcoursenot。\"
\"Whynot?\"
\"Because——can’tyouhear?WearetalkingaboutOldAgePensions。\"
\"What’sthat?\"
\"Oh,it’s——oh,nevermindnow。Itisn’tasubjectonwhichonecanbefunny。\"
\"Thenwhat’shewanttotalkaboutitfor?\"
Shewaitedforanotherquarterofanhour。Then,evidentlybored,andmuchtomyrelief,suggestedherselfthatshemightaswellgotobed。Sherantomethenextmorninginthegardenwithanairoftriumph。
\"Hesaidsomethingsofunnylastnight,\"shetoldme。
\"Oh,whatwasit?\"Iinquired。ItseemedtomeImusthavemissedit。
\"Well,Ican’texactly’memberit,\"sheexplained,\"notjustatthemoment。Butitwassofunny。Idreamedit,youknow。\"
ForfolksnotLions,butcloselyrelatedtoLions,introductionsmustbetryingordeals。Youtellthemthatforyearsyouhavebeenyearningtomeetthem。Youassurethem,inavoicetremblingwithemotion,thatthisisindeedaprivilege。Yougoontoaddthatwhenaboy—
AtthispointtheyhavetointerruptyoutoexplainthattheyarenottheMr。So—and—So,butonlyhiscousinorhisgrandfather;andallyoucanthinkoftosayis:\"Oh,I’msosorry。\"
Ihadanephewwhowasoncetheamateurlong—distancebicyclechampion。Ihavehimstill,butheisstouterandhascomedowntoamotorcar。InsportingcirclesIwasalwaysintroducedas\"Shorland’sUncle。\"Close—croppedyoungmenwouldgazeatmewithrapture;andtheninquire:\"Anddoyoudoanythingyourself,Mr。
Jerome?\"
Butmycasewasnotsobadasthatofafriendofmine,adoctor。Hemarriedaleadingactress,andwasknowneverafterwardsas\"MissB—
’shusband。\"
Atpublicdinners,whereonetakesone’sseatfortheeveningnexttosomeonethatonepossiblyhasnevermetbefore,andisneverlikelytomeetagain,conversationisdifficultanddangerous。IremembertalkingtoaladyataVagabondClubdinner。Sheaskedmeduringtheentree——withalightlaugh,asIafterwardsrecalled——whatIthought,candidly,ofthelastbookofacertaincelebratedauthoress。Itoldher,andacoldnesssprangupbetweenus。Shehappenedtobethecertaincelebratedauthoress;shehadchangedherplaceatthelastmomentsoastoavoidsittingnexttoanotherladynovelist,whomshehated。
Onehastoshiftoneself,sometimes,ontheseoccasions。AnewspapermancameuptomelastNinthofNovemberattheMansionHouse。
\"Wouldyoumindchangingseatswithme?\"heasked。\"It’sabitawkward。They’veputmenexttomyfirstwife。\"
Ihadatroubledeveningmyselfoncelongago。IaccompaniedayoungwidowladytoamusicalAtHome,givenbyaladywhohadmoreacquaintancesthansheknew。Wemetthebutleratthetopofthestairs。Myfriendspokefirst:
\"SayMrs。Dashand——\"
Thebutlerdidnotwaitformore——hewasayoungishman——butshoutedout:
\"Mr。andMrs。Dash。\"
\"Mydear!howveryquietyouhavekept!\"criedourhostessdelighted。
\"Doletmecongratulateyou。\"
Thecrushwastoogreatandourhostesstoodistractedatthemomentforanyexplanations。Weweresweptaway,andbothofusspenttheremainderoftheeveningfeeblyprotestingoursingleness。
Ifithadhappenedonthestageitwouldhavetakenusthewholeplaytogetoutofit。Stagepeoplearenotallowedtoputthingsrightwhenmistakesaremadewiththeiridentity。Ifthelightcomedianisexpectingaplumber,thefirstmanthatcomesintothedrawing—roomhasgottobeaplumber。Heisnotallowedtopointoutthatheneverwasaplumber;thathedoesn’tlooklikeaplumber;thatnoonenotanidiotwouldmistakehimforaplumber。Hehasgottobeshutupinthebath—roomandhavewaterpouredoverhim,justasifhewereaplumber——astageplumber,thatis。Nottillrightawayattheendofthelastactishepermittedtoremarkthathehappenstobethenewcurate。
Isatoutaplayonceatwhichmostpeoplelaughed。Itmademesad。
Adearoldladyenteredtowardstheendofthefirstact。Weknewshewastheaunt。Nobodycanpossiblymistakethestageaunt——exceptthepeopleonthestage。They,ofcourse,mistookherforacircusrider,andshutherupinacupboard。Itiswhatcupboardsseemtobereservedforonthestage。Nothingiseverputinthemexceptingthehero’srelations。Whenshewasn’tinthecupboardshewasinaclothesbasket,ortiedupinacurtain。Allsheneedhavedonewastoholdontosomethingwhileremarkingtothehero:
\"Ifyou’llstopshoutingandjumpingaboutforjusttenseconds,andgivemeachancetoobservethatIamyourmaidenauntfromDevonshire,allthistomfoolerycanbeavoided。\"
Thatwouldhaveendedit。Asamatteroffactthatdidenditfiveminutespasteleven。Ithadn’toccurredtohertosayitbefore。
InreallifeIneverknewbutofonecasewhereamansufferedinsilenceunpleasantnesshecouldhaveendedwithaword;andthatwasthecaseofthelateCorneyGrain。Hehadbeenengagedtogivehisentertainmentatacountryhouse。Theladywasanouvellericheofsnobbishinstincts。SheleftinstructionsthatCorneyGrainwhenhearrivedwastodinewiththeservants。Thebutler,whoknewbetter,apologised;butCorneywasamannoteasilydisconcerted。Hedinedwell,andafterdinnerroseandaddressedtheassembledcompany。
\"Well,now,mygoodfriends,\"saidCorney,\"ifwehaveallfinished,andifyouareallagreeable,Ishallbepleasedtopresenttoyoumylittleshow。\"
Theservantscheered。Thepianowasdispensedwith。Corneycontrivedtoamusehisaudienceverywellforhalf—an—hourwithoutit。Atteno’clockcamedownamessage:WouldMr。CorneyGraincomeupintothedrawing—room。Corneywent。Thecompanyinthedrawing—
roomwerewaiting,seated。
\"Weareready,Mr。Grain,\"remarkedthehostess。
\"Readyforwhat?\"demandedCorney。
\"Foryourentertainment,\"answeredthehostess。
\"ButIhavegivenitalready,\"explainedCorney;\"andmyengagementwasforoneperformanceonly。\"
\"Givenit!Where?When?\"
\"Anhourago,downstairs。\"
\"Butthisisnonsense,\"exclaimedthehostess。
\"Itseemedtomesomewhatunusual,\"Corneyreplied;\"butithasalwaysbeenmyprivilegetodinewiththecompanyIamaskedtoentertain。Itookityouhadarrangedalittletreatfortheservants。\"
AndCorneylefttocatchhistrain。
Anotherentertainertoldmethefollowingstory,althoughajokeagainsthimself。HeandCorneyGrainweresharingacottageontheriver。Amancalledearlyonemorningtodiscussaffairs,andwastalkingtoCorneyintheparlour,whichwasonthegroundfloor。Thewindowwasopen。Theotherentertainer——themanwhotoldmethestory——wasdressingintheroomabove。Thinkingherecognisedthevoiceofthevisitorbelow,heleantoutofhisbedroomwindowtohearbetter。Heleanttoofar,anddivedheadforemostintoabedofflowers,hisbarelegs——andonlyhisbarelegs——showingthroughtheopenwindowoftheparlour。
\"Goodgracious!\"exclaimedthevisitor,turningatthemomentandseeingapairofwrigglinglegsabovethewindowsill;\"who’sthat?\"
Corneyfixedhiseyeglassandstrolledtothewindow。
\"Oh,it’sonlyWhat’s—his—name,\"heexplained。\"Wonderfulspirits。
Canbefunnyinthemorning。\"
SHOULDWOMENBEBEAUTIFUL?
Prettywomenaregoingtohaveahardtimeofitlateron。Hitherto,theyhavehadthingsfartoomuchtheirownway。Inthefuturetherearegoingtobenoprettygirls,forthesimplereasontherewillbenoplaingirlsagainstwhichtocontrastthem。OflateIhavedonesomesystematicreadingofladies’papers。Theplaingirlsubmitstoacourseof\"treatment。\"IneighteenmonthssheburstsuponSocietyanacknowledgedbeauty。Anditisalldonebykindness。Onegirlwrites:
\"OnlyalittlewhileagoIusedtolookatmyselfintheglassandcry。NowIlookatmyselfandlaugh。\"
Theletterisaccompaniedbytwophotographsoftheyounglady。I
shouldhavecriedmyselfhadIseenherasshewasatfirst。Shewasastumpy,flat—headed,squat—nosed,cross—eyedthing。Shedidnotevenlookgood。Onevirtuesheappearstohavehad,however。Itwasfaith。Shebelievedwhatthelabelsaid,shedidwhatthelabeltoldher。Sheisnowatall,ravishingyoungperson,heronlytroublebeing,Ishouldsay,toknowwhattodowithherhair——itreachestoherkneesandmustbeanuisancetoher。Shewoulddobettertogivesomeofitaway。Takingthisyoungladyasatext,itmeansthatthegirlwhodeclinestobeadreamoflovelinessdoessooutofobstinacy。Whattherawmaterialmaybedoesnotappeartomatter。
Providednofeatureisabsolutelymissing,theresultisoneandthesame。
Arrivedatyearsofdiscretion,themaidenproceedstochoosethestyleofbeautysheprefers。WillshebeaJuno,aVenus,oraHelen?WillshehaveaGreciannose,oronetip—tiltedlikethepetalofarose?Lethertrythetip—tiltedstylefirst。Theprofessorhasanideaitisgoingtobefashionable。Ifafterwardsshedoesnotlikeit,therewillbetimetotrytheGrecian。Itisdifficulttodecidethesepointswithoutexperiment。
Wouldtheladylikeahighoralowforehead?Someladiesliketolookintelligent。Itispurelyamatteroftaste。WiththeGreciannose,thelowbroadforeheadperhapsgoesbetter。Itismoreaccordingtoprecedent。Ontheotherhand,thehighbrainyforeheadwouldbemoreoriginal。Itisfortheladyherselftoselect。
Wecometothequestionofeyes。Theladyfanciesadelicateblue,nottoopronouncedacolour——oneofthoseusefulshadesthatgowithalmosteverything。Atthesametimethereshouldbedepthandpassion。Theprofessorunderstandsexactlythesortofeyetheladymeans。Butitwillbeexpensive。Thereisacheapquality;theprofessordoesnotrecommendit。Truethatitpassesmusterbygaslight,butthesunlightshowsitup。Itlackstenderness,andatthepriceyoucanhardlyexpectittocontainmuchhiddenmeaning。
Theprofessoradvisesthemelting,Oh—George—take—me—in—your—arms—
and—still—my—foolish—fearsbrand。Itcostsalittlemore,butitpaysforitselfintheend。
Perhapsitwillbebest,nowtheeyehasbeenfixedupon,todiscussthequestionofthehair。Theprofessoropenshisbookofpatterns。
Maybetheladyisofawilfuldisposition。Shelovestorunlaughingthroughthewoodsduringexceptionallyrainyweather;ortogallopacrossthedownswithoutahat,herfairringletsstreaminginthewind,theoldfamilycoachmanpantingandexpostulatingintherear。
Ifonemaytrustthepopularnovel,extremelysatisfactoryhusbandshaveoftenbeensecuredinthisway。Younaturallylookatagirlwhoiswalkingthroughawood,laughingheartilyapparentlyfornootherreasonthanbecauseitisraining——whoridesatstretchgallopwithoutahat。Ifyouhavenothingelsetodo,youfollowher。Itisalwaysonthecardsthatsuchagirlmaydosomethingreallyamusingbeforeshegetshome。Thusthingsbegin。
Toagirlofthiskind,naturallycurlyhairisessential。Itmustbethesortofhairthatlooksbetterwhenitissoakingwet。Thebottleofstuffthatmakesthisparticularhairtogrowmaybeconsidereddear,ifyouthinkmerelyoftheprice。Butthatisnotthewaytolookatit。\"Whatisitgoingtodoforme?\"Thatiswhatthegirlhasgottoaskherself。Itdoesnotdotospoiltheshipforaha’porthoftar,asthesayingis。Ifyouaregoingtobeadashing,wilfulbeauty,youmusthavethehairforit,orthewholeschemefallstotheground。
Eyebrowsandeyelashes,theprofessorassumes,theladywouldliketomatchthehair。Toomucheccentricitytheprofessordoesnotagreewith。Nature,afterall,isthebestguide;neatnesscombinedwithtaste,thatistheidealtobeaimedat。Theeyebrowsshouldbealmoststraight,theprofessorthinks;theeyelasheslongandsilky,withjustthesuspicionofacurl。Theprofessorwouldalsosuggestalittlelesscheekbone。Cheekbonesarebeingwornlowthisseason。
Willtheladyhaveadimpledchin,ordoesshefancythesquare—cutjaw?Maybethesquare—cutjawandthefirm,sweetmoutharemoresuitableforthemarriedwoman。Theygowellenoughwiththebabyandthetea—urn,andthestrong,proudmaninthebackground。Fortheunmarriedgirlthedimpledchinandtherosebudmouthare,perhaps,onthewholesafer。Somegentlemenaresonervousofthatfirm,squarejaw。Forthepresent,atallevents,letuskeeptotherosebudandthedimple。
Complexion!Well,thereisonlyonecomplexionworthconsidering——acreamywhite,relievedbydelicatepeachpink。Itgoeswitheverything,andisalwayseffective。Richolives,strikingpallors——
yes,youhearofthesethingsdoingwell。Theprofessor’sexperience,however,isthatforall—roundworkyouwillneverimproveupontheplainwhiteandpink。Itislessliabletogetoutoforder,andistheeasiestatalltimestorenew。
Forthefigure,theprofessorrecommendssomethinglitheandsupple。
Fivefootfourisagoodheight,butthatisapointthatshouldbediscussedfirstwiththedressmaker。Fortrains,fivefootsixis,perhaps,preferable。Butforthesportinggirl,whohastowearshortfrocks,thatheightwould,ofcourse,beimpossible。
Thebustandthewaistarealsopointsonwhichthedressmakershouldbeconsulted。Nothingshouldbedoneinahurry。Whatisthefashiongoingtobeforthenexttwoorthreeseasons?Therearestylesdemandingthatbeginningattheneckyoushouldcurveout,likeapouterpigeon。Thereisapparentlynodifficultywhateverinobtainingthisresult。Butifcrinolines,forinstance,arelikelytocomeinagain!Theladyhasonlytoimagineitforherself:theeffectmightbegrotesque,suggestiveofawalkinghour—glass。So,too,withthewaist。Forsomefashionsitisbettertohaveitjustafootfromtheneck。Atothertimesitismoreusefullowerdown。
Theladywillkindlythinkoverthesedetailsandlettheprofessorknow。Whileoneisaboutit,onemayaswellmakeasoundjob。
Itisallsosimple,and,whenyoucometothinkofit,reallynotexpensive。Age,apparently,makesnodifference。Awomanisasoldasshelooks。Infuture,Itakeit,therewillbenoladiesoverfive—and—twenty。Wrinkles!Whyanyladyshouldstillpersistinwearingthemisamysterytome。Withamoderateamountofcareanymiddle—classwomancouldsaveenoughoutofthehousekeepingmoneyinamonthtogetridofeveryoneofthem。Greyhair!Well,ofcourse,ifyouclingtogreyhair,thereisnomoretobesaid。Buttoladieswhowouldjustassoonhaverichwavy—brownoradelicateshadeofgold,Iwouldpointoutthatthereareonehundredandforty—seveninexpensivelotionsonthemarket,anyoneofwhich,rubbedgentlyintotheheadwithatooth—brush(nottoohard)justbeforegoingtobedwill,touseacolloquialism,dothetrick。
Areyoutoostout,orareyoutoothin?Allyouhavetodoistosaywhich,andenclosestamps。Butdonotmakeamistakeandsendforthewrongrecipe。Ifyouarealreadytoothin,youmightinconsequencesuddenlydisappearbeforeyoufoundoutyourmistake。
OneverystoutladyIknewworkedatherselfforeighteenmonthsandgotstoutereveryday。Thisdiscouragedhersomuchthatshegaveuptrying。Nodoubtshehadmadeamuddleandhadsentforthewrongbottle,butshewouldnotlistentofurtheradvice。Shesaidshewastiredofthewholething。
Infutureyearstherewillbenoneedforayoungmantolookabouthimforawife;hewilltakethenearestgirl,tellherhisideal,and,ifshereallycareforhim,shewillgototheshopandhaveherselffixeduptohispattern。IncertainEasterncountries,I
believe,somethingofthiskindisdone。Agentlemandesirousofaddingtohisfamilysendsroundtheneighbourhoodtheweightandsizeofhisfavouritewife,hintingthatifanothercanbefoundofthesameproportions,thereisroomforher。Fatherswalkroundamongtheirdaughters,choosethemostlikelyspecimen,andhaveherfattenedup。ThatistheirbrutalEasternway。OutWestweshallbemoredelicate。Match—makingmotherswillprobablyrevivetheoldconfessionbook。Eligiblebachelorswillbeinvitedtofillinapage:\"Yourfavouriteheightinwomen,\"\"Yourfavouritemeasurementroundthewaist,\"\"Doyoulikebrunettesorblondes?\"
Thechoicewillbelefttothegirls。
\"IdothinkHenryWilliamjusttoosweetforwords,\"themaidenofthefuturewillmurmurtoherself。Gently,coyly,shewilldrawfromhimhisidealofwhatawomanshouldbe。Infromsixmonthstoayearshewillburstuponhim,theperfectShe;height,size,weight,righttoaT。Hewillclaspherinhisarms。
\"Atlast,\"hewillcry,\"Ihavefoundher,thewomanofmydreams。\"
Andifhedoesnotchangehismind,andthebottlesdonotbegintolosetheireffect,therewillbeeverychancethattheywillbehappyeverafterwards。
MightnotSciencegoevenfurther?Whyrestsatisfiedwithmakingaworldofmerelybeautifulwomen?CannotScience,whilesheisaboutit,makethemallgoodatthesametime。Idonotapologiseforthesuggestion。Iusedtothinkallwomenbeautifulandgood。Itistheirownpapersthathavedisillusionedme。Iusedtolookatthisladyoratthat——shyly,whennobodyseemedtobenoticingme——andthinkhowfairshewas,howstately。NowIonlywonderwhoisherchemist。
Theyusedtotellme,whenIwasalittleboy,thatgirlsweremadeofsugarandspice。Iknowbetternow。IhavereadtherecipesintheAnswerstoCorrespondents。
WhenIwasquiteayoungmanIusedtositindarkcornersandlisten,withswellingheart,whilepeopleatthepianotoldmewherelittlegirlbabiesgottheirwonderfuleyesfrom,ofthethingstheydidtotheminheaventhatgavethemdimples。Ahme!IwishnowI
hadnevercomeacrossthoseladies’papers。Iknowthestuffthatcausesthosebewitchingeyes。Iknowtheshopwheretheymakethosedimples;Ihavepasseditandlookedin。Ithoughttheywereproducedbyangels’kisses,buttherewasnotanangelabouttheplace,thatIcouldsee。PerhapsIhavealsobeendeceivedasregardstheirgoodness。Maybeallwomenarenotsoperfectasinthepopularshortstorytheyappeartobe。ThatiswhyIsuggestthatScienceshouldproceedstillfurther,andmakethemallasbeautifulinmindassheisnowabletomaketheminbody。Maywenotlivetoseeintheadvertisementcolumnsoftheladies’paperofthefuturetheportraitofayounggirlsulkinginacorner——\"Beforetakingthelotion!\"Thesamegirldancingamongherlittlebrothersandsisters,sheddingsunlightthroughthehome——\"Afterthethreefirstbottles!\"MaywenothavetheCaudleMixture:Onetablespoonfulatbed—timeguaranteedtomaketheladymurmur,\"Good—night,dear;hopeyou’llsleepwell,\"andatoncetofallasleep,herlipspartedinasmile?MaybesomespecialistofthefuturewilladvertiseMindMassage:\"Warrantedtoremovefromthemostobstinatesubjectalltracesofhatred,envy,andmalice。\"
And,whenSciencehasdoneeverythingpossibleforwomen,theremightbenoharminherturningherattentiontousmen。Herideaatpresentseemstobethatwemenaretoobeautiful,physicallyandmorally,toneedimprovement。Personally,thereareoneortwopointsaboutwhichIshouldliketoconsulther。
WHENISTHEBESTTIMETOBEMERRY?
ThereissomuchIcoulddotoimprovethingsgenerallyinandaboutEurope,ifonlyIhadafreehand。Ishouldnotproposeanygreatfundamentalchanges。Thesepoorpeoplehavegotusedtotheirownways;itwouldbeunwisetoreformthemallatonce。ButtherearemanylittleoddsandendsthatIcoulddoforthem,somanyoftheirmistakesIcouldcorrectforthem。Theydonotknowthis。Iftheyonlyknewtherewasamanlivingintheirmidstwillingtotaketheminhandandarrangethingsforthem,howgladtheywouldbe。Butthestoryisalwaysthesame。Onereadsitintheadvertisementsofthematrimonialcolumn:
\"Alady,young,saidtobegood—looking\"——sheherselfisnotsureonthepoint;shefeelsthatpossiblyshemaybeprejudiced;sheputsbeforeyoumerelythecurrentgossipoftheneighbourhood;peoplesaysheisbeautiful;theymayberight,theymaybewrong:itisnotforhertodecide——\"well—educated,ofaffectionatedisposition,possessedofmeans,desirestomeetgentlemanwithaviewtomatrimony。\"
Immediatelyunderneathonereadsofagentlemanoftwenty—eight,\"tall,fair,consideredagreeable。\"Reallythemodestyofthematrimonialadvertiserteachestousordinarymortalsquiteabeautifullesson。Iknowinstinctivelythatwereanybodytoaskmesuddenly:
\"Doyoucallyourselfanagreeableman?\"Ishouldanswerpromptly:
\"Anagreeableman!OfcourseI’managreeableman。Whatsillyquestionsyoudoask!\"Ifhepersistedinarguingthematter,saying:
\"Buttherearepeoplewhodonotconsideryouanagreeableman。\"I
shouldgetangrywithhim。
\"Oh,theythinkthat,dothey?\"Ishouldsay。\"Well,youtellthemfromme,withmycompliments,thattheyareasetofblitheringidiots。Notagreeable!YoushowmethemanwhosaysI’mnotagreeable。I’llsoonlethimknowwhetherI’magreeableornot。\"
Theseyoungmenseekingawifearesilentonthesubjectoftheirownvirtues。Suchareforotherstodiscover。Thematrimonialadvertiserconfineshimselftoasimplestatementoffact:heisconsideredagreeable。\"
Heisdomesticallyinclined,andinreceiptofagoodincome。Heisdesirousofmeetingaladyofseriousdisposition,withviewtomatrimony。Ifpossessedofmeans——well,itisatriflehardlyworthconsideringonewayortheother。Hedoesnotinsistuponit;ontheotherhandhedoesnotexcludeladiesofmeans;themainideaismatrimony。
Itissadtoreflectuponayounglady,saidtobegood—looking(letussaygood—lookingandbedonewithit:aneighbourhooddoesnotriseupanddeclareagirlgood—lookingifsheisnotgood—looking,thatisonlyhermodestwayofputtingit),letussayayounglady,good—looking,well—educated,ofaffectionatedisposition——itisundeniablysadtoreflectthatsuchanone,matrimoniallyinclined,shouldbecompelledtohaverecoursetothecolumnsofamatrimonialjournal。Whataretheyoungmenintheneighbourhoodthinkingof?
Whatmoredotheywant?IsitVenuscometolifeagainwithtenthousandayearthattheyarewaitingfor!Itmakesmeangrywithmyownsexreadingtheseadvertisements。Andwhenonethinksofthegirlsthatdogetmarried!
Butlifeisamystery。Thefactremains:hereistheidealwifeseekinginvainforahusband。Andhere,immediatelyunderneath——I
willnotsaytheidealhusband,hemayhavefaults;noneofusareperfect,butasmengoadecidedacquisitiontoanydomestichearth,anagreeablegentleman,fondofhomelife,noneofyourgad—abouts——
callsaloudtothefourwindsforawife——anysortofawife,providedshebeofaseriousdisposition。Inhisdespair,hehasgrownindifferenttoallotherconsiderations。\"Isthereinthisworld,\"hehassaidtohimself,\"oneunmarriedwoman,willingtomarryme,anagreeableman,inreceiptofagoodincome。\"Possiblyenoughthistwainhavepassedoneanotherinthestreet,havesatsidebysideinthesametram—car,neverguessing,eachone,thattheotherwastheveryarticleofwhichtheywereinwanttomakelifebeautiful。
Mistressesinsearchofaservant,notsomuchwiththeideaofgettingworkoutofher,ratherwiththeobjectofmakingherhappy,advertiseononepage。Ontheoppositepage,domestictreasures——
disciplesofCarlyle,apparently,withapassionateloveofworkforitsownsake——areseekingsituations,notsomuchwiththedesireofgainaswiththehopeoffindingopeningswheretheymayenjoytheluxuryoffeelingtheyareleadingusefullives。Thesephilanthropicmistresses,thesetoil—lovinghand—maidens,havelivedsidebysideinthesametownforyears,neverknowingoneanother。
SoitiswiththesepoorEuropeanpeoples。Theypassmeinthestreet。TheydonotguessthatIamreadyandwillingtotakethemundermycare,toteachthemcommonsensewithasmatteringofintelligence——tobe,asonemightsay,afathertothem。Theylookatme。ThereisnothingaboutmetotellthemthatIknowwhatisgoodforthembetterthantheydothemselves。Inthefairytalesthewisemanworeaconicalhatandalongrobewithtwiddlythingsallroundtheedge。Youknewhewasacleverman。Itavoidedthenecessityofexplanation。Unfortunately,thefashionhasgoneout。
Wewisemenhavetowearjustordinaryclothes。Nobodyknowswearewisemen。Evenwhenwetellthemso,theydon’tbelieveit。Thisitisthatmakesourtaskthemoredifficult。
OneofthefirstthingsIshouldtakeinhand,wereEuropeanaffairshandedovertomycontrol,wouldbetherearrangementoftheCarnival。Asmattersare,theCarnivaltakesplacealloverEuropeinFebruary。AtNice,inSpain,orinItaly,itmaybeoccasionallypossibletofeelyouwanttodanceaboutthestreetsinthincostumeduringFebruary。ButinmorenortherncountriesduringCarnivaltimeIhaveseenonlyonesensiblemasker;hewasamanwhohadgothimselfupasadiver。ItwasinAntwerp。Therainwaspouringdownintorrents;acheery,boisterousJohnBullsortofaneastwindwasblusteringthroughthestreetsattherateoffifteenmilesanhour。
Pierrots,withfrozenhands,wereblowingbluenoses。AnelderlyCupidhadborrowedanumbrellafromacafeandwaswaitingforatram。Averylittledevilwascryingwiththecold,andwipinghiseyeswiththeendofhisowntail。Everydoorwaywascrowdedwithshiveringmaskers。Thediveralonewalkederect,thewaterstreamingfromhim。
Februaryisnotthemonthforopenairmasquerading。The\"confetti,\"
whichhascometobenothingbutcolouredpapercutintosmalldiscs,isasoddenmass。Whenalumpofitstrikesyouintheeye,yourinstinctisnottolaughgaily,buttofindoutthemanwhothrewitandtohithimback。ThisisnotthetruespiritofCarnival。Themarvelisthat,inspiteofthealmostinvariablyadverseweather,theseCarnivalsstillcontinue。InBelgium,whereRomanismstillremainsthedominantreligion,CarnivalmaintainsitselfstrongerthanelsewhereinNorthernEurope。
Atonesmalltown,Binche,neartheFrenchborder,itholdsuninterruptedswayforthreedaysandtwonights,duringwhichtimethewholeofthepopulation,swelledbyvisitorsfromtwentymilesround,shouts,romps,eatsanddrinksanddances。Afterwhichthevisitorsarepackedlikesardinesintorailwaytrains。Theypintheirticketstotheircoatsandpromptlygotosleep。Ateverystationtherailwayofficialsstumbleupanddownthetrainswithlanterns。Thelastfeebleeffortofthemorewakefulreveller,beforeheaddshimselftotheheapofsnoringhumanityontheflooroftherailwaycarriage,istochangetheticketsofacoupleofhisunconsciouscompanions。Inthiswaygentlemenfortheeastaredraggedoutbythelegsatjunctions,andpackedintotrainsgoingwest;whilesouthernfathersareshotoutinthechilldawnatlonelynorthernstations,tofindthemselvesgreetedwithenthusiasmbyotherpeople’sfamilies。
AtBinche,theysay——Ihavenotcountedthemmyself——thatthirtythousandmaskerscanbeseendancingatthesametime。Whentheyarenotdancingtheyarethrowingorangesatoneanother。Thehousesboarduptheirwindows。Therestaurantstakedowntheirmirrorsandhideawaytheglasses。IfIwentmasqueradingatBincheIshouldgoasamaninarmour,periodHenrytheSeventh。
\"Doesn’tithurt,\"Iaskedaladywhohadbeenthere,\"havingorangesthrownatyou?Whichsortdotheyuse,speakinggenerally,thosefinejuicyones——JavasIthinkyoucallthem——orthelittlehardbrandwithskinslikeanutmeg—grater?Andifbothsortsareusedindiscriminately,whichdoyoupersonallyprefer?\"
\"Thesmartpeople,\"sheanswered,\"theyarethesameeverywhere——theymustbeextravagant——theyusetheJavaorange。IfithitsyouinthebackIprefertheJavaorange。Itismoremessythantheother,butitdoesnotleaveyouwiththatcurioussensationofhavingbeentemporarilystunned。Mostpeople,ofcourse,makeuseofthesmallhardorange。Ifyouduckintime,andsocatchitonthetopofyourhead,itdoesnothurtsomuchasyouwouldthink。If,however,ithitsyouonatenderplace——well,myself,Ialwaysfindthatalittlesalvolatile,witholdcognac——halfandhalf,youunderstand——isaboutthebestthing。Butitonlyhappensonceayear,\"sheadded。
Nearlyeverytowngivesprizesforthebestgroupofmaskers。Insomecasesthefirstprizeamountstoasmuchastwohundredpounds。
Thebutchers,thebakers,thecandlestickmakers,jointogetherandcompete。Theyarriveinwagons,eachgroupwithitsband。Freetradeisencouraged。Eachneighbouringtownandvillage\"dumps\"itsloadofpicturesquemerry—makers。
ItisinthesesmallertownsthatthespiritofKingCarnivalfindshappiestexpression。Almosteverythirdinhabitanttakespartinthefun。InBrusselsandthelargertownsthethingappearsridiculous。
Afewhundredmaskersforcetheirwaywithdifficultythroughthousandsofdull—cladspectators,lookinglikeaSpanishriverinthesummertime,afeeblestream,dribblingthroughacresofmuddybank。AtCharleroi,thecentreoftheBelgianBlackCountry,thechieffeatureoftheCarnivalisthedancingofthechildren。A
spaceisspeciallyropedoffforthem。
Ifbychancethesuniskindenoughtoshine,thesightisaprettyone。Howtheylovethedressingupandtheacting,thesesmallmites!Oneyounghussy——shecouldhardlyhavebeenmorethanten——
wasgottenupasahaughtyyounglady。Maybesomeeldersisterhadservedasamodel。Sheworeatremendouswigofflaxenhair,ahatthatIguaranteewouldhavemadeitsmarkevenatAscotontheCupDay,askirtthattrailedtwoyardsbehindher,apairofwhathadoncebeenwhitekidgloves,andabluesilkparasol。Dignity!I
haveseentheoffendedbarmaid,Ihavemetthechorusgirl——notbyappointment,pleasedon’tmisunderstandme,merelyasaspectator——uptheriveronSunday。ButneverhaveIwitnessedinanyhumanbeingsomuchhauteurtothepoundavoir—dupoisaswascarriedthroughthestreetsofCharleroibythatsmallbrat。Companionsofotherdays,merevulgarboysandgirls,claimedacquaintancewithher。Shepassedthemwithastareofsuchutterdisdainthatitsentthemtumblingoveroneanotherbackwards。Bythetimetheyhadrecoveredthemselvessufficientlytothinkofanoldtinkettlelyinghandyintheguttershehadturnedthecorner。
Twomiserablycladurchins,unabletoscrapetogetherthefewsousnecessaryforthehireofaragortwo,hadneverthelessdeterminednottobealtogetheroutofit。Theyhadmanagedtoborrowacoupleofwhiteblouses——notwhatyouwouldunderstandbyawhiteblouse,dearMadame,adaintythingoffrillsandlaces,butthecoarsewhitesackthestreetsweeperwearsoverhisclothes。Theyhadalsoborrowedacoupleofbrooms。Ridiculouslittleobjectstheylooked,thetinyheadofeachshowingabovethegreatwhiteshroudasgravelytheywalked,theonebehindtheother,sweepingthemudintothegutter。TheyalsowereoftheCarnival,playingatbeingscavengers。
AnotherquaintsightIwitnessed。The\"serpentin\"isafeatureoftheBelgianCarnival。Itisastripofcolouredpaper,somedozenyardslong,perhaps。Youflingitasyouwouldalassoo,entanglingtheheadofsomepasser—by。Naturally,theobjectmostaimedatbytheBelgianyouthistheBelgianmaiden。And,naturallyalso,themaidenwhofindsherselfmostentangledisthemaidenwho——touseagainthelanguageofthematrimonialadvertiser——\"isconsideredgood—looking。\"Theserpentinaboutherheadisthe\"featherinhercap\"oftheBelgianmaidenonCarnivalDay。ComingsuddenlyroundthecornerIalmostranintoagirl。Herbackwastowardsme。Itwasaquietstreet。Shehadhalfadozenoftheseserpentins。
Hurriedly,withtremblinghands,shewastwistingthemroundandroundherownhead。IlookedatherasIpassed。Sheflushedscarlet。Poorlittlesnub—nosedpasty—facedwoman!Iwishshehadnotseenme。Icouldhaveboughtsixpenny—worth,followedher,andtormentedherwiththem;whileshewouldhavepretendedindignation——
sought,discreetly,toescapefromme。
DownSouth,wherethebloodflowsquicker,KingCarnivalis,indeed,ajollyoldsoul。InMunichhereignsforsixweeks,theendcomingwithamadtwodaysrevelinthestreets。Duringthewholeoftheperiod,folksinordinary,every—daycostumeareregardedascuriosities;peoplewonderwhattheyareupto。FromtheGrafintotheDienstmadchen,fromtheHerrProfessortothe\"Piccolo,\"astheytermthesmallartistthatanswerstoourpageboy,thebusinessofMunichisdancing,somewhere,somehow,inafancycostume。Everytheatreclearsawaythestage,everycafecrowdsitschairsandtablesintocorners,theverystreetsareclearedfordancing。
Munichgoesmad。
Munichisalwaysalittlemad。ThemaddestballIeverdancedatwasinMunich。IwenttherewithaHarvardUniversityprofessor。Hehadbeentoldwhattheseballswerelike。Everseekingknowledgeofallthings,hedeterminedtotakethematterupforhimselfandexamineit。Thewriteralsomusteverbelearning。Iagreedtoaccompanyhim。Wehadnotintendedtodance。Ourideawasthatwecouldbeindulgentspectators,regardingfromsomecoignofvantagetheanticsofthefoolishcrowd。Theprofessorwascladasbecameaprofessor。
Myself,Iworeasimply—cutfrock—coat,withtrouseringinFrenchgrey。Thedoorkeeperexplainedtousthatthiswasacostumeball;
hewassorry,butgentlemencouldonlybeadmittedineveningdressorinmasquerade。
Itwashalfpastoneinthemorning。Wehadsatuplateonpurpose;
wehadgonewithoutourdinner;wehadwalkedtwomiles。Theprofessorsuggestedpinningupthetailsofhisclerically—cutcoatandturninginhiswaistcoat。Thedoorkeeperfeareditwouldnotbequitethesamething。Besides,myFrenchgreytrousersrefusedtoadaptthemselves。Thedoorkeeperproposedourhiringacostume——alittlespeculationofhisown;gentlemenfounditsimplersometimes,especiallymarriedgentlemen,tohireacostumeinthismanner,changingbackintosobergarmentsbeforereturninghome。Itreducedthevolumeofnecessaryexplanation。
\"Haveyouanything,mygoodman,\"saidtheprofessor,\"anythingthatwouldeffectacompletedisguise?\"
Thedoorkeeperhadtheverything——aChinesearrangement,withcombinedmaskandwig。Itfittedneatlyoverthehead,andwasprovidedwithasimplebutingeniouspieceofmechanismbymeansofwhichmuchcouldbedonewiththepigtail。MyselfthedoorkeeperhidfromviewunderthecowlofaCarmelitemonk。
\"Idohopenobodyrecognisesus,\"whisperedmyfriendtheprofessorasweentered。
Icanonlyhopesincerelythattheydidnot。Idonotwishtotalkaboutmyself。Thatwouldbeegotism。Butthemysteryoftheprofessortroublesmetothisday。Agrave,earnestgentleman,thefatherofafamily,Isawhimwithmyowneyesputthatridiculouspasteboardmaskoverhishead。Lateron——agooddeallateron——I
foundmyselfwalkingagainwithhimthroughsilentstar—litstreets。
Wherehehadbeenintheinterval,andwhothenwasthestrangecreatureundertheChinaman’smask,willalwaysremaintomeanunsolvedproblem。
DOWELIEA—BEDTOOLATE?
ItwasinParis,manyyearsago,thatIfellbychanceintothishabitofearlyrising。Mynight——byreasonsthatIneednotenterinto——hadbeenatroubledone。Tiredofthehotbedthatgavenosleep,Iroseanddressedmyself,creptdownthecreakingstairs,experiencingthesensationsofaburglarnewtohisprofession,unboltedthegreatdoorofthehotel,andpassedoutintoanunknown,silentcity,bathedinamysterioussoftlight。Sincethen,thisstrangesweetcityofthedawnhasneverceasedtocalltome。ItmaybeinLondon,inParisagain,inBrussels,Berlin,Vienna,thatI
havegonetosleep,butifperchanceIwakebeforethereturningtideofhumanlifehasdimmeditsglorieswiththemistsandvapoursofthenoisyday,Iknowthatbeyondmywindowblindthefairycity,asIsawitfirstsomanyyearsago——thiscitythatknowsnotears,nosorrow,throughwhichtherecreepsnoevilthing;thiscityofquietvistas,fadingintohope;thiscityoffar—offvoiceswhisperingpeace;thiscityofthedawnthatstillisyoung——invitesmetotalkwithitawhilebeforethewakinghoursdriveitbeforethem,andwithasighitpasseswhenceitcame。
Itisthegreatcity’sonehourofpurity,ofdignity。Theveryrag—
picker,gropingwithherfilthyhandsamongtheashes,insteadofanobjectofcontempt,movesfromdoortodooranaccusingFigure,herthinsoiledgarments,herbentbody,herscarredface,hideouswiththewoundsofpoverty,aneloquentindictmentofsmugInjustice,sleepingbehinditsdeafshutters。Yetevenintoherdimbrainhassunkthepeacethatfillsforthisbriefhourthecity。This,too,shallhaveitsend,mysister!Menandwomenwerenotborntoliveonthehusksthatfillthepailsoutsidetherichman’sdoor。
Couragealittlewhilelonger,youandyours。Yourrheumyeyesoncewerebright,yourthinlocksoncesoftandwavy,yourpoorbentbackoncestraight;andmaybe,astheytellyouintheirgildedchurches,thisbulgingsackshallbeliftedfromyourwearyshoulders,yourmisshapenlimbsbestraightagain。Youpassnotaltogetherunheededthroughtheseemptystreets。Notalltheeyesoftheuniversearesleeping。
Thelittleseamstress,hurryingtoherearlywork!Alittlelatershewillbeoneofthefoolishcrowd,joininginthefoolishlaughter,inthecoarsejestsofthework—room:butasyetthehotdayhasnotclaimedher。Thework—roomisfarbeyond,thehomeofmeancaresandsordidstrugglesfarbehind。Toher,also,inthismomentarethesweetthoughtsofwomanhood。Sheputsdownherbag,restsherselfuponaseat。Ifallthedayweredawn,thiscityofthemorningalwayswithus!Aneighbouringclockchimesforththehour。Shestartsupfromherdreamandhurrieson——tothenoisywork—room。
Apairofloverscrossthepark,holdingeachother’shands。Theywillreturnlaterintheday,buttherewillbeanotherexpressionintheireyes,anothermeaninginthepressureoftheirhands。Nowthepurityofthemorningiswiththem。
Somefat,middle—agedclerkcomespuffingintoview:hisridiculouslittlefigureverypodgy。Hestopstotakeoffhishatandmophisbaldheadwithhishandkerchief:eventohimthemorninglendsromance。Hisfleshyfacechangesalmostasonelooksathim。Oneseesagaintheladwithhisvaguehopes,hisabsurdambitions。
ThereisastatueofAphroditeinoneofthesmallerParisparks。
Twiceinthesameweek,withoutparticularlymeaningit,Ifoundmyselfearlyinthemorningstandinginfrontofthisstatuegazinglistlesslyatit,asonedoeswhenindreamymood;andonbothoccasions,turningtogo,Iencounteredthesameman,alsogazingatitwith,apparently,listlesseyes。Hewasanuninterestinglookingman——possiblyhethoughtthesameofme。Fromhisdresshemighthavebeenawell—to—dotradesman,aminorGovernmentofficial,doctor,orlawyer。QuitetenyearslaterIpaidmythirdvisittothesamestatueataboutthesamehour。Thistimehewastherebeforeme。Iwashiddenfromhimbysomebushes。Heglancedroundbutdidnotseeme;andthenhedidacuriousthing。Placinghishandsonthetopofthepedestal,whichmayhavebeensomesevenfeetinheight,hedrewhimselfup,andkissedverygently,almostreverentially,thefootofthestatue,begrimedthoughitwaswiththecity’sdirt。Hadhebeensomelong—hairedstudentoftheLatinQuarteronewouldnothavebeensoastonished。Buthewassuchaverycommonplace,quiterespectablelookingman。Afterwardshedrewapipefromhispocket,carefullyfilledandlightedit,tookhisumbrellafromtheseatwhereithadbeenlying,andwalkedaway。
Haditbeentheirmeeting—placelongago?Hadhebeenwonttotellher,gazingatherwithlover’seyes,howlikeshewastothestatue?
TheFrenchsculptorhasnottoconsiderMrs。Grundy。Maybe,thelady,raisinghereyes,hadbeenconfused;perhapsforamomentangry——somelittlemillinerorgoverness,onesupposes。InFrancethejeunefilleofgoodfamilydoesnotmeetherloverunattended。
Whathadhappened?Orwasitbutthevagrantfancyofamiddle—agedbourgeoisseekinginimaginationtheromancethatrealitysorarelygivesus,weavinghislovedreamroundhischangelessstatue?
InoneofIbsen’sbittercomediestheloversagreetopartwhiletheyarestillyoung,nevertoseeeachotherinthefleshagain。Intothefutureeachwillbearawaytheimageoftheother,godlike,radiantwiththegloryofyouthandlove;eachwillcherishthememoryofalovedonewhoshallbebeautifulalways。Thattheirpartingmaynotappearsuchwildnonsenseasatfirstitstrikesus,Ibsenshowsusotherloverswhohavemarriedintheorthodoxfashion。
Shewasallthatamistressshouldbe。Theyspeakofherastheyfirstknewherfifteenyearsago,wheneverymanwasatherfeet。Hethenwasayoungstudent,burningwithfineideals,withenthusiasmforallthehumanities。
Theyenter。
Whatdidyouexpect?Fifteenyearshavepassed——fifteenyearsofstrugglewiththegrimrealities。Heisfatandbald。Elevenchildrenhavetobeprovidedfor。Highidealswillnotevenpaythebootmaker。Toexistyouhavetofightformeanendswithmeanweapons。Andthesweetgirlheroine!Nowtheworriedmotherofelevenbrats!OneringsdownthecurtainamidSataniclaughter。
Thatiswhy,foronereasonamongsomany,Ilovethismysticmorninglight。Ithasastrangepowerofrevealingthebeautythatishiddenfromusbythecoarserbeamsofthefullday。Thesewornmenandwomen,grownsofoolishlooking,sounromantic;theseartisansandpettyclerksploddingtotheirmonotonousday’swork;thesedull—eyedwomenofthepeopleontheirwaytomarkettohaggleoversous,toargueandcontendoverpaltryhandfulsoffood。Inthismagicmorninglightthedisguisingbodybecomestransparent。Theyhavegrownbeautiful,notugly,withtheyearsoftoilandhardship;theselives,livedsopatiently,areconsecratedtotheserviceoftheworld。Joy,hope,pleasure——theyhavedonewithallsuch,lifeforthemisover。Yettheylabour,ceaselessly,uncomplainingly。Itisforthechildren。
Onemorning,nearBrussels,Iencounteredacartoffaggots,drawnbyahoundsoleanthatstrokinghimmighthavehurtadaintyhand。I
wasshocked——angry,tillInoticedhisfellowbeastofburdenpushingthecartfrombehind。Suchascarecrowofanoldwoman!Therewaslittletochoosebetweenthem。Iwalkedwiththemalittleway。ShelivednearWaterloo。Alldayshegatheredwoodinthegreatforest,andstartingatthreeo’clockeachmorning,thetwoleancreaturesbetweenthemdraggedthecartninemilestoBrussels,returningwhentheyhadsoldtheirload。Withluckshemightreckononacoupleoffrancs。Iaskedherifshecouldnotfindsomethingelsetodo。
Yes,itwaspossible,butforthelittleone,hergrandchild。Folkswillnotemployoldwomenburdenedwithgrandchildren。
Youfair,daintyladies,whowouldneverknowitwasmorningifsomebodydidnotentertopulluptheblindandtellyouso!Youdowellnottoventureoutinthismagicmorninglight。Youwouldlooksoplain——almostugly,bythesideofthesebeautifulwomen。
ItiscurioustheattractiontheChurchhasalwayspossessedforthemarketingclasses。ChristdrovethemfromtheTemple,butstill,ineverycontinentalcity,theyclusterrounditsouterwalls。Itmakesacharmingpictureonasunnymorning,thegreatcathedralwithitsmassiveshadowformingthebackground;splashedaboutitsfeet,likeaparterreofgayflowersaroundthetrunkofsomeoldtree,thewomen,younggirlsintheirmanycolouredcostumes,sittingbeforetheirpiled—upbasketsofgreenvegetables,ofshiningfruits。
InBrusselsthechiefmarketisheldontheGrandePlace。Thegreatgildedhouseshavelookeddownuponmuchthesamesceneeverymorningthesefourhundredyears。Insummertimeitcommencesabouthalf—
pastfour;byfiveo’clockitisaroaringhive,thegreatcityroundaboutstillsleeping。